Caps Like Ugly Women?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by justSophs on Tuesday, August 24, 2010 and has 112 replies.
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Ok I am making this post because of a blog I saw about Lebron James - who is a Capricorn and his girlfriend who he's known from high school and have 2 kids with.
Denzel Washington and Samuel L Jackson are both Caps and have been with there wives before they were famous. So was Mel Gibson (but we all know about his meltdown).
The thing is there were comments on the blog about how Lebron James girlfriend is so plain and she doesn't look like a superstar model. But isn't that the reason he loves her?
These are smart guys, she was with him before all of that money and supreme stardom, why would he leave her for a model who wants him for his fame and money?
Plus, Denzel and Samuels wifeys aren't stunners either but they have been together way before the fame. they are good homely women.
I read somewhere that Capricorns actually prefer less attractive mates for themselves, thoughts?
And Sophs, I don't think any of those men you mention have ugly women. Sure, not model types, but by no means ugly. Although, I think all of those men leave a little to be desired (at least I don't find them attractive) Winking
Cap men liking ugly women :/
Never seen this before, never ever.
@cappysweetie, I know they don't like ugly women persay. But they are certainly not Glamazons or the next top model.
I know Cap men like their women in shape and pretty but not like over the top, even when they certainly can get that type of woman.
The description I read was that Cap men didn't want their women to be too attractive because it makes them insecure and that they like conservative and elegant women than the raunchy, slutty type. Plus they don't like a whole bunch of men staring at their woman and a woman who dresses to too slutty is a big outcry for attention.
Like Dwayne Wade (Cap) and Gabrielle Union (Scorpio), she always always always dress conservative in her personal style , she is never dressed overly sexy. But she is just gorgeous and takes good care of herself. And she a scorp so you know she's a freak in the sheets.
@ lildol....I actually like Cap men choice in women because they are not over the top and raunchy. I appreciate men who like the simplicity of women that are like their moms bc alot of black guys, especially rich and powerful, go for mixed, spanish or white girls. (Not a problem to me, my whole family biracial) BUT when they start to diss black women is when I have a problem. Like that Slim Thug character who said all those negative things about black women the other day, forgetting his mom is black.
Its refreshing to see Cap men sticking with an average woman who had their back when they weren't rich and famous.
Yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder - and dif people are attracted to different physical characteristics just as dif people are attracted to dif personality characteristics. Some men like blonds, some men like big boobs, some men like ditsy women and some men like ditsy blonds with big boobs Big Grin
In all seriousness though, whether it is hair color, face shape, the smile, the eyes, more full bodied, or whatever...
Not to necessarily change the subject from Cap men, but I can say personally I don't like GQ looking men, they are not attractive to me. I don't care for shaved chests or 6 pack abs either. And, women swoon over folks like Brad Pitt and McDreamy (whatever his name is from whatever show that is *shrugs*) and, for me, there is no sex appeal there.
All in all, maybe Caps are more attracted to what they view as more down to earth types in the looks category. I have always preferred what I consider to be "real" looking men.
Posted by TerrifyingGentleness
No. Your comment would be a double fail, because it implies that my comments are incorrect. You have a point though, people do want to mate with what is pleasing to the eye, but what??s pleasing to the eye can change and transform over the course of getting to know somebody.


I agree with this, what one sees as beautiful can actually be an evolving process... as we get to know people they can become more attractive to us OR they may become that much more ugly - as our perceptions of someone changes so does the way we physically see them.
Posted by justSophs
Ok I am making this post because of a blog I saw about Lebron James - who is a Capricorn and his girlfriend who he's known from high school and have 2 kids with.
Denzel Washington and Samuel L Jackson are both Caps and have been with there wives before they were famous. So was Mel Gibson (but we all know about his meltdown).
The thing is there were comments on the blog about how Lebron James girlfriend is so plain and she doesn't look like a superstar model. But isn't that the reason he loves her?
These are smart guys, she was with him before all of that money and supreme stardom, why would he leave her for a model who wants him for his fame and money?
Plus, Denzel and Samuels wifeys aren't stunners either but they have been together way before the fame. they are good homely women.
I read somewhere that Capricorns actually prefer less attractive mates for themselves, thoughts?


I will say that I think capricorn men are least likely to pick the typical mainstream beauty. She needs to be pretty, but she doesn't have to have all the bells and whistles that other women have to make themselves the mainstream beauty of this time.
In that aspect, it makes (some) cap men cooler than cool Winking
However, mustn't forgot Mel Gibson ... and he had the nerve to get all bent out of shape. OMG, he picked her, he cheated on his wife for her and now look at him xD *smh*
Vitas, that was the point!
But, that being said, Caps are probably still less likely than others to get hung up on looks.
YES! no such thing as a universal beauty but there are stereotypes to what universal beauty is.
For instance: One of my sergeants is a complete sleazeball, he has a thing for black females....he makes me know this every time he sees me. BUT his wife is an older, white lady who has some weight on her. Nothing like me. He tells me about his obsession with darker skinned females all the time bc he is an absolute perv.
He is with his wife because its just socially acceptable. To be with some1 like me isn't. Now he is not the only MARRIED older white guy that has come on to me like that and I find it absolutely repulsive. I had one pulled me over at a gas station a couple yrs ago and he said as long as there are kids in my house and he has his business, he will always be with his wife. But his "girlfriends" have always been black and that's his preference. I told him to get lost.
But perceptions of beauty and what is beautiful is totally different than what is portrayed on TV and within races and cultures.
People might prefer a certain look but social standards that people choose to uphold because of societal, family, and religious pressure jades peoples perceptions of beauty.
And of course the beauty is in the eye of the beholder, no one is really ugly, but I am sure the jury is still out on that.
Posted by VitasXisto
Posted by lildol
But, that being said, Caps are probably still less likely than others to get hung up on looks.


