Capricorn Moons

Hello! Anyone out here with Capricorn moons? I'm just trying to understand how this would be different from having sun in Capricorn. From what I've googled so far, since Capricorn is opposite the moon, this is the most unfavorable moon sign and those who have it are largely unemotional. Is this true?

If so, how do you get Cappie moons to open up?

Posted by Morningmist12
Few things I have noticed about Capricorn moons is that they have very exacting standards. Something I have seen being pretty lax amongst Capricorn sun.

Yeah, I noticed that too. But I attributed it to his Virgo sun -- just found out about his moon now. So with Capricorn moon, that sounds like a double whammy, haha. Oh, boy.... good luck to me.

I have a capricorn moon, but i don't lack emotion like you posted. I try my best not to show that im emotional, but i still come on as a sensitive person; maybe its my pisces sun, i dunno.

Posted by KingPisces
We don't take shit from lower forms of human beings. Period.

Just the lower forms? I don't take shit even from the higher forms of human beings, LOL. But I get you. He doesn't take bullshit either and can spot a bullshitter a mile away so I don't even try it. =P

Posted by Angiemima
I have a capricorn moon, but i don't lack emotion like you posted. I try my best not to show that im emotional, but i still come on as a sensitive person; maybe its my pisces sun, i dunno.

That's a good balance of sun and moon, IMHO.

i have a capricorn moon, i'm pretty emotional but i have a really tough time expressing said emotions. i've been told i'm the "suffer in silence" type.

Posted by cancergem
i have a capricorn moon, i'm pretty emotional but i have a really tough time expressing said emotions. i've been told i'm the "suffer in silence" type.

So how does that work out when you're in a relationship?

You know, I feel comfortable and emotionally stable with my cappy moon but ,since I'm young, I still shy away from relationships. They just make be feel embarrassed; like a little girl having her first crush and I don't think I can say the B-word without blushing and turning away from the person I just said it too.

weeping tissue?? not really

@joanie it's just something i've had to work on, since it really works against being in a healthy relationship. i tend to come off as cold and unfeeling when that's not really the case. i make it a point to try my best to be more expressive

boys.


haha. i have a gemini moon. youll know when i feel emotions. ill talk your ear off about them.

Posted by HappyCappy
boys.


haha. i have a gemini moon. youll know when i feel emotions. ill talk your ear off about them.

Ooohh, so that was B for Boys. LOL. I'm a Gem too (sun). My virgo sun/cappy moon says I talk too much haha. When he says that, that's my cue to talk to my dog. 😛

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Posted by cancergem
i have a capricorn moon, i'm pretty emotional but i have a really tough time expressing said emotions. i've been told i'm the "suffer in silence" type.

So how does that work out when you're in a relationship?

She's a Cancer. Not relevant to your questions. She's nothing but a weeping tissue 😭

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Oh, a Cancer. I just saw the "C" and assumed the rest of it said Capricorn. There goes my ADD again, skipping blocks of text.

Weeping tissue? Haha. You're a meanie but I like you.

Thanks for the input so far, you guys, but I'm still back where I started. How do I draw these emotions out? I mean, since you rarely show emotions how do I know they're even there? Any tell-tale signs that I am breaking through the barrier? My moon is in Taurus and I can be patient and persistent with this guy but my venus is in Leo and I am a Gem sun so I kind of need reassurance (that at least they're there) so that I stick around.

I do intend to stick around for now but it would help to have a cheat sheet when it comes to Cappy moons. 🙂

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Posted by cancergem
i have a capricorn moon, i'm pretty emotional but i have a really tough time expressing said emotions. i've been told i'm the "suffer in silence" type.

So how does that work out when you're in a relationship?

She's a Cancer. Not relevant to your questions. She's nothing but a weeping tissue 😭

Oh, a Cancer. I just saw the "C" and assumed the rest of it said Capricorn. There goes my ADD again, skipping blocks of text.

