Cappy man has shattered the Leo ego!!!!

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by faith$golphin on Monday, October 25, 2010 and has 64 replies.
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My Cappy friend sort of shattered my ego. We both are very stubborn and conceited individuals and normally he couldn??t say anything that would bother me. I??m sure in the past I??ve said a lot of things that has bother him before but this was the first time he said something that really hurt my feelings. He never really let me know I hurt him before because he holds his emotions in and always appear calm. I haven??t seen him since this incident we only talked on the phone. He has asked me several times to come visit him but I made up an excuse each time. He asks me do I miss him several times and I answered just a little. I??m started to really miss him! I need to verbally let him know my feelings were hurt or maybe let it come as a surprise when I go visit him. I??m thinking about not having sex with him or at least make him work for it the next time I see him. What should I do? Do I let him know he hurt my feelings? Will it make any difference?
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Fa $ ith, a cappy man knows exactly how you feel about him. No need for words. If he is asking you, he just want to see if he was right about the things he though he saw/experienced. Words are cheap to a cappy. He would be able to read you clearly, and does not have to be with you to know what is going on, or what you are up to etc. We can read people easy and usually know what's in their minds.
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Mostly everything I ever done has back fired. They are human and very sensitive. Things do hurt them; they just have a good way of not showing it. One time I told him I wanted to talk to him about something important and when he called me, I told him I think it would be better if we were just friends who can call each other up and talk on the phone but nothing sexually. ???He said that wouldn??t be good for him and he couldn??t spend time talking to me a lot if we were just friends because he be to busy.?? He asked me how he could make things better.?? I was shock he even cared! Anyway he did try everything I stated. Maybe I do need to be just honest with him because he seems to respect that more.
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Yea me 2. Tell us faith. Hate that avatar
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I feel you because listening to some of the women in this forum had me freaking out on my Cappy friend. I'm glad things are going well for you!!!
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How did he shatter your ego faitth?He came to town late one night and asked me if I wanted to see him. I said yes, so he got a hotel room and I went and stayed the night with him. He kept calling me for the next 2 days asking me to meet him at the park. I finally went on the 2nd day and we talked for over 3 hrs. We both were hungry so he decided to take me out to dinner. He informed me he was going to be busy for a while. After he resurfaces from his disappearing act he calls me up and I ask him do he miss me and he said yes, then he ask me to treat him to lunch. I was busy and I didn??t really feel like having lunch. Then he asks me do I want to see him and did I miss him. I told him I miss him a little bit. Then we talked off and on for approximately 3 weeks and he seemed a little distant. I emailed him and ask him what was up and do he still like me. He replied not like that! I said what does that mean either you do or don??t. He said he only like me a little bit but he seems really sincere. I said I know you better than that and you wouldn??t do all those things sexually to a women you only like a little bit. That mean sucker said it was convenient and he only liked me a little bit. After I thought about everything he said I was piss off and I left a crazy message on his phone, but to make a long story short. He called me on a football Sunday but I miss the call. When I called him back he said he didn??t really want to talk to me he just called because he was bored. LOL!!! The next couple of days he ask me to come visit him because his back was soar and he needed a message. He also ask me if I miss him again and I said a little bit. We left off on good terms.