That's because caps are serious sensible people who are more seeking for the long term type as oppose to the short term. Dating a high maintenance chick may bring upon unnecessary hostility, especially if she's getting hit on every single day, then again that's human nature. Fuck the most beautiful woman, date the cute girl....
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*winces*
I don't like this, I don't. But it may have a ring of truth to it Sad I see it happen.
It's more like: Date the "real" girl!
ugly women?? ...hey... what you trying to say to me sophs?!?!? lol
Vita, it must be hard being the only one who loves you...
The superficiality of Vita's posts really erk me, he sees beauty as only skin deep, of course, he only sees beauty when he looks in the mirror!
Posted by VitasXisto
Posted by pigeonpie
OK. fancy a bum ?smile


lol wanna see a magic trick?
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me, me, me *jumps up and down* Are you going to make yourself disappear??? smile
Posted by TerrifyingGentleness
But I have to add that there is no such thing as an ugly woman.

lol
wow these ppl feed off each other and go from thread to thread with this petty non-ending argument, sheesh are either of them capricorns?
Posted by TerrifyingGentleness
Pardon me, I meant to say
You stupid bitch. I hope you die slowly and violently, you pretentious fuck.



YOU HAVE ISSUES! The Guilty ALWAYS SPEAK UP, I never Addressed you nor did I call your Name but I can see that your Potty mouth has somehow managed to utter the exact pciture of what you are: A STUPID No LIFE , LOW LIFE, Loquacious, IDIOT who gets aroused off of exchanging profanity as a non-entity to make herself feel important. YOU worthless Piece of TRASH, GET a Life, In fact I hear they are on sale at your Local Neighborhood Store TRAMP. And as for me dying, I can only say the UNIVERSE will pay you back for wishing DEATh on another, but then You prob still wondering why your life is a BIG FAT Piece of CRAP and how You are still existing you BITTER FOOL. DO US ALL A FAVOR and TAKE A PLUNGE into the OCEAN and let the Sea animals gnaw on your useless body, you infectious disease! Next time Don't try to be Miss BadAss, Now Bytche BE GONE!
^^^and the weak speak trash
Posted by cancergem
ugly women?? ...hey... what you trying to say to me sophs?!?!? lol


OF COURSE NOT CancerGem.
i.e MOI! I have dated mostly Capricorns and actually feel a bit glad that they like me bc typically they have all been super hard working manly men who treat me pretty well, so of course not.
I am in Marketing so sometimes a little sensationalism gets the tongue wagging. Thats all.
@lildoll and terrifyingroughness......chilllllllllllll. Stop being DXP gangsters, why don't y'all meet up and duke it out the old fashion way. Don't forget to upload it to YouTube so we know who wins. :-)
At least Caps, in general, can go at it and then just let it go by the next OPs post as if nothing happened LOL
Then we have a chance to go at it again Tongue
I feel you scorpio chic. It bothered me that all these people commenting on the blog was calling her "ugly" and not "all that'. But Lebron James thinks she is beautiful. People are so caught up in vanity and not the quality of the relationship.
In all essence she is a beautiful woman, very down to earth, and you can tell fame hasn't transformed her into a plastic dolly like all these so called "Basket Ball Wives".
AND yes none of these men (except Denzel, in his hay day) are all that, but you know its more the fame and the money rather than looks for these money hungry women. I mean these men couldn't pull some of these "model women" without having the fame and the fortune (i.e.Jamie Foxx0. And they know it.
Unfortunately some of these men will never know what true love is and who is really THERE for them. Except for the ones who stand by the woman who had their back when they were broke nobodies.
Theory: They want women who are used to help with the rowing of the ship, not just some hot little lazy ass chick that thinks she can get men to do what they want by being good looking.
One of my best friends has an ugly chick in fact (by my standards anyway) that he's still with her from high school.
Another Cap buddy had a hot Leo chick.
Another good Cap friend had an UGLY FRIGGIN WHOOOOOOOOORE (as in: SLUT!), which made me confused as to why he'd pick her, considered he friggin looked like friggin Neo, and how Caps are suppossed to be good character judges. The guy was pretty smart as well, hacked into the computers at his High School.
Posted by tall dark and aries
Theory: They want women who are used to help with the rowing of the ship, not just some hot little lazy ass chick that thinks she can get men to do what they want by being good looking.
One of my best friends has an ugly chick in fact (by my standards anyway) that he's still with her from high school.
Another Cap buddy had a hot Leo chick.
Another good Cap friend had an UGLY FRIGGIN WHOOOOOOOOORE (as in: SLUT!), which made me confused as to why he'd pick her, considered he friggin looked like friggin Neo, and how Caps are suppossed to be good character judges. The guy was pretty smart as well, hacked into the computers at his High School.


