Capricorns
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by AllegoryAddict on Monday, August 7, 2017 and has 45 replies.
Is it popular opinion that Capricorns are insatiable, and any attempts in meeting their desires are oftentimes futile?
I agree that this is true
I'm extremely hard to please.
Posted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Posted by Arielle83If we're critical of others? I think we're critical of all that surrounds us, but most critical of ourselves.
Critical?
Both my parents and my brother are Caps, and that's what I've observed. We don't do it with ill intent...we just expect a lot from ourselves and can't comprehend when others don't at least try to meet their full potential.
Posted by halalbaeI've been round here for years, just take breaks from time to time.Posted by AllegoryAddicttotally unrelated but i feel like you had an account before, but i dont remember your previous usernamePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
welcome back if its youclick to expand
Grazie! ?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeAsk yourself that. Weren't you CapInc's stalker?Posted by AllegoryAddictWhy would anybody have a desire to impress a cardboard?
Is it popular opinion that Capricorns are insatiable, and any attempts in meeting their desires are oftentimes futile?
This is a philosophical question.click to expand
CC, it's disheartening to see that after all this time, you've yet to change. Or grow as a person, rather.
I've noticed this...that we are insatiable, but I notice it a lot in many Cardinal women....
Posted by AllegoryAddictI wouldn't go there. We have high standards for others because we have high standards for ourselves.
Is it popular opinion that Capricorns are insatiable, and any attempts in meeting their desires are oftentimes futile?
I have a Cap Moon and have some of that. I know what you mean. I've had to bite my tongue and silently roll my eyes and breathe slowly and deeply at times just to NOT say what I wanted to say about whatever was happening / better yet - not happening. I had been there a few times. Mostly though when men try to do some sort of handy work for me around the house - rather than in a relationship mode.
I've been told that I "think like a man" and that was a complement coming from a man friend of mine - because he took the effort to really get to know me. He actually liked that factor in me. If someone doesn't really know you, then they will put all the blame on you when in essence it is a lack of understanding.
One of the Capricorn traits is that we expect others to think like we do. That's not the case. Therein lies our journey.
Posted by tctageez I really hosed that up - I fixed itPosted by AllegoryAddictI wouldn't go there. We have high standards for others because we have high standards for ourselves.
Is it popular opinion that Capricorns are insatiable, and any attempts in meeting their desires are oftentimes futile?
I have a Cap Moon and have some of that. I know what you mean. I've had to bite my tongue and silently roll my eyes and breathe slowly and deeply at times just to NOT say what I wanted to say about whatever was happening / better yet - not happening. I had been there a few times. Mostly though when men try to do some sort of handy work for me around the house - rather than in a relationship mode.
I've been told that I "think like a man" and that was a complement coming from a man friend of mine - because he took the effort to really get to know me. He actually liked that factor in me. If someone doesn't really know you, then they will put all the blame on you when in essence it is a lack of understanding.
One of the Capricorn traits is that we expect others to think like we do. That's not the case. Therein lies our journey.click to expand
I understood either way! ?
Posted by EllygantThis. I DESPISE dating. The pretense, the shallow conversations, the staunch refusal to just be one's self. It's all so nauseating.Posted by Chance_12I agree to an extent but to that inside the relationship.Posted by Ellygant
I'd say it's less about being insatiable and more self-protective.
Caps make me think of a mega yacht on course. They'll forge the deep (emotional) seas offering you all the luxuries at their disposal (for the relationship). But once they've charted a course, there's no turning that boat around. It's impossible. So the price to journey is high as a result.
Not for some of the more lighthearted or breezier signs.
Caps are way more adaptable and intuitive than that. What you're describing sounds like fixed behavior..a scorp heading towards an iceberg that everyone can see but themselves. A good Cardinal leader should always be changing course and coordinates based on new knowledge and sharpening of abilities.
Most caps I know hate new relationships. They're the only cardinal sign I notice that doesn't rebound too well. Aries, cancer and Libra will all bounce back into the field quickly.
I'd say about 80% ish of my cap friends emphatically say they hate dating and meeting new people. None of which have Scorpio in their charts. Though they have some Aqua so there is some fixed.
