
GypsyInChains
@GypsyInChains
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Posted by ForeverlovemeOver two months. All he wants to do is have sex basically. We don't go out anymore.
How long have you known him & how long ago did he say focus on friendship? What do dates consist of?



Posted by ForeverlovemeI mean I don't mind that. But I don't understand why he's upset?Posted by GypsyInChainsPosted by ForeverlovemeOver two months. All he wants to do is have sex basically. We don't go out anymore.
How long have you known him & how long ago did he say focus on friendship? What do dates consist of?
Doesn't sound good imo
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Posted by LibraLovesHimYou're probably right haha
Cap men want what they want and dont want others to highlight it lol, esp if it sounds bad/makes them look bad. They like to hold up that traditional straight laced guy image.

Posted by GypsyInChainsGreat manipulators, to keep you firmly focused on him. They dont like to share either, even if you are just fucking. Eyes on him only. It doesnt suit him to have a female that wanders.Posted by ForeverlovemeI mean I don't mind that. But I don't understand why he's upset?Posted by GypsyInChainsPosted by ForeverlovemeOver two months. All he wants to do is have sex basically. We don't go out anymore.
How long have you known him & how long ago did he say focus on friendship? What do dates consist of?
Doesn't sound good imo
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Posted by GypsyInChainsYouve highlighted that youre just fwb's, in his mind that could mean whos to say you dont have other(s) NO BUENO!Posted by ForeverlovemeI mean I don't mind that. But I don't understand why he's upset?Posted by GypsyInChainsPosted by ForeverlovemeOver two months. All he wants to do is have sex basically. We don't go out anymore.
How long have you known him & how long ago did he say focus on friendship? What do dates consist of?
Doesn't sound good imo
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Posted by LibraLovesHimTrue...normally I don't care for labels but that's the only way I see us. When I first met him in thought wow I want him all to myself. But I kinda felt friendzoned.. so I still like him and I guess I'm okay with that. How else am I supposed to think? No idea.Posted by GypsyInChainsYouve highlighted that youre just fwb's, in his mind that could mean whos to say you dont have other(s) NO BUENO!Posted by ForeverlovemeI mean I don't mind that. But I don't understand why he's upset?Posted by GypsyInChainsPosted by ForeverlovemeOver two months. All he wants to do is have sex basically. We don't go out anymore.
How long have you known him & how long ago did he say focus on friendship? What do dates consist of?
Doesn't sound good imo
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Posted by butterfly30Lack of self awareness is a common theme. Walk up to a Capricorn colleague and genuinely asked, "Hi! How are you feeling?" They'll look at you like a deer in headlights.
Well you are right in my opinion. Some caps men and my opinion is delusional. I think some can only accept the truth when it's only coming from there own mouth. Its like in relationships or some type of bond they come up with there own rules..like they do one thing but call it something else..Forexample I had a cap friend who said that he and this girl was just getting to know each other but turn around and move in with her..Then he told me noo they are just seeing eachother out..He give me all this logic bullshit but his action said something different. Then he told me months later that he like her but he taking it real slow because he don't no her that well ..A month later he bought her a ring..Then he came up with this logic that it wasn't a engagement ring it was a friendship ring because they got close..He give me a logic run down on that ..a month later he married. He told me that yes he married her because she's a great women but they still working on a friendship and closeness because he still don't know her..I told him to cut the bullshit...you are in love and you got married. I think they talk logic to make them feel safe..meanwhile the actions are the oposite. I seen this in afew caps. I have known.


