capricorn moon

Does anyone else here have a Cap moon? I'm Aquarius sun, Cap moon.....easier a bit to deal with now that I am more knowledgable about astrology, but still most of the time it can cause a lot of inner problems! Plus I'm Libra rising....hah

HOw exactly does your moon make your life difficult? isnt you who is in control of your own emotions? lol

I didnt ask you to copy and paste something from another website, I asked for your opinion.

Oh Ali, why did you hide your post? To respond, he would have been receptive to your opinion and personal perception of how your moon influences YOU and why you think it makes your life difficult. The fact you copy and pasted from another website some Cap traits suggests that you have not given much thought to how your moon shapes you as a person as a whole (or, maybe you just can't think independently for yourself *shrugs*).

yeah I feel the same as AliCar15, pretty much. I feel like I appear emotionally cold and it makes me feel really bad, especially in personal relationships/friendships because I care so deeply about my friends and boyfriend and family...especially when I'm very annoyed or angry and will state how I feel directly, without tact [I also have an Aquarius Mercury], I've been told many times that I'm mean when I get like that. I spend most of my life going through the Cappy repression, stuffing all of my negative feelings so deep down because I don't want to get on the bad side of anyone I know. but then I blow, and wreck friendships, generally make a mess of things. It's not easy to deal with, but at the same time I am who I am and when I blow it's about things I feel intense about......I also will very easily enter friendships with poeple but in the end most of them fall apart because I can't really deal with most of the things that people say or do....I really hate being so judgmental at times, and also so sensitive to things that people say or do. I have social anxiety, to say the least. And it sucks because I do need to have friends in my life in order for me to feel like I am living a full and good life, you know? It's lonely without people around....and my anxiety can get so crippling and I've had issues with depression, low self-esteen, etc., and it made it very hard to go through university [I did get my degree somehow, amazingly enough], and sometimes just causes a lot of problems in my daily life which make it hard to get through my work day sometimes because of all the anxiety and thoughts I keep inside. luckily i have a really good work friend who understands everything and I can open up and talk to her and she's a great friend who helps me a lot.

it definitely is mentally taxing, alicar15

"Stubborn, overbearing, unforgiving, inhibited, fatalistic, condescending."

Stubbon yes, unforgiving sometimes, inhibited it depends, fatalitics sometimes, condescending when it's done first.
What about the positive traits Loyal, paternal, deep, leader, humorous, ambitious, perceptive, practical.

There are positive qualities to this moon, you're missing on. What are you venus, mercury, and mars? those might shed light on what's going on.

"Unfortunately, it's quite a battle. My Aries sun makes me quite impatient and impulsive, and when a negative thought caused by my Capricorn moon pops into my head, it almost feels more natural to be callous and to just say it. Because I am aware of these patterns, it's an easier thing for me to temper, but it's still mentally taxing."

With a cap moon, you also need to see control as something you can come to at any point, and it is not just in the beginning or it has to be consistent. So your aries initiation must meet the cap need for progression. However, I am still interested in knowing you venus, merc and mars and asc if you don't mind

The good, the bad and the ugly, lol. I can pretty much relate to all of those things though I think it gets easier with age. I don't care so much anymore what people "think" of me. I know who I am, though moods can defiantly influence how I might feel that day. I am very sensitive and I tend to dwell when I feel something was said or wronged me in some way. I keep track, 3 strikes your out. J/K kinda. I am suspicious of people, I agree. I feel I make people feel insecure around me because I don't have to win their attention. Makes me appear cold, but actually I'm the real deal. I'm not into fake people and I tend to evualate people before opening my door. Finding good friends is harder then keeping them because it takes a secure, trust worthy person to be my side. I don't buy bolognia and I certainly don't eat it. I'm loyal to the end but never bite the hand that feeds you. And believe me, I'll know if you do. *Wink*

Learn to smile when you don't feel like smiling, it helps. I've had people say to me "cheer up" and I'm thinking WTF? Is it that obvious? What's wrong with a little solitude, life isn't always a dope show. Puppets and clowns, makes a good circus.

I consider myself to be responsible and dedicated personally or professonally. I can't stand flakes! I don't just talk, I walk the talk. If I say I'm going to do something, you can count on me. I'm dedicated and reliable, always keep my word. I'm faithful, giving and generous. I'm the giver, not greedy at all as I'm supposedly prone to be. I'm a good listner as well as teacher. I go out of my way to help people and I don't expect anything in return. I'm a loyal friend and lover, always have your back.