Come to think of it the only caps I know that rebound quickly and tend to relationship jump have Scorp mars or venus. Lol.click to expand
Then people label you as an asshole because you disappear.
Posted by Brosmosis*badum tss* He'll be here all night, folks. Don't forget to tip your waitress!
I like Caps.
Whenever I have trouble sleeping, I just talk to a Cap and BOOM! Ready to hit the hay and catch some ZZzzzZzZzzz
Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.click to expand
Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.click to expand
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.click to expand
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.
Posted by EtherealTravelerI come from a long line of Caps (both parents and brother), and we were all late bloomers. Caps just like to have their lives in order before venturing out into the romantic world. No worries. Leo moon and Saturn in Scorpio.Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.click to expand
Posted by AllegoryAddictI come from a slightly less long line of Caps but my cousins are Caps and they're one of the most successful ones in the family line (My mom's brother's daughter is a doctor while my dad's brother's son works in a bank). In my case, my grandmother and mother are also Caps, with my mom being a Sag-Cap cusp but still on the Cap side. I'm the slightly odd one out since I'm a male amomgst the Caps in my family line.Posted by EtherealTravelerI come from a long line of Caps (both parents and brother), and we were all late bloomers. Caps just like to have their lives in order before venturing out into the romantic world. No worries. Leo moon and Saturn in Scorpio.Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.click to expand
I try every now and then to venture into the romantic world in all honesties, starting from 13. But sadly, all of those ended up in a fail and sometimes I got hurt and disappointed over it myself. All this time I tried to seek emotional intimacy, but maybe it's time to stop and get my life in complete order before retrying?
Posted by EtherealTravelerI would if I were in your place. When Caps fall in love, we go all in. Right now, you need to focus on your studies. Your future self will thank you.Posted by AllegoryAddictI come from a slightly less long line of Caps but my cousins are Caps and they're one of the most successful ones in the family line (My mom's brother's daughter is a doctor while my dad's brother's son works in a bank). In my case, my grandmother and mother are also Caps, with my mom being a Sag-Cap cusp but still on the Cap side. I'm the slightly odd one out since I'm a male amomgst the Caps in my family line.Posted by EtherealTravelerI come from a long line of Caps (both parents and brother), and we were all late bloomers. Caps just like to have their lives in order before venturing out into the romantic world. No worries. Leo moon and Saturn in Scorpio.Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.
I try every now and then to venture into the romantic world in all honesties, starting from 13. But sadly, all of those ended up in a fail and sometimes I got hurt and disappointed over it myself. All this time I tried to seek emotional intimacy, but maybe it's time to stop and get my life in complete order before retrying?click to expand
Posted by AllegoryAddictSo when should I exactly start venturing again? At your age when you first dated or?Posted by EtherealTravelerI would if I were in your place. When Caps fall in love, we go all in. Right now, you need to focus on your studies. Your future self will thank you.Posted by AllegoryAddictI come from a slightly less long line of Caps but my cousins are Caps and they're one of the most successful ones in the family line (My mom's brother's daughter is a doctor while my dad's brother's son works in a bank). In my case, my grandmother and mother are also Caps, with my mom being a Sag-Cap cusp but still on the Cap side. I'm the slightly odd one out since I'm a male amomgst the Caps in my family line.Posted by EtherealTravelerI come from a long line of Caps (both parents and brother), and we were all late bloomers. Caps just like to have their lives in order before venturing out into the romantic world. No worries. Leo moon and Saturn in Scorpio.Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.
I try every now and then to venture into the romantic world in all honesties, starting from 13. But sadly, all of those ended up in a fail and sometimes I got hurt and disappointed over it myself. All this time I tried to seek emotional intimacy, but maybe it's time to stop and get my life in complete order before retrying?click to expand
I've been teased that I wouldn't kiss someone before 20, should I not care about those remarks?