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Faith, OMG... I wish you could see this from everyone else's point of view, to REALLY SEE IT.
You stroke his ego and make him feel good, that's why he's always asking if you miss him, if you still want him, if you still like/love him. It's also emotional manipulation. As soon as you push back cuz you're sick of taking his crumbs of affection, he pulls out the "But don't you love me?!" card.. cuz it works. Cuz he KNOWS how you feel about him. I've said before, he's NOT LYING to you, Faith.. he's said to you several times that he's NOT in love with you, he's enjoying what you give him (time, attention, affection, lunch, sex, etc.) But you lie to YOURSELF, Faith.. you tell yourself that if he didn't have feelings for you deep down, he wouldn't do all this "stuff".. but he WOULD. And what is this "stuff" Faith? Calls you up for sex and ego stroking. Calls you up to get YOU to take HIM out to lunch. Sees you maybe once a month. If he doesn't get what he wants from you, he backs off "distant" for weeks. Calls you when he's bored. Calls you for a massage. But still he TOLD you that he doesn't like you like that. In HIS mind, he's being honest with you.. and since YOU keep choosing to go along with this FWB scene, then he's guilt-free. What happened to his GF he's been cheating on all along with you? Do you really believe he's not sleeping with anyone else? That the man is having sex only once a month, like you are? He calls you when his other chicks/plans fall through. He calls you when it's convenient. There's NO WAY this shit feels GOOD to you!
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do he still like me. He replied not like that! He said he only like me a little bit...
That mean sucker said it was convenient and he only liked me a little bit....
When I called him back he said he didn??t really want to talk to me he just called because he was bored....
he ask me to come visit him because his back was soar and he needed a message.
Faith, how much more clear can it be? He's using you because you're LETTING him use you - you keep eating his shit and saying, "Mmmm delicious! May I have more?" He doesn't respect you, and a Cap man would never have a relationship with a woman he doesn't respect. But a Cap man (or any man) would certainly take all the (no strings) nice things you do to/with/for him. He loves what you do for him, but he doesn't love YOU like you deserve to be loved. And if you don't stop being his doormat, he never will. Where's that Leo fire?!
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^ I agree. Sounds like a mega jerk to me, not worth the pain. Why do you even consider him a friend? ... cut him off ...
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1st of all you are sadly mistaken. Maybe u only read and understood what you wanted to. I said I miss him a little bit and he reacted with that same reply for my questions. l also call and left a message saying all sort of things. I know I bought that on myself because things were fine before that. You must forgot he live 2hrs and 30 mins away and we both have jobs and 2 kids. Let's get one thing straight before we go any further. I'm not a fool and I don't need to spend money for affection from no man. What the hell is lunch when he paid my 2 kids school tuition for the year. Plus he bought me a 4k ring as a friendship ring. I don't ask him for anything and he never ask me for nothing except for lunch and he ask me when I was going to treat him to dinner. I paid for a hotel room 1 time and that was it.
I haven't even went to see him in 3 months. When he came to town I always told him I was busy. I wasn't even thinking about him until the last 2 weeks. I should have listen to what someone said about posting personal stuff. I see people just make up their own conclusion. Thanks but I'm good, and I know him better than u can imagine.
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I will inform you what happen before the week is out!!!
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I know how he feel about me because I know one of his close friends that actually gave him my phone #. We was close friends also before he even knew my Cappy. He told me how much my cappy really like me.
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Again I agree with Chaos. If you think and feel he is madly in love with you, you wouldn't be on this board claiming that he is hurting your ego now would you?
Is this a Leo thing or what? I have a Leo best friend who is like that, come, whinge and complain and then only to ignore my advice and go with her own. Few days later she'd call to tell me that she should have listened ... *rolls eyes*
Was gonna say something, but won't waste my advice on someone who isn't gonna take it.
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Holy crap... you're almost 40 and you're still acting like an adolescent in your relationships? Let me ask you something... do you see a pattern here?
From one leo gal to another... stop "acting" like a dumbass. Quit playing petty mind games. Seriously, just stop.
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Posted by TG
Damn, I wish someone could come on here and be like: "Things are going GREAT in my relationship!!" for once...


