Capricorn girl mixed signals

i am a gemini i started liking a capricorn girl i never spoke with her but i just liked looking at her face we got a chance to see each other only twice a week when we had combined class she was from different class. she noticed i was looking at her she always kept a serious face she always checks back if i am looking back at her. i told her in fb i like her she did not respond a week passed one day i could not control myself went to her directly and told her i love her her friends were standing just few paces behind.
she told me she had seen all my fb msg but she was not interested in me. that day i went back to fb and told her sorry and told her i will not disturb her again goodbye.


we did not see each other for a week later when i saw her in combined class in the morning she kept looking at the window later she saw me once or twice that afternoon she blocked me in Facebook i cannot understand why it took her so long to block me i had sent my first msg almost a month back she did not block my last msg was a week back she did not block me then too but the day she met me in class (six days later after proposal) she blocked me.

almost a month passed she still checks if i am looking at her i don`t mind it if she looks at me once or twice but almost 10 to 12 times i could see her looking at me(not directly).i made another profile to look at her fb profile she was 2 years older than me but she has removed her age and date of birth completely i cannot understand why ? when she is with her friends she tries to hide herself from me she hid her face with umbrella once.but in class and other places she checks me out she refuses to sit in a chair which was in front of me instead she went sat opposite side to me and from the corner of her eyes keeps checking me my friends are asking me to approach her again
i am confused

Dont be confused. She likes the attention you've given her so far, who wouldnt? A guy thay barely knows you saying they love you....talk about the ego being fed.

You moved waaayyy too fast with that. Caps are a lot slower.

Anyway, if she said she wasnt interested then go with that. She probably doesnt want you to take your attention away, but thats all ego. Try your hardest to concentrate and not get disttracted by her looking back. If she wants to meet you halfway, she will. Until then dont think too much about the situation..

Posted by lnana04
Dont be confused. She likes the attention you've given her so far, who wouldnt? A guy thay barely knows you saying they love you....talk about the ego being fed.

You moved waaayyy too fast with that. Caps are a lot slower.

Anyway, if she said she wasnt interested then go with that. She probably doesnt want you to take your attention away, but thats all ego. Try your hardest to concentrate and not get disttracted by her looking back. If she wants to meet you halfway, she will. Until then dont think too much about the situation..

thanx for replying

i don`t understand how can ego be the reason behind this though

yeah i am trying hard to distract myself

it was my friend who observed both of us one day said that she was giving me too much attention when i was not looking at her
my friend has seen her before too he said she was too shy she always kept serious face and always kept her distance from boys in general

Dude, I know you're probably young and shit, but what the fuck was that "I love you" business about? I have a better suggestion for an ice-breaker next time you meet another girl...how about just "whats your name?"

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Dude, I know you're probably young and shit, but what the fuck was that "I love you" business about? I have a better suggestion for an ice-breaker next time you meet another girl...how about just "whats your name?"

i know i did a mistake by saying "i love u " the very first time i spoke to her

but in facebook i had already told her i like her a lot she did not respond to any of message nor did she block me i was not able to control myself i was going mad about her cannot eat cannot sleep so i had to tell her

Posted by ninjafish
Are you sure that her looking at you really constitutes a "mixed signal"? She might be overly curious and just sort of wanting to know if you're still looking at her during class and how much you're doing it, which is perhaps why she keeps checking - I don't necessarily think this is a signal she might secretly like you.

And even if she had at one stage, I agree with Boom that your declaration of "love" would have dissolved that with immediacy.

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if she is curious about me she can look at me once or twice she has been seeing me more than 10 to 12 times every class
if i don`t like a person i wont look at them not even once but i find it strange i am trying hard to look away but i could not neither could she

i must admit one more thing frankly i am have been too shy and reserved all my life i have never had friends among girls only girl i speak well was my cousin other than that i have avoided girls so i really donno what to talk and wht not to take to girls 😢

Maybe getting yourself some good female friends would be a good first goal, take it easy. Once you learn more about girls, you will know what to do when the moment comes and you meet another one you like.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Maybe getting yourself some good female friends would be a good first goal, take it easy. Once you learn more about girls, you will know what to do when the moment comes and you meet another one you like.

thanx man yes i am changing my attitude i am trying to speak with my other girls now

Posted by capgirl75
Oh, Mr. Gemini- step away from the Capricorn woman. Lol.

😭

Posted by Metoo
Interesting, I met a cap man at work and thought he was unique....and he came to me after I befriended him and said "yourmy best friend" and later "I love you".
I am also a cap female...it scared me, I thought maybe it was just a culteral thing, but I was scared.
Do not let her catch you looking at her even one more time. If you have any chance of even being friends, it is in your best interest to completely ignore her.
She may have been embarrased in front of her friends too.

yeah she must have been i apologized to her in fb i did not go personally because she is always surrounded by friends i dont want to embrass her again 😢

had she ignored me i would have forgotten her but she keeps checking me i find it hard to concentrate

Just try your best to ignore. Even if you have to sit in front of her. This is not to say she's a bad person, but you've put yourself all out there, and she said she wasnt interested. Protect your heart.

