CAPRICORN BROKE MY HEART PLEASE HELP
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by mirangellaxd on Tuesday, October 25, 2016 and has 17 replies.
I've been having relationship problems with a Capricorn and I really need help. PLEASE be honest when you answer this question. So I'm a Cancer, born July 18th and I dated a Capricorn, born December 24th. Before me and this Capricorn dated we were extremely good friends, he was so sweet and thoughtful. And after a while, he started flirting with me and he admitted his feelings for me, that he's liked me for a while but he was too afraid to get criticized by his friends, so he didn't tell anyone. And at this time, he really caught for me, because he really wanted to be with me.
He always asked me for nudes, and even tho he asked me for nudes he was still very loyal and said "If you want me to stop asking you for nudes I will, but your body is just very hard to resist" and he really loves my body. So after the flirting we had a thing, and after the thing we dated and I sent him nudes. But after I sent him the nudes, I also broke up with him because I felt like it wasn't going to work out, because he's very ignorant but I still really loved him. So after I broke up with him, I regretted it and I tried to get him back but every time I would text him he would ALWAYS ignore me. And it hurt me so much, because he broke my heart and hurt me.
I would send him long paragraphs, and he would still ignore me. Being a cancer, I'm very sensitive, paranoid and I pour out my feelings very easily. Him being a Capricorn, he's very aloof. When we dated he always used to say "I care about you" but afterwards, he treated me like complete shit. I just really missed him. I don't understand why he treats me like shit, when I've done absolutely nothing wrong, in my opinion. And I remember once at school I went up to him and I said "Can I please talk to you?" But he said in a very cold voice, "I really don't wanna talk to you" without even looking me in the eye. And then a week later he texts me asking, "Am I really a jerk?" And I said "Yes" and he's like "I just wanna know what I did" so I said, "You know exactly what he did" and then he said "No I don't, please tell me" and then a couple seconds later he said "Nevermind, I don't care anymore" It's so pathetic how he's asking me that, when he knows what he did wrong.
He lied to me, he hurt me and he knew it, he showed my nudes to his friends after promising me he wouldn't, he shut me out and ignored me, he treats me like shit and talked shit about me and so much more. Also, one or two of his friends talk shit about me. All I ever wanted to do was try to be his friend again, and he agreed that we should be friends and we started talking again and it was very friendly but after a while he started talking about the relationship we had and he started asking questions like "Do you regret us dating" and I said "No" and he said "Neither do I" he also asked me for nudes again WHILE WE WERE FRIENDS but I said no, and then he started ignoring me again, so I said "you don't have to ignore me just because I won't send nudes" and he read it but didn't say anything and ignored me.
He's hurt me in the worst ways possible, and he always comes back and then leaves. He always ignores me. He only talks to me when he needs something from me like nudes. And a couple days after he started calling me annoying and a liar and I said "if you're gonna treat me like shit, and hate me then maybe you should just forget about me and never talk to me again" and he said "ok bye" And as a result, I decided to cut myself to ease the hurt. He knows about my past with cutting and self harm, but I also told him that I stopped, which I haven't so he's very unaware. It's so hard to understand him, he's so confusing and I wish I knew how he really felt about me but he's so closed off and distant. And he also said that he doesn't like to hurt people, but he knows damn well that he hurt me.
While we were dating he always said he loves seeing me happy and that he loves talking to me, and that he cares about me. Note: I have to see him everyday at school, but anyways what's his problem? Is he ever gonna' come back? Do you think he still cares about me? If I told him I cut myself, do you think he'd care? What do I do? Is he happy? Does it hurt him too? Has he moved on? (I haven't) It really hurts and I can't get him off my mind. He acts as if he doesn't give a shit about me. Please answer these questions, I can't just give up on him even tho I said I never wanted to talk to him again.
He always asked me for nudes, and even tho he asked me for nudes he was still very loyal and said "If you want me to stop asking you for nudes I will, but your body is just very hard to resist" and he really loves my body. So after the flirting we had a thing, and after the thing we dated and I sent him nudes. But after I sent him the nudes, I also broke up with him because I felt like it wasn't going to work out, because he's very ignorant but I still really loved him. So after I broke up with him, I regretted it and I tried to get him back but every time I would text him he would ALWAYS ignore me. And it hurt me so much, because he broke my heart and hurt me.
I would send him long paragraphs, and he would still ignore me. Being a cancer, I'm very sensitive, paranoid and I pour out my feelings very easily. Him being a Capricorn, he's very aloof. When we dated he always used to say "I care about you" but afterwards, he treated me like complete shit. I just really missed him. I don't understand why he treats me like shit, when I've done absolutely nothing wrong, in my opinion. And I remember once at school I went up to him and I said "Can I please talk to you?" But he said in a very cold voice, "I really don't wanna talk to you" without even looking me in the eye. And then a week later he texts me asking, "Am I really a jerk?" And I said "Yes" and he's like "I just wanna know what I did" so I said, "You know exactly what he did" and then he said "No I don't, please tell me" and then a couple seconds later he said "Nevermind, I don't care anymore" It's so pathetic how he's asking me that, when he knows what he did wrong.
