Capriorns very moody??
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Bravolo on Saturday, April 6, 2013 and has 17 replies.
Do caps get very and sometimes say things they don't mean because of their bad mood and they regret saying it?Cause alot of the time my cap says something and then he changes his mind a week later...it's weird :/
get very moody*
Many of the things they say may sound insensitive and cold, but that is just how they are. I've dealt with a cap brother my whole life and have gone through that. It is better to just leave him alone in his shell when he gets like that because they figure things out on their own. Then eventually come back all normal again. It's a weird cycle, but that is just how they are. Don't take it personal, it will be okay. 
Yup, happened to me last week. Makes me say hurtful or inappropriate stuff. Just wallowing in self-pity or brooding over whatever is worrying me and then I suddenly realize I just hurt someone I care about.
Making up for it is a humbling experience and can strengthen the bond we have.
Making up for it is a humbling experience and can strengthen the bond we have.
ohhh that's so interesting guys!Thanls for letting me know!ause my cap said the awfullest things to me and then after a week of not talking to him he messages me and says sorry I was mean.So when caps get moody its best to just leave them alone and let them come to you first?
Posted by LIBRA1234
@TC "Makes me say hurtful or inappropriate stuff."
Where is your merc and mars?
Just curious cuz I can be like this when I am out of sync (merc and mars in scorp)
It's all in the profile.
Merc in Cap and Mars in Aries.
Capricorn men can become so angry, all of the blood consumed in their bodies rushes to their heads. Popping of veins in the neck causes loss of memory to whatever they psychotically blurt out verbally.
My father and two brothers are Caps.
I'm more intelligent, therefore taking it personally is a lost cause.
Caps strive on being respected, but go about it in the most horibble way.
My father and two brothers are Caps.
I'm more intelligent, therefore taking it personally is a lost cause.
Caps strive on being respected, but go about it in the most horibble way.
Posted by antonarnia
Capricorn men can become so angry, all of the blood consumed in their bodies rushes to their heads. Popping of veins in the neck causes loss of memory to whatever they psychotically blurt out verbally.
My father and two brothers are Caps.
I'm more intelligent, therefore taking it personally is a lost cause.
Caps strive on being respected, but go about it in the most horibble way.
LOL. I remember when I used to be that way. Patience has tought me alot. All I had to was change my beliefs. "Why get mad if no one cares??? I am destroying my body because of what???" The mind is very powerful when one knows how to use it...
My GF is a CAP and she gets moody and bratty when things don't go her way. CAPs are VERY Pessimistic! Be the other half of their glass and shit will work its way out over time. CAP women need a strong man with a backbone that will put them in check in and out of the bedroom and be their ray of sunshine.
You, are an exception. Your way of thinking is really gnarly though! Because honestly, the variety of Caps I know, do not.
Kudos to you, my friend!
Kudos to you, my friend!
^^@SureShotCap^^
PP... I love how well you know us. Things going well with your lady?
ari
"It is better to just leave him alone in his shell when he gets like that because they figure things out on their own."
When people understand that about me... it means SOOOO much to me.
A while back I was hanging with some friends, and something really upset me... I cant even remember what, but I got mad and was getting short and bitter so I got quiet really quick. Everyone caught on and started to pry and a guy I was just started to become friends with immediately said, "She's just upset guys, give her a minute and she'll be ok." I just looked at him and practically melted. His comment even brought me back into a good mood right away because I was so shocked that he understood me. Or at least understood the way my dark moods work!
ari
"It is better to just leave him alone in his shell when he gets like that because they figure things out on their own."
When people understand that about me... it means SOOOO much to me.
A while back I was hanging with some friends, and something really upset me... I cant even remember what, but I got mad and was getting short and bitter so I got quiet really quick. Everyone caught on and started to pry and a guy I was just started to become friends with immediately said, "She's just upset guys, give her a minute and she'll be ok." I just looked at him and practically melted. His comment even brought me back into a good mood right away because I was so shocked that he understood me. Or at least understood the way my dark moods work!
Wow!!SO much advice!!But when a cap gets mean and nasty do you have to stand up for yourself or take all their meanness in and not say a word?
Posted by Bravolo
Wow!!SO much advice!!But when a cap gets mean and nasty do you have to stand up for yourself or take all their meanness in and not say a word?
Things are great with me and my Cappie @ creepypants. CAPS and Scorpios are I feel the perfect match. It takes alot of work of course. But, the rewards are huge! Hows your dating life going?
@Bravolo STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! Don't talk down to them & don't be condescending!!!!!! If a CAP thinks they can walk all over you they will. If they think your a weak person then they will treat you like that. They will respect you more if you speak up when they are being rude or bratty. It all about how you say it! Choose your words and speak concise. Good Luck!