Posted by ForeverlovemeExactly
He's upset because how you referred to him


Posted by Pandora101Yeah I guess. I wasn't trying to hurt him. I genuinely thought that's what he wanted us to be.Posted by ForeverlovemeExactly
He's upset because how you referred to him
I dont know, why people can be so insenstive and label others with this deragotary FWB nonsense term...... it is because of self-defence?
why would you insult people? if you cannot say something nice, then just be quiet.....
I can imagine how his Leo moon would be offended by your insensitivity....
even if thats a situation from your point of view, why use this term? just dont label each other
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Posted by ForeverlovemeNothing at all, honestly. He's pretty good in the bedroom but itd be nice to start over and focus on being closer.
What's wrong with him being a friend period without all the extra

Posted by LibraLovesHimEXACTLY. If his actions are demonstrating that he just wants sex and minimum effort and no meaning, then that is your truth. Dont let him try to deflect and pretend like it is something that it isnt.
Cap men want what they want and dont want others to highlight it lol, esp if it sounds bad/makes them look bad. They like to hold up that traditional straight laced guy image.


Posted by Pandora101Oh bullshit..what absolute shit..he would classify her the same..he's just mad she beat him to it. Its all ego.Posted by ForeverlovemeExactly
He's upset because how you referred to him
I dont know, why people can be so insenstive and label others with this deragotary FWB nonsense term...... it is because of self-defence?
why would you insult people? if you cannot say something nice, then just be quiet.....
I can imagine how his Leo moon would be offended by your insensitivity....
even if thats a situation from your point of view, why use this term? just dont label each other
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Posted by Jalent99How is your situation any similar if he said he just wanted to date and court you. Totally different circumstance here.
I think i was in a similar situation, and I said no to a fwb situation. He commented all he wanted was to continue going on dates. And he has been making efforts to meet for dinner or drinks and not back at the apt.
I dunno if my situation will eventually work out, but maybe you should let him know you want more and see how he acts on it.


Posted by malloryorCause I said all we are seems like fwb, if thats the case I m walking away, thats when he said he wanted dates....Posted by Jalent99How is your situation any similar if he said he just wanted to date and court you. Totally different circumstance here.
I think i was in a similar situation, and I said no to a fwb situation. He commented all he wanted was to continue going on dates. And he has been making efforts to meet for dinner or drinks and not back at the apt.
I dunno if my situation will eventually work out, but maybe you should let him know you want more and see how he acts on it.
But OP you should say "hey, if you dont like being referred to this then what are we, because it seems like this is only sex and nothing more."click to expand