Posted by EtherealTravelerMake friends with females in college. But don't put yourself in situations where your education plans could be derailed. I've found that Caps fall in love with those who we not only see as the romantic ideal, but those with whom we share an incredible friendship. It was the same with my parents, and the same with me and and my ex-husband. So, make friends...midway(age 20 or so)if you find yourself having romantic feelings for someone, make sure they understand the importance of your goals and that they are willing to support you as you see them through.Posted by AllegoryAddictSo when should I exactly start venturing again? At your age when you first dated or?Posted by EtherealTravelerI would if I were in your place. When Caps fall in love, we go all in. Right now, you need to focus on your studies. Your future self will thank you.Posted by AllegoryAddictI come from a slightly less long line of Caps but my cousins are Caps and they're one of the most successful ones in the family line (My mom's brother's daughter is a doctor while my dad's brother's son works in a bank). In my case, my grandmother and mother are also Caps, with my mom being a Sag-Cap cusp but still on the Cap side. I'm the slightly odd one out since I'm a male amomgst the Caps in my family line.Posted by EtherealTravelerI come from a long line of Caps (both parents and brother), and we were all late bloomers. Caps just like to have their lives in order before venturing out into the romantic world. No worries. Leo moon and Saturn in Scorpio.Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.
I try every now and then to venture into the romantic world in all honesties, starting from 13. But sadly, all of those ended up in a fail and sometimes I got hurt and disappointed over it myself. All this time I tried to seek emotional intimacy, but maybe it's time to stop and get my life in complete order before retrying?
I've been teased that I wouldn't kiss someone before 20, should I not care about those remarks;click to expand
Caps are ambitious creatures, and not everyone understands that. Just make sure you choose someone who does, and preferably, is ambitious too. Cap men appreciate strong, intelligent, and goal-oriented women who have things going for themselves.
Posted by AllegoryAddictThe Cap speaks again with intelligence that can be remembered and used forever ? Thank you for helpingPosted by EtherealTravelerMake friends with females in college. But don't put yourself in situations where your education plans could be derailed. I've found that Caps fall in love with those who we not only see as the romantic ideal, but those with whom we share an incredible friendship. It was the same with my parents, and the same with me and and my ex-husband. So, make friends...midway(age 20 or so)if you find yourself having romantic feelings for someone, make sure they understand the importance of your goals and that they are willing to support you as you see them through.Posted by AllegoryAddictSo when should I exactly start venturing again? At your age when you first dated or?Posted by EtherealTravelerI would if I were in your place. When Caps fall in love, we go all in. Right now, you need to focus on your studies. Your future self will thank you.Posted by AllegoryAddictI come from a slightly less long line of Caps but my cousins are Caps and they're one of the most successful ones in the family line (My mom's brother's daughter is a doctor while my dad's brother's son works in a bank). In my case, my grandmother and mother are also Caps, with my mom being a Sag-Cap cusp but still on the Cap side. I'm the slightly odd one out since I'm a male amomgst the Caps in my family line.Posted by EtherealTravelerI come from a long line of Caps (both parents and brother), and we were all late bloomers. Caps just like to have their lives in order before venturing out into the romantic world. No worries. Leo moon and Saturn in Scorpio.Posted by AllegoryAddictThis gave me a bit of hope. I'm 17 and never dated yet. So at least it shows that Caps can be late bloomers or simply get into relationships later on rather than rushing into one really soon!Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
Also OP, what's your moon sign? I have Pisces moon and Taurus in Saturn and I'm insatiable in the form of materialistic goods and emotional intimacy.
I try every now and then to venture into the romantic world in all honesties, starting from 13. But sadly, all of those ended up in a fail and sometimes I got hurt and disappointed over it myself. All this time I tried to seek emotional intimacy, but maybe it's time to stop and get my life in complete order before retrying?
I've been teased that I wouldn't kiss someone before 20, should I not care about those remarks;
Caps are ambitious creatures, and not everyone understands that. Just make sure you choose someone who does, and preferably, is ambitious too. Cap men appreciate strong, intelligent, and goal-oriented women who have things going for themselves.click to expand
You're welcome! Good luck to you.
Posted by AllegoryAddictFor me it's like I put in a lot of effort and go out of my way for someone, so I expect the same. I always feel like there's something that could be worked on , I like challenges so I like people that push theirself and me. Easy going is not for me?Posted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.click to expand
Let Caps make emself happy 
Just dont do the opposite and be a wrench in the works.
