Caps and BDSM

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by kitty69 on Friday, September 6, 2013 and has 30 replies.
Hiya, do caps have a propensity for being doms?... The reason why I ask is, I recently created a dating profile for myself begrudgingly and under duress of my girlfriends and a couple gins and found the most responses I had received was from Cap men and ALL had made special reference to being into BDSM... Hmmmm, I found that to be highly interesting, any thoughts?... :0)
well if that's their thing, i def can't see them being subs. maybe to humor a girl lol
...or guy.
I couldn't imagine a cap man being submissive for too long... perhaps to impress at first. Push them too much and you'll probably see a dom in no time. But everyone is different. coughcoughcontrolisnicecough.
Hot smile
Cap profile at dating board?
Advertising is good in business not in the relations.
Great responses... " wink"
Hey kitty, =) how ya been!
I can probably find out from your other threads, but, what's your own star sign?
Hiiiiiii Flower, I'm just peachy peacheroooo and you darlin?.... Three weeks into my work out regime and seeing great results thus far . Changing careers too, from Bachelor of Preventative Health Science to Councelling... Hmmmm should be interesting I think... That and being coherced into craziness re; joining darlings sites, hehe.. But no I'm realllllly happy, you... :0). Oh Scorpio tis moi....
Dating sites ^ ugh sorry...
HAHAHA man you have a lot going on! noice! me so boring hehe okay awesome lol "darlings sites" Love it far from- am I right am I right?? =P
Okay, welp Scorps are pretty awesome, I reckon they're tellin you what they think you want to hear and generally Caps are going to try anything once kind of people soooo... have fun with it.
Wag
ooo councelling, that will be interesting! why the change? did you become intrigued with how messed up peoples heads are Lol
I hear ya lady!!, hehehe.... And thank you, you're a bit fabulous too ... :0) ... Your observations are quite accurate too, whilst I must admit I do have a filter, I general am an open book and tell it how it is, just not in a malicious way... I do care about people's sensitivities always...
Fingers crossed Wag...
As always a pleasure, stay fabulous you... :0)
Female Cappy sub here. I'd only be sub to certain men, though. They have to come correct to dominate me, otherwise I'd dominate TF out of them. A nice Virgo, Taurus, Leo or Scorpio can get me on my knees. All the rest better act like a man, or be treated like a "slave" boy.
you too gorgeous kitty x
Just read your second part, yes dxpnet drove me to it I tell you!!!!, ahaha.... But no I just feel that I have more to offer in that field and the other degree was in its infancy and had no structure or direction.... Sometimes you need to take a calculated risk and go with your heart and not your head when switching gears, know what I mean?... Soooo I'll try it and see if its a good fit for me .... We shall see petal, we shall see.. :0)
Mwah...
Posted by lftybklyn
Female Cappy sub here. I'd only be sub to certain men, though. They have to come correct to dominate me, otherwise I'd dominate TF out of them. A nice Virgo, Taurus, Leo or Scorpio can get me on my knees. All the rest better act like a man, or be treated like a "slave" boy.

Hmmmmmm, she says tapping the table with her fingers and whistling... ;0) ...
Posted by deivaleonne
I couldn't imagine a cap man being submissive for too long... perhaps to impress at first. Push them too much and you'll probably see a dom in no time. But everyone is different. coughcoughcontrolisnicecough.

Like...
Wish you could click like on each response... As you were...;0)
why would they make that mistake?
Posted by ellessque
*looks around and then scatters*


favorite response lol
oh oh! i thought this thread was geared towards men in particular.
me a dom?
it's happened. and i like it.
Posted by HouseCleaning
why would they make that mistake?

Well, why not?, it'd be a nice option...
Posted by CreepyPants
oh oh! i thought this thread was geared towards men in particular.
me a dom?
it's happened. and i like it.

Tis a free for all Creepy pants... All response are appreciated... Glad you liked it.. :0)
Responses ^, if I make one more typo today I'll scream.... Grrrr...
I thought it was only Cap men too. I'm dominant, but as someone mentioned before I think it depends on who it is. I've dated a scorp man for five years, at first I was intimidated but eh. After a couple years he decided to be submissive. I'd like him to be dominant every once in a while... giving me full control unearths sadism... There are a lot of depending factors. Close planets of their chart may be due for consideration too.
I am a Scorpio so I understand why your Scorp changed tack after a time... I too can be changeable and will bend pending on my partners needs and wants. I have been privy to have had three female Cap friends and all have been powerhouses of women that like to have control, in a good way... And yes charts play an integral role too...
I'm not a capricorn but I was very recently with one for many months. Honestly we switched it up pretty regularly. Sometimes I would submit to him and other times I'd encourage him to submit to me, which he willing did.. One thing I did notice was if we got rough, regardless of who started as aggressor he always submitted to me. I've always assumed part of that was him just wanting to let go. On the flip side if we were trying something for the first time, he was almost always the dominant one and the once or twice I pushed back and tried to take the reins he forced me to submit-not gonna lie that was pretty hot in and of itself lol. I didn't do much reading up on capricorns while we were together but looking back his actions in the bedroom are rather obviously capricorn. Also, as many things as we did, and regardless of who was "in charge" that night he made sure I was completely taken care of; sometimes first, sometimes second, but always Winking As a cancer I'm extremely giving in this regard (and have been burned by a selfish past partner) so it was amazing for me to be able to concentrate on him (like I like to do) and not worry about my own satisfaction since I knew he'd get me there.
Just my experience with a capricorn man smile
Thanx Cancergrrl for sharing... Sounds like you had lovely balance/relationship...
Hey Im a Cap female and I can definitely be a dominate lol .. . Aquarius venus lol

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