Capricorn Woman with Leo Man

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by DecFemCap on Friday, December 16, 2016 and has 22 replies.
What is your experience with this type of relationship?

There is a 20 year age difference with him being older.

I have dated Leos before they seem hot and cold to me but so far we are just taking it slow.

Soo shoot.
Posted by Capri-sun
The one leo I can recall, was direct, no hot & cold.
What was your experience?
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.
Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by Capri-sun
The one leo I can recall, was direct, no hot & cold.
What was your experience?
Always wanted to spend time together and talk. It wasn't a relationship though. I didn't get any cold behavior from him. Leos are usually very verbally expressive and they enjoy that in return. Warm (unless you piss them off), outgoing, and fun
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Gotta agree with you! Wish you could make my Cap understand the same. Winking We love it when we get it in return (verbal expressiveness, openness to at least a considerable extent, especially when you're in a relationship with us)! smile

OP, I don't think I understand the 'hot and cold' behaviour from a Leo, either. But I'd like to suggest that you get it clear to avoid misunderstanding because that's what killed the relationship in my case.

He was the one playing 'hot and cold' initially (don't know if he realised it or not), but when I began reading many posts on Capricorns' needs, behaviour and wants, I began giving him his space (staying out of touch for days or even weeks till he'd initiate a conversation). He then perceived this as me going cold on him. This is one of the areas where misunderstandings began! Good luck to you, though! smile

Posted by DecFemCap
What is your experience with this type of relationship?

There is a 20 year age difference with him being older.

I have dated Leos before they seem hot and cold to me but so far we are just taking it slow.

Soo shoot.
So with the age gap of 20 years do they behave little calmer ?

Posted by marshmallow
Posted by DecFemCap
What is your experience with this type of relationship?

There is a 20 year age difference with him being older.

I have dated Leos before they seem hot and cold to me but so far we are just taking it slow.

Soo shoot.
So with the age gap of 20 years do they behave little calmer ?

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Hmm. More mature and very sweet when you do have a conversation.. which draws me in right?

Then I don't hear from him in a couple days or he will text me and it will be very short. It's like he wants me to keep interest in him but he is taking his sweet time to step up and be consistent.

This is what I'm referring to when I say hot and cold.

Like he planned a date and everything for after the holidays. But shidd. He makes me feel like he's debating if he really wants to wanna go!

My inner "Dianna Ross" is telling me to not play much into until we have our official first date.

I feel that if you are gonna talk to a Leo man as a single Capricorn Woman or just Woman, you would want to have others interested in you as well even if you like him the most just you don't cringe when he's go on his ego vacation trips of not calling or texting for a few days.

Also, he thinks he knows my mind. Like yeah your 41 and I'm 21 but I hate texting! Call me say your peace and have a great day. Don't text me all the fudging time. It's annoying. But since I stated that he has made calls more often.

I'll just see where this goes but honestly I think the first date will be nice but will make him realize what he is in for.

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Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by Capri-sun
The one leo I can recall, was direct, no hot & cold.
What was your experience?
Always wanted to spend time together and talk. It wasn't a relationship though. I didn't get any cold behavior from him. Leos are usually very verbally expressive and they enjoy that in return. Warm (unless you piss them off), outgoing, and fun


Gotta agree with you! Wish you could make my Cap understand the same. Winking We love it when we get it in return (verbal expressiveness, openness to at least a considerable extent, especially when you're in a relationship with us)! smile

OP, I don't think I understand the 'hot and cold' behaviour from a Leo, either. But I'd like to suggest that you get it clear to avoid misunderstanding because that's what killed the relationship in my case.

He was the one playing 'hot and cold' initially (don't know if he realised it or not), but when I began reading many posts on Capricorns' needs, behaviour and wants, I began giving him his space (staying out of touch for days or even weeks till he'd initiate a conversation). He then perceived this as me going cold on him. This is one of the areas where misunderstandings began! Good luck to you, though! smile

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Capricorn woman are affectionate in secret!

Yes we love to nurture and be all lovely like a romance movie but..we need to know that we are not being taken for granted. It just makes being affectionate more meaningful at least to me! The hot and cold is on the Leo's part. I hate not being consistent! Rather FWB or a relationship! This is not double dutch choose one and stay in your lane. But I try to not come off as so aggressive even though that's what I be thinking.

