Capricorn man said to become something else ...
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by mika7 on Saturday, July 13, 2013 and has 4 replies.
Because i dont want to be intimate with him ,yet.
First of all,sorry for my English ,not my native language.
Meet this guy ,online in January,chatted online for 2 weeks and agreed to meet.
Was a nice date(iam a Virgo),but he was quite intrusive?-he held my hand when we met,like in the next 3 minutes when he saw me.
We had a walk,was quite romantic ,snowing in the park ,we talked, we seemed to have common interests.
We went to drink a tea and he started to be a bit to touchy for my liking(like petting,caressing my hair,etc).Of course i didnt reciprocated(i was kind of shocked,to be honest).So,i didnt call or anything,it didnt seemed right to do that ,he called me in 3 days,asking why i didnt call,i said i think is better to be friends,but in a jokingly way.Second date,after 2 weeks(same story;him being touchy,me being coy-is just the way iam,not games.
More dates,probably like 10 ,by now-him asking every time to go somewhere together like for at least 2 days,me saying again i cant do that,iam a well behaved person(honestly i didnt think i could trust him with all my heart),due his testing and secretiveness.
He was testing me ,plenty,plenty of times.
Anyhow ,2 days ago , he is asking me to go to seaside,for 1 week(i said i might start my new job,i dont know exactly the date,so unsure,yet,but iam willing to go for a week-end,but to rent other room(we didnt have sex yet).
He doesnt open easily,he call like 1 or 2 times per week,when we met usually feels like heaven-kissing hands,very gentlemanly,but i can feel he has a hard time to open,emotionally.
So,dilema-he doesnt open,i dont open because he doesnt open-((its like the dog,chasing the tale).
He ask every time when we meet to get a bit more intimate(but saying in a very gentlemanly,jokingly way,its like me having to guess what was that topic about).Iam saying every time iam not ready yet,in a jokingly way ,also(but quite serious,kind of).
So my question is-its a bad idea to not give in?i might loose him?He said we could talk on the phone and be something else,but he didnt say what.I think he grows a bit frustrated,but due me not having trust like 100 procent in him(i didnt developed yet,i want more talk from his side,more calls,etc,to let my walls down).
Sorry for my english,hopefully you did understand something from my story:is basically,a capricorn man leaves if he doesnt get sex,knowing iam not ready yet for this step?or he is willing to wait to become more emotionally attached
First of all,sorry for my English ,not my native language.
Meet this guy ,online in January,chatted online for 2 weeks and agreed to meet.
Was a nice date(iam a Virgo),but he was quite intrusive?-he held my hand when we met,like in the next 3 minutes when he saw me.
We had a walk,was quite romantic ,snowing in the park ,we talked, we seemed to have common interests.
We went to drink a tea and he started to be a bit to touchy for my liking(like petting,caressing my hair,etc).Of course i didnt reciprocated(i was kind of shocked,to be honest).So,i didnt call or anything,it didnt seemed right to do that ,he called me in 3 days,asking why i didnt call,i said i think is better to be friends,but in a jokingly way.Second date,after 2 weeks(same story;him being touchy,me being coy-is just the way iam,not games.
More dates,probably like 10 ,by now-him asking every time to go somewhere together like for at least 2 days,me saying again i cant do that,iam a well behaved person(honestly i didnt think i could trust him with all my heart),due his testing and secretiveness.
He was testing me ,plenty,plenty of times.
Anyhow ,2 days ago , he is asking me to go to seaside,for 1 week(i said i might start my new job,i dont know exactly the date,so unsure,yet,but iam willing to go for a week-end,but to rent other room(we didnt have sex yet).
He doesnt open easily,he call like 1 or 2 times per week,when we met usually feels like heaven-kissing hands,very gentlemanly,but i can feel he has a hard time to open,emotionally.
So,dilema-he doesnt open,i dont open because he doesnt open-((its like the dog,chasing the tale).
He ask every time when we meet to get a bit more intimate(but saying in a very gentlemanly,jokingly way,its like me having to guess what was that topic about).Iam saying every time iam not ready yet,in a jokingly way ,also(but quite serious,kind of).
So my question is-its a bad idea to not give in?i might loose him?He said we could talk on the phone and be something else,but he didnt say what.I think he grows a bit frustrated,but due me not having trust like 100 procent in him(i didnt developed yet,i want more talk from his side,more calls,etc,to let my walls down).
Sorry for my english,hopefully you did understand something from my story:is basically,a capricorn man leaves if he doesnt get sex,knowing iam not ready yet for this step?or he is willing to wait to become more emotionally attached
Hold your ground and be true to yourself. It's only been ten dates and you really don't know him that well so its your right to hold off. That three date rule where men expect sex on the third date is absurd!!! Don't do it til you're ready! It may or may not work out with him, but I promise you one thing, you will always have your self respect and he will always respect you.
Thanks for the comments.
He didnt contact me for about 1 week now,so probabably he doesnt think at me anymore.
I should swallow my pride and forget about him.
I didnt think someone keeps in contact for 6 months ,just for the thrill of getting laid.
I thought after 1 or 2 months the players just give up.
It hurts a bit ,but what can i do?just to move on..
He didnt contact me for about 1 week now,so probabably he doesnt think at me anymore.
I should swallow my pride and forget about him.
I didnt think someone keeps in contact for 6 months ,just for the thrill of getting laid.
I thought after 1 or 2 months the players just give up.
It hurts a bit ,but what can i do?just to move on..
@capinc-what do you mean?
Anyway i saw him dancing salsa(by chance) and he is good.
Hmm,such an reserved person to be such a good dancer and not saying anything about it...
The cheesy song ,,I saw you dancing..,, comes to my mind..-)
Anyway i saw him dancing salsa(by chance) and he is good.
Hmm,such an reserved person to be such a good dancer and not saying anything about it...
The cheesy song ,,I saw you dancing..,, comes to my mind..-)
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