He lied to me, he hurt me and he knew it, he showed my nudes to his friends after promising me he wouldn't, he shut me out and ignored me, he treats me like shit and talked shit about me and so much more. Also, one or two of his friends talk shit about me. All I ever wanted to do was try to be his friend again, and he agreed that we should be friends and we started talking again and it was very friendly but after a while he started talking about the relationship we had and he started asking questions like "Do you regret us dating" and I said "No" and he said "Neither do I" he also asked me for nudes again WHILE WE WERE FRIENDS but I said no, and then he started ignoring me again, so I said "you don't have to ignore me just because I won't send nudes" and he read it but didn't say anything and ignored me.
He's hurt me in the worst ways possible, and he always comes back and then leaves. He always ignores me. He only talks to me when he needs something from me like nudes. And a couple days after he started calling me annoying and a liar and I said "if you're gonna treat me like shit, and hate me then maybe you should just forget about me and never talk to me again" and he said "ok bye" And as a result, I decided to cut myself to ease the hurt. He knows about my past with cutting and self harm, but I also told him that I stopped, which I haven't so he's very unaware. It's so hard to understand him, he's so confusing and I wish I knew how he really felt about me but he's so closed off and distant. And he also said that he doesn't like to hurt people, but he knows damn well that he hurt me.
While we were dating he always said he loves seeing me happy and that he loves talking to me, and that he cares about me. Note: I have to see him everyday at school, but anyways what's his problem? Is he ever gonna' come back? Do you think he still cares about me? If I told him I cut myself, do you think he'd care? What do I do? Is he happy? Does it hurt him too? Has he moved on? (I haven't) It really hurts and I can't get him off my mind. He acts as if he doesn't give a shit about me. Please answer these questions, I can't just give up on him even tho I said I never wanted to talk to him again.
Did these nudes have your face attached to them? Please tell me they didn't!
I'm a fellow Moon child, and yes I get the deep emotional pain hurts so much you feel you need to release the emotional pain with physical pain. But, it is better to cry it out, go for a run, hit your pillow... But do not harm yourself because that will effect you in the future when you see those scars and remind you of your pain. What you feel now is only a moment of your life, a crumb of your life as a whole... This will past and then it will be the next moment, the next and then you will look back and say "wow, I barely remember that moment it was a crumb compared to my amazing full life" I married my first love who is a Capricorn and he did the same to me acted cold and left me, but I realized we were never good together. So just keep telling your self that and look forward to what the future holds for you because you never know what the next day will bring 
He's playing mind games with you and does not care about you at all..
I sound harsh but he does not care...sorry.
You both sound very young.
You're using your cutting yourself to let him know how you feel is a manipulating tactic to gain sympathy so he will contact you.
Him saying mean things to you and then asking you what did he do wrong is manipulative behavior also.
Stop cutting yourself....and try to figure out the real reason why you're accepting this behavior from this man or boy.
You may love him now...or think you may never love again.
But you will...you have to learn your worth first.
If you don't realize your worth. This behavior will continue with future men sweetie.
You have value. You deserve someone to treat you as such.
I sound harsh but he does not care...sorry.
You both sound very young.
You're using your cutting yourself to let him know how you feel is a manipulating tactic to gain sympathy so he will contact you.
Him saying mean things to you and then asking you what did he do wrong is manipulative behavior also.
Stop cutting yourself....and try to figure out the real reason why you're accepting this behavior from this man or boy.
You may love him now...or think you may never love again.
But you will...you have to learn your worth first.
If you don't realize your worth. This behavior will continue with future men sweetie.
You have value. You deserve someone to treat you as such.
Tell him this if he ever asks you why you're angry at him: "hmm maybe you should pull your head out of yourass and think about what you've done like a big boy. Because I truly don't think you want me to explain it to you."
I'm truly sorry about this guy. He doesn't deserve you and sounds like a dick.
I hate guys like this. If I were you I'd probably rip his dick off and have it join his head up hisass because this is inexcusable.
I'm truly sorry about this guy. He doesn't deserve you and sounds like a dick.
I hate guys like this. If I were you I'd probably rip his dick off and have it join his head up hisass because this is inexcusable.
If I read your story right, you also "rejected" him on a few occasions. So it seems that the hurt went two ways.
Moreover, it sounds like both of you lack maturity, and no relationship can move in a positive direction without emotional maturity.
No one is worth cutting yourself over. If you are really prone to such things, get professional help.
Moreover, it sounds like both of you lack maturity, and no relationship can move in a positive direction without emotional maturity.
No one is worth cutting yourself over. If you are really prone to such things, get professional help.
He didn't want to date from the very beginning. If a Capricorn is doubtful in the beginning and you give him more reasons to be even more doubtful, you lost him. Besides, his main focus was seeing you naked. Without that, he wants nothing to do with you. So if you want him in your life, keep sending naked pictures. But don't expect a serious relationship from him.
