heliumfiasco
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Posted by SamCancerGirlIs that just Aqua Venus in general, or does the Cap add something to that?
Very hard to catch
They don’t like to be tied down

Posted by daron76Thank you so much for that description. Any advice on dealing or dating these types? Give space and let them lead?
Hard to catch.... not really. I mean I don't see it that way (my potential blindness on this is obvi). We may be hard to deal with though. Our (my) expression of love can be a bit roulette like. Even I don't know what your going to get on a given day. The feelings are constant-- its the expression that chages--sometimes dramatically. It does get more reliable with time(and age) however.
Posted by ellesbellesGo on please..... haha 👀 Interested in your findings.Posted by edgelordlol
this is a nice thread for me to bond with @ellesbelles in. 😄
It took me seven years to figure out my cap sun/aqua venus. 😛click to expand

Posted by heliumfiascoIt's mostly the Cap bits, imo. I've dated aqua sun aqua Venus men and you always know where you stand with them.Posted by SamCancerGirlIs that just Aqua Venus in general, or does the Cap add something to that?
Very hard to catch
They don’t like to be tied downclick to expand

Posted by ellesbelles
Yeah, don't chase. Let him figure out what is going on in his head.....and keep doing you.
My Cap and I went two years with no contact because I was just exhausted with the confusion and he needed to figure out what he wanted.
These placements need you to hold on loosely. The Aqua Venus needs a solid friendship first and the Cap Sun needs to trust himself.
Exes are a pain in the ass with these guys because they can't seem to let them go completely. Probably because it takes them so dang long to actually *be* in a relationship and they cover every angle possible....and it's a huge hit to the head and heart when it doesnt work out.

Posted by heliumfiascoTry taking the pressure off. The friends part others have mentioned is huge. Communication is also very important. Also, before you try to figure him out- figure out if this is what you really want. Cause if the "switch" flips- meaning he falls in love with you- he is going to fall hard. I've heard its not pleasant trying to get rid of someone in that situation.Posted by daron76Thank you so much for that description. Any advice on dealing or dating these types? Give space and let them lead?
Hard to catch.... not really. I mean I don't see it that way (my potential blindness on this is obvi). We may be hard to deal with though. Our (my) expression of love can be a bit roulette like. Even I don't know what your going to get on a given day. The feelings are constant-- its the expression that chages--sometimes dramatically. It does get more reliable with time(and age) however.click to expand


Posted by hippiecriteMy twin has spoken!!!
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
Posted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
Posted by Gob_ShiteI can respect that.
It's pretty simple but, the problem is, people make things more complicated than they need to be.
We don't pander towards expectations - we're actually allergic to them. If we sense an 'unhealthy' level of expectations from our relatively new partner, we become very uncomfortable.
We prefer to develop our emotions and the relationship on our own terms and at our own pace, without any unnecessary pressure from our partner. Feeling under pressure to be 'on the same page' will make us want some timeout because the only other option would be to fake it. We don't believe in faking it... for anyone. In return, we offer the same thing to our partner.
All we expect are reliability, manners and basic human respect, which still tends to be a challenge for some.
This is what many (especially women) fail to understand. They have these preconditioned fantasies, in their heads, that they want us to adhere to. But that's not a healthy nor genuine romantic union. That's a facade we want no part of.
Fuck fairy tales... Fuck Hollywood... Fuck Mills & Boon...
So, what do we want? We don't just want a conventional lover or partner, we also want a friend - a best friend, whose love, understanding and loyalty are truly unconditional. In other words, the best of both worlds.
It's not our fault if people are too brainwashed, self-absorbed and/or stupid to 'get it'...

Posted by heliumfiascoUgh. Don’t even get me started on Cap sun/Scorp moon! That moon with an air Venus is all kinds of confusing because we’re all kinds of confused. I love you. I want all of you. Go away. Where’d you go? I love you. I wa... 😄Posted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.click to expand
Posted by hippiecriteHe was so passionate, loyal, reliable and romantic though. Also melancholy, destructive, erratic and emotionally volatile.Posted by heliumfiascoUgh. Don’t even get me started on Cap sun/Scorp moon! That moon with an air Venus is all kinds of confusing because we’re all kinds of confused. I love you. I want all of you. Go away. Where’d you go? I love you. I wa... 😄Posted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.click to expand
Posted by ellesbellesReally? I swore he did.Posted by heliumfiascoCaps can't have a Libra venus.Posted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
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Posted by AndalusiaPosted by heliumfiascoIt's mostly the Cap bits, imo. I've dated aqua sun aqua Venus men and you always know where you stand with them.Posted by SamCancerGirlIs that just Aqua Venus in general, or does the Cap add something to that?
Very hard to catch
They don’t like to be tied down
The Cap bits add the cloudiness.click to expand


