Signed Up:
Jul 08, 2009Comments: 5 · Posts: 4081 · Topics: 4
Okay, not screaming, but close.. still Water... and aloof, reserved Caps require special handling with emotional Water girls. Caps are generally too cold and unemotional for us.
Signed Up:
Jul 08, 2009Comments: 5 · Posts: 4081 · Topics: 4
Okay.. fifth time a charm?
Honey.. he doesn't have the same feelings for you as you had for him. Men aren't THAT hard to get.. when they're into you, you KNOW, they DON'T let you forget it.
You didn't say, but I assume you were having sex with him.. because it's RARE for a woman to get THIS twisted up over a flirty little office romance that didn't turn physical. And now it HURTS that he's walked away so easily from you. I get it.
But all your emails and stuff to a guy who isn't interested in continuing a romance with you (now you're 5 hours away??).. well, it gets annoying. If he were interested in maintaining contact with you, he WOULD, make no mistake about that.
What's this guy's hold over you, anyway? There are plenty of men out there in the world, men not old enough to be your father, men who will have a real relationship with you and not ignore you. So why this one Cap in particular? he's just a man, honey.. not a god.. not even close.
I must agree with Nefer...he doesn't have any feelings for u...it was just a fling...the time was wrong, for both of u...and he moved on...u should do the same.
capy guys r warm when they r into u ...my former capy is still calling me and sending messages, after one year since we ended our relationship...
Thanks Nefer..I think you're absolutely right,
I have been reading messages dxpnet and that was my first time writing , I feel great,thanks again
At least I am not alone,getting over him was so hard,
sad but true,
he doesn't have any feelings for me,
I need to hear it
may be I can wait 1 month ,no message etc,
but I don't think anything will change
so I will send a 'how r you'then he will answer,I will be addicted again
I will feel guilty for sending emails to a man doesn't care about me
the best is forget him,also he is old
the one driving crazy at first was him, sending me lots of msg,calling me
came to see me every possible time,asked me whwt I was doing after work,meeting me at cafes expensive restaurants,also jealous of me from my friends
everthing that he made had only one reason,he wanted only a simple office romance,when things began to get serious,he ran away may be
then I became cold to him at the office,lots of gossip began,he didn't call me but curios about me ,came to see me,when he came,I went outside,I wanted to say 'if you want me,don't play games,don't afraid of what you want and know what you want '
but After I left the work,I couldn't be powerful anymore
don't waist your time, he will not be back...
if a capy cares about u he can listen to your bs and complaints and will try to convince u that is not as u feel it...try this, call him and explain what u feel/think...if he doesn't give any explanation and he is not willing to listen, then...forget about him...he doesn't want u!