Just dont do the opposite and be a wrench in the works. @AllegoryAddict
Now that I finally remember, holy shit you remind me of UndauntedSoul so much, the Cap lady with a Leo moon as well back then and offered many insightful advice.
Do you know her, or maybe even, are you two the same person?
Now that I finally remember, holy shit you remind me of UndauntedSoul so much, the Cap lady with a Leo moon as well back then and offered many insightful advice.
Do you know her, or maybe even, are you two the same person?
Posted by AllegoryAddictwhat happened to your marriage if I may ask ?Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83i agree. But in our defense, we mean well when we're that way. We have a vision for our organizations, whether that organization is a professional or familial one. We are a people who believe in maximizing one's life(and the lives of those around us), potential, and opportunities. What we have to understand is that not everyone is on the same journey. And that's the beauty of the world.Posted by AllegoryAddictMy dads a cap, I moved to oz for a cap. I spend 9 hours a day at work with a cap and I carpool with another cap.Posted by Arielle83If we're critical of others? I think we're critical of all that surrounds us, but most critical of ourselves.
Critical?
Both my parents and my brother are Caps, and that's what I've observed. We don't do it with ill intent...we just expect a lot from ourselves and can't comprehend when others don't at least try to meet their full potential.
They expect the world to bend to them, and if they don't understand, they're critical and expect change to exist externally.
Rather than learning to accept.
Yes. Hard to please, because cap expects nothing less than their wayclick to expand
With us Caps, I think we often learn late in life that we should've stopped and appreciated the simple things...as they were, not how we wanted them to be.
Posted by tctaWell, my ex-husband(a Pisces) and I were both in the military, as previously mentioned. We both suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. To a severe degree, at that. That contributed a lot to the demise. He started becoming very anti-government, and wished to get out of the military, despite us just having had our daughter. I supported my husband, but I wanted him to have a plan and do something constructive. I stayed in the military to provide for our family, and completed my undergrad in that time, as well. He was extremely bright and was gifted in mathematics. So, I urged him to go to university and apply his gift. He majored in accounting. Then later got accepted into a prestigious electrical engineering program. His father disapproved of this, telling my husband that I was making him be someone he wasn't. My father-in-law had never approved of me, nor the marriage...because of my cultural background. In other words, because I wasn't Caucasian. The PTSD, the incessant influence from his father, and what my husband would later tell me was my pushing him to be someone he wasn't...my marriage crumbled. I stayed and tried to make it work. Offered for us to go to counseling. But...my husband was done trying. He'd fallen out of love and out of desire to try to save our marriage.Posted by AllegoryAddictwhat happened to your marriage if I may ask ?Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.click to expand
But still, he even admitted he would never be the one to leave...so, I left. My husband was my best friend, and I truly wanted to see him happy. Because he was a beautiful person. We were just a bad match...we wanted different things in life.
