Capricorn Man: How to decipher their actions/feelings?

Posted by DeadInside

you have to go on dates with him, he has to assume you in public with him .

if you dont reach that step, nothing gonna change

Posted by ghostzin

Looks like he likes you but your cancer traits are keeping him on step back. Caps do not like carrying emotional baggage or talking excessively about family and emotions. They are practical.


Talk to him about current worldly situation and allow him to continue. Caps knows everything you be a good listener. Don't be a teddy bear and expect him to carry you everywhere he goes. Give him some space.


Remember: you are Water which makes you very family oriented whereas he is earth which makes him very practical.


One last thing. Cancer is the cry baby of zodiac. Don't cry too much. He might get annoyed!

Posted by KittenDunst

We don't have feelings.

Posted by tiki33

Unfortunately for you you're stuck in what I call an imaginary relationship. This happens when a man creates a firm boundary ie primarily physical relationship while YOU haven't set any boundaries to protect yourself from falling for an unavailable guy. In his mind he's made it clear it's primarily physical so he's free to give you parts and pieces of himself on his terms whereas you're falling into a relationship trap by being completely available with an open heart. You're adding meaning to these parts and pieces of himself that he shares with you. Now you're a year in and stuck. So it's really up to you to get clear about YOUR needs and desires for yourself because this isn't about him. What do you want? How do you feel about allowing yourself for whatever reason to be strung along? Why is his boundaries more important than your own boundaries? It may feel like you're making progress because of the time you've invested but unless you get clear on what you're doing you're going to end up very disappointed and hurt.

Posted by BlankForNowButYouKnowMe

Posted by KittenDunst

We don't have feelings.

We have feelings and emotions, but we’re smart enough to not get too attached.

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Posted by JohnsonvilleBrats

I know you had mentioned that you’re well put together. But a question you might ask yourself is this. What do you want from the relationship ? some people jump into relationships just as a source of happiness or substitute for whats lacking in their life.

Maybe they reach a certain age and see all their friends getting married. Maybe they get heart warming feelings around kids and want their own.

I think relationships should begin with friendships and spending time in each other’s presence should be enough. For some it’s not.

Last but not least, if you’re emotionally demanding, you might want to start looking else wear because for sure a Capricorn will disappoint you.

Posted by KittenDunst

We don't have feelings.

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by fullmoongirl

I need the Capricorn aficionados to break it down for me.

I've been seeing a Capricorn man for almost a year now. He doesn't text me often, usually it's so that I can come over. We see each other about 1-2 times a week. He has been plenty hurt in the past, especially with his 2nd ex-wife. He has told me he is not ready for a relationship right now and that he though that we had established that this was per his words "a primarily physical relationship"

In reading all the forums and online blogs, I've come to the conclusion that he does care for me but is hiding it all because he is not ready. But that just might be what I want to hear. I am an Cancerian, and we want emotions and all that. But with him I am just so cool with who he is. With giving him space, giving him time (not too long though), being the calm compassionate one in certain situations, etc..

So how do I know if he considers me as more or am I just a really great friend with benefits?

- I am always over at his house

- He shares with me his art, which he wants no one to really see and will never want to exhibition (Hes really good)

- He talks to me about his daughters, which he is super overprotective about.

- Recently hes been showing me pictures of his family or him in the past.

- He requests that I send him a text when I get home. If I don't he will text me and ask if I did. (I've only forgotten about 3 times when it was late and I was super sleepy)

- He has this weird thing about sleeping overnight cuz he has sleeping issues. I slept over once in the beginning. Hence me driving home late.

- He is straight silent or nonchalant and then can be crazy funny jokester with me.

- He tells me he's not sleeping with anyone else.

- We don't go out on dates, just always get dinner, eat at his place, or have fun in the pool.

- He's changed something in our sexual moments because I once made it known I wanted it that way.

We had a huge blow out last month, it ended by me telling him alot of emotional stuff and then to never contact me again. He had surgery a week after the argument. Then he sent me a texts first of why I didn't check up on him and for 3 weeks we randomly discussed the argument with in about 4 text messages. In one he told me he didn't think he could trust me. The whole thing was about miscommunication about one of the most important issue for him. He eventually let it go and messaged me when he got better and I went to see him. He started treating me a bit softer and I know there still is that line of trust we have with each other.

I want to summaries in my head that hes into me but his Capricorn tendency of control and withhold are at play so that he doesn't get hurt again. But he only plan messages me on his available days so that I can come over and we always end up having sex. Now I know he is very sexual and so am I. I can't be around him without having some lol. And he did say it was a primarily physical relationship. That primarily word tho feels like a loophole. Like its physical first but there is a second part to it.

Let me know what you guys think......

I think he likes you ...i am not sure you are able to understand him tho. Sounds like he was going thro a lot ..when you had your blow up. Its not just about a guy being there for you ...but you for him. Just love him. Give him all your love.

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Posted by KittenDunst

We don't have feelings.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by KittenDunst

We don't have feelings.

Wow! Except for yourself right?

And you love those who loves you...and if they don’t - you don’t...right?

Haha! He/she is full of butter.

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Posted by fullmoongirl

Posted by BlankForNowButYouKnowMe

Posted by KittenDunst

We don't have feelings.

We have feelings and emotions, but we’re smart enough to not get too attached.

I'm pretty sure my cappy has a pisces moon which would make him emotional but his cappy side reins in the goey feelings

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Posted by KittenDunst

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by KittenDunst

We don't have feelings.

Wow! Except for yourself right?

And you love those who loves you...and if they don’t - you don’t...right?

We are Lazy lovers.

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Posted by tiki33

Unfortunately for you you're stuck in what I call an imaginary relationship. This happens when a man creates a firm boundary ie primarily physical relationship while YOU haven't set any boundaries to protect yourself from falling for an unavailable guy. In his mind he's made it clear it's primarily physical so he's free to give you parts and pieces of himself on his terms whereas you're falling into a relationship trap by being completely available with an open heart. You're adding meaning to these parts and pieces of himself that he shares with you. Now you're a year in and stuck. So it's really up to you to get clear about YOUR needs and desires for yourself because this isn't about him. What do you want? How do you feel about allowing yourself for whatever reason to be strung along? Why is his boundaries more important than your own boundaries? It may feel like you're making progress because of the time you've invested but unless you get clear on what you're doing you're going to end up very disappointed and hurt.

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Posted by AneemA11

Posted by tiki33

Unfortunately for you you're stuck in what I call an imaginary relationship. This happens when a man creates a firm boundary ie primarily physical relationship while YOU haven't set any boundaries to protect yourself from falling for an unavailable guy. In his mind he's made it clear it's primarily physical so he's free to give you parts and pieces of himself on his terms whereas you're falling into a relationship trap by being completely available with an open heart. You're adding meaning to these parts and pieces of himself that he shares with you. Now you're a year in and stuck. So it's really up to you to get clear about YOUR needs and desires for yourself because this isn't about him. What do you want? How do you feel about allowing yourself for whatever reason to be strung along? Why is his boundaries more important than your own boundaries? It may feel like you're making progress because of the time you've invested but unless you get clear on what you're doing you're going to end up very disappointed and hurt.

Very viral, it is cannot be broken no more. Have The Creator in me, I am left blindfolded.

When she did unfold the facts, she is left with a stick on.

Casualties are in but that is what it takes if you are left blindfolded.

Still talking endlessly strangely out of subject with a wall ?

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