Posted by UnicornSagI would never enter a relationship with someone if I hadn't met them face to face. Seems insane to me.Posted by LadyNeptune
So did I read this correctly? You've never met face to face??
why is that weird? they're long distance if I understood well...
got pretty much same situation with Cap guy myself. Minus this ditching talkclick to expand
Posted by OCJackThe issue is people can very easily portray a version of themselves that isn’t true. Plus you tend to over romanticize who they are to fit the perfect mold in your mind.Posted by LadyNeptune
I would never enter a relationship with someone if I hadn't met them face to face. Seems insane to me.
That's pretty much everyone I dated before Melody. I don't see what the issue is per sey. If you are going to love someone, it's not going to be because of their face LOL. The ONLY thing you know online, is what the person's MIND looks like. Which is probably why I was drawn to online dating as much as I was. Until I tried dating in person and then I realized what I was missing in terms of PHYSICAL(touch, sex, etc.) It's a lot less hassle with a lot more benefits. The only reason I gave up on online dating.click to expand
Posted by UnicornSagWeve met twice before through mutual friends and flirted while he was in town and we developed a relationship through phone calls facetime and text however i think hes getting cold hooves. We spoke about me visiting or meeting at a vacation destination but i thought itd be a great idea to visit him and a gf that just had her first born. Thanks for responding!
It's Caps ditching season I see lol
well I didn't get ditched (yet) but sure feel like that's it. Long distance and other stuff, all pretty much the same...he even sounds like "my" Cap lol
You also wanted to go see that guy? Made plans or was just an idea?
Posted by alexa566Thank you!!! Just sucks bc ive closed my heart off for a long time (years) no dating and then finally when someone gets me, and totally was into me so much on the same levels of life...then all of the sudden winter is here and theyre like a blizzard . Maybe he is just too immature or not on the same spiritual level as i. Its a sign that i should just focus, prioritize on myself more and love myself even more. Long distance works only if the two are willing. I dont need to be physical but definitely spiritually physical if you know what i mean what doesnt kill me will only make me stronger and teach me what i am worth and what is best for me! Thank you for the kind words.×●×●!!!
Hi, dear Pisces sister... I'm sorry that this happened to you.. I know how you feel. I know that it hurts much more than what you made it seem like.
We Pisces tend to get too attached, way too quickly to people we fall for. And it's even harder when we fall for those who live far away. That lack of physical contact and presence of the other person can really get to you sometimes and can be really hard to endure, I know from personal experience...
I'm sure you've heard that long-distance relationships very rarely succeed, and it's true. Not to mention that sustaining such a relationship is very difficult to deal with emotionally.
Try to look for a Cancer or possibly a Taurus guy that lives not that far away from you. You'd be surprised how much of a difference it makes when you're able to be with the other person irl often..
Spiritual hugs
Posted by UnicornSagI used to live in chicago I am originally from Virginia and we met through a mutual friend of ours which is one of his best friends..he was one of my really good friends that I grew up with here in Virginia. I saw him before but didnt I remember years ago and he mentioned that we met before and we spoke about where and how then he proceeded to tell me that he liked me more more everyday as we were speaking through text after a wedding that we once again met each other... which was the wedding of that mutual friend of ours... it's been about 2 months that we were talking but he seems to be going through a lot of hard work related issues atm...and then cut me off.🤐Posted by alexa566
Hi, dear Pisces sister... I'm sorry that this happened to you.. I know how you feel. I know that it hurts much more than what you made it seem like.
We Pisces tend to get too attached, way too quickly to people we fall for. And it's even harder when we fall for those who live far away. That lack of physical contact and presence of the other person can really get to you sometimes and can be really hard to endure, I know from personal experience...
I'm sure you've heard that long-distance relationships very rarely succeed, and it's true. Not to mention that sustaining such a relationship is very difficult to deal with emotionally.
Try to look for a Cancer or possibly a Taurus guy that lives not that far away from you. You'd be surprised how much of a difference it makes when you're able to be with the other person irl often..
Spiritual hugs
Now I know why I feel very similar to that...it's my Pisces ASC affecting me to relate a lot to this :/
And my ever optimistic Sag never sees distance as obstacle, specially thinking of all people who made it through rough times in distance before they finally got together.
Now I'm curious for OP, how far away were you from each other? Had seen each other in person before or not? Why it is so easy to get attached to some people even when it's just an online thing, makes me wonder sometime...click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneWe have. Lol 😁
So did I read this correctly? You've never met face to face??
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by UnicornSagI would never enter a relationship with someone if I hadn't met them face to face. Seems insane to me.Posted by LadyNeptune
So did I read this correctly? You've never met face to face??
why is that weird? they're long distance if I understood well...
got pretty much same situation with Cap guy myself. Minus this ditching talkclick to expand
Posted by HaziiFloThank you ♡
I'm really sorry OP, it is odd to say I felt the pain in their convo from her part? I would be torn