I did that not too long ago but then I felt kinda lame so I erased it...
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Posted by Nefer
Faith, OMG... I wish you could see this from everyone else's point of view, to REALLY SEE IT.
You stroke his ego and make him feel good, that's why he's always asking if you miss him, if you still want him, if you still like/love him. It's also emotional manipulation. As soon as you push back cuz you're sick of taking his crumbs of affection, he pulls out the "But don't you love me?!" card.. cuz it works. Cuz he KNOWS how you feel about him. I've said before, he's NOT LYING to you, Faith.. he's said to you several times that he's NOT in love with you, he's enjoying what you give him (time, attention, affection, lunch, sex, etc.) But you lie to YOURSELF, Faith.. you tell yourself that if he didn't have feelings for you deep down, he wouldn't do all this "stuff".. but he WOULD. And what is this "stuff" Faith? Calls you up for sex and ego stroking. Calls you up to get YOU to take HIM out to lunch. Sees you maybe once a month. If he doesn't get what he wants from you, he backs off "distant" for weeks. Calls you when he's bored. Calls you for a massage. But still he TOLD you that he doesn't like you like that. In HIS mind, he's being honest with you.. and since YOU keep choosing to go along with this FWB scene, then he's guilt-free. What happened to his GF he's been cheating on all along with you? Do you really believe he's not sleeping with anyone else? That the man is having sex only once a month, like you are? He calls you when his other chicks/plans fall through. He calls you when it's convenient. There's NO WAY this shit feels GOOD to you!
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do he still like me. He replied not like that! He said he only like me a little bit...
That mean sucker said it was convenient and he only liked me a little bit....
When I called him back he said he didn??t really want to talk to me he just called because he was bored....
he ask me to come visit him because his back was soar and he needed a message.
Faith, how much more clear can it be? He's using you because you're LETTING him use you - you keep eating his shit and saying, "Mmmm delicious! May I have more?" He doesn't respect you, and a Cap man would never have a relationship with a woman he doesn't respect. But a Cap man (or any man) would certainly take all the (no strings) nice things you do to/with/for him. He loves what you do for him, but he doesn't love YOU like you deserve to be loved. And
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Didn??t everyone agree that Cappy men are extremely clever? Haven??t I stated before that any manipulating things I??ve tried have backfired? Yes he did sound sincere but I know for sure he like me more than a little bit.
Read what I wrote!!! You can??t just look at what he said and make any assessment. Some people are just negative and don??t have a clue at what they are talking about. I would take advice inconsideration if they were giving sensible advice. Tell me he don??t want a relationship! Tell me he likes to be in control! Tell me he like having sex with me! Tell me he have a girlfriend! Tell me anything that could be true??_ But don??t tell me he don??t like me!!! Don??t tell me I??m a fool for treating him to lunch!!! Please don??t tell me he using me for sex!!! Because I??m enjoying it the same way he does!!!

Read what I wrote!!!
After he resurfaces from his disappearing act he calls me up and I ask him do he miss me and he said yes, then he ask me to treat him to lunch.
I was busy and I didn??t really feel like having lunch; Then he ask me do I want to see him and did I miss him? I told him I miss him little bit.
Read these 2 posts on my page!!!!
ellessque
you do realize you are dealing with a cap, right? you are more likely to get burned and have it backfire on you then to have it affect him at all. You will most certainly come out hurt and even more confused if you go there.
Read this post
wadjb
He would be able to read you clearly, and does not have to be with you to know what is going on, or what you are up to etc. We can read people easy and usually know what's in their minds.
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faith
he likes you more than just a little bit. Even my CAP man admitted to me one day that he says those things just to see reaction. He wouldn't spend his time with you if he weren't.
That's my 2 cents.
I almost started believing that is the way they get themselves into your bloodstream... by testing your limits!
I see his little games at times.. I tell him what I think.. and he seems amused.. even agrees Tongue
I also believe.. (but I cannot be sure).. that he does the same to other girls... but then again... it might be my paranoia. There were times when I checked every possible thing out and realized when he said *there is no one else but you* he truly meant it.
I always double check Winking

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trust issue is certainly one of the biggest issue with CAP man.
mine too... Sad
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i don't know why I always get these commercials in between .. dxp goawd is making money off me.. Tongue
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Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by TG
Damn, I wish someone could come on here and be like: "Things are going GREAT in my relationship!!" for once...


