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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Caps are very, very guarded. It takes a while to relax and open up. Push it and we shut down. We have to trust first and we have to have a base to build on.
Of course, I can't speak for every cap, but I think the majority would agree.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
In the beginning?
Time. Time is valuable. So if I spend my time with you, then you are important.
Response. If you reach out and I respond timely, then you are important.
Touch. If I touch you, I like you.
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Jan 22, 2014Comments: 75 · Posts: 5976 · Topics: 662
Trucap basically has it all cover.
Normally, yes, we're guarded.
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Dec 27, 2013Comments: 15 · Posts: 2575 · Topics: 9
We are natural skeptics.
I always look for, and notice first, red flags, and negative traits.
I'll look for your positives AFTER I have determined if your negatives are something I'm prepared to deal with.
Thanks for the advice guys, I really like this Capricorn, so if he needs some time before he talks about his emotions im okay with that, as long as I'm reassured he still likes me and wants this going somewhere!
From other chats we've had I think the reason he's closed off with emotions is because he's had a few relationships and been hurt in them, so a natural reaction is to protect yourself I guess!
Yep sounds about right, he is also German so very much no bullshit.
His response the only time I've asked
'I don't want to talk about my emotions and feelings'
Message received!
But I can tell from things he's told me and how he is as a person hes doing exactly what you said @canbelo , self preservation.
I am cappie and I hardly ever talk about my feelings with any of my family! Why should I? My feelings are mine not theirs. If I can't fix it myself there's nothing they can do about it. Period.
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Apr 01, 2012Comments: 1 · Posts: 294 · Topics: 16
Also cappies are about action. Some are never truly able to open up and verbalize how they feel. I trust actions over words. So if he acts very "deep" you can believe you are the only one and he sees a future with you