Posted by AllegoryAddictwhere is he in life now ? does he look at things differently - I was also married to a Pisces who is sorry now that he gave up the marriage - I guess I looked at this as some sort of weakness that didn't sit well with me - inevitably it was I who moved forward and pushed the final buttonPosted by tctaWell, my ex-husband(a Pisces) and I were both in the military, as previously mentioned. We both suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. To a severe degree, at that. That contributed a lot to the demise. He started becoming very anti-government, and wished to get out of the military, despite us just having had our daughter. I supported my husband, but I wanted him to have a plan and do something constructive. I stayed in the military to provide for our family, and completed my undergrad in that time, as well. He was extremely bright and was gifted in mathematics. So, I urged him to go to university and apply his gift. He majored in accounting. Then later got accepted into a prestigious electrical engineering program. His father disapproved of this, telling my husband that I was making him be someone he wasn't. My father-in-law had never approved of me, nor the marriage...because of my cultural background. In other words, because I wasn't Caucasian. The PTSD, the incessant influence from his father, and what my husband would later tell me was my pushing him to be someone he wasn't...my marriage crumbled. I stayed and tried to make it work. Offered for us to go to counseling. But...my husband was done trying. He'd fallen out of love and out of desire to try to save our marriage.Posted by AllegoryAddictwhat happened to your marriage if I may ask ?Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
But still, he even admitted he would never be the one to leave...so, I left. My husband was my best friend, and I truly wanted to see him happy. Because he was a beautiful person. We were just a bad match...we wanted different things in life.click to expand
Posted by tctaWell, he dropped out of the electrical engineering program one term before graduating, because his father told him I had only supported him through schooling because I planned on capitalizing on his career as an engineer by way of child support. So, he works low-paying jobs in his home state.Posted by AllegoryAddictwhere is he in life now ? does he look at things differently - I was also married to a Pisces who is sorry now that he gave up the marriage - I guess I looked at this as some sort of weakness that didn't sit well with me - inevitably it was I who moved forward and pushed the final buttonPosted by tctaWell, my ex-husband(a Pisces) and I were both in the military, as previously mentioned. We both suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. To a severe degree, at that. That contributed a lot to the demise. He started becoming very anti-government, and wished to get out of the military, despite us just having had our daughter. I supported my husband, but I wanted him to have a plan and do something constructive. I stayed in the military to provide for our family, and completed my undergrad in that time, as well. He was extremely bright and was gifted in mathematics. So, I urged him to go to university and apply his gift. He majored in accounting. Then later got accepted into a prestigious electrical engineering program. His father disapproved of this, telling my husband that I was making him be someone he wasn't. My father-in-law had never approved of me, nor the marriage...because of my cultural background. In other words, because I wasn't Caucasian. The PTSD, the incessant influence from his father, and what my husband would later tell me was my pushing him to be someone he wasn't...my marriage crumbled. I stayed and tried to make it work. Offered for us to go to counseling. But...my husband was done trying. He'd fallen out of love and out of desire to try to save our marriage.Posted by AllegoryAddictwhat happened to your marriage if I may ask ?Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
But still, he even admitted he would never be the one to leave...so, I left. My husband was my best friend, and I truly wanted to see him happy. Because he was a beautiful person. We were just a bad match...we wanted different things in life.click to expand
I've been divorced for six years now. Never had my ex-husband pay child support, because honestly, we don't need it and my daughter's college is already paid for. He's gone through some rough patches, and really struggles with just taking care of himself. Again, I loved him dearly as a friend and don't want to see him in a bind.
I think my ex-husband finally saw that he was being manipulated by his father and had a falling out with him four years ago and hasn't spoken to him since.
We've talked and we've both acknowledged our shortcomings. We were young and inexperienced...and the lack of emotional support from our families really weighed heavily on us.
The last time I spoke to him, which was 6 months ago, he said, "You know, I want you to know that not an hour goes by that I don't think of you two." I told him respectfully, to not include me in that.
Not only has he been in relationship with someone for a couple of years, but you know how we are...when a Cap is finally done, there's no going back.
@AllegoryAddict
So you're UndauntedSoul a while back? Judging from you liking my comment?
So you're UndauntedSoul a while back? Judging from you liking my comment?
Posted by EtherealTravelerAffirmative, young sir.
@AllegoryAddict
So you're UndauntedSoul a while back? Judging from you liking my comment?
where is he in life now ? does he look at things differently - I was also married to a Pisces who is sorry now that he gave up the marriage - I guess I looked at this as some sort of weakness that didn't sit well with me - inevitably it was I who moved forward and pushed the final button
Well, my ex-husband(a Pisces) and I were both in the military, as previously mentioned. We both suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. To a severe degree, at that. That contributed a lot to the demise. He started becoming very anti-government, and wished to get out of the military, despite us just having had our daughter. I supported my husband, but I wanted him to have a plan and do something constructive. I stayed in the military to provide for our family, and completed my undergrad in that time, as well. He was extremely bright and was gifted in mathematics. So, I urged him to go to university and apply his gift. He majored in accounting. Then later got accepted into a prestigious electrical engineering program. His father disapproved of this, telling my husband that I was making him be someone he wasn't. My father-in-law had never approved of me, nor the marriage...because of my cultural background. In other words, because I wasn't Caucasian. The PTSD, the incessant influence from his father, and what my husband would later tell me was my pushing him to be someone he wasn't...my marriage crumbled. I stayed and tried to make it work. Offered for us to go to counseling. But...my husband was done trying. He'd fallen out of love and out of desire to try to save our marriage.