PP... I agree with all of that... perfect match and it takes a lot of work. the chemistry is deep. it's beyond physical. cap women and scorp men are so alike that it will take smoothing out the rough areas. so yea, it's a lot of work, but i feel it's work in the beginning, and like you said... absolutely worth it.
things aren't so bad right now. i dont really have much of a dating life at the moment by choice. i was sort of "dating" and getting to know a cap guy but he wanted to move too fast, put too many expectations on me and worst of all... questioned me. i told him right off the bat that i just wanted to be friendly and im not ready to give myself up to dating. apparently he didnt understand that. so that really snuffed that potential out as of last wednesday
my scorp ex and i hung out this weekend kind of spontaneously. that was nice. it had been almost two weeks since we'd seen each other.
i had minor surgery on thurs and he came by and took care of me for a bit which was really awesome of him. on impulse i invited him to an art event in downtown las vegas friday night that i was going to with a bunch of friends. he didnt end up making it but we hung out after through to yesterday. no sex if you can believe that. probably because i couldn't, lol, but honestly... i dont want to confuse myself. i dont think i would have if i could've. he wanted to fool around and play and I could have done that but i said no. he was good, he didnt pout even though he kept trying. then i went home to rest up. i really over-exerted myself too soon after surgery and it sucks cuz the meds are wrecking my stomach. so i went home and was miserable. he came by my place unexpectedly again to make sure i was okay. but by then i was so doped up i was happy, so we watched college basketball together and he ate all my food that i didnt wanna touch lol.
and THAT is the extent of dating for me Prob more of an answer than you were looking for LOL I definitely miss him. a lot. our connection is so precious to me. the way he feels is incredibly important to me. that just wont change any time soon. but I'm pretty happy with the way things are right now actually. i'm available on my own terms. on instinct, I feel like everything is the way it should be right now.
things aren't so bad right now. i dont really have much of a dating life at the moment by choice. i was sort of "dating" and getting to know a cap guy but he wanted to move too fast, put too many expectations on me and worst of all... questioned me. i told him right off the bat that i just wanted to be friendly and im not ready to give myself up to dating. apparently he didnt understand that. so that really snuffed that potential out as of last wednesday
my scorp ex and i hung out this weekend kind of spontaneously. that was nice. it had been almost two weeks since we'd seen each other.
i had minor surgery on thurs and he came by and took care of me for a bit which was really awesome of him. on impulse i invited him to an art event in downtown las vegas friday night that i was going to with a bunch of friends. he didnt end up making it but we hung out after through to yesterday. no sex if you can believe that. probably because i couldn't, lol, but honestly... i dont want to confuse myself. i dont think i would have if i could've. he wanted to fool around and play and I could have done that but i said no. he was good, he didnt pout even though he kept trying. then i went home to rest up. i really over-exerted myself too soon after surgery and it sucks cuz the meds are wrecking my stomach. so i went home and was miserable. he came by my place unexpectedly again to make sure i was okay. but by then i was so doped up i was happy, so we watched college basketball together and he ate all my food that i didnt wanna touch lol.
and THAT is the extent of dating for me
Prob more of an answer than you were looking for LOL I definitely miss him. a lot. our connection is so precious to me. the way he feels is incredibly important to me. that just wont change any time soon. but I'm pretty happy with the way things are right now actually. i'm available on my own terms. on instinct, I feel like everything is the way it should be right now.
Posted by PPPosted by Bravolo
Wow!!SO much advice!!But when a cap gets mean and nasty do you have to stand up for yourself or take all their meanness in and not say a word?
Things are great with me and my Cappie @ creepypants. CAPS and Scorpios are I feel the perfect match. It takes alot of work of course. But, the rewards are huge! Hows your dating life going?
@Bravolo STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! Don't talk down to them & don't be condescending!!!!!! If a CAP thinks they can walk all over you they will. If they think your a weak person then they will treat you like that. They will respect you more if you speak up when they are being rude or bratty. It all about how you say it! Choose your words and speak concise. Good Luck!click to expand
I agree with most of what you said but caps don't walk all over people, that's not our first instinct. But speaking up is good and be careful of what you say, because speaking up shows the cap that they didn't f*ck so bad when they were in that dark mood. We want things to be right and if you're someone who balance us out that would be great. But definitely give us a minute to squeeze the poison out of our being. We do feel bad when hurting someone unless we feel that someone is pure evil we don't.
Posted by Metoo
I usually mean what I say in anger but the anger is usually hurt(USUALLY) and I have held my tounge for far to long to keep from losing control.
Caps hate to show emotion or lose it so when it comes out its usually been brewing, then we get our control back and can back up what we said but feel bad about the delivery...
I believe the cap withdrawal is to prevent showing these strong feelings whether they be anger, love...especially sadness....we want to hide...especially the men...so then we come back when were feeling more stable and ready to connect again.
I totally agree when the release their emotion they let it all out if they release it and believe me it takes quite a bit for them to reach the boiling point at least with my cap....I can say this once he does open up and you get through the coldness it does take time....quite of bit of time...but once you get through trust that he will love you immensely but that does take time and a lot of work.....
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