Capricorn men... why are you so hard to shake lol

Posted by WoundedLeo
Capricorn men... why are you so hard to shake? I ask myself this very question most every day. I have never known any other sign to burrow their way into your heart so well and so permanently.

Posted by WoundedLeo
Capricorn men... why are you so hard to shake? I ask myself this very question most every day. I have never known any other sign to burrow their way into your heart so well and so permanently.

Posted by capinc
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Posted by SamCancerGirl
They enjoy the chase, but get freaked out when u get too emotional. Caps have a way of cultivating your heart even when they are distant

Posted by Tini

Posted by SamCancerGirl
They enjoy the chase, but get freaked out when u get too emotional. Caps have a way of cultivating your heart even when they are distant

Honestly Im not too sure if im even giving him a chase whenever I see him he gets all bright and friendly its hard to resist hell even when he is quiet hes hard to resist haha but I do know how to give him his "space" I start to crack after 3/4 weeks though

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Posted by StillWater
if u come from a more logical and confident position... you'll get a lot further

but emotion, and i-need-you-to-care attitude just makes us feel shitty bcz we feel like why don't u trust me, since those feelings come from a place of self-doubt.

We always want to be trusting and caring in ur eyes. It's kind of hard to explain. It's some reverse psychology shit. Because when people act that way with me...i feel shitty about myself like "why r u even doubting me? eeww I gotta run away now"

Posted by cowpuncher

Posted by Tini
@Samcancergirl Its really no secret... maybe a little self control (sound familiar?) im usually busy at work and too sleepy at night to even call so it balances out for the most part

Use something that would normally be a big hindrance as a big advantage. That's something we can spot and identify with very well, it's how we try to approach problems much of the time.

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Posted by cowpuncher
Using a hindrance as an advantage? It's a matter of shifted perspective madam, and using what you have available to work with.

In this lady's case, she is interested in this guy, and wants to move a LOT faster than he does. However, it's not just a case of him being busy, she mentioned that she's pretty busy as well. Now, if she's set her heart on a fairly cagey, cautious Cap... this actually helps her out in a few ways:

1) She's probably too busy to be blowing up his phone with text messages, or dropping in on him unannounced - two sure fire ways to spook a Cap male early on, or at least annoy him.

2) While it sucks to be so busy on both sides, IF she can get him to a point where he makes time for her... that's a good indication of solid interest. When time is precious, you don't waste it. Same as money. Any fool with a pile of money can spend spend spend and buy you gifts, but how will you know if they really come from the heart, something he really wants to give you for the right reasons? Likewise, when money is tight, and someone in that position gives you a gift, you have a pretty good indication that it was heartfelt, and they really wanted you to have that gift. Same goes for going to the effort to make time in a busy schedule to be with you. We can be even more miserly with time than we are with money, when busy.

3) Both being busy means they'll *both* have to go to some effort to make time. If he's any kind of good guy, he'll see her going to the same effort he does to do that, and it will reflect very well on her to him, and convince him that her interest is genuine as well. That works both ways. Seeing that your partner, or potential partner, is going to equal effort in any relationship - even one just tentatively budding - is something that can't help but build trust. We pay an excruciating amount of attention to that sort of thing when we're trying to build that trust, even when you think we aren't. IF.. .he's really interested in more than sex, that is.

4) when something is in short supply, and you find very resourceful ways around that shortage, we take BIG notice of that. Resourcefulness is something we pride ourselves on, and place strong value on when we see it in someone else.

There are just a few examples right off the top of my head. Suitable answer or not quite what you were after Sam? (If you're the

Posted by cowpuncher
Using a hindrance as an advantage? It's a matter of shifted perspective madam, and using what you have available to work with.

In this lady's case, she is interested in this guy, and wants to move a LOT faster than he does. However, it's not just a case of him being busy, she mentioned that she's pretty busy as well. Now, if she's set her heart on a fairly cagey, cautious Cap... this actually helps her out in a few ways:

1) She's probably too busy to be blowing up his phone with text messages, or dropping in on him unannounced - two sure fire ways to spook a Cap male early on, or at least annoy him.

2) While it sucks to be so busy on both sides, IF she can get him to a point where he makes time for her... that's a good indication of solid interest. When time is

There are just a few examples right off the top of my head. Suitable answer or not quite what you were after Sam? (If you're the Cancer I vaguely remember I thought it was a terrible shame you and your Cap didn't work o

Thanks for the detailed reply CP!

My capi decided to come back around although it took a while to come out his alone space.
Eventually he got in touch through gentle coaxing.
He recently told me hes being made redundant at work. He reached out to let me know.
The thing is I realise work is extremly important to caps n needs to be seen as the provider but now it's going
To be even harder with the added stress of looking for a new role and interviews and impressing the new boss

It doesn't leave any time for me...

Posted by cowpuncher
Sam, my merc in sag is killing you dear. 🙂 You can't quote that big long post without chopping off your response... gonna have to trim it or just make a separate post.

Posted by cowpuncher
Also note - A lot of that "going slow, building trust" stuff I recommended for the OP isn't necessarily just about doing things at our slow plodding pace for our fussy, glacial benefit. It's about teaching HIM her value as well. Hence the need for earning that trust to be a mutual thing, and refraining from naked nocturnal recreation for a while. Fair is fair, and that all has to work both ways to actually work out. It's not always in our favor as Cap men, but it's how we learn you are a woman of value who isn't going to run off with 90% of our net worth, our heart, dignity, and our puppy someday in the future. 🙂 .

Posted by cowpuncher
Sam - When things aren't going well for me with my job, I do tend to become a hermit. Most of us do I think. A Cap male (and the gals too) tie up a lot of their self-worth to their job performance and stability. When that's not going well, we withdraw, focus on little else, and I think we feel like we need job stability
Good luck with him 🙂 Be supportive, and a safe, stable place for him, and I bet he makes what time he can for you.

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Posted by capinc
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This isnt the case sadly lmao

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