Hi guys,
This is my first post here so please be gentle.
I have recently started talking to a Capricorn man. I am a Capricorn woman so I understand the personality traits, but he is defying everything I thought Caps were like.
He is always working (understandable trait), but he sometimes ignores me even when he is online. We have butted heads at times, because he is as strong willed as I am.
We started talking and he instantaneously started flirting with me. I was a bit taken aback, because at this stage he knew nothing about me. He asked me out on a date in the upcoming weeks, but he never initiates conversations with me. He is very good looking and he has a lot of females fan following him. I am very cautious and I am wondering if Capricorn males are usually this flirtatious with everyone?
As a Cap Woman I would never flirt with someone unless I knew I really liked him, but for men it seems to be different. Should I keep initiating conversations with him or should I just give him the cold shoulder and walk away?
Many thanks,
Confused Cappi
I'm not a capricorn but I completely understand what you're going through. [more answers await]...
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Dec 01, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 3848 · Topics: 46
It's still in the beginning stages, he doesn't really owe you anything. Go in cautiously, but also give benefit of doubt. I know a few Cap males, yes they attract a lot of females...and let's not forget that Cap females attract a lot of crushes themselves.
Just take it slow, and good luck on your date.
BTW: I'm a Cap who has never been with a cap male so take what I say lightly. I do have a cap male crushing on me right now though.
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Jan 15, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 1685 · Topics: 200
I have seen my Cap flirt when he was drinking heavily. His ego likes the thrill of knowing he can get a pretty girl or successful women. However, he hasn't cheated..he likes to know he can get them though, does this make sense? Granted, they do flirt back. He's hot and has a bad boy look like that females respond to.
When sober though, he is not flirty, to my knowledge. Maybe he's so regimented in daily life, the alcohol really makes him lose boundaries. Thankfully, he no longer drinks like he used to!
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Jan 15, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 1685 · Topics: 200
I don't think they flirt with everyone, just the good looking and successful ones. Caps are very picky afterall. If he is single, all bets are off.
I don't think he is interested in me and I have too much going on in my own life to be bothered with his mind games.
He takes no genuine interest in who I am as a person and is only flirty to boost his own ego I guess.
The conversations are short when its not flirty.
It is time to cut this Cap Man loose.