Posted by happyface1I agree 100% with @happyface. This broke my heart to read and I am beginning to remember being 13 again. If you do not value your self no one ever will. This world will spit on you and those who have sympathy for you will eventually get tired of it. You have to fight for yourself baby girl. Pretend he doesn't exist until he doesn't exist so strongly in your heart anymore. Don't look at anyone of his friends either they don't exist. If you have to be in a room with one and you are uncomfortable don't let it show find someone you know smile laugh have a grand ol time. Start running or doing yoga to clear your mind or extercise then finish with yoga and meditation and drink lots or water and eat healthier. All of these things are going to help healt you and may even give you some clarity. Wishing you the
He's playing mind games with you and does not care about you at all..
I sound harsh but he does not care...sorry.
You both sound very young.
You're using your cutting yourself to let him know how you feel is a manipulating tactic to gain sympathy so he will contact you.
Him saying mean things to you and then asking you what did he do wrong is manipulative behavior also.
Stop cutting yourself....and try to figure out the real reason why you're accepting this behavior from this man or boy.
You may love him now...or think you may never love again.
But you will...you have to learn your worth first.
If you don't realize your worth. This behavior will continue with future men sweetie.
You have value. You deserve someone to treat you as such.
best love ?
Please find someone to talk to. This is exploitation. OP, you need to know value yourself. I don't know who has belittled you in your life, but please call a helpline or get support from someone. Hugs and prayers to you, baby girl.
Posted by happyface1^5 (high five). Good advice!
He's playing mind games with you and does not care about you at all..
I sound harsh but he does not care...sorry.
You both sound very young.
You're using your cutting yourself to let him know how you feel is a manipulating tactic to gain sympathy so he will contact you.
Him saying mean things to you and then asking you what did he do wrong is manipulative behavior also.
Stop cutting yourself....and try to figure out the real reason why you're accepting this behavior from this man or boy.
You may love him now...or think you may never love again.
But you will...you have to learn your worth first.
If you don't realize your worth. This behavior will continue with future men sweetie.
You have value. You deserve someone to treat you as such.
To: OP. Don't do it again (send a nude photo of yourself). I had my ex-bf take "teddy" photos of me utilizing MY smart phone. I only sent my bf at the time a sexy teddy photo every month (nothing NUDE as that's a no no in my book; photos were kinda sorta like Victoria's Secret). Don't care if he deleted them (duh! why would he? They were a gift from me to him), nor care if he shows them to his friends (he's 48 and I'm 51). You'll learn from your mistakes.
Also, why cut yourself? Your skin, blood, "pain", not even a sharp razor is WORTH this dude....or as I call them, "He's a rude, crude, dude!". Sending you more than one cyber hugs!!!
Love,
Eva
Posted by CAPLOCKSAIDAwwww, I'm creating a pattern!
@OP
Stop cutting yourself ! He doesn't care. And stop sending nude pics of yourself. You don't need his approval. Believe tjat you're young confident smart and beautiful. Take care.
Love,
CAPLOCK (cyber hug)
cyber hugs! Love,
Eva
Posted by CAPLOCKSAIDPosted by EvatheDivaWell geez, you're universal generosity is influential.Posted by CAPLOCKSAIDAwwww, I'm creating a pattern!
@OP
Stop cutting yourself ! He doesn't care. And stop sending nude pics of yourself. You don't need his approval. Believe tjat you're young confident smart and beautiful. Take care.
Love,
CAPLOCK (cyber hug)
Love,
Eva
Love, CAPLOCK ( cyber hug)click to expand
and I was quoted from an OP, "You're not adorable". I took care of the WASKALIY WABBIT! Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Well don't ever send pics if they really like you. You guys wait till you are private in the bedroom at the right time and don't rush.
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@Op There's a person who did that and Posted here about their situation and it wasn't good either. So now you come here too and say you sent nudes. Forget it I'm never sending nudes fuck that shit. People want to be spontaneous I get it and we probably have for our lovers. But damn that. Lol
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I'm learning cardinal signs maybe just complete opposite in earth signs and one minute they like you and the next minute they dont. Then come back too. As if nothing happened. I do that thought leave and come back like it's only been a week or so what was I saying and always keep it light and keep your guard up. People use guilt trips, manipulative words, tactic, and some controlling impulses just be careful. Be friends like you did..
I would be saying that. It's just either we wait a period of time with anyone you think you like.
I would be saying that. It's just either we wait a period of time with anyone you think you like.
NEVER send nude pictures to any man, not even your husband. You don't know where they could end up.
Men always boast about the women they're sleeping with. They do it because they're insecure.
Scorpio man seems to be the man that the Cancer woman really gets on with best. Try one of those. Scorpio men are more loyal than the Cap.
The fatal attraction between Caps and Cancers, however, is compelling. Young Cap men can be real assholes, but the older ones are nice.
Men always boast about the women they're sleeping with. They do it because they're insecure.
Scorpio man seems to be the man that the Cancer woman really gets on with best. Try one of those. Scorpio men are more loyal than the Cap.
The fatal attraction between Caps and Cancers, however, is compelling. Young Cap men can be real assholes, but the older ones are nice.
does this guy live in california? i think i know him LOL
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