Posted by daron76Friendship is super key for aqua Venus. The friend romantic thing has always blurred. I used to try to be friends no matter what but it gets messy.Posted by ellesbelles
Yeah, don't chase. Let him figure out what is going on in his head.....and keep doing you.
My Cap and I went two years with no contact because I was just exhausted with the confusion and he needed to figure out what he wanted.
These placements need you to hold on loosely. The Aqua Venus needs a solid friendship first and the Cap Sun needs to trust himself.
Exes are a pain in the ass with these guys because they can't seem to let them go completely. Probably because it takes them so dang long to actually *be* in a relationship and they cover every angle possible....and it's a huge hit to the head and heart when it doesnt work out.
Sometimes, when I read your posts, I swear you are talking about me!!! Then I get over myself and realize its some other lucky fella 😄
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Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.click to expand
Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
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Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
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Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
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Posted by heliumfiascoIt's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?click to expand
Posted by frostey91No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."Posted by heliumfiascoIt's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
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Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by frostey91No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."Posted by heliumfiascoIt's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.
But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.click to expand
Posted by frostey91No this guy has Taurus Moon, Sag Merc, Pisces Mars, Aqua Venus.Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by frostey91No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."Posted by heliumfiascoIt's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.
But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.
Does this guy have the Libra Moon?
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Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by frostey91No this guy has Taurus Moon, Sag Merc, Pisces Mars, Aqua Venus.Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by frostey91No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."Posted by heliumfiascoIt's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.
But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.
Does this guy have the Libra Moon?
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Posted by frostey91Totally agree!!!Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by frostey91No this guy has Taurus Moon, Sag Merc, Pisces Mars, Aqua Venus.Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by frostey91No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."Posted by heliumfiascoIt's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.
But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.
Does this guy have the Libra Moon?
His mars would be where the confusion on how he asserts himself. Two famous bb players Lebron James and Paul George have Pisces Mars and struggle with asserting. Lebron used to especially.
As for your situation. Feel it out for a little if you actually like him. You are very airy and your Gemini energy especially would not interact with the Pisces energy well.click to expand

Posted by RingsOfSaturnI could take it or leave it. I'm just intrigued about the placements. I guess I'm interested, but not enough to pursue. I generally like to asses peoples actions. Mental masturbation is my specialty! hahaPosted by heliumfiascoFrom reading these posts I'm confused too. I don't know why you're asking about this guy. You said you're not going to chase him. His chart is a mess. You don't sound that interested in him. If you're not interested why wait for him to approach? Unless you are interested but don't want to show you are interested. You want him to make a move and declare his love for you.Posted by frostey91No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."Posted by heliumfiascoIt's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.
But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.click to expand
Posted by RingsOfSaturnI didn't mean that to sound harsh. He needs to figure out his own mind and desires. So, i'm interested but also being smart about it.
Well poor guy. Just don't do it too much you may go blind.

Posted by heliumfiascoPosted by RingsOfSaturnI could take it or leave it. I'm just intrigued about the placements. I guess I'm interested, but not enough to pursue. I generally like to asses peoples actions. Mental masturbation is my specialty! hahaPosted by heliumfiascoFrom reading these posts I'm confused too. I don't know why you're asking about this guy. You said you're not going to chase him. His chart is a mess. You don't sound that interested in him. If you're not interested why wait for him to approach? Unless you are interested but don't want to show you are interested. You want him to make a move and declare his love for you.Posted by frostey91No, we have not spoken since Sunday when he said "Yeah, I dont know what I want."Posted by heliumfiascoIt's not u it's him not being over his ex. Have you talked since he left?Posted by frostey91He was awesome. We laughed all damn day.Posted by heliumfiascoGot it. Hmm Libra moons are interesting. I briefly dated a Leo with that. Libra moons need friendships relationships more than others.Posted by frostey91Yeah, It was moon. I got it mixed up. Its been awhile with that one.Posted by heliumfiascoCapricorns can't have Libra VenusPosted by hippiecriteOddly enough. I feel very, very okay with him going off. I have no desire to chase. I feel at ease. It was just so weird.
Cap sun/Aqua Venus = emotional Aspergers
Romantic relationships aren’t something we particularly want or need. We value our freedom and our independence. It’s kinda scary when someone comes along and gives us pause. I mean, even with well matched individuals, relationships are hard work. Extra work. Extra work we weren’t exactly looking for. Ha. I could talk myself out of it every day. 😄
But we are better when we’re not alone. Deep down we know that. We’ve had people come along to remind us that and then make us think we were wrong, only to be reminded again.
You can only control you. Live your life. That’s what attracted him in the first place and it’ll be what attracts the next one if this guy can’t get his head out of his ass.
I dated a Capricorn with a Scorpio Moon and Libra Venus. He ran off once. Actually left me at a bar in the middle of our date because he was so scared of me. He ended up calling me a week later and we were full fledged a couple, actually moved across country together within a month. One of the best boyfriends I ever had actually.
This new one is very stoic, but funny also. He is super open. First date telling me his entire life story, about his personal finances down to whipping out a calculator to tell me his hourly rate... haha. It was crazy. Then, boom his ex gets in a relationship, he backs off completely. Yet, for some reason my gut is telling me he thinks Im rejecting him, but he is the one who needs space. Does that make sense?
I took that as time to bow out, and if he decides what he wants, he can approach me.
But my intuition is saying he isn't happy about it, and I dont know why I think that. I could be wrong. He is very sensitive. Has repeatedly told me he likes me but is really confused.click to expand
Posted by daron76PREACH!! 🙌Posted by ellesbelles
Yeah, don't chase. Let him figure out what is going on in his head.....and keep doing you.
My Cap and I went two years with no contact because I was just exhausted with the confusion and he needed to figure out what he wanted.
These placements need you to hold on loosely. The Aqua Venus needs a solid friendship first and the Cap Sun needs to trust himself.
Exes are a pain in the ass with these guys because they can't seem to let them go completely. Probably because it takes them so dang long to actually *be* in a relationship and they cover every angle possible....and it's a huge hit to the head and heart when it doesnt work out.
Sometimes, when I read your posts, I swear you are talking about me!!! Then I get over myself and realize its some other lucky fella 😄
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Posted by hippiecriteMaybe I did come off inconsistent? But I was very upfront, probably too upfront. Didn't show much patience either. It isn't my strong suit. However, I thought he was really rude on our last date. Very stand offish, didnt talk... It felt so awkward!!! I was wondering why he even showed up. So I told him that night I liked him but if he wasnt into it, I wasnt going to chase him. I asked if he liked me...
Wait. What?
I need consistency. And I need real. If you’re putting up a front for me, it feels weird and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. If you’re inconsistent, I’m not going to feel safe in opening up to you and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. Then you’re gonna call *me* inconsistent?
Not fair.
Be consistent. Be real. And don’t be afraid to show your warmth to us. You’re not gonna freak us out, if we’re legit interested. Being warm allows us to start being warm. Show us hot and cold and eventually all you’re gonna get is cold.