Weeping tissue? Haha. You're a meanie but I like you.

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hmm... being a cancer doesn't automatically cancel out having a capricorn moon... and like wynter said, asking questions like that also make me cringe. i'll say how i feel when i feel it's time to

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Posted by HappyCappy
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haha. i have a gemini moon. youll know when i feel emotions. ill talk your ear off about them.

My Cancer bff has a moon in Gem.....oy vei, lol, sometimes it's like "are you still talking?" but you're cool, HC! 😉

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Hahaha. I got that one too from my dude. Are you still talking? (with his "this is a warning" glare) Again, my cue to just go talk to the dog, LOL.

@WynterBourne & Cancergem

Hmmm... okay, so I guess when I say "Okay, I'll just leave you be" without asking or nagging what on earth is bothering him this time works then? From the looks of it, my psychic is going to be an indispensable third wheel in this relationship.

i don't think there is anything that's wrong wtih asking if he's alright, it's just asking so much that it feels like you're being pressured into talking about your feelings when you're not ready. at least with me it takes some patience on my bf's part but also hearing how my non-expressive behavior affects him. that usually prompts me to want to speak up.

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Posted by Angiemima
You know, I feel comfortable and emotionally stable with my cappy moon but ,since I'm young, I still shy away from relationships. They just make be feel embarrassed; like a little girl having her first crush and I don't think I can say the B-word without blushing and turning away from the person I just said it too.

bum? bish? bronco?

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I meant boyfriend lol

I dunno about a cheat or if this is only me, but I don't open up to no one not even close friends or family members. I feel safer if I keep my feelings to myself just in case someone whats to screw me over.

The only thing I can say that helps me open up is if I absolutely trust you.....or i have an emotional break down and you just happen to be passing by; i hide at those moments though.

hiding at those moments^^^ same here!

the only person that can get me to open up at all is my bf but it's usually on my own time.

I've been called cold and uncaring because i do things that they don't expect. Like meeting my dad's other women; i smiled and shook her hand politely even though i was mentally killing her.

i guess ppl just wanted me to be an emotional mess and try and kill myself. i still dunno what they want from me.

i just notice that im calm when its absolutely necessary, awesomeness 😕

I have an earth moon -- Taurus -- but a Gemini sun (air) which really opposed his stabler Virgo sun nature in the beginning that's why after the hoo-hah of the chemistry and attraction we had a bugger of a time reconciling differences. I have lots of fire in my chart too and this just irked his non-confrontational nature so he did a disappearing act for a while.

I think that both did us good though. I had time to calm down my hyperself and let my Taurus moon emerge. So now, I'm trying to "moon" him, so to speak, LOL. We seem to connect so much better that way since we both have earth moons. Besides, I figured I can let my Gem nature -- the more flippant, sociable, mutable -- side of me emerge with my friends.

He didn't get this duality at first though. And, honestly, I think the Virgo in him still refuses to think out of the box because he met my Gemini first. So I think I shall try to be patient and give it time as suggested and let him open up at will. I'm going to have a bitch of a time though trying not to ask questions, LOL.

So my trusty sidekicks in this endeavor for now are... drumroll please.... my psychic and my dog. 😛

Ok I am a capricorn..but I could never figure this part out..so tell me ..my fellow caps..how do u go about finding ur moon, sun sign..etc? My bday is dec.26th if that helps any