Posted by DontWant2FitInactually, there is something what could fix his behaviour...... sleep with him and only with him..... they take time to admit their feelings..... I am sure he is not sleeping with anyobdy elsePosted by GypsyInChainsOh I missed this part. You had sex with him too soon. Nothing will fix his behavior he has you categorized but wont tell you to your face. He is keeping up his front to get laid again. If you want to land a cap man make him wait untilhe has taken you out of the friendzone.Posted by ForeverlovemeOver two months. All he wants to do is have sex basically. We don't go out anymore.
How long have you known him & how long ago did he say focus on friendship? What do dates consist of?
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Posted by malloryoror maybe not 🙂 mallory, you are now on a war-path.... not everybody is a scorp mars or aries moon.... and with leo pride.....Posted by Pandora101Oh bullshit..what absolute shit..he would classify her the same..he's just mad she beat him to it. Its all ego.Posted by ForeverlovemeExactly
He's upset because how you referred to him
I dont know, why people can be so insenstive and label others with this deragotary FWB nonsense term...... it is because of self-defence?
why would you insult people? if you cannot say something nice, then just be quiet.....
I can imagine how his Leo moon would be offended by your insensitivity....
even if thats a situation from your point of view, why use this term? just dont label each other
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Posted by DontWant2FitInmaybe the OP should suggest a date herself..... like not a date, but if they are prone to meet up, then go out and text him or call him, you just got to go out (some emergency) and now is sitting in a pub, with a drink, and he should meet you therePosted by Pandora101A woman would be fooling herself to continue sleeping with a man who doesn't take her out, spoil her and treated her like a woman should be treated. She can get sex anywhere but nothing is more satisfying than a man who wants the same thing you want and puts forth the effort without being pushed to.Posted by DontWant2FitInactually, there is something what could fix his behaviour...... sleep with him and only with him..... they take time to admit their feelings..... I am sure he is not sleeping with anyobdy elsePosted by GypsyInChainsOh I missed this part. You had sex with him too soon. Nothing will fix his behavior he has you categorized but wont tell you to your face. He is keeping up his front to get laid again. If you want to land a cap man make him wait untilhe has taken you out of the friendzone.Posted by ForeverlovemeOver two months. All he wants to do is have sex basically. We don't go out anymore.
How long have you known him & how long ago did he say focus on friendship? What do dates consist of?
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Posted by Pandora101There is no warpath and this has nothing to do with Leo pride or Aries Moondom. This is illusion vs reality and the reality is that this cappy has not made any effort to see the OP out of the bedroom. If he wanted more, he would of exemplified that through action, but instead he has shown through his action where his intentions rest.Posted by malloryoror maybe not 🙂 mallory, you are now on a war-path.... not everybody is a scorp mars or aries moon.... and with leo pride.....Posted by Pandora101Oh bullshit..what absolute shit..he would classify her the same..he's just mad she beat him to it. Its all ego.Posted by ForeverlovemeExactly
He's upset because how you referred to him
I dont know, why people can be so insenstive and label others with this deragotary FWB nonsense term...... it is because of self-defence?
why would you insult people? if you cannot say something nice, then just be quiet.....
I can imagine how his Leo moon would be offended by your insensitivity....
even if thats a situation from your point of view, why use this term? just dont label each other
some people are just reserved.... like cappys.... nothing will help then then consistency... (yes, maybe sometimes its good to call them on their behavior)
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Posted by malloryor+1Posted by Pandora101There is no warpath and this has nothing to do with Leo pride or Aries Moondom. This is illusion vs reality and the reality is that this cappy has not made any effort to see the OP out of the bedroom. If he wanted more, he would of exemplified that through action, but instead he has shown through his action where his intentions rest.Posted by malloryoror maybe not 🙂 mallory, you are now on a war-path.... not everybody is a scorp mars or aries moon.... and with leo pride.....Posted by Pandora101Oh bullshit..what absolute shit..he would classify her the same..he's just mad she beat him to it. Its all ego.Posted by ForeverlovemeExactly
He's upset because how you referred to him
I dont know, why people can be so insenstive and label others with this deragotary FWB nonsense term...... it is because of self-defence?
why would you insult people? if you cannot say something nice, then just be quiet.....
I can imagine how his Leo moon would be offended by your insensitivity....
even if thats a situation from your point of view, why use this term? just dont label each other
some people are just reserved.... like cappys.... nothing will help then then consistency... (yes, maybe sometimes its good to call them on their behavior)
It's absolute bs to then feel sorry for him, when the OP called it like it was. He's playing games instead of being clear. If he wants more he should do more, dont say one thing but then lead with a different action, especially when sex is involved. It's just plain cruel..
I applaud the OP for doing the exact opposite of what most females do on here, which is follow the approach of giving the man the benefit of doubt despite his actions showing them all.they need to know.
The guy is full of shit. And he cant stand that she beat him to the point of defining them so now he feels cheap. It's ego.click to expand