Posted by AndalusiaShed me some light on this exact combination in my inbox please.Posted by heliumfiascoIt's mostly the Cap bits, imo. I've dated aqua sun aqua Venus men and you always know where you stand with them.Posted by SamCancerGirlIs that just Aqua Venus in general, or does the Cap add something to that?
Very hard to catch
They don’t like to be tied down
The Cap bits add the cloudiness.click to expand
Posted by RingsOfSaturnThis was a really well written response. Makes total sense.
With cap sun Aqua Venus, emotions aren't very obvious to this person. The cap sun suppresses feelings to accomplish goals. Who knows what the Aqua Venus feels about anything. The feelings for other people are there but not obvious to someone with this placement. It is hidden from them.
Usually there is a trigger moment that causes this person to go aha I really like this person. Once the switch is flipped then the cap side will take over and lock on as a goal and chase.
In the meantime there are things that will cause that switch not to flip. The feelings are there but if there are mixed signals this will confuse the cap Aqua more. They could be stuck between liking you and not sure like a light switch turned halfway neither turning on or off the light.

Posted by ellesbellesTotally an Aqua Venus thing too tho. I’m awkward as fuck. Being warm and consistent or hot n cold is the difference between me sitting stiff in a chair or us cuddling up on the loveseat. 😄Posted by hippiecriteI spy with my eye....A Scorpio moon....lol
Wait. What?
I need consistency. And I need real. If you’re putting up a front for me, it feels weird and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. If you’re inconsistent, I’m not going to feel safe in opening up to you and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. Then you’re gonna call *me* inconsistent?
Not fair.
Be consistent. Be real. And don’t be afraid to show your warmth to us. You’re not gonna freak us out, if we’re legit interested. Being warm allows us to start being warm. Show us hot and cold and eventually all you’re gonna get is cold.click to expand


Posted by ellesbellesYes!Posted by hippiecritelol....I can relate as a partner to one.Posted by ellesbellesTotally an Aqua Venus thing too tho. I’m awkward as fuck. Being warm and consistent or hot n cold is the difference between me sitting stiff in a chair or us cuddling up on the loveseat. 😄Posted by hippiecriteI spy with my eye....A Scorpio moon....lol
Wait. What?
I need consistency. And I need real. If you’re putting up a front for me, it feels weird and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. If you’re inconsistent, I’m not going to feel safe in opening up to you and I’m gonna start to wonder wtf. Then you’re gonna call *me* inconsistent?
Not fair.
Be consistent. Be real. And don’t be afraid to show your warmth to us. You’re not gonna freak us out, if we’re legit interested. Being warm allows us to start being warm. Show us hot and cold and eventually all you’re gonna get is cold.
We can be having a platonic conversation about the invention of some obscure object....with him sounding like a professor....and then there are moments he is twirling my hair thru his fingers and can't snuggle close enough....snuggling so close it's like he is trying to fuse us together....lolclick to expand

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