Capricorn Men please answer: Disappearing Capricorn
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Violet77 on Monday, June 5, 2017 and has 3 replies.
Hello,
I have a question I really need answered, I can’t get over it, and need closure. I would prefer a Capricorn man to answer this…if possible.
I had a Capricorn man who was obsessed with me. Every morning I saw him (he worked in my building), I could see it in his eyes that he was attracted to me, he would undress me with his eyes and man we had INTENSE eye contact and this went on for months before he ever said something to me. He didn’t have to say anything for me to tell how he felt, it was very romantic. I found this so amazing I never felt or experienced anything like it yet I played shy, I was in a relationship at the time also.
So, this went on for six months and he finally asked me for my number. I told him no and it was because of personal reasons. As they say the Capricorn man will never give up and keep going until they get what they want. The second time around he had his number written down for me and handed it to me. I was shocked, yet impressed and took it and took a little while to text him. When I finally did, he told me how beautiful I was everyday, he would check on me asking how was work a lot, and even offered to take me on dates. At he beginning, it seemed very casual, he was taking the friendly route which I really liked and everyday he never failed to text or contact me. Eventually, it started to turn sexual, which I was not trying to steer the conversation that way because I know Capricorn men are slow with that and don’t like women who present themselves in that way. I tried to steer it back to a friendly conversation but he just went all out about his desires and fantasies about me and the things he wanted to do to me I was VERY surprised (I thought Caps move slow?). So I opened up to him very sexually I was very turned on and couldn’t take it anymore, and nor could he. *sigh
Eventually, I suggested that we meet up and make out since that’s what he kept begging me to do everyday. I assumed, ok he doesn’t want a relationship I felt bad because I actually really began to like him and didn’t want to move to fast. We met up and made out and all that but didn’t have sex. He seemed very cautious and shy and I thought it was so adorable, it was very passionate. After that meetup, I never heard from him AGAIN and he doesn’t work in my building anymore. A week had passed and nothing. I don’t get it, he was the one bringing up sex the entire time. I also found out the number he gave me wasn’t his true number, it was a app or something. I got really upset and blocked it because I was scared, I wasn’t sure if I got “played” or “rejected” or if I would ever hear from him again wtf, and now I will never know.
I would like to know why this happened and what I should do? I know it may be too late, honestly I don’t know if I should try contacting him again or why he withdrew himself from me.
I have a question I really need answered, I can’t get over it, and need closure. I would prefer a Capricorn man to answer this…if possible.
I had a Capricorn man who was obsessed with me. Every morning I saw him (he worked in my building), I could see it in his eyes that he was attracted to me, he would undress me with his eyes and man we had INTENSE eye contact and this went on for months before he ever said something to me. He didn’t have to say anything for me to tell how he felt, it was very romantic. I found this so amazing I never felt or experienced anything like it yet I played shy, I was in a relationship at the time also.
So, this went on for six months and he finally asked me for my number. I told him no and it was because of personal reasons. As they say the Capricorn man will never give up and keep going until they get what they want. The second time around he had his number written down for me and handed it to me. I was shocked, yet impressed and took it and took a little while to text him. When I finally did, he told me how beautiful I was everyday, he would check on me asking how was work a lot, and even offered to take me on dates. At he beginning, it seemed very casual, he was taking the friendly route which I really liked and everyday he never failed to text or contact me. Eventually, it started to turn sexual, which I was not trying to steer the conversation that way because I know Capricorn men are slow with that and don’t like women who present themselves in that way. I tried to steer it back to a friendly conversation but he just went all out about his desires and fantasies about me and the things he wanted to do to me I was VERY surprised (I thought Caps move slow?). So I opened up to him very sexually I was very turned on and couldn’t take it anymore, and nor could he. *sigh
Eventually, I suggested that we meet up and make out since that’s what he kept begging me to do everyday. I assumed, ok he doesn’t want a relationship I felt bad because I actually really began to like him and didn’t want to move to fast. We met up and made out and all that but didn’t have sex. He seemed very cautious and shy and I thought it was so adorable, it was very passionate. After that meetup, I never heard from him AGAIN and he doesn’t work in my building anymore. A week had passed and nothing. I don’t get it, he was the one bringing up sex the entire time. I also found out the number he gave me wasn’t his true number, it was a app or something. I got really upset and blocked it because I was scared, I wasn’t sure if I got “played” or “rejected” or if I would ever hear from him again wtf, and now I will never know.
I would like to know why this happened and what I should do? I know it may be too late, honestly I don’t know if I should try contacting him again or why he withdrew himself from me.
Text him. Just say hi to see if he responds. Some boys just like the chase, not the catch.
I did text him, he said nothing. After that, I blocked his number in fear of getting hurt. I wonder if it's to late, don't want to try again and the same thing happens, guess I should just go by my gut.
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