THINGS ARE GOING GREAT IN MY RELATIONSHIP....





















with myself! Winking
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I LOVE Aries humour Big Grin
ditto, amethyst!
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Posted by Nefer
Faith, OMG... I wish you could see this from everyone else's point of view, to REALLY SEE IT.
You stroke his ego and make him feel good, that's why he's always asking if you miss him, if you still want him, if you still like/love him. It's also emotional manipulation. As soon as you push back cuz you're sick of taking his crumbs of affection, he pulls out the "But don't you love me?!" card.. cuz it works. Cuz he KNOWS how you feel about him. I've said before, he's NOT LYING to you, Faith.. he's said to you several times that he's NOT in love with you, he's enjoying what you give him (time, attention, affection, lunch, sex, etc.) But you lie to YOURSELF, Faith.. you tell yourself that if he didn't have feelings for you deep down, he wouldn't do all this "stuff".. but he WOULD. And what is this "stuff" Faith? Calls you up for sex and ego stroking. Calls you up to get YOU to take HIM out to lunch. Sees you maybe once a month. If he doesn't get what he wants from you, he backs off "distant" for weeks. Calls you when he's bored. Calls you for a massage. But still he TOLD you that he doesn't like you like that. In HIS mind, he's being honest with you.. and since YOU keep choosing to go along with this FWB scene, then he's guilt-free. What happened to his GF he's been cheating on all along with you? Do you really believe he's not sleeping with anyone else? That the man is having sex only once a month, like you are? He calls you when his other chicks/plans fall through. He calls you when it's convenient. There's NO WAY this shit feels GOOD to you!
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do he still like me. He replied not like that! He said he only like me a little bit...
That mean sucker said it was convenient and he only liked me a little bit....
When I called him back he said he didn??t really want to talk to me he just called because he was bored....
he ask me to come visit him because his back was soar and he needed a message.
Faith, how much more clear can it be? He's using you because you're LETTING him use you - you keep eating his shit and saying, "Mmmm delicious! May I have more?" He doesn't respect you, and a Cap man would never have a relationship with a woman he doesn't respect. But a Cap man (or any man) would certainly take all the (no strings) nice things you do to/with/for
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trust issue is certainly one of the biggest issue with CAP man.
mine too... Sad


I agree with the trust part. I think that's why my friend went postal on me. He had issues trusting me because he listened to rumors/second hand info over me. *sigh*
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I just found out myself that CAP man listens to someone elses manipulation tactics. Especially, if he knows that person longer than you... regardless of how trustworthy that person is or what their intentions are.
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faith
he likes you more than just a little bit. Even my CAP man admitted to me one day that he says those things just to see reaction. He wouldn't spend his time with you if he weren't.





OMG... Are you serious?!
Yes he would!! She gives him sex!
WOW!
Do cap men have some kind of magic spell that make women delusional?
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Tasteofchaos -- I believe CAP is pretty picky.. at least the one I know has a thing for cleanliness and getting too close to people... including someone touching his clothes. I can't imagine him just sleeping with anybody just for the Sex of it. He probably fantasizes... hm... but even emotionally... I think he is a romantic.
Am I getting delusional now? Big Grin lol
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Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
trust issue is certainly one of the biggest issue with CAP man.
mine too... Sad


I agree with the trust part. I think that's why my friend went postal on me. He had issues trusting me because he listened to rumors/second hand info over me. *sigh*
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At 1st when I use to tell him how I felt about him, he never believed me. I actually went overboard trying to get him to believe how I felt about him. For my Cappy to be so conceited and arrogant, he still has insecurity issues. Because he really thinks if he was devoted and committed to me that I wouldn??t still love him the same way. He also thinks the challenge is a thrill for me and if he shows his emotion and interest the thrill will be gone. Every time we started getting extremely close he pulls away. I never tried to pressure him into no commitment, nor have I ever bought up any topics regarding that. He mentioned a commitment a couple times before but I didn??t engage in that conversation with him. He could have just been testing me to see what I really wanted. He might think I??m just using him for sex!!!
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faith
he likes you more than just a little bit. Even my CAP man admitted to me one day that he says those things just to see reaction. He wouldn't spend his time with you if he weren't.





