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Hard to catch.... not really. I mean I don't see it that way (my potential blindness on this is obvi). We may be hard to deal with though. Our (my) expression of love can be a bit roulette like. Even I don't know what your going to get on a given day. The feelings are constant-- its the expression that chages--sometimes dramatically. It does get more reliable with time(and age) however.
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Hard to catch.... not really. I mean I don't see it that way (my potential blindness on this is obvi). We may be hard to deal with though. Our (my) expression of love can be a bit roulette like. Even I don't know what your going to get on a given day. The feelings are constant-- its the expression that chages--sometimes dramatically. It does get more reliable with time(and age) however.
Thank you so much for that description. Any advice on dealing or dating these types? Give space and let them lead?
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We've been talking for like 5 weeks. But he was intrigued with me since last summer, asking friends about me.

He was brutally honest with me that he was kind of depressed and actively getting over an ex (they broke up two years ago, but had recently reconnected, but she wasn't interested in a relationship. And has a new boyfriend) he told me his frustrations with himself for entertaining her and making himself think they might work it out.

We hung out twice both times amazing. He actively told me he liked me, texts all day. Then.... I ask if we're going out again. He says "I'm not opposed to that. But I can't promise anthing. You know my heads a mess" I say let's just be friendly then.

We go out and he basically acts so disinterested at dinner I suggest we both just go home and not hit the movie. He states he wants to go to the movie, he's just exhausted... lightens up a bit.

I text him "you're really confusing, you seemed bored. Are you into getting to know me, you like me or what?!" He says "yea, I don't know what I want"..... that response was so vague. Was it "yes, I like you... I'm just confused" or "yeaahhh, I don't know if I like you". He's then like "I've heard I'm confusing before. I kind of like it that way."

Anyways, I decided to leave him alone to work out whatever. But the behavior was so odd. He was open about his confusion, but to kind of just cut off after being so hot and clear about communication was weird. I don't intend on chasing him.
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Yeah, don't chase. Let him figure out what is going on in his head.....and keep doing you.

My Cap and I went two years with no contact because I was just exhausted with the confusion and he needed to figure out what he wanted.

These placements need you to hold on loosely. The Aqua Venus needs a solid friendship first and the Cap Sun needs to trust himself.

Exes are a pain in the ass with these guys because they can't seem to let them go completely. Probably because it takes them so dang long to actually *be* in a relationship and they cover every angle possible....and it's a huge hit to the head and heart when it doesnt work out.


Sometimes, when I read your posts, I swear you are talking about me!!! Then I get over myself and realize its some other lucky fella 😄
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Hard to catch.... not really. I mean I don't see it that way (my potential blindness on this is obvi). We may be hard to deal with though. Our (my) expression of love can be a bit roulette like. Even I don't know what your going to get on a given day. The feelings are constant-- its the expression that chages--sometimes dramatically. It does get more reliable with time(and age) however.
Thank you so much for that description. Any advice on dealing or dating these types? Give space and let them lead?
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Try taking the pressure off. The friends part others have mentioned is huge. Communication is also very important. Also, before you try to figure him out- figure out if this is what you really want. Cause if the "switch" flips- meaning he falls in love with you- he is going to fall hard. I've heard its not pleasant trying to get rid of someone in that situation.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.

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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


My twin has spoken!!!
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
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It's pretty simple but, the problem is, people make things more complicated than they need to be.

We don't pander towards expectations - we're actually allergic to them. If we sense an 'unhealthy' level of expectations from our relatively new partner, we become very uncomfortable.

We prefer to develop our emotions and the relationship on our own terms and at our own pace, without any unnecessary pressure from our partner. Feeling under pressure to be 'on the same page' will make us want some timeout because the only other option would be to fake it. We don't believe in faking it... for anyone. In return, we offer the same thing to our partner.

All we expect are reliability, manners and basic human respect, which still tends to be a challenge for some.

This is what many (especially women) fail to understand. They have these preconditioned fantasies, in their heads, that they want us to adhere to. But that's not a healthy nor genuine romantic union. That's a facade we want no part of.

Fuck fairy tales... Fuck Hollywood... Fuck Mills & Boon...

So, what do we want? We don't just want a conventional lover or partner, we also want a friend - a best friend, whose love, understanding and loyalty are truly unconditional. In other words, the best of both worlds.

It's not our fault if people are too brainwashed, self-absorbed and/or stupid to 'get it'...


I can respect that.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
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Ugh. Don’t even get me started on Cap sun/Scorp moon! That moon with an air Venus is all kinds of confusing because we’re all kinds of confused. I love you. I want all of you. Go away. Where’d you go? I love you. I wa... 😄
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Ugh. Don’t even get me started on Cap sun/Scorp moon! That moon with an air Venus is all kinds of confusing because we’re all kinds of confused. I love you. I want all of you. Go away. Where’d you go? I love you. I wa... 😄
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He was so passionate, loyal, reliable and romantic though. Also melancholy, destructive, erratic and emotionally volatile.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Caps can't have a Libra venus.

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Really? I swore he did.

