Capricorn female disappearing act?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by laclastlyon on Wednesday, May 2, 2018 and has 4 replies.
Hey guys, wanted to get some advice regarding a capricorn woman i've recently started seeing. Long story short, i'm finding it very hard to get a read on her - i'm not sure whether it's due to my gemini instincts wanting to talk and talk and not finding a likewise ally or if i'm proceeding differently.

We've been talking for about a month or so, conversation has been going well, we find eachother mutually stimulating. After a while she randomly she invited me over to her house, I was a bit surprised but can't say It wasn't what I secretly wanted haha . Anyway, I took me a while to figure out how to go about her, she was very passive and a bit scared so I didn't want to go full gusto. We did end up hooking up and spending a great night/day together.

However, since than i've been getting a bit of a weird vibe. I suppose it's my normal inclination to pick up where things leave off so i'll message and show my interest. I know she's interested but she's very cautious, I don't think the hook up changed anything so how have you guys dealt with the other star sign before? She's really gone into a disappearing act. Hasn't returned messages, however she's been sending me posts on insta/snap? so i'm kind of confused.

Is she playing games? is she suddenly not interested. I want to mirror her and not really give her attention but i've been reading it's what she might want. But i'm also cautious of not crowding her...anyone have any stories, how it's progressed, what was good and bad? and any advice on how I can make this cappy interested in me smile
I’m a Capricorn woman and I haven’t been sexually involved with a Gemini man but I can say I find them very mentally stimulating. It sounds like she’s interested but doesn’t want to rush into things. We can really shy away when we really like someone and don’t want things to go wrong or end fast ! I don’t think she’s playing games with you. I think she wants this to last but we’re just VERY cautious with our feelings. You gotta break down that brick wall.
Hey, I'm a cap women. Here's the deal. Try and set up a romantic date, have some drinks so she'll talk more, then in a nice surrounding, your house or hers, hookup again after you look into her eyes and tell her how much you like her (with confidence). Your hookup should be "making love" and not a "hookup" this time with lots of gusto in a passionate, loud, strong way as a man to a woman in a caring, but erotic animalistic way. She has to know that you absolutely love it with her because...it's her. Then, be consistent with your contact. You're relationship had gotten twisted off tract and she's not getting a strong enough vibe that you even like her that much. You're being wishy washy from listening to stuff you already know in your gut as a man. You know what to do already. Don't worry about Gemini/Capricorn because there's tons of other stuff in synergy that may be a match made in heaven...moon, Mars, Venus signs and beyond. Be consistent, not clingy, be loyal and have her back. Windows of full opportunity for relationships only have so much time...or she'll feel you're not serious/worth it enough. If she doesn't want another date, then it's over. Try for date asap, if she says yes, she's open to you sexually for another try.
Ps, she's not being "cautious" anymore because she's already slept with you. At this point, she's either your girlfriend or a hookup. Press the restart button and tell her you're sorry, innocently messed up and how you feel. Otherwise, she feels like a played "hookup" and will move on to someone who treats her right. And that's the way it really is. She'll appreciate your care and concern to make it right. You have to be talkative because we're not (at first unless we're sure you sincerely are into us). Then, we'll talk your head off.