I cant help it sometimes. Sun-Capricorn Moon-Libra
Posted by LoisLane
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.
I haven't insulted him..maybe he's trying to still feel me out. But we seem to hit it off. Idk
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by LoisLane
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.
I haven't insulted him..maybe he's trying to still feel me out. But we seem to hit it off. Idk
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This is embarrassing to say, but here goes! This Leo is 54 years old. I am 51. He's still a rude, crude, dude! We both decided to cancel our POF memberships, we called one another "lovey" names: Babe, Hon, Baby, etc. He texted, "After all, I'm your boyfriend, right?", etc. We spent our first weekend at his town; then he came to mine. I informed him he would meet my 10 year old. "Wow" was his response. After he left that Sunday morning we kissed and he said he'd send me pictures of his hunt (deer). I texted him to find out if he made it home. He texted, "At ranch, losing signal". That was Sunday. I called and texted him on Monday (last week) and haven't heard from him; so I know what you mean about "hot/cold" as they are famous for this. It makes a woman wonder when shes sit back as she goes thru a film in her mind asking what happened? What did I say/didn't say? Guess what? I have let go. I'm Piscean and I don't need that butter from a 54 year old man. I'm done. Date a Leo again? Treetrunking no!!! Angry

Cyber hugs! Hug

Love,

Eva

PS: I have deleted his number and FB pics. "Outta site outta mind".

Lol, what advice would ya give me? The Cap I know can be super sweet (the kind of sweet that I like) when he's sweet and really cold when he's cold! Stick to the Cap, so I'll have more stories to post here? Winking
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Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by LoisLane
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.
I haven't insulted him..maybe he's trying to still feel me out. But we seem to hit it off. Idk
This is embarrassing to say, but here goes! This Leo is 54 years old. I am 51. He's still a rude, crude, dude! We both decided to cancel our POF memberships, we called one another "lovey" names: Babe, Hon, Baby, etc. He texted, "After all, I'm your boyfriend, right?", etc. We spent our first weekend at his town; then he came to mine. I informed him he would meet my 10 year old. "Wow" was his response. After he left that Sunday morning we kissed and he said he'd send me pictures of his hunt (deer). I texted him to find out if he made it home. He texted, "At ranch, losing signal". That was Sunday. I called and texted him on Monday (last week) and haven't heard from him; so I know what you mean about "hot/cold" as they are famous for this. It makes a woman wonder when shes sit back as she goes thru a film in her mind asking what happened? What did I say/didn't say? Guess what? I have let go. I'm Piscean and I don't need that butter from a 54 year old man. I'm done. Date a Leo again? Treetrunking no!!! Angry

Cyber hugs! Hug

Love,

Eva

PS: I have deleted his number and FB pics. "Outta site outta mind".

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You go girl!!

Come to think of it, I've had leo friends who have gone hot and cold on me, but like I said have also encountered some clingy ones.. I think my Venus in cap makes them feel insecure and get clingy (I'm not openly affectionate). It probably doesn't speak for all Leo's. Your man friend sounds like a total d bag, and you're better off not wasting your time! He'll probably come around if you don't chase him, but who even wants a guy like that. ?

Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by marshmallow
Posted by DecFemCap
What is your experience with this type of relationship?

There is a 20 year age difference with him being older.

I have dated Leos before they seem hot and cold to me but so far we are just taking it slow.

Soo shoot.
So with the age gap of 20 years do they behave little calmer ?

Hmm. More mature and very sweet when you do have a conversation.. which draws me in right?

Then I don't hear from him in a couple days or he will text me and it will be very short. It's like he wants me to keep interest in him but he is taking his sweet time to step up and be consistent.

This is what I'm referring to when I say hot and cold.

Like he planned a date and everything for after the holidays. But shidd. He makes me feel like he's debating if he really wants to wanna go!

My inner "Dianna Ross" is telling me to not play much into until we have our official first date.

I feel that if you are gonna talk to a Leo man as a single Capricorn Woman or just Woman, you would want to have others interested in you as well even if you like him the most just you don't cringe when he's go on his ego vacation trips of not calling or texting for a few days.