Shoot, I guess youre right. Maybe it was Merc? Now I cant remember his birthday. If it was 18th or 19th! We dated for 2 years, but its been like 6 years. UGH haha
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Very hard to catch

They don’t like to be tied down
Is that just Aqua Venus in general, or does the Cap add something to that?
It's mostly the Cap bits, imo. I've dated aqua sun aqua Venus men and you always know where you stand with them.

The Cap bits add the cloudiness.
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Relationships aren't their forte astrologically. When the time comes we are fully dedicated.
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Yeah, don't chase. Let him figure out what is going on in his head.....and keep doing you.

My Cap and I went two years with no contact because I was just exhausted with the confusion and he needed to figure out what he wanted.

These placements need you to hold on loosely. The Aqua Venus needs a solid friendship first and the Cap Sun needs to trust himself.

Exes are a pain in the ass with these guys because they can't seem to let them go completely. Probably because it takes them so dang long to actually *be* in a relationship and they cover every angle possible....and it's a huge hit to the head and heart when it doesnt work out.


Sometimes, when I read your posts, I swear you are talking about me!!! Then I get over myself and realize its some other lucky fella 😄

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Friendship is super key for aqua Venus. The friend romantic thing has always blurred. I used to try to be friends no matter what but it gets messy.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
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Capricorns can't have Libra Venus
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus

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Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
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Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.

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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.

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He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.


He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
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It's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.


He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
It's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?

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No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."

I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.

But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.


He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
It's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?


No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."

I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.

But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.
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Does this guy have the Libra Moon?
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.


He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
It's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?


No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."

I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.

But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.


Does this guy have the Libra Moon?

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No this guy has Taurus Moon, Sag Merc, Pisces Mars, Aqua Venus.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.


He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
It's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?


No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."

I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.

But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.


Does this guy have the Libra Moon?


No this guy has Taurus Moon, Sag Merc, Pisces Mars, Aqua Venus.
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His mars would be where the confusion on how he asserts himself. Two famous bb players Lebron James and Paul George have Pisces Mars and struggle with asserting. Lebron used to especially.

As for your situation. Feel it out for a little if you actually like him. You are very airy and your Gemini energy especially would not interact with the Pisces energy well.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.


He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
It's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?


No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."

I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.

But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.


Does this guy have the Libra Moon?


No this guy has Taurus Moon, Sag Merc, Pisces Mars, Aqua Venus.


His mars would be where the confusion on how he asserts himself. Two famous bb players Lebron James and Paul George have Pisces Mars and struggle with asserting. Lebron used to especially.

As for your situation. Feel it out for a little if you actually like him. You are very airy and your Gemini energy especially would not interact with the Pisces energy well.
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.


He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
It's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?


No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."

I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.

But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.
From reading these posts I'm confused too. I don't know why you're asking about this guy. You said you're not going to chase him. His chart is a mess. You don't sound that interested in him. If you're not interested why wait for him to approach? Unless you are interested but don't want to show you are interested. You want him to make a move and declare his love for you.
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I could take it or leave it. I'm just intrigued about the placements. I guess I'm interested, but not enough to pursue. I generally like to asses peoples actions. Mental masturbation is my specialty! haha
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Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers

Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄

But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.

You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.


Oddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.

I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
Capricorns can't have Libra Venus


Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.
Got it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.


He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.

This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
It's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?


No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."

I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.

But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.
From reading these posts I'm confused too. I don't know why you're asking about this guy. You said you're not going to chase him. His chart is a mess. You don't sound that interested in him. If you're not interested why wait for him to approach? Unless you are interested but don't want to show you are interested. You want him to make a move and declare his love for you.
I could take it or leave it. I'm just intrigued about the placements. I guess I'm interested, but not enough to pursue. I generally like to asses peoples actions. Mental masturbation is my specialty! haha
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Mental mastrubation. Such Gem moon statement. I have to say I like mind fucking as well.

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So, he sent me a couple snaps the last few days. (I had a mutual friend check if he sent them to her too. So I could see if it was specifically to me). I responded to one of them.

So, he's out of state playing gigs in his band. I decided since it's been 6 days, id text him. I simply said "I hope you kill it this weekend"... he replied "Me too. Thank you." I'm such a nerd, but now I'm feeling like I should have waited it out. But I also wanted him to know I'm not totally opposed to being friends.
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Yeah, don't chase. Let him figure out what is going on in his head.....and keep doing you.

My Cap and I went two years with no contact because I was just exhausted with the confusion and he needed to figure out what he wanted.

These placements need you to hold on loosely. The Aqua Venus needs a solid friendship first and the Cap Sun needs to trust himself.

Exes are a pain in the ass with these guys because they can't seem to let them go completely. Probably because it takes them so dang long to actually *be* in a relationship and they cover every angle possible....and it's a huge hit to the head and heart when it doesnt work out.


Sometimes, when I read your posts, I swear you are talking about me!!! Then I get over myself and realize its some other lucky fella 😄

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PREACH!! 🙌
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This guy is still sending me personal snaps every day. Its actually annoying me because he doesnt initiate verbal contact with me or ask me to hangout. I dont see the point. So, i'm keeping it moving.

