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Dec 19, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 618 · Topics: 44
I??m a Leo woman that has been in a long distant relationship with a Capricorn man for close to 4 years now. He also has a long distant relationship with his girlfriend but always keep it a secret from me. He finally told me after 9 months into our relationship. I fell madly in love with him and I always sense he had the same feelings for me. When we were together it was always memorable. The way he touches me and caress me was just mind blowing. He's been my soul mate mentally and physically. At 1st I always 2nd guess his love and felt a void in our relationship because he would never verbally express his feelings towards me. Since the Leo is a king of the jungle we had our ups and downs. Recently I learned all about a Capricorn man??_. Cautions about falling in love, not verbally expressive and very patient. Now our relationship has been going pretty smooth. Recently he started showing me he really cares about me more a more everyday. We been seeing each other a lot more often and he finally tells me he love me. My question is do you think he always felt this way about me or he just feels more secure to reveal it now?
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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
He must be married. This doesnt really make sense.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Is he still with the girlfriend?
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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
I know for a fact that if you were exclusive with someone you wouldn't appreciate another woman with the same mentality that you currently have. In fact, you admit your fears about him cheating here. If he's "available" as you say, then why do you fear him cheating on you? You've just wanted what you want these four years, and forget everyone else and their feelings. You've flipped your ways to the point where it makes sense to you. And he's no better, but if that's what you like then what more can I say, but that the two of you deserve each-other. If wasting time is what you get off to, then carry on... "I Love You" after 4yrs? Wow. You know you can do better.
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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
You're BACK??
What happened to the ring that you bragged about? I thought he expressed such feelings then, too?
Why are you still playing second fiddle to this guy?
Does this mean we're going to see another slew of threads about this guy for 9 months again? :/
Who knows if he meant it. He sounds like a tool.
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Jun 22, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 2346 · Topics: 71
Settling for crumbs instead of striving for a full meal.
Sad.
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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
I thought I was the only one thinking that none of this makes any sense whatsoever.
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Dec 19, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 618 · Topics: 44
There's so much negativity here. If every one were perfect and living a righteous life they wouldn't need to be on here. That's why I stop being on this forum in the 1st place. The truth is no one knows exactly everything that goes on in people relationship. Majority of us post 50% and don't tell the real truth. I tell any and everything regardless of what people think of me. I'm not needy, selfish or any other horrible thing that people are saying about me.
I have been intimate with this man for close to 4 years, with a year of being apart physically. I spent countless hours talking to him over the 4 years and I know him better than anyone on this forum. I have the necessary information to write a book about him if I choose to. I don't mind hearing some negative things because that??s life. But not everything is always negative. For the people that are negative all the time take a look in the mirror.
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Dec 19, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 618 · Topics: 44
The next topic I post will be a reality check for everyone. Don??t post anything if your not sincere and truthful.
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Nov 04, 2005Comments: 233 · Posts: 8226 · Topics: 348
this is silly.
ldrs are silly.
going back and forth between feeling confident that he loves you and then questioning it in the title of this thread is silly.
dating men who have girlfriends is silly.
putting up with any of this for 4 yrs is very silly.
asking this question in this scenario and then questioning a board of capricorns and their sincerity and truthfulness is ridiculous.
it seems like you are only wanting to hear what you want to hear. period. in fact, it's prob how you wound up in any of this.
my advice... don't be silly.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Faith, in my opinion, dump the loser and find someone else. You can do better. You deserve better!!!! Life is too short to waste this many years on his inconsistency and lack of commitment. How's THAT for an honest answer?
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May 02, 2012Comments: 11 · Posts: 1836 · Topics: 72
I debated whether or not to post here for some time. I am not the most tactful individual but I try. I am going to talk to you from 4 different perspectives.
I am a Leo also with a Capricorn.
1.Woman to Woman- 40 is too old to be a jump off and 4 years is way too long to be one.
2.Leo to Leo- Are you for real... we are way too fly to be sitting on the bench talking about "put me in coach"
3.Leo woman with a Cap Man to Leo woman with a Cap man- You know he doesn't but you want us to tell you he does. Maybe you do love him. I love fast and hard.
4.Ex Fool to Current Fool- You will one day realize, you can and do deserve better. Until you do make him wear a condom. I doubt you are the only side piece.
I think I read that you live in NY. With a population of 8 million at least 2 million have to be men and at least half of them are single. I would have a different date every night of the week and an outfit to match but hey thats just me.
You need a Virgo in your life. He/She would get you together real quick.
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Dec 22, 2009Comments: 438 · Posts: 33721 · Topics: 241
Attention Whore; def:
A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
1.is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
2.interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
3.displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
4.consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
5.has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
6.shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
7.is suggestible, i.e., easily influenced by others or circumstances
8.considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are.
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Dec 19, 2009Comments: 1 · Posts: 618 · Topics: 44
All the women here seeking relationship advice about a Capricorn man and they all can be cheating or have a girlfriend. Correct? My story is no different from everybody else. My Capricorn friend has some of the same tendencies as you all. We just have an open and honest relationship now. My mind it at ease since I know the real truth. When we 1st started seeing each other he supposedly didn??t have a girlfriend and everything was a big mess. To me honesty goes a long way!!! Everything I read in this forum sound similar to my cap friend. For all the women that are in a relationship with a cap man DID YOU EVER WAKE UP AND THINK HE WAS CHEATING ON YOU? OR YOU WERE THE OTHER WOMEN? I would like to hear honest answers from everybody. This is not about me no more.