Also, he thinks he knows my mind. Like yeah your 41 and I'm 21 but I hate texting! Call me say your peace and have a great day. Don't text me all the fudging time. It's annoying. But since I stated that he has made calls more often.

I'll just see where this goes but honestly I think the first date will be nice but will make him realize what he is in for.

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Lol you atleast have your first date . Dont think so much so soon smile

"I feel that if you are gonna talk to a Leo man as a single Capricorn Woman or just Woman, you would want to have others interested in you as well"

I would not do that with a leo . I dont think leos can handle jealousy well . He may not be so interested if he knows that you have others around .


"Then I don't hear from him in a couple days or he will text me and it will be very short. It's like he wants me to keep interest in him but he is taking his sweet time to step up and be consistent."

Leo are super busy with so many people which we caps can never understand . I dont think he would be playing hot and cold on purpose .

Dont judge and dont just keep impulsively waiting . Give things time , see where it goes and then take it from there .
Posted by DecFemCap
What is your experience with this type of relationship?

There is a 20 year age difference with him being older.

I have dated Leos before they seem hot and cold to me but so far we are just taking it slow.

Soo shoot.
As an earth meeting fire. Hmmm it's cool and hot.
Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by LoisLane
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.
I haven't insulted him..maybe he's trying to still feel me out. But we seem to hit it off. Idk
This is embarrassing to say, but here goes! This Leo is 54 years old. I am 51. He's still a rude, crude, dude! We both decided to cancel our POF memberships, we called one another "lovey" names: Babe, Hon, Baby, etc. He texted, "After all, I'm your boyfriend, right?", etc. We spent our first weekend at his town; then he came to mine. I informed him he would meet my 10 year old. "Wow" was his response. After he left that Sunday morning we kissed and he said he'd send me pictures of his hunt (deer). I texted him to find out if he made it home. He texted, "At ranch, losing signal". That was Sunday. I called and texted him on Monday (last week) and haven't heard from him; so I know what you mean about "hot/cold" as they are famous for this. It makes a woman wonder when shes sit back as she goes thru a film in her mind asking what happened? What did I say/didn't say? Guess what? I have let go. I'm Piscean and I don't need that butter from a 54 year old man. I'm done. Date a Leo again? Treetrunking no!!! Angry

Cyber hugs! Hug

Love,

Eva

PS: I have deleted his number and FB pics. "Outta site outta mind".

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Shit so they dont improve even at 54 Sad

Age matters? Maturity matters? Respect matters? Geezer what's up with the lack of.
Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by LoisLane
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.
I haven't insulted him..maybe he's trying to still feel me out. But we seem to hit it off. Idk
This is embarrassing to say, but here goes! This Leo is 54 years old. I am 51. He's still a rude, crude, dude! We both decided to cancel our POF memberships, we called one another "lovey" names: Babe, Hon, Baby, etc. He texted, "After all, I'm your boyfriend, right?", etc. We spent our first weekend at his town; then he came to mine. I informed him he would meet my 10 year old. "Wow" was his response. After he left that Sunday morning we kissed and he said he'd send me pictures of his hunt (deer). I texted him to find out if he made it home. He texted, "At ranch, losing signal". That was Sunday. I called and texted him on Monday (last week) and haven't heard from him; so I know what you mean about "hot/cold" as they are famous for this. It makes a woman wonder when shes sit back as she goes thru a film in her mind asking what happened? What did I say/didn't say? Guess what? I have let go. I'm Piscean and I don't need that butter from a 54 year old man. I'm done. Date a Leo again? Treetrunking no!!! Angry

Cyber hugs! Hug

Love,

Eva

PS: I have deleted his number and FB pics. "Outta site outta mind".



Should've stuck with the cap Tongue just kidding...

Hug

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LOL! No thanks. No spark. His kisses were "wet" and he hunched like early osteoporosis. Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Pisceans don't settle for less than the best! Cool

I don't do hot and cold. I'm hot until I'm cold. Once I'm cold, there's no warmth left.

