i really dont have any expectations at all to be honest, i figure hes not gonna be ready anytime soon to be with someone anyway
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
He wants you to be the "first"? Hasn't met you in person and already planning the sexual encounter? Uhmmmmm.....Are we sure it's not going to just be about sex for him?
My advice is take it slow, date and don't have sex with him for several months. If he's just getting out there after being widowed, then he's either seriously looking for a long term relationship/next wife OR he's going to want to explore being forever single. The only way you'll know is to take the time to get to know him.
What are you looking for?