OMG... Are you serious?!
Yes he would!! She gives him sex!
WOW!
Do cap men have some kind of magic spell that make women delusional?


Tasteofchaos -- I believe CAP is pretty picky.. at least the one I know has a thing for cleanliness and getting too close to people... including someone touching his clothes. I can't imagine him just sleeping with anybody just for the Sex of it. He probably fantasizes... hm... but even emotionally... I think he is a romantic.
Am I getting delusional now? Big Grin lol

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My Cappy dress real fly and he wear expensive clothes. Gucci and Prada type guy for everyday casual footwear. Plus he have a lot of suits and he only wear taylor made.
My Cappy very picky and clean! He wouldn't keep having sex with a women he don't like and he definitely wouldn't keep wanting me to come up early so he can spend the whole day with me.
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Posted by ellessque
Faith,
I wasn't insulting you. I was simply telling you to not play games. I'm reading what YOU are saying and doing to HIM. That leads me to the assessment that you aren't being as straightforward to him and are expecting him to be an open book.
read what wadjb said. He already knows what you are doing before you are going to do it. This is very true. The cap I've been dealing with knows what I'm going to say or do before I even think about it. How? Who knows *shrugs*, they just do.
so if you want to play games, expect games in return.
don't even play manipulating word games unless you want them in return. if you missed him a whole lot, and you have to tell him, then tell him. he's reading you, your voice, your tone, your words...every bit of it. if you are fucking with him, he's going to fuck with you back.
be real and he will be real. i guarantee it. but be prepared for what he may or may NOT say.
you are putting your guard up because you are afraid of getting hurt. but you are feeling hurt anyway. put the guard down and see what happens, if he hurts you, then there is no loss because the hurt was there to begin with. if he starts to change the way he communicates with you, then you have everything to gain.


Let me start off by saying your approach is so nice and genuine! I didn??t think you were insulting me. I put those two posts up because they were very true from my experience. I have been honest about my feelings for a while. He hasn??t been very honest, but I can tell in many ways how he feels about me but he keeps trying to hide his feelings. Early on he was showing more emotions and interest. Dealing with a Capricorn man was new to me and I had no idea of what to expect from him. I admit I did some things that my have been a little alarming and I sincerely apologized. He seemed to have had a weak spot in his heart for me. Before he was making sure I was the 1st person he called in the morning and the last person he talk to at night. Plus he was calling me a lot while he was at work. We were just on excellent terms for months and then he said he was going to be busy for a couple months. I thought I wasn??t just going to see him but I didn??t imagine he was going to be out the country and not available for phone conversation. I started not to even miss him because he was gone for so long. That disappearing
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act had a big effect on my behalf. When he came back he acted like everything was ok but not from my perspective. We talk on the phone a lot, he said something that I didn??t agree with and I eventually curse him out and said some harsh things. We have been speaking on good terms. I haven't seen him and I been avoiding going to see him.
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Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by faith $ golphin
He wouldn't keep having sex with a women he don't like


Yes he would. Hello? We're talking about guys, here. It's harder for guys to get laid than it is for girls. So what do they do? Try to find the easiest, most accessible route so they don't have to work so hard for it. Of COURSE they have no problem banging some chick they don't like. If it means a steady source of getting some ass, then they'll deal.
Honey, guys aren't THIS complicated when it comes to how they feel about someone. There's not a lot of grey area and it's really obvious. You just KNOW when they like you. When it starts getting complicated and confusing, either he's got some issues that he needs to resolve before getting involved AT ALL in ANY way, or he's fucking around with you.
Guys do some pretty damned stupid shit just to get laid. I JUST had a guy friend tell me all about this shit the other night, so no I'm not making it up. A GUY told me this. How about you take THAT nugget of wisdom and mull over it a bit.
The fact that you're this delusional at 39 disturbs me.
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Amethyst... you speak like my Aries daughter Big Grin She tells me.. that CAP man is a douchebag. Just last evening she was telling me to believe her when she says that guys tell her AAALLLLLL their secrets of how they play with women... because they see her one of the guys Winking
She has amazing charm, by the way.... she captures male attention, but has her ways of making a guy talk Winking

