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Capricorn Assessment
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.
Posted by pinkbird03This is not really a question for me, but yes, I do agree with you.
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.
The issue with my Cap isn't love, it's that we're so different. On a good day, I practice patience with him, on a bad day, we have some major fights that are really bad. It's not for a lack of feelings, or passion with us..it's like Sun Vs. Rain.
But we continue to try after 3+ years.
How often do you fight?
I disagree. It can take longer or be shorter (for the record, it took a little over 6 months for me to fall for my last love). It all depends on the connection. Further, particularly when dealing with Cappy's, I think the biggest problem people are having is that they are expecting us to open up and/or change on their timetable. Since we tend to only operate (when it comes to our feelings) on our pace, this inherently leads to frustration.
This is kinda sad because we are patient with those we care about, especially since we know we need people to be patient with us.
Lastly, you can always take the direct approach with us, we won't be offended. Just be ready to accept the answer you get, even if it isn't what you want. And yes, "I don't know" is an answer. Sometimes we really don't know. We are waiting to see how things play out a bit to help decide one way or the other.
Also, be careful what you wish for- we aren't easy to get rid of when we are in love with you lol!
This is kinda sad because we are patient with those we care about, especially since we know we need people to be patient with us.
Lastly, you can always take the direct approach with us, we won't be offended. Just be ready to accept the answer you get, even if it isn't what you want. And yes, "I don't know" is an answer. Sometimes we really don't know. We are waiting to see how things play out a bit to help decide one way or the other.
Also, be careful what you wish for- we aren't easy to get rid of when we are in love with you lol!
Posted by pinkbird03You are right. I've been questioning my marriage on here. It's not sorted. Lots of issues.
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.
Posted by pooface222Ditto! Don't feel bad. You're not alone! What are the main issues?Posted by pinkbird03You are right. I've been questioning my marriage on here. It's not sorted. Lots of issues.
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.
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Posted by ShadowcatYes, on my end.Posted by SunMoonStarsAre the fights about his moods?Posted by pinkbird03This is not really a question for me, but yes, I do agree with you.
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.
The issue with my Cap isn't love, it's that we're so different. On a good day, I practice patience with him, on a bad day, we have some major fights that are really bad. It's not for a lack of feelings, or passion with us..it's like Sun Vs. Rain.
But we continue to try after 3+ years.click to expand
1. He thinks I don't get his subtle hints when he's feeling tired or blah.
I think he should just spit it out and don't be subtle about it.
2. He thinks I pre-judge him for how he will* react based on his moody reactions in the past.
I think I walk on eggshells so as not to set him off.
Posted by pinkbird03About every other week 😢 😢
How often do you fight?
Posted by -elle-Also, sometimes we fall in love before we realize it. Which is something I should clarify about my last love, I realized it at about 6 months, my heart was there long before that most likely.
I have been fortunate (unfortunate?) to experience both outcomes.
The first six months with both.....you could not tell what was waiting around the corner.
When they decide they aren't feeling it....they become very cold.....like they can't be bothered. Think they are sparing feelings....don't realise they are making it worse....nobody wants to waste their time with someone who isn't in it to win it....you have doubts? You are simply test driving? SAY IT.
The "front" to control your perception of them is irritating.
However, on the flip side....when they DO love you....blissfully amazeballs.
Posted by daron76Eva taking "mental" notes as she eats her lunch at desk. Dating a Cappy as she speaks (HE makes PLANS). 😆Posted by -elle-Also, sometimes we fall in love before we realize it. Which is something I should clarify about my last love, I realized it at about 6 months, my heart was there long before that most likely.
I have been fortunate (unfortunate?) to experience both outcomes.
The first six months with both.....you could not tell what was waiting around the corner.
When they decide they aren't feeling it....they become very cold.....like they can't be bothered. Think they are sparing feelings....don't realise they are making it worse....nobody wants to waste their time with someone who isn't in it to win it....you have doubts? You are simply test driving? SAY IT.
The "front" to control your perception of them is irritating.
However, on the flip side....when they DO love you....blissfully amazeballs.click to expand
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Posted by pinkbird03not necessarily. i created a thread once upon a time (years ago) when we had a fall out to share my ideas of how to reconnect. i gathered up all the emotional supports and made a creative move like something you would only see in a movie lol. an instant success that got me my hubby lol. so don't give up too soon.
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.
Posted by iCloud9Posted by pinkbird03not necessarily. i created a thread once upon a time (years ago) when we had a fall out to share my ideas of how to reconnect. i gathered up all the emotional supports and made a creative move like something you would only see in a movie lol. an instant success that got me my hubby lol. so don't give up too soon.
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.click to expand
What was your creative move?
Posted by pinkbird03a halloween trick or treat (I was unrecognizable). tricked into his living room sofa i guess lolPosted by iCloud9Posted by pinkbird03not necessarily. i created a thread once upon a time (years ago) when we had a fall out to share my ideas of how to reconnect. i gathered up all the emotional supports and made a creative move like something you would only see in a movie lol. an instant success that got me my hubby lol. so don't give up too soon.
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.
What was your creative move?
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that's why halloween has been a special day very dear to our heart lol
Posted by iCloud9Lol awe that's cutePosted by pinkbird03a halloween trick or treat (I was unrecognizable). tricked into his living room sofa i guess lolPosted by iCloud9Posted by pinkbird03not necessarily. i created a thread once upon a time (years ago) when we had a fall out to share my ideas of how to reconnect. i gathered up all the emotional supports and made a creative move like something you would only see in a movie lol. an instant success that got me my hubby lol. so don't give up too soon.
I've noticed a trend. If a girl is questioning their relationship on dxp, the relationship just isn't working out. I don't believe I've seen any happy outcomes for the girls who have shared their stories looking for help.
What was your creative move?
that's why halloween has been a special day very dear to our heart lol
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i'm not sure this type of trick would work on a capricorn though. it'd work on a scorpio lol
i'm the cap. i'm a force to be reckoned with when i want something real bad lol
i'm the cap. i'm a force to be reckoned with when i want something real bad lol
In my limited experience I've realized that I can sense pretty early on if something will work longterm or not.
Usually I'll say I'm not interested in dating or a relationship, but if I like someone, yet get that sense of it not lasting forever, I'll push forward but that feeling won't go away. It's possible it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, or it's possible I was right all along. I'd like to think I was right lol.
I know moving forward, in the far future, if I get that sense of something not working down the line, I'm pushing the breaks and stopping it.
I guess that's probably what people deal with in dealing with Caps. I guess we learn to cut it off rather than dragging it out from experience.
Usually I'll say I'm not interested in dating or a relationship, but if I like someone, yet get that sense of it not lasting forever, I'll push forward but that feeling won't go away. It's possible it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, or it's possible I was right all along. I'd like to think I was right lol.
I know moving forward, in the far future, if I get that sense of something not working down the line, I'm pushing the breaks and stopping it.
I guess that's probably what people deal with in dealing with Caps. I guess we learn to cut it off rather than dragging it out from experience.
Posted by iCloud9You told me a week too late! Will have to wait till next year to find out ?
i'm not sure this type of trick would work on a capricorn though. it'd work on a scorpio lol
i'm the cap. i'm a force to be reckoned with when i want something real bad lol
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