Per your thread, I was married to a Cap for 10 years. It's definitely not a good match. Totally different thought process.
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Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by LoisLane
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.
I haven't insulted him..maybe he's trying to still feel me out. But we seem to hit it off. Idk
This is embarrassing to say, but here goes! This Leo is 54 years old. I am 51. He's still a rude, crude, dude! We both decided to cancel our POF memberships, we called one another "lovey" names: Babe, Hon, Baby, etc. He texted, "After all, I'm your boyfriend, right?", etc. We spent our first weekend at his town; then he came to mine. I informed him he would meet my 10 year old. "Wow" was his response. After he left that Sunday morning we kissed and he said he'd send me pictures of his hunt (deer). I texted him to find out if he made it home. He texted, "At ranch, losing signal". That was Sunday. I called and texted him on Monday (last week) and haven't heard from him; so I know what you mean about "hot/cold" as they are famous for this. It makes a woman wonder when shes sit back as she goes thru a film in her mind asking what happened? What did I say/didn't say? Guess what? I have let go. I'm Piscean and I don't need that butter from a 54 year old man. I'm done. Date a Leo again? Treetrunking no!!! Angry

Cyber hugs! Hug

Love,

Eva

PS: I have deleted his number and FB pics. "Outta site outta mind".

You go girl!!

Come to think of it, I've had leo friends who have gone hot and cold on me, but like I said have also encountered some clingy ones.. I think my Venus in cap makes them feel insecure and get clingy (I'm not openly affectionate). It probably doesn't speak for all Leo's. Your man friend sounds like a total d bag, and you're better off not wasting your time! He'll probably come around if you don't chase him, but who even wants a guy like that. ?

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Thanks girl. He messed with the wrong WOMAN! And yes, he's a D bag. I went to the club last week and danced all night with an Aries man. Super cute! He's not a "text" man and called me last night. We talked for two and a half hours! Thank you God, for sending me a man with BALLS!!!!!! Big Grin

Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: My dad is Aries. This guy is such a gentleman! His wife passed away of breast cancer about 11 years ago. We talked all night until 11:30 pm. He's a school teacher. Awwwww

Posted by marshmallow
Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by DecFemCap
Posted by LoisLane
In my experience, Leo men usually ONLY go cold if you insult their pride. I've had many a Leo interested in me, they seemed quite clingy actually.. Definitely always direct.
I haven't insulted him..maybe he's trying to still feel me out. But we seem to hit it off. Idk
This is embarrassing to say, but here goes! This Leo is 54 years old. I am 51. He's still a rude, crude, dude! We both decided to cancel our POF memberships, we called one another "lovey" names: Babe, Hon, Baby, etc. He texted, "After all, I'm your boyfriend, right?", etc. We spent our first weekend at his town; then he came to mine. I informed him he would meet my 10 year old. "Wow" was his response. After he left that Sunday morning we kissed and he said he'd send me pictures of his hunt (deer). I texted him to find out if he made it home. He texted, "At ranch, losing signal". That was Sunday. I called and texted him on Monday (last week) and haven't heard from him; so I know what you mean about "hot/cold" as they are famous for this. It makes a woman wonder when shes sit back as she goes thru a film in her mind asking what happened? What did I say/didn't say? Guess what? I have let go. I'm Piscean and I don't need that butter from a 54 year old man. I'm done. Date a Leo again? Treetrunking no!!! Angry

Cyber hugs! Hug

Love,

Eva

PS: I have deleted his number and FB pics. "Outta site outta mind".

Shit so they dont improve even at 54 Sad

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Nope! And he's got two children; your typical Leo that marries later in life. His youngest daughter is 15. "What goes around comes around" "Karma" and "He should be careful how he treats women, etc." Sorry! Thought I had a "gem" on my hands, 6'5", hunter/fisherman, works for the Government (as I do, too), his ex wife is Hispanic, etc, etc, etc. I realized this Leo guy is just not for me. He's someone else's TRASH.

Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by ParisianCappy
sometimes there is lack of balls in leo guy
Only if I start losing interest
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Posted by Ssuperman
I don't do hot and cold. I'm hot until I'm cold. Once I'm cold, there's no warmth left.

Per your thread, I was married to a Cap for 10 years. It's definitely not a good match. Totally different thought process.
What problems did you face? If you don't mind my asking...

What were her other placements?

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Just different outlooks on life. For a Cap, she was LAZY. Lazier than me! I'm not OCD but I dang sure ain't a slob.
Where did you meet him?