So I'm curious of what you see that I cannot see... I feel like faith. She believes in her CAP man's interest towards her, but believes he is just afraid of taking the next step UP.
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See now were talking and relating on how different individuals may respond to certain issues. I grew up around nothing but men, in fact all my close friends are males and they talk around me as if I was a male. I??m not a weak insecure person and I wouldn??t tolerate any man treating me like shit. My standards in men has always been high and believe me if he wasn??t worth it, I would have been kick him to the curb. I??m sure he has high standards also because he wouldn??t still be involved with me because I??m very impatience. I have said many things that hurt his feeling because I??m arrogant and conceited also. I have been sick of his behavior, feedup and said fuck it.Every time I done that I had to sit back and revaluate all the things I may have done to him that made him react differently. The problem is they won??t show any emotion or communicate with you how they felt about something you could have done to hurt them. Instead they react differently, cold and distant. You have to
really pay close attention and know them as a person to really understand them. That??s the crazy process, that??s why I always reassure how I feel about him.
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Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
^You still have a long way to go before growing up by the look of things Big Grin^


hey... maybe Tongue
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Posted by scorpio_chic
Posted by faith $ golphin
Didn??t everyone agree that Cappy men are extremely clever? Haven??t I stated before that any manipulating things I??ve tried have backfired? Yes he did sound sincere but I know for sure he like me more than a little bit.
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Does he joke around a lot? Did he say it jokingly or did he say it like matter-of-factly? The reason I ask is because I joke around like that too.. I'll tease my cap like he'll ask me if I miss him and I'll say "Maybe a lil bit" with a smile on my face. Of course he knows that I miss him, but I'm a little bit of a brat so I like to play around like that. Or when he called and said "I didn't want to talk to you, I was just bored" or whatever he said, I have said it differently I've said "I didn't want anything.. was just calling cuz I'm bored" or something like that. So I guess it really depends on the context in what the words were used.
We don't know his character.. we don't know what his tone was like when he said it. We can only judge based off of what you are telling us here, and I'll admit, after initially reading what you write about him, it doesn't sound like he's into you. But maybe we're reading it wrong and if you word it differently, then maybe we'd see the humor in it but at first glance, I definitely agreed with the other women. It just sounds like this is more a situation of convenience.
Oh, and that's another thing... yes, caps are clever. But caps also say what they mean and if he told you that he has sex with you because 'it's convenient' or whatever he said, I feel like he was telling you the truth. And you're crazy if you choose to ignore that HUGE red flag. That would be insulting as hell to have someone say that to me.
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Nothing about me has ever been convenient we live two hrs away from each other. He can't just call me up and I come see him. I have a very busy schedule and so do he. I'm tired of explaining because people going to believe just what their little narrow mind tell them to believe. I know I have a ton of experiences dealing with all type of guys. Not on a sexually level but understanding how men think. This statement is not gear towards you!!! The same way people think I just don't get it, I know they just don??t get it ever. Thanks for your response!!!
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Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
^You still have a long way to go before growing up by the look of things Big Grin^


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Miss 24, I forgot more than you??ll ever know!!! No disrespect to you!!! I'm sure there's a lot of girls even younger than you that could give me wise advice but apparently your not one of them.
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Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by faith $ golphin
because I??m arrogant and conceited also.



..we know.
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And you're crazy if you choose to ignore that HUGE red flag. That would be insulting as hell to have someone say that to me.