Posted by Metoo
Dont worry about it. She thought because yu came on strong that you might stalk her or something. She blcked you because her friends probaby made a big deal and said this guy is crazy. You gotta show her you have friends and are a normal person and your not trying to stalk her. Show her no interest, just sit in front of her and do not look back, try and think of school. it might make her come around if she sees she can take you seriously. Its ok what you did, you meant no harm it scared her and she didnt know what to make of it, but she might be looking at you thinking "why is he staring at me?" so dont. Whats meant to be will be but you have to do your own thing. This same cap who did this to me...he fell in love with a girl on campus and married her, she ended up being psycho, jealous and trying to control his life. Looks arent everything, once u got to know her, you might not like her the same. Think of it that way. If she ever gives you the chance, try and get to know her, outside of looks and lusting for sex. Get to know the person, how she thinks and feels and THEN judge if you can truly love her. Always start as friend with any girl.
Try and form friendships with girls you wouldnt date so they can help you. Just be yourself, ask questions, ask to go for coffee, or tea, and sit and talk. Try and just say whats on your mind, if you offend someone dont worry, we all do when we arent sure what to say and then you can just apologize and move on. Thats how friendship works.

i never thought about that may be she thinks i am mad that might have been reason she checks me

but i am damn sure it is not lust she looks more like my mom she is two year elder to me

Posted by lnana04
Just try your best to ignore. Even if you have to sit in front of her. This is not to say she's a bad person, but you've put yourself all out there, and she said she wasnt interested. Protect your heart.

i have to survive two days this month and two more days next month after that i wont see her until 2013 😢

i will try to resist her somehow

Looks like your mom?

Theres always a twist to a Gemini story lol.

Posted by lnana04
Looks like your mom?

Theres always a twist to a Gemini story lol.

one more twist my mom is also capricorn i never got well with mom she is very impatient which is very unlike of any Capricorn she loves money

i really loved my mom too much until 15

at 16 i suffered a huge setback i failed in one of my paper in my board exam i managed to clear it later

my dad was there to support me but my mom left me alone went to orphanage for six months

after that relationship with my mom got worse she came she still loves me but i cannot forgot what she did to me i still feel she should have supported me during those time

my life has been full of bad luck some of my friends who study worse than me manage to pass through
but i have always faced failures a lot some due to my luck some due to my carelessness
after i failed in love i really wanted to die i could not take anymore failures
sometimes i dunno what is keeping me from killing myself

june1, it sounds like you have a lot of unresolved issues with your mother that is haunting you.

You may be longing for something(acceptance) from your mother and subconciously looking for someone who reminds you of your mother to give it to you.

I think you see your Capricorn mom in the Capricorn girl, which is probably the real reason why you said "i love you" so fast.

Theres always a million and one reasons to live, starting with figuring out a way to resolve or come to peace with your past and your mom.

Posted by lnana04
june1, it sounds like you have a lot of unresolved issues with your mother that is haunting you.

You may be longing for something(acceptance) from your mother and subconciously looking for someone who reminds you of your mother to give it to you.

I think you see your Capricorn mom in the Capricorn girl, which is probably the real reason why you said "i love you" so fast.

Theres always a million and one reasons to live, starting with figuring out a way to resolve or come to peace with your past and your mom.

so far i really could not figure out why
i am attracted to her like this may be you r right

Posted by 8835Pisces
Oh 😢

Mr. Gemini try a humble Aquarian girl, Libra, Leo, Sag, or Aries.—---one of these will make you a very happy man.
My honest opinion Gemini & capricorn is no match.

There are many reasons why a kid fails school. It was not your fault. :-)
crappy & lazy teachers who play favorites makes a child lose interest in class and fail.
But there are good teachers out there who do enjoy their job and enjoy helping children.

Forgive your mom, forgive yourself and know it was not your fault for not having the help of a good teacher. Let go, be a happy man, and turn your attention to a good woman who will be a good match for you. :-)

r u sure there is no chance 😢


anyways thanx 8835pisces

In my personal experience, Gem and Cap are not a good match. There are other caps that can attest to this.
My gem ex husband and I were too different and it drove us apart. Ended very, very ugly.

Your best bet might be to move on and find another gal. Sorry. 😭

Am I the only one that finds this extremely awkward and creepy?
Jesus...
You hopeless romantics you

Posted by truecap
In my personal experience, Gem and Cap are not a good match. There are other caps that can attest to this.
My gem ex husband and I were too different and it drove us apart. Ended very, very ugly.

Your best bet might be to move on and find another gal. Sorry. 😭

hmmm i better pray her birth records are false and hope that she was not born in jan then :'

Posted by Geminems
Am I the only one that finds this extremely awkward and creepy?
Jesus...
You hopeless romantics you

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if romance is all about non verbal then i had the best possible one could ever had

thanx for your support Metoo
yes crush that is the term my friends describe my love


may be i proposed her too fast because i was forced to do that i was not able to eat or sleep
i knew she would say NO but still went ahead killed my love like a idiot

but later i was watching video recordings of that day we were in a program before my proposal

The speaker asked everyone to close their eyes 10 mins later when everyone was asked to open up she quickly opened her eyes
adjusted her seat and she saw me with her eyes full of love
my love came strongly I hated myself for trying to kill my love and ruining everything that day
I expected her to comeback and accept her love but she never did
I could not kill my love i tried to chase death even it did not like me just like her
Now i am trying for rebirth but again i cannot forget her i am going to make another try on DEC 5