Capricorn Awkwardness?

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Posted by leilaxxlovez
Just one of those days when I miss being around people of my own kind...
The one thing I can't handle is being around shallow people who just don't get it...
I miss those good capri vibes...capri circles are hard to come by...
Surrounded by so many people but I can't have a proper conversation with any of them.

Is it just me, or people are really bummed out about our presence? It's this thing that keeps happening...when I meet new people or something, they immediately act awkward around me. It's just weird mehn!! The minute I open my mouth I get this 'OMG SHE'S TALKING' look...IS IT JUST ME??? makes me feel so self-conscious...like im doing something wrong all the time...
Why do people get this way??lol okay its kinda silly asking someone that. Just needed to let it out!!!
Capricorn / aqua cusp sun, pisces moon, cancer rising...
Observing the way people act around me, and the way they act around my cancer friend...they are so comfortable around her. Whatever she does, they've got no problem with. BUT, the minute she leaves and its just me and that other person...they tense up.like what the heck!! May be I have a really dark ora... or may be...
Caps...holler @ your girl!lol dont forget ur rising and moon signs

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People get awkward around me. Sometimes it's just my 'presence' and other times it's my not meshing with the usual expectations. I guess they don't know what to do with something outside their realms?
As for the bumming out it depends who I'm with. Sometimes they are unreasonably bummed...and I absorb that. So when it would have been a good time I'm busy reflecting what they perceived, and it ends up as they predicted. That;s the moon I think. Pisces turn good to great and down to out.
I'm also a Cap (no cusp), pisces moon, and cancer rising I believe we have a very unique aura.

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Posted by noirecapricornprincess
Leilalaxx, I think it has to do with the fact that most people prefer the accepted Norm of things, how they function,how they are accepted, etc. One Of my acquaintances said she noticed that if we are in a group and other people are speaking it's generally about bullsh*t BUT when A Capricorn speaks people get guarded, defensive, or feel intimidated. I've experienced what you are referring to and as I got older I gained a better perspective of people, their personalities, quips etc. I decided that I'm confident and can hold my OWN no matter where I am or who I am in the midst of. Capricorn is the Sign that Demands his presence but not in a pushy way. In other words, people will know who we are without us ever waving a look see flag like some signs have to do.

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Posted by BlazingGoat
On our first date, I talked to hub who was then just a casual date, about parallel universes, multiple lives and extra terestial beings. He was driving on a winding road he didn't know and picked the conversation right up. He sverved. That's how I knew he was the one for me.
What were we chit-chatting about?

Meant to type he NEVER sverved.

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Posted by BlazingGoat
On our first date, I talked to hub who was then just a casual date, about parallel universes, multiple lives and extra terestial beings. He was driving on a winding road he didn't know and picked the conversation right up. He sverved. That's how I knew he was the one for me.
What were we chit-chatting about?

Meant to type he NEVER sverved.

What's his sign?

He's a Leo with lots of Leo in his natal chart.

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Posted by leilaxxlovez
Just one of those days when I miss being around people of my own kind...
The one thing I can't handle is being around shallow people who just don't get it...
I miss those good capri vibes...capri circles are hard to come by...
Surrounded by so many people but I can't have a proper conversation with any of them.
Observing the way people act around me, Caps...holler @ your girl!lol dont forget ur rising and moon signs
I am a sun cap moon in virgo with a libra rising...I realized early on in my life that I was different from everyone else...teachers always wanted me to get comfortable enough to speak in front of crowds or sing but like most here, i couldnt do it until i was comfortable in my own skin, I do tend to make people uncomfortable cause I have a nack for pointin out the obvious truth and logical aspects of whatever whenever, but I dont normally speak about it until I have observed it for a while then I come to a final conclusion. I love interactin with other caps tauruses, and also virgos because we are very similiar to one another . earth think totally too much about stuff, dont like to be in crowds but can and we have leadership qualities although we dont choose to be the commander and chief of situations we just know what to do , the fact that we are so damn smart others do get intiminated by this , we intellectually most of us have deep glarin eyes as though when caps were created we were ment to be that zodiac sign that is responsible for success rates in others, I feel as though earth signs period are so down to earth and point out so much real and practicality that others cant seem to grasps but I always wondered why dont everybody think this way

Posted by Chance11
people are awkward around us for a few different reasons. as someone mentioned, we are reserved and initially shy. some people take that as snobby, aloof, or cold. once they get to know us..they realize it's quite the opposite. i think we might unconsciously do that to weed out the people that are fooled by appearance from those that act and talk on the deeper level that we're more likely to connect with. a lot of it is getting a feel for the person or group before we open our yappers
also being fairly solid and earthbound, we have a heavy energy that can see through the false pleasantries, facades, and self serving motivations...we can't hide the fact that we don't entertain them. it's written on our face and may be insulting to, say, a lower case unevolved air or fire sign that operates on these levels.
most caps have a presence..a substantial base that we don't really show off. and since people don't know what it is and since we don't reveal it unless they know us really well..they are confused as to what our motivations are and this can make things awkward. being private ppl can lead to some misunderstandings

Posted by noirecapricornprincess
Leilalaxx, I think it has to do with the fact that most people prefer the accepted Norm of things, how they function,how they are accepted, etc.
when A Capricorn speaks people get guarded, defensive, or feel intimidated. .

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leilaxxlovez reading that i felt you spoke what i go through so often. Every time i am in a new group i feel i miss being aroud my own kinds. I have understood that it is not so much as others fault as its mine. May be we are so reserve that others dont feel comfortable enough.
Just a few days back i had my company's annual meet. And I coudnt help but compare with the same meet that happened last year. Last year all i was doing was being on personal calls when every one else was interating with each other. I was making those personal calls to avoid talking to others(Sounds stupid i know but i was feeling so uncomfortable and out of place). This year however things were different. I had spend some time in the organization so i felt at home and i was having a good time talking to my collegues from rest of the country.
Our falut is not that we do something wrong but the fault is that we are not comfortable in a new surrounding and people are not dumb to not sense our awkwardness and that makes them feel unwanted.
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Posted by Chance11
i think we might unconsciously do that to weed out the people that are fooled by appearance from those that act and talk on the deeper level that we're more likely to connect with. a lot of it is getting a feel for the person or group before we open our yappers
also being fairly solid and earthbound, we have a heavy energy that can see through the false pleasantries, facades, and self serving motivations...we can't hide the fact that we don't entertain them. it's written on our face and may be insulting to, say, a lower case unevolved air or fire sign that operates on these levels.