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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
Capricorns are very moody. My mother dated a Cap and she would joke that he would be in a good mood, laughing and joking, and he could do something as simple as walk into the restroom and come out, within minutes, like he was mad at the world LoL.
I struggle at work everday with different mood swings, riding all types of emotional rollercoasters for no specific reason at all. I be sitting there alone laughing to myself one minute, then tears forming the next.
Unfortunately its just something you will have to deal with if you really like him.
What would I like? I don't know if he is just like this, or like this to me... Most often common courtesy prevails. But sometimes it takes two days to return a text. Goes several days without communicating. This, to me, is just rude. Capricorn rude, or rude to me? It's not really moodiness..is he just not that into me or a typical capricorn? I know cap women( mom and best friend) but NO cap men!! I have been reading up on them though...I give him space, don't question or complain ( too soon) but he pulls a disappearance, then "blah blah ...don't be angry with me.." He is 50 years old but acts like a silly boy.I CANNOT read him, my instinct tells me he is no good for me, but I have never wanted anyone more. Hence the sickness,weakness.
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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
My yes is yes and no is no. I'm not sure what that is about. And as far as him, I agree that he should atleast call daily if the two of you are serious. That, imo, is rude.
It seems though that you are approaching him as a puzzle, and when I read posts like these, I get the impression that the puzzle will be boxed and put away when solved.
Maybe its a scorpio thing, but I've never been interested in trying to figure someone out. That's impossible to do with anyone, not just a Cap imho. If that's what is driving your interest in him or this relationship then its probably best that you step back, especially if your gut is telling you he's no good for you.
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Dec 01, 2005Comments: 11 · Posts: 1565 · Topics: 18
1111, off topic: is that you birth date?
On topic: Leave him alone. Let him miss you. No games, just life -- and yours goes on.
You don't need his approval or a relationship with him. Get what you want or remain alone until you do. He is not the only man out here or the only thing in your life.
November 11, yes..you are right. If he cared, I doubt I could keep him away.
if i havent hit a woman up it either means i just dont feel like hitting her up. meaning at the moment though i like you i just dont feel like talking much right now and if i hit you up i know your gonna wanna talk talk and talk or they either did something to make me question their motive and potential
1111, I know a cap who is exactly the same way, and I feel exactly like you do -- I think it is RUDE. I'm a cancer and can have mood swings also, but if he texts me, I return it as soon as I see it. He was extremely attentive at first and if I didn't answer him right away he was asking me where I went, did I go to bed, etc. I've confronted him several times and all he can say is that he likes talking to me and wants to stay in touch with me... it's funny though, on blackberry messenger you can see when someone has read your messages. He'll read them and not reply. Honestly, I find it extremely annoying. I confronted him again this morning and when he replied I was busy at work... and guess what, he got annoyed that I didn't reply right away. Double standard???
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Oct 26, 2010Comments: 14 · Posts: 381 · Topics: 12
Personally, I hate texting. My cappy will text and I send something completely off the wall...
Cappy: GM! How was your meeting?
Me: Hey you...meeting blah! I was thinking about that CD collection of yours, will you categorize and alphabetize for me so I can peruse much quicker...maybe even a typed out index is in order. Have a great day.
Cappy: That's easy, everything will be under W for who cares. I'll call you or swing by tonite.
And that's how I get him to come see me or call me...screw that texting crap!
We are all hurt people...damaged is another story, damaged just cannot get over it AND as u say, damage others.
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I was also told....
"texting is a very powerful tool. you can say a couple words that leaves a person in a complete tailspin for an entire day. you can change a point of view, an opinion, leave someone thinking, end something, begin something....all with a couple words. Then you can sit back and watch them run in circles. It can be quite amusing."
Yes,yes,yes....