That's because she is. There have been red flags all along and she chooses to ignore them since he picks and chooses when to grace her with scraps of attention, which she's starved for. Her Leo ego is too huge to not want to suck up to that shit.
I get that it's hard to see clearly when emotions are in the way, but some people just choose to remain clueless and refuse to see ANY sort of logic. This would be a case of that. ANYONE can sit here, give their side of the story, and claim that they just aren't wording it right, or that people really don't, "KNOW," the situation. Whatever the REAL story is will always be a mystery. However, she can't sit around crying that people are being negative and wrong when we're basing our advice on her shitty communication skills.
Hell, I accidentally came across some bs of hers on another advice site. They said the SAME shit we said. But all these people can't possibly be right! *gasp* How dare that anyone imply that there's actually SOMEONE out there who does not respect her or treat her like the queen she thinks she is??
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I'm not on any other advice forum if so please let me know. I wish yall was women enough to tell yall full story!!! Why yall only share some things with this forum so yall can gain people's respect. The difference between yall and me, I'm already well respected and I don't have to fabricate stories with strangers to get them to except me. What might be a red flag to you guys may not be a red flag to me. I have experience dealing with all type of people with all type of problems. I'm not just talking about relationship with men. I don't run from obstacles which yall consider a red flag because behind that red flag could be a million dollars in my profession.
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To judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself!!!
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Who are you to judge me; by the things that I say!!!
I??m protected by god; cause each night I pray!!!
Who are you to judge me; and say that I??m a fool!!!
Cause people that give up; could never walk in my shoes!!!
Who are you to judge me; are you insecure inside!!!!
Don??t you know I??m a strong woman; and you can never break my pride!!!
Who are to judge me you don??t even know this man; I stare him in his eyes and I know his plan!!!
Who are you to judge me to say he don??t care; go look in a mirror that might be something you fear!!!
Now who the hell said I love this man more than I love myself, because I??m spiritually rich and conceited with wealth!!!
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Posted by gemtaur
Lady, a man will travel a continent to get some. Hello?!
The minute he makes you a PRIORITY in his life is when you're not convenient to him, not a minute before then.


Baby girl I'm 10 steps ahead of you!!!
I been a priority when he was just an option!!!
I know the rules!!!
Never let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life!!!!
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Posted by TG
Haha! Good amy.
tooseriouslol, I meant someone from the outside, not you guys!! Seems to me people always come here when they are unhappy. I feel like some kind of staff at some mental institution or something, lol, sucking up all the bad energy lmao, but I don??t even get paid. What the hell am I doing here? Oh but I gladly provide a listening ear, although much advice I cannot give, lmao. As for faith, i still don??t know which part to belive. Some people say she??s having an affair with a married man, but according to her she??s not, she??s just a helpless woman inlove. Either way, like I said, I have no advice.. Even if I did, it??s not like she??s listen to me anyway, lmao.


i picked up on that pretty quick when i first came here too, it's all the same shit and people don't even take the advice and people assume things and get the wrong end of the stick. That's why i hardly read any of the sappy relationship stuff on here and never comment.
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Wow that's the 1st time I heard people might think he's married!!! He's not married and I would never have sex with a married man.That's a turn off and I'm not into that at all!!!
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*grabs a front row seat*
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I'll take some of that popcorn...
Where are the drinks??? Big Grin
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faith --
only YOU can know the answer. Your heart tells you he cares for you. I believe he does too.
The gift you mentioned he gave you and the monetary support for your child are proof enough.
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Posted by TwinGoat
Only if you are obsessed with her. smile


Guilty as charged...I'm obsessed....pass the popcorn! This is better than paid TV!
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Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by bluefish
Looking forward to the rebuttal smile


I predict the angry black chick will come out. Maybe something about jealousy. Maybe something about one's sexuality. How everyone is absolutely wrong!
Basically rinse and repeat of every other time she's had a rebuttal on this site. I'm over it now, though. It's just too entertaining to provoke. :p
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You must be some kind of internet junkie. I have a life and I??m glad you remember more about me than I do!! Every time I view the page I see post from you.
What are you a stalker? Can my business really be that important to you? HONESTLY! I didn??t even remember that advice forum and you did. It??s not about jealousy you just real creepy to me!!! Get a grip because I don??t understand your intention.
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Posted by gemtaur
Posted by lildol
I'll take some of that popcorn...
Where are the drinks??? Big Grin