But still, he even admitted he would never be the one to leave...so, I left. My husband was my best friend, and I truly wanted to see him happy. Because he was a beautiful person. We were just a bad match...we wanted different things in life.
Well, he dropped out of the electrical engineering program one term before graduating, because his father told him I had only supported him through schooling because I planned on capitalizing on his career as an engineer by way of child support. So, he works low-paying jobs in his home state.
I've been divorced for six years now. Never had my ex-husband pay child support, because honestly, we don't need it and my daughter's college is already paid for. He's gone through some rough patches, and really struggles with just taking care of himself. Again, I loved him dearly as a friend and don't want to see him in a bind.
I think my ex-husband finally saw that he was being manipulated by his father and had a falling out with him four years ago and hasn't spoken to him since.
We've talked and we've both acknowledged our shortcomings. We were young and inexperienced...and the lack of emotional support from our families really weighed heavily on us.
The last time I spoke to him, which was 6 months ago, he said, "You know, I want you to know that not an hour goes by that I don't think of you two." I told him respectfully, to not include me in that.
Not only has he been in relationship with someone for a couple of years, but you know how we are...when a Cap is finally done, there's no going back.
- sounds familiar - my ex was bi-polar and I believe had a form of ptsd - I believe this comes from trauma no matter where that trauma comes from
I used to think how sweet he was with his compassionate comments but in the end they started giving me the creepies - he would say things like as well and start off the same way "you know, I'll never meet anyone like you again" blah blah blah ... ok, so ?
I too wish him well in life but yes, done is truly done
@tcta
Did you find yourself reluctant to date a Pisces again?
A few years ago, there was this really nice guy who, in our first conversation, divulged that his birthday was the same as my ex's. I don't think I've ever disappeared so quickly in my life.
Did you find yourself reluctant to date a Pisces again?
A few years ago, there was this really nice guy who, in our first conversation, divulged that his birthday was the same as my ex's. I don't think I've ever disappeared so quickly in my life.
Posted by AllegoryAddictyes I do
@tcta
Did you find yourself reluctant to date a Pisces again?
A few years ago, there was this really nice guy who, in our first conversation, divulged that his birthday was the same as my ex's. I don't think I've ever disappeared so quickly in my life.
hate to be partial like that but it is what it is
Posted by EnochtheWiseput wisely
Never saw Caps as hard to please. I just think, because they are serious and practical, they have certain criteria for partners to ensure long-term success. If those boxes are checked, then once within the relationship I think they are really not that demanding or needy, somewhat self-contained, even pre-occupied.
Posted by AllegoryAddictCap moon here. I hate dating. People ARE shallow. I disappear like it's my job.Posted by EllygantThis. I DESPISE dating. The pretense, the shallow conversations, the staunch refusal to just be one's self. It's all so nauseating.Posted by Chance_12I agree to an extent but to that inside the relationship.Posted by Ellygant
I'd say it's less about being insatiable and more self-protective.
Caps make me think of a mega yacht on course. They'll forge the deep (emotional) seas offering you all the luxuries at their disposal (for the relationship). But once they've charted a course, there's no turning that boat around. It's impossible. So the price to journey is high as a result.
Not for some of the more lighthearted or breezier signs.
Caps are way more adaptable and intuitive than that. What you're describing sounds like fixed behavior..a scorp heading towards an iceberg that everyone can see but themselves. A good Cardinal leader should always be changing course and coordinates based on new knowledge and sharpening of abilities.
Most caps I know hate new relationships. They're the only cardinal sign I notice that doesn't rebound too well. Aries, cancer and Libra will all bounce back into the field quickly.
I'd say about 80% ish of my cap friends emphatically say they hate dating and meeting new people. None of which have Scorpio in their charts. Though they have some Aqua so there is some fixed.
Come to think of it the only caps I know that rebound quickly and tend to relationship jump have Scorp mars or venus. Lol.