Posted by butterfly30do we know, if he (the OP´s cap) is sleeping with anybody else? if he has money for dates?
People already said this but he is full of shit. this is a guy that don't like the titles bullshit because it's not comin from his own mouth. It goes back to me talking about how i seen cap men say one thing but do the opposite. I think he don't want to label fwb because he don't want you looking anywhere else but he can still act that way. Action not lining up to what he actually doing. I going to be honest it all have to do with control. Like when I spoke about my friend he was still getting deep in a relationship but calling it a friendship. .or getting to know her. I have another cap homeboy that's married ..Told me he is not in love anymore with his wife but in September they are moving in a new house. When I ask him why are you buying a house when he been talking about planning for a divorce he told me it's because she want a house and how he tired of paying rent. In my opinion he is just too lonely to leave her but complain about being unhappy. He will never admit to it..but he sware down that he is unhappy ..planning a divorce..but buying him and he's wife a house. And he will give me a great speech on where his marriage stand now ..talking great logic by doing something totally different.
Posted by butterfly30Oh, Butterfly30! That's kinda crazy! But you've given me some a new perspective now. So they should call it 'A', till then it's not 'A', even if they feel so? OK... I understand this, but I don't know if this applies to the Cap I'm dealing with, or should I say frustrated with!?
Well you are right in my opinion. Some caps men and my opinion is delusional. I think some can only accept the truth when it's only coming from there own mouth. Its like in relationships or some type of bond they come up with there own rules..like they do one thing but call it something else..Forexample I had a cap friend who said that he and this girl was just getting to know each other but turn around and move in with her..Then he told me noo they are just seeing eachother out..He give me all this logic bullshit but his action said something different. Then he told me months later that he like her but he taking it real slow because he don't no her that well ..A month later he bought her a ring..Then he came up with this logic that it wasn't a engagement ring it was a friendship ring because they got close..He give me a logic run down on that ..a month later he married. He told me that yes he married her because she's a great women but they still working on a friendship and closeness because he still don't know her..I told him to cut the bullshit...you are in love and you got married. I think they talk logic to make them feel safe..meanwhile the actions are the oposite. I seen this in afew caps. I have known.

Posted by Pandora101No idea if he slept with someone else rather than just me.Posted by butterfly30do we know, if he (the OP´s cap) is sleeping with anybody else? if he has money for dates?
People already said this but he is full of shit. this is a guy that don't like the titles bullshit because it's not comin from his own mouth. It goes back to me talking about how i seen cap men say one thing but do the opposite. I think he don't want to label fwb because he don't want you looking anywhere else but he can still act that way. Action not lining up to what he actually doing. I going to be honest it all have to do with control. Like when I spoke about my friend he was still getting deep in a relationship but calling it a friendship. .or getting to know her. I have another cap homeboy that's married ..Told me he is not in love anymore with his wife but in September they are moving in a new house. When I ask him why are you buying a house when he been talking about planning for a divorce he told me it's because she want a house and how he tired of paying rent. In my opinion he is just too lonely to leave her but complain about being unhappy. He will never admit to it..but he sware down that he is unhappy ..planning a divorce..but buying him and he's wife a house. And he will give me a great speech on where his marriage stand now ..talking great logic by doing something totally different.
OP, come back and update please 🙂
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Posted by ExplicitPosted by butterfly30
Well you are right in my opinion. Some caps men and my opinion is delusional. I think some can only accept the truth when it's only coming from there own mouth. Its like in relationships or some type of bond they come up with there own rules..like they do one thing but call it something else..Forexample I had a cap friend who said that he and this girl was just getting to know each other but turn around and move in with her..Then he told me noo they are just seeing eachother out..He give me all this logic bullshit but his action said something different. Then he told me months later that he like her but he taking it real slow because he don't no her that well ..A month later he bought her a ring..Then he came up with this logic that it wasn't a engagement ring it was a friendship ring because they got close..He give me a logic run down on that ..a month later he married. He told me that yes he married her because she's a great women but they still working on a friendship and closeness because he still don't know her..I told him to cut the bullshit...you are in love and you got married. I think they talk logic to make them feel safe..meanwhile the actions are the oposite. I seen this in afew caps. I have known.
OMG THAT IS SO FUNNY!!! LOL!! I'M DEAD!!!
Next thing you know: *has a baby with her*
"I decided to impregnate her because we got super, duper close and I thought we could raise a child together."
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Posted by CAPLOCKISBACK
I swear alot of these threads about FWB Capricorn is a lie. Its almost never the Capricorn guy chasing but being chased. True story. Look at the thread history.
You claim that we want what we can't have. Trust me, when Capricorns really want something...they will certainly get it.
Also That's why a few of you girls are so pissed off here. You're pissed because Capricorns leave and don't look back.
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Apparently this man is offended because I referred to him as a fwb? But that's what we are though... not once did we ever talk relationships or possibilities but he said he wants to be friends first. So I assumed that's what he meant? We had one actual date everything else has been "chill".