Capricorn passive aggressive

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My best friend and I had a heated debate. I feel she is too passive about alot of things from dating to her prior room mate to rel. She has libra moon idk if that matters. Alot stuff she should speak up on and be clear about she doesn't and complains to me. I tell her hey speak up and dont do that etc. One example this gemini lijes her alot. She says this person isnt her type....im like why r u entertaining them then did u tell them hey we just friends only....i see alot stuff this girl does that my friend does to someone else who ignores her. I tell her be honest with ppl u wouldnt like that done to u....on another note she just kick her room mate out instead of talking or being clear she avoided disputes and stayed away from her own home to avoid it. Im like ur so passive u need tell ppl in a nice way how u feel....on anothet example she liked this girl gor 3 years and didnt tell her completely how she felt.....im like stop it tell her...then the girl got with someone else and got married she still chasing her. I asked her did u ever tell her u liked her and u want more than friendship...idk if this is a Capricorn thing or what so we got into it because i called her out on a few things
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Good for you for calling her out. Caps need that and we really respect friends who call us out.

As far as the passive aggressive thing, well, I was more like that when I was young. I was afraid to rock the boat and confront people. With age, I've learned to speak up. She will too. Perhaps the passive aggressiveness comes from a place of insecurity about her thoughts, unsure with how she feels so she does nothing hoping things will work out on their own (which a lot of times it does).
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Yea she says this too and i tell her hey did u let her know she is just a friend. This gemini is buying her stuff coming over alot yet my cap friend complains about her. I say dont do that to her either give her a chance or let her go. We all have been in this situation liking someone and they don't tell us hey its not like that. @truecap my friend is super sweet i think she doesn't like hurting ppl avoiding confrontation etc
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Posted by Gobshite
This isn't a Capricorn issue but more of a Libra moon problem. I've said it in the past and I'll say it again: Libra moons accentuate the worst traits of certain sun signs - Capricorn being one of them.
Mel gibson?


it's because it's squares maybe, Mel Gibson in particular has sun capricorn square libra moon and also mars Scorpio square his aqua venus.

dont know his mercury but i bet it's also squaring.

EDIT - yikes!!! he's got Leo Pluto, Leo Uranus also squaring the Scorpio.

*smh*

well at least he is awesome in the career front.