Ok I am a capricorn..but I could never figure this part out..so tell me ..my fellow caps..how do u go about finding ur moon, sun sign..etc? My bday is dec.26th if that helps any

there are some websites to go to for that. most are free hehe. just look up birth chart in google, input your birth info, then generate a free chart. oh and dogs atre awesome to talk too. and babies. babies are fun cause they look at you with those wide eyes and act like they are interested. but they just like your voice. especially us with scorpio ascendants...we have a very smooth, sexy voice. cant help it. everyone i know likes it. my gemini moon makes me talkitive but my cap and scorp placements make me a bit shy lol. i have an aquarius boss so she use to listen to my chick problems and stuff. she one day said i was too sensitive about things. haha...so i guess im made for those chicks who like sensitive caring guys. for me it doesnt take much to get me talking. and to get me too open up i have to know i can trust you. i mean if its a decision on like which color socks do i like or something thats simple. but if its emotional, ill tell you when i feel like it. i sometimes just rant. and its easier if i had a few drinks. then im an open faucet. lol

Thanx happy cappy..ur the best!!

i get that alot haha thanks.

Was in a long-term relationship with a Sag who had Cap moon, merc, venus & mars. A lot of pushing his buttons to get things out was my way. He liked it, even told me later after we broke up that I was the only one who could get through to him.

Your earth moon should help but sometimes two earths can get stuck. Cap is cardinal and they like direct action so ask him what you want to know & get it out.

Posted by luckystar
oh, i forgot. if you cheat on a capricorn (even more so on a capricorn moon),dont expect them to forgive you. if they do it wont be for a long time. cap-oriented people tend to be very big on monogamy and place great importance on fidelity.

Yeah, I kind of get that. I have actually led myself out of temptation a couple of times already just with the thought of his unforgiving nature and well.... I think it was his Mars in Scorpio which scared me straight more. I've had several encounters with Scorpio men whom I turned down and who actually did the "revenge" thing on me. Yeessh. And to think we weren't even a couple.

So, yeah, the Scorpio in him scares me shitless haha. At least into fidelity which is a challenge for Geminis. BUT, I am consoled by the fact that his moon places importance on fidelity. I really need that in order for me to get the best out of relationship otherwise, I won't open up and just be my flighty gem self.

So thanks for letting me know!

Posted by Mistery
Was in a long-term relationship with a Sag who had Cap moon, merc, venus & mars. A lot of pushing his buttons to get things out was my way. He liked it, even told me later after we broke up that I was the only one who could get through to him.

Your earth moon should help but sometimes two earths can get stuck. Cap is cardinal and they like direct action so ask him what you want to know & get it out.

I think that's where my Gemini will help -- the asking questions. That's what I've been doing so far and I learned also to ask DIRECT questions and not go on a fishing expedition with oblique questions, haha. He gets annoyed with that.

Posted by Joanie675
Hello! Anyone out here with Capricorn moons? I'm just trying to understand how this would be different from having sun in Capricorn. From what I've googled so far, since Capricorn is opposite the moon, this is the most unfavorable moon sign and those who have it are largely unemotional. Is this true?

If so, how do you get Cappie moons to open up?

Capricorn moons ... oh good grief! I've lived with one and don't want to get into that but OMG ... yeah, I have plenty to say about cap mooners 😉


Keep in mind I'm an air moon personality so I'm already countered any bias lol

hmm, i guess it depends on the person, when it comes to friends, i absolutely detest being probed with questions about what's going on with me emotionally if i'm not ready to give out that kind of information. essentially it has to be my idea to do so, i have to be in control of it.

Posted by luckystar
"So thanks for letting me know!"

no prob, what does the rest of his chart look like?

Sorry, I've been away! Well, this is his chart. Still waiting on the exact time of birth from his mom but he said it was close to midnight so I did 11PM.

Sun - Virgo
Moon - Capricorn
Mercury - Libra
Venus - Leo
Mars - Scorpio
Jupiter - Scorpio
Saturn - Libra
Uranus - Sagittarius
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Capricorn
Asc Node - Cancer

No rising for lack of exact TOB.

So what can you get from these placements?

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Posted by Joanie675
Hello! Anyone out here with Capricorn moons? I'm just trying to understand how this would be different from having sun in Capricorn. From what I've googled so far, since Capricorn is opposite the moon, this is the most unfavorable moon sign and those who have it are largely unemotional. Is this true?

