Capricorn at odds with a virgo woman

Capricorn with a Leo moon and Leo rising with a venus in Aquarius and mars in Scorpio i was involve with a Virgo woman with a Scorpio moon and a venus in leo and mars in aries . Things was cool we had a instant connection from the get go she had a bad 5 year relationship before me and i was single for 2 years , After almost 5 months of dating we made it official things were ok I had alot of personal family things going on and I felt it caused a rift in our relationship then we had mini quarrels and my occasional outburst because of my frustrations, but I still couldn't help to feel we were meant to be she was a great caring woman a little insecure but it was ok. She just had some issues with me because i tend to do things my way even through all my intentions are good because I love the woman and im loyal with whoever my woman is... but we've been broking up after I didn't come clean with something regarding my professional life and everything went down hill from there... now with our aspects was doomed from the beginning or theres some things we need 2 fix on if there was to be a solid relationship. Im really torn with this whole situation..

My mercury is in capricorn . I mean naturally I detest any arguing but it was a very bad time in my life and we had just made our relationship official. And then I lost my job at a bs walmart but I had felt I didn't want her to feel I had failed her but it was something I had to deal with that's where my mindset was so I jus never said anything. But we've been broken up almost 7 months. During the summer we tried to talk and make it work but then it was alwasys something else and then I would jus get all fustrated and just lose it. I'm to that point now where I feel I'm just going to move on because I caused damage than I orginally thought and she's ignored me for a month and half already :/

Oh yea I can be a true asshole if you piss me off. I want her bad don't get me wrong I feel in love with her and wanted to marry her and I still do but it doesn't help I lost control my emotions and told her she's dead too me after she told me something I didn't want too her.. But I regretted it 5 minutes later I guess my mars in scorpio but she's ignored me for the past 2 months almost but I haven't given up.

A hole*

Posted by Mikerock88
Oh yea I can be a true asshole

😛

Idn. I Gave her a beautiful necklace for her birthday 2 weeks ago i left it at her apartment door i know she recieved it but she didnt even bother 2 text me back wen I asked. She wont meet face 2 face because of her words "I cant do it" Idn i fell in love with her and when she told me there wont be an us anymore maybe friends if that my world dropped and made me more determined because i would bend my back and do a dozen back flips for her my loyality is deep and my devotion to somebody.. I Keep many at arms length but her it was something different a soulmate type of feeling.

Your Hilarious. Im a bastard? you don't even know me and what Ive gone through. I'm actually a genuine person if you want me to be 100% with you . I have a little bit of emotional issues but im really a good guy but like a typical Aquarius always want to say some stuff . I know my mom and sister are both Aquarius and speak before they know the facts. If i didn't love her i would keep walking like Ive done with alot of women because I don't stick around for people I don't care about. Also my looks? its funny your the first to say something like that im not the most handsome person but I dont do too bad . Maybe your the devil 😉

Hey Mike. My Cap has an aqua in Venus as well (me too so maybe that's why it doesn't bug me - LOL). He's had his "insensitve" moments on occassion but his heart is usually in the right place. Yours sounds the same. I wouldn't say things are hopeless but at the moment your girl is hurt and is putting up major barriers with you to protect herself. I was the same way when my Cap hurt me, regretted it and wanted back in. I didn't make it easy for him either but eventually I let him prove his love for me and now we are solid again so there is always hope if two people really care enough to put in the effort needed. Sounds like she doesn't trust you not to deliver another "blow" to her as before so getting her to trust in you, your words and actions needs a coordinated effort on your part. You tried a gift of jewlery and that didn't bring down the wall between you. Have you written her a heartfelt letter putting your soul on the line since she refuses to see you? If not a letter then something else perhaps to show her that given another chance you won't let her down and allow her to trust again? Whatever you decide I wish you all the luck. There are enough bitter unhappy people walking around (waves at Aquadiesel - LOL) so if you have a chance at happiness, know without doubt this woman woman is "the one" then don't stop until you make her yours again.

No I didnt but looks like I might just do that! but when the time is right im keeping close tabs on her twitter so i know i wont be wasting my time* kinda weird I know* but i dont like to play 2nd fiddle.. yea thats whats im thinking it worked 2 times and something else went wrong but the same time my life wasnt in order like the way i wanted it so i guess things happen for a reason i will keep trying just makes me upset she goes to bed alone at night when reality its suppose 2 be me next to her.

^ Good luck Mike. -winks-

Thank you im going to need it

^ Yip.

Thanks. Is there a lot of people on here with comparable chart readings as mines or just with my placements its unusual to see somebody come out so bluntly.

Posted by Mikerock88
its unusual to see somebody come out so bluntly.

Confused what do you mean?

my type of placements are they positive aspects for a capricorn ? i mean im so different from your typical capricorn mainly because my emotions can be so violate. im still learning more about all these fire signs in my natal chart. only water i have is scorpio in mars and pluto mainly sexual and temper

Posted by ellessque
come on, aqua....

it's not that hard to come out and admit you were being an asshole. ESPECIALLY someone with his placements.

i personally think this thread is refreshing. we talk about these placements all the time on this board and finally we have someone that has them and is being brutally honest while willing to admit what he has told us.

i think you should cut him a break.

we all can learn from each other.

lol yea my ex was hooked on the sex since the 1st day we met face to face haha but it wasnt enough as she cut the relationship more power 2 her to resist. Makes me want give it all even more. now how about the other elements? do they really play a big part in the rest?Sun Capricorn 14.51 Ascendant Leo 5.16
Moon Leo 5.48 II Leo 26.16
Mercury Capricorn 23.00 III Virgo 21.40
Venus Aquarius 18.09 IV Libra 23.11
Mars Scorpio 28.14 V Scorpio 29.23
Jupiter Aries 20.34 VI Capricorn 4.42
Saturn Sagittarius 26.03 VII Aquarius 5.16
Uranus Sagittarius 27.58 VIII Aquarius 26.16
Neptune Capricorn 7.59 IX Pisces 21.40
Pluto Scorpio 12.08 Midheaven Aries 23.11
Lilith Leo 15.34 XI Taurus 29.23
Asc node Pisces 26.01 XII Cancer

Its mental stimulation as well sex in a relationship is what you need but when things were good everything with us was on point. We always talked laughed watch movies it was almost like we are married and argued like we were married and she was always by myside. Im not interested in alot of woman I like relationships ive been thru alot of woman most nothing really happen but with her its something I jus know and shes far from a puppy my dude.

Moon and rising in Leo and Aqua Venus, you seem "squishy" (don't ask why, that's just the word that comes to mind)... you're acting all Aqua and Leo like - still trying to woo her after 2 months, buying her things despite the fact she doesn't want contact with you, and hoping she'll come around because you just can't grasp that someone wouldn't/couldn't want you.

Cap up!

So what should I do? I Love her what can i say im deeply in love with her I told her we going to get married and i meant it.