Then people label you as an asshole because you disappear.click to expand
Posted by AllegoryAddictWelcome back!! Crap it has been a long time since we met againPosted by EtherealTravelerAffirmative, young sir.
@AllegoryAddict
So you're UndauntedSoul a while back? Judging from you liking my comment?click to expand
I'm DividedWeCapricorn a while back if you remember me, the person that kind of had a mental breakdown because of refusing to go into a bar with classmates ? I hope you have many good stories to tell like you promised when you left
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeDem Leo arrogancePosted by Arielle83I take what she said as a complimentPosted by AllegoryAddictSee, critical.
CC, it's disheartening to see that after all this time, you've yet to change. Or grow as a person, rather.
Let someone express how they are.
Without you deciding they need to change
What do caps have to teach me?
Absolutely nothingclick to expand
Posted by AllegoryAddictThank you for your honest answer. Honesty is one of Cappies trait that i really admire. how do you normally act if you don't like the person? I am a Libra and also have a Leo moon so its hard for me to be patient and when there are times u guys feel like hermits.. wow..it feels like a decade to me, my burning and melancholy heart can't survive the longing...Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.click to expand
Posted by AllegoryAddictXPosted by Librawoman333One of my closest friends is a Libra with a Leo moon, and he is the exact same way. Impatient that is...and eager to begin a love story with the person who's captured his heart. He's a hopeless romantic...a true believer in love. But...people like that need to understand that just because the person on the receiving end of that affection doesn't display the same need to rush, it doesn't necessarily mean they don't care or they don't like you in that way.Posted by AllegoryAddictThank you for your honest answer. Honesty is one of Cappies trait that i really admire. how do you normally act if you don't like the person? I am a Libra and also have a Leo moon so its hard for me to be patient and when there are times u guys feel like hermits.. wow..it feels like a decade to me, my burning and melancholy heart can't survive the longing...Posted by Librawoman333Well, only two people have really impressed me in my life. I fell in love with my ex-husband because he was unapologetic about who he was. He was extremely reserved and even a bit of a social recluse. But once he met me, he put himself out there in scenarios that made him uncomfortable, just to run into me while out and about. He didn't care about appearing weak or desperate to his friends. And we were in the military, so the machismo was even more prevalent among our acquaintances. Despite being 20 years old, I'd never had a boyfriend, so I was awkward with his demonstrations. I came across as aloof, but that didn't deter him. He was patient and gave me space whenever I had one of my Cap hermit moments. There was no grand inquisition. He only had eyes for me, and I knew that with every fiber of my being. Caps, no matter how complex we appear, just want the simple things. We value loyalty and security. He gave me those things. Also, it should be noted that I came to find out that he had never had a girlfriend before either. I loved that. I loved knowing that I had something no one else had had. In the words, I'm not attracted to obnoxious cads. Still to this day, I'll take the nerdy guy with an insane sense of humor that lacks romantic/intimate experience over the douche that posts flexing selfies, communicates in acronyms, and is probably suffering from a burning sensation when he urinates.Posted by AllegoryAddictHi. What pleases u then? im just curious cos u have the same sign and placement with the person i like and tell now i can't decipher her. Thank you in advancePosted by MissLadyIceQueen+1
I'm extremely hard to please.
My former significant others have all said that I'm impossible to please, although...not in such a nice way.
If they're different people, totally unknown to one another, and they ALL have said this...there has to be some truth to it. Cap sun, Leo moon, Cap asc here.
Hope that helps. Good luck with your Cap.
If I'm not into someone, they will know. I'll either tell them directly, so there is no grey area or doubts...or I'll just disappear completely and not respond in any way, shape, or form when they attempt to stay connected.click to expand
Indeed we are like that. I think the difference between air and earth signs, If you are air signs we have this love at first sight thing which for earth signs they find it shallow.
If you don't mind me asking, why its hard for cappies to show their feelings?
Can i private message you?
Isnt this an old feature of women or men? where woman is always an enigma and man cant get it most of the time.
Anyway, probably stronger with capricorn women
Anyway, probably stronger with capricorn women
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