If so, how do you get Cappie moons to open up?

Capricorn moons ... oh good grief! I've lived with one and don't want to get into that but OMG ... yeah, I have plenty to say about cap mooners 😉


Keep in mind I'm an air moon personality so I'm already countered any bias lol

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Spill the beans, please 🙂

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Posted by cancergem
hmm, i guess it depends on the person, when it comes to friends, i absolutely detest being probed with questions about what's going on with me emotionally if i'm not ready to give out that kind of information. essentially it has to be my idea to do so, i have to be in control of it.

Good to know....I need to keep this in mind lol

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bear in mind that i do want my SO to at least recognize that something is up. there's no harm in asking but repeatedly/pestering me when i clearly don't want to talk is annoying and i'll either not say anything to say something false just to get you off my back.

Posted by luckystar
okay so joanie what does the rest of YOUR chart look like? i can give you a compatibility rating if you want.

What the.... sorry for the hidden post. Somehow I pressed the enter button prematurely. Here's my chart:

Sun - Virgo
Moon - Taurus
Venus - Leo
Mars - Aries
Jupiter - Aries
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Libra
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Pisces
Asc Node - Sagittarius
Rising - Leo

Thanks!

Posted by luckystar
i thought you said you were a gemini? lol

I am!! I am!! LOL, talk about a Freudian Slip. 🙂

Here's my correct chart:

Sun - Gemini
Moon - Taurus
Mercury - Gemini
Venus - Leo
Mars - Aries
Jupiter - Aries
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Libra
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
Lilith - Pisces
Asc Node - Sagittarius
Rising - Leo

Posted by luckystar
this really looks like it could work, depending on what his rising sign is, that will tell you his outlook on life and either decrease or increase this compatibility...but it honestly looks great 🙂

Oh, oh, oh... this just makes me want to cry. 😢( The full moon got to us and he broke up with me then. I really had a feeling that this might work out but, as usual me thinks his capricorn moon is getting in the way. I don't even understand why he broke up with me. All because his brother went online, used his account and started chatting with me. I had never spoken to his baby bro before (well, younger than him) but he was a chatty Pisces and I figured, hey it's his brother, why would I ignore him? So we chat and then baby bro tells me to text him, I text back to confirm the number.

All this time though, I tell baby bro to tell Virguy that he talked to me and that I would do so as well. So when Virguy comes back, I tell him and I get flak for it. He doesn't know why I had to give my number out or even talk to his brother behind his back. Umm, I would understand it if it were some strange guy but this was his brother!! I was working on the presumption that it was okay.

Well, I don't know his brother but I think he's pretty crazy. Virguy said he "seriously doesn't want to speak to me again" and to leave him and his brother alone. Of course, I am hurt. Like I sought his brother out, right? I still like him and hope we'll get back together again but I really don't think I did anything wrong. Plus, I'm still hurting so I'm just staying away and not bugging him.

So what do you think? Do you think his Capricorn moon will reconsider and initiate contact? Or is this permanently over and done with? BTW, thanks for doing the synastry thing. I totally totally appreciate that.

Posted by luckystar
Aww sorry to hear that. is he older or younger then you? maybe he has trust issues, has he ever been cheated on in the past? i understand where you are coming from, it wasnt some random guy it was his little brother so why would he flip out on you for talking to him? i dont know if its my capricorn moon or my scorp placements but i can be irrationally jealous and flip out if the person i am with is talking to someone else. i do have issues with that, but in this case if my boyfriend were to just chat with my younger sister i dont think i would have broken up with them.

He's younger than me and yes, he has been cheated on in the past. Probably doesn't help that I said his bro was cute, lol. But that was just a statement of fact.

Have been trying to look at this the other way around. I have a younger sister that's prettier than me and if I found out that she had contacted him first and he just responded and they got to talking -- I would be livid. Seriously, but it would be my sister who would get a piece of my mind. And the most he'd get would be the cold shoulder for a day or two until he butters me up somewhat and reassures me.

