Posted by MPosted by kenyabobbydo
Whenever I text my cap and tell him how much I love him and how great he is,he just ignores and doesn't respond back and I kinda get offended :-/but when I'm all cold and answer him with one word answers he opens up and talks.why is that caps???
Are you miffed because he isn't acknowledging you?
To answer the question - One person does the talking. When you are quiet it creates a space to be filled. And vice versa.
Posted by kenyabobbydo
I agree with all of you guys.I don't want to hear an I love you back or w.e.I'm just always telling him how great he is because he has low self esteem and i want him to know that I love him and have feelings for him.I keep wanting to prove to him that he means the world to me,not because I want him to prove it back but because I don't want to lose him
Frequency can influence meaning. Try pacing yourself by tacking onto the end of the conversation for the day. Try putting it in a not so charged way either, with positive greetings that represent how close you two are.
Do not do any of this to prove anything...chances are it will backfire. The proof is in the pudding, and it doesn't need frills or excess to be picked up on. This isn't being cold, unless you are someone who is trying to be closer than we want you.click to expand
Posted by kenyabobbydo
I agree with all of you guys.I don't want to hear an I love you back or w.e.I'm just always telling him how great he is because he has low self esteem and i want him to know that I love him and have feelings for him.I keep wanting to prove to him that he means the world to me,not because I want him to prove it back but because I don't want to lose him
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