I told him a few weeks ago if he thinks im going to chase someone who isnt unequivocally into me, he has me mistaken. I said this in the nicest way possible.

A few days later he told me I was "Kind of pushy to be honest"... He isnt wrong.

I like him, but he's confusing.

Although, I didnt show much patience with him and looking back I think that kind of disappointed him in a way.
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Wait. What?

I need consistency. And I need real. If you’re putting up a front for me, it feels weird and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. If you’re inconsistent, I’m not going to feel safe in opening up to you and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. Then you’re gonna call *me* inconsistent?

Not fair.

Be consistent. Be real. And don’t be afraid to show your warmth to us. You’re not gonna freak us out, if we’re legit interested. Being warm allows us to start being warm. Show us hot and cold and eventually all you’re gonna get is cold.
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Wait. What?

I need consistency. And I need real. If you’re putting up a front for me, it feels weird and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. If you’re inconsistent, I’m not going to feel safe in opening up to you and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. Then you’re gonna call *me* inconsistent?

Not fair.

Be consistent. Be real. And don’t be afraid to show your warmth to us. You’re not gonna freak us out, if we’re legit interested. Being warm allows us to start being warm. Show us hot and cold and eventually all you’re gonna get is cold.
Maybe I did come off inconsistent? But I was very upfront, probably too upfront. Didn't show much patience either. It isn't my strong suit. However, I thought he was really rude on our last date. Very stand offish, didnt talk... It felt so awkward!!! I was wondering why he even showed up. So I told him that night I liked him but if he wasnt into it, I wasnt going to chase him. I asked if he liked me...

He replied "Yeah, I dont know what I want." I didnt know if that meant "Yeah I do but im confused." Or "Yeahhhh IDK" ....

So I took it as you dont want me. So his behavior was extremely confusing. He never flat out said anything. A few weeks later he told me I was "Kind of pushy".

I guess we communicate very differently.

My last Cap boyfriend and I got along smashingly. But I was a total bitch to him in the end. Ugh... Karma has surely handed me my ass on that one.
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Very hard to catch

They don’t like to be tied down
Is that just Aqua Venus in general, or does the Cap add something to that?
It's mostly the Cap bits, imo. I've dated aqua sun aqua Venus men and you always know where you stand with them.

The Cap bits add the cloudiness.
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Shed me some light on this exact combination in my inbox please.
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With cap sun Aqua Venus, emotions aren't very obvious to this person. The cap sun suppresses feelings to accomplish goals. Who knows what the Aqua Venus feels about anything. The feelings for other people are there but not obvious to someone with this placement. It is hidden from them.

Usually there is a trigger moment that causes this person to go aha I really like this person. Once the switch is flipped then the cap side will take over and lock on as a goal and chase.

In the meantime there are things that will cause that switch not to flip. The feelings are there but if there are mixed signals this will confuse the cap Aqua more. They could be stuck between liking you and not sure like a light switch turned halfway neither turning on or off the light.
This was a really well written response. Makes total sense.

What causes your switch to not flip?
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Wait. What?

I need consistency. And I need real. If you’re putting up a front for me, it feels weird and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. If you’re inconsistent, I’m not going to feel safe in opening up to you and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. Then you’re gonna call *me* inconsistent?

Not fair.

Be consistent. Be real. And don’t be afraid to show your warmth to us. You’re not gonna freak us out, if we’re legit interested. Being warm allows us to start being warm. Show us hot and cold and eventually all you’re gonna get is cold.
I spy with my eye....A Scorpio moon....lol
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Totally an Aqua Venus thing too tho. I’m awkward as fuck. Being warm and consistent or hot n cold is the difference between me sitting stiff in a chair or us cuddling up on the loveseat. 😄
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Wait. What?

I need consistency. And I need real. If you’re putting up a front for me, it feels weird and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. If you’re inconsistent, I’m not going to feel safe in opening up to you and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. Then you’re gonna call *me* inconsistent?

Not fair.

Be consistent. Be real. And don’t be afraid to show your warmth to us. You’re not gonna freak us out, if we’re legit interested. Being warm allows us to start being warm. Show us hot and cold and eventually all you’re gonna get is cold.
I spy with my eye....A Scorpio moon....lol
Totally an Aqua Venus thing too tho. I’m awkward as fuck. Being warm and consistent or hot n cold is the difference between me sitting stiff in a chair or us cuddling up on the loveseat. 😄
lol....I can relate as a partner to one.

We can be having a platonic conversation about the invention of some obscure object....with him sounding like a professor....and then there are moments he is twirling my hair thru his fingers and can't snuggle close enough....snuggling so close it's like he is trying to fuse us together....lol
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Yes!

By nature, I’m quite oblivious and sterile in my interactions with most people. Not wanting them to be all up in my space, I return the favor. I need to be able to assume a certain amount of permission to really be friendly. I don’t like to assume.

You’re right tho. My moon always kicks in and tries to run the show. But if I weren’t two completely different people in one, his Gem moon would be so bored by now. 😆
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