Okay, hypothetically you cappy moons calm down your irrational jealousy -- do you eventually see reason? Or is it me who has to do the reaching out? (which I'd really hate to do because I already feel falsely accused)

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Posted by Joanie675
Hello! Anyone out here with Capricorn moons? I'm just trying to understand how this would be different from having sun in Capricorn. From what I've googled so far, since Capricorn is opposite the moon, this is the most unfavorable moon sign and those who have it are largely unemotional. Is this true?

If so, how do you get Cappie moons to open up?

Capricorn moons ... oh good grief! I've lived with one and don't want to get into that but OMG ... yeah, I have plenty to say about cap mooners 😉


Keep in mind I'm an air moon personality so I'm already countered any bias lol

SHUT UP!

You know you want this, but you can't have it! 'cause it's all for aPP 😉

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Two pisces can have each other, trust me ^_^. lol! Love you LOL!!! xD

Posted by luckystar
well....your right, it didnt help that you said his brother was cute. at all. cap moons can get insecure sometimes no matter how good-looking other people may find us. its just a doubt thing that takes over. has he contacted you at all? maybe you could write him a letter explaining how you feel and telling him you are sorry for hurting him. that would definitely show you are feeling bad and that you still want to make it work.

Confession time....

Okay, I have been sitting on that email. Although I am truly sorry I hurt his feelings inadvertently, part of me is still reluctant to offer the olive branch because:

1) I'm still hurt that he didn't trust me enough with his brother. (I mean, what kind of skank does he think I am that I'm going to go after his bro while we're together? I'm the type of person who if one of my best girl friends call out that she likes a guy, even if I had a crush on him too, because she called him out first, that dude would be off limits forever.)

and, 2) I am concerned that if something as trivial as that cannot be smoothened out by explanation, what more when the big stuff gets thrown across our path? I wasn't looking for a fling with him. I wanted this to work out for the long term and so I'm also screening for certain skillsets in relationship maintaining/building.

That right now is a conceptual hurdle for me -- not really pride. I don't mind doing the reaching out, placating him and doing the whole you're the only one for me bit. I know I didn't do him wrong. But I don't want to write the letter half-heartedly either or for it to come off patronizing. So I think I need more time before I'm ready to talk.

In any case, I guess my question now is -- do you (Cappy Moons) eventually realize that the irrational jealousy was just that -- irrational?

Does this have a cool down period where you eventually see things clearly and give the person (yeah, yeah, in this case me) another chance?

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Posted by luckystar
i dont know if its my capricorn moon or my scorp placements but i can be irrationally jealous and flip out if the person i am with is talking to someone else. i do have issues with that, but in this case if my boyfriend were to just chat with my younger sister i dont think i would have broken up with them.

Same here. Altho with me it gets to a point where the emotion is too overwhelming and I shut it down - and I will turn away completely and be done with it. I call it 'freeze out' and it happens very quickly. The internal (irrational) logic is telling me "Oh, he's interested in her now, he doesn't want you anymore, don't stand in their way" 😢 and I will go away feeling angry and sorry for myself and leaving him to think (I guess) "wtf did I do? what happened -why did she grow cold?" and probably a bit of broken heart on both sides.


Basically just insecurity, and an unwillingness to compete.

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I get the same way too. If the guy is still vying for my attention/affection and he tries the jealousy tack on me to gauge my feelings for him, I promise you it will ALWAYS BACKFIRE. I have no patience for games like that. If he wants to be with the other girl, likes her more, yadayada, he is more than welcome to go pursue her and not waste my time.

Posted by luckystar
"I'm still hurt that he didn't trust me enough with his brother. "--did you tell him that?

regardless of how or when you talk to him, if you dont talk to him at all and there is no communication going on, the situation can't get better. it comes down to how bad you want it to work.