On their way! I gave Faith the order: two rounds of Scotch on the rocks for everyone.
That should see us through another OMG.HE'S MARRIED???????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I COULD'VE SWORN HE WASN'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I WILL MAGICALLY MAKE HIM SINGLE Faith thread.
*reclining seat*
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I would never have sex with a married man. I wouldn't even go on a date with married.
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Posted by TasteOfChaos
Amethyst is banging your Cappy friend... She's the other woman
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To tell you the truth I don??t even remember too much about the incident but I think I read a post from her and I told her it sound like the same man or vice versa. I think I describe him to her and every since she??s been biting my back out on here. Things are starting to
Appear creepy. She??s remembering things that I clearly forgot about. I don??t know about people who are on these advice forums and I can only speak for myself. But do people really be that involve into other people relationship that they would remember everything? When I answer people question on this forum I forget about the other entire question they may have ask before. It??s not that serious to me!!!
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Posted by ellessque
OK, I'm home now and was able to check out that link.
why does it matter she's on another forum? And unless I'm missing something she appears consistent in her story.
the personal attacks are really unecessary. every one of our situations have a small bit of similarities to them.
nobody's is exactly the same, but I don't think it's right to attack any woman.

Thanks Ellessque you are a genuine person!!!
That??s why I wrote this short poems and I will continue to post it until they understand!!!!
To judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself!!!
Who are you to judge me; by the things that I say!!!
I??m protected by god; cause each night I pray!!!
Who are you to judge me; and say that I??m a fool!!!
Cause people that give up; could never walk in my shoes!!!
Who are you to judge me; are you insecure inside!!!!
Don??t you know I??m a strong woman; and you can never break my pride!!!
Who are to judge me you don??t even know this man; I stare him in his eyes and I know his plan!!!
Who are you to judge me to say he don??t care; go look in a mirror that might be something you fear!!!
Now who the hell said I love this man more than I love myself, because I??m spiritually rich and conceited with wealth!!!
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Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
faith --
only YOU can know the answer. Your heart tells you he cares for you. I believe he does too.
The gift you mentioned he gave you and the monetary support for your child are proof enough.


Thanks Fumredfairy tales!!!
You and Ellessque are probable two of the few women in this forum that will really have a good long term relationship with a Cappy man.
The reason I??m saying this is because you two were bless with a gift of being understanding. Cappy men will recognize yall great qualities and that??s what it takes to maintain a long relationship with a cappy man.
Some of the women in this forum as well as me don??t have the understanding qualities to deal long term with a Cappy man.
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Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by ellessque

why does it matter she's on another forum? And unless I'm missing something she appears consistent in her story.


It doesn't. The point was that it's not just US that's telling her this stuff, like she claims. Even another forum was telling her the same thing. THEN she denied it. Which is whatever, but it just goes into the long list of other things that she's said/done that she turns around and denies.
She wants advice, but turns around and twists the story so it goes against the advice and whatever. First he has a girlfriend. Then he doesn't. She says she's never been on another forum, but she has. He's clearly using her for sex, and then she turns around and claims that she was his priority when that never seemed to be the case.
Etc, etc, whatever. Who cares. She's a multiple personality troll, as far as I'm concerned. There are too many lies and inconsistencies in her writing style alone to take this silly bitch seriously.
This chick is a mess, but whatev. I'm over feeding the troll. She only posts here because it gives her the attention the Cap won't give her while he's off fucking around with some other bitch.
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I think you hate me because your Cap man doesn??t give you any attention. Maybe you hate me because this is the only way you can get any attention. You said you don??t care so why you keep posting comments. I think you care more than I do!!! Sometimes I drift away from this forum because of you and your creepy tactics.
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