Okay, I told him that... nope, it didn't work. He actually scoffed like I had no right to be hurt in this situation. Still, I said sorry that I hurt his feelings and that it was my bad that I actually took his brother's number (I still don't get that). I think telling him may have actually made it worse (don't worry, not blaming you...it was my choice to choose the timing to bring this up).

I did tell him that I felt he was blowing things out of proportion -- which I really think he is. Come to think of it, all our arguments wouldn't have turned into arguments if he didn't make such a big deal, make or break situation out of it. So much unnecessary drama. Usually, I'm the drama queen but in this case, the Oscar goes to him!

It just sucks that when I've actually been good, honest, faithful and loyal even if he's not around, that I get this false accusation crap. My evil twin says that it really wouldn't have mattered if I indulged in other dalliances anyway. But, no, I like it that I've conducted myself honorably and decently in this matter and respected him. I'll have no trouble sleeping at night because of it.

Posted by luckystar
its okay, you have done your job, and if he misses you he will contact you. i promise.

Thanks, yeah, I know I've done my part. I caved in yesterday and got a reading from this Santero/Palero from Louisiana who has been scary accurate a lot. I've had readings with him before. Anyway, he too says that he'll be back but in the meantime, I have to let it be because any further pushing the issue/communication will just aggravate it while he's mad. He's got a lot of other things going on and needs to take care of and this on top of that was just too much on his plate.

SO anyway, I'm okay. Not really grieving for it because I'm like -- yeah, fix your issues first. come back when you're ready -- but in the meantime I shall find joy in other opportunities that come my way. 🙂

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Posted by Morningmist12
Few things I have noticed about Capricorn moons is that they have very exacting standards. Something I have seen being pretty lax amongst Capricorn sun.

Yeah, I noticed that too. But I attributed it to his Virgo sun -- just found out about his moon now. So with Capricorn moon, that sounds like a double whammy, haha. Oh, boy.... good luck to me.

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I lived with one for ... 10 monthes ... almost a year. I will say this, I will never live with another capricorn mooner and know it ^_^. Holy cow, my Aqua moon self had to battle nearly every day *shaking my head*

I made a thread about the capricorn mooners being evil I think hahaha, those days were crazy.

I'm sorry but Joanie675 I really don't know what you were thinking taking his brother's number. Ridiculous. It's been some time since your posts so this situation may not be relevant anymore, but i feel the need to comment. your actions seem immature: you're interested in a man and you start chatting with his brother and then ask him for his number to continue the conversation? Now, this may have meant nothing to you (but since you yourself went out of your way to state that he was attractive I assume it wasn't just nothing, you were enjoying flirting with him) but what you are doing is sending mixed signals. The chat on the im would have been fine, and you should have let it end there, but to take it to the phone? don't you know that usually if a man is conversing with you this way there is the possibility that he is interested/attracted? some men just like to have an ear to talk to, but many of them don't engage in interactions like this unless they have an interest in the woman. you both acted inappropriately, like teenagers to be honest. what were you hoping to accomplish? to get to know his brother better? the appropriate way to do that would have been in a group setting where you were all involved. Asking a man's brother, a man who you are still in the beginning phase of the relationship, for his number for a private phone conversation when there is no direct reason for it is just inappropriate. I could imagine if you had been together longer, the relationship was established and there is absolutely no chance that the conversation might be taken the wrong way and that there was a reason for the conversation that this would be fine and not a big deal, but even then it can be argued that it might not be innocent depending on the nature of the conversation and the length and the frequency of the conversations occurring. it all depends on the situation, and the dynamics of your relationships.

It's just not proper etiquette to be dating a man and then asking his brother (who you know you find attractive) for his number. don't be so surprised that he reacted the way he did.
I have dated men who have attractive brothers. I don't go off asking the brothers for their numbers so we can talk on our own. it sends the wrong message about where your interest lies.