LOL humorous.......but you are right about one thing.....Caps want self sufficient women. DO NOT expect a Cap boy to be your little do boy. Which is great for me.....hate people trying to do things for me, it actually frustrated my ex sometimes bc he would be like "hey lemme get that for you'...I'm like "nah, I got it" lol, even though sometimes I had to relent. I am strong willed sometimes know it all, sue me. lol

why are u guys fighting against one other does it matter about who pretty or ugly the most pretty person can have the most ugly attitude in the world and a ugly person can have the most beautiful attiude in the world and sometimes it can be vice versa.
vanity is the worst things a person can have.
the heart and soul is whats counts anyway.
Posted by scorpio_chic
I could never respect a man like that anyway.. this Pisces woman I work with is with this Taurus co-worker of ours and she calls him "Lover-Boy" and he answers to it and she barks out demands like "I need your credit card number" and he gives it to her. I asked her once how she was even attracted to a man like that.. she seems to wear the pants in the relationship and he's her little bitch boy.
Caps do like self-sufficient independent women but the one I've been involved with loves to feel 'needed' even though he better know I don't need his ass. Winking If anything is broke around my house, he's trying to fix it or if HE can't fix it, he'll pay to get it fixed. But don't let it be a spider crawling up the wall... he wants ME to kill it. LMAO


Yeah men need to feel needed....I haven't called my Cap today but last night I told him that I liked him, but I don't feel like I can "trust" him bc its like every time he calls me I don't answer....bhe gets all passive agressive. He started to call forward my number when I called! Sorry, I dont play that crap. Will Bdrop your ass like a bad habit quick once you turn me off.
But I am busy...I didn't see his call, and bc my phone goes to VM in my room....he gets frustrated. WTF? you want me to do, text me! But also my battle buddies from the same unit (granted he sort of likes me) been talking crap about him lately and it sort of affected me a bit, he said mt Cap guy is dodgy...I dunno.
But after I sent that text he called and was talking to me like I didn't just send a text trying to cool things off. Whatever. BTW I HATE HATE HATE HATE Spiders.

thanks LS i hate Seeing pointless fighting my libra placements screams fairness and justice for all lmao.
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

why are u guys fighting against one other does it matter about who pretty or ugly the most pretty person can have the most ugly attitude in the world and a ugly person can have the most beautiful attiude in the world and sometimes it can be vice versa.
vanity is the worst things a person can have.
the heart and soul is whats counts anyway.



Came back just in time, I don't have to say anything. You said it all and it was perfect.

awwwwwwwwwwwwww thanks cappysweetie i just wanna to voice myself about the topic plus u already know im real honest and truthful lol.

and thanks again smile


^^^^ and that's what I like. You are honest but you're not a bastard with it all HAHAHAHAHA!!!
Some can't do that but you can and that's cool.
Posted by cappysweetie
^^^^ and that's what I like. You are honest but you're not a bastard with it all HAHAHAHAHA!!!
Some can't do that but you can and that's cool.



lmfao my honesty is more in a humorous witty way style to get my point across but in a gentle way i think my leo moon and two libra placements in mercury in libra and venus in libra tones my virgo personality down.
But when someone is asking for it trust me run for cover because im burning up everything i see in sight lmfao.

90% of the time im chilled and cool like ice lmao.
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by cappysweetie
^^^^ and that's what I like. You are honest but you're not a bastard with it all HAHAHAHAHA!!!
Some can't do that but you can and that's cool.



lmfao my honesty is more in a humorous witty way style to get my point across but in a gentle way i think my leo moon and two libra placements in mercury in libra and venus in libra tones my virgo personality down.
But when someone is asking for it trust me run for cover because im burning up everything i see in sight lmfao.

90% of the time im chilled and cool like ice lmao.

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Oh I know! Lol, my scorpio buddy has venus in libra and man oh man, when she's had it w/ you, she'll let you know it. Once we had a total bitch fest b/c she was sick of me and she was leaning on the only nerve I had left hahahaha. Plus, she has a taurus moon, she could be a meanie and I couldn't let her. Get away w/ that Winking but I'll admit, I can be a smart ass and not even realize it -- Aqua moon, Buttercup has an Aqua moon too xD! That's why I love her.
I'm sorry, I'm tired, I don't k ow what I'm saying.
LOL!!!! I like the gemini dudes right now Winking so you all can stick w/ these earth dudes.
*?????* was that comment for me Chance????
Posted by scorpio_chic
That passive aggressive is something else... I thought about starting a thread about that. How they act all aloof & calm but then you see glimpses of their possessiveness or their need for control. Also it seems like they try to hide it or joke about it to make things more comfortable.
My cap didn't show a jealous/possessive side for pretty much the first year, probably because he kept me all to himself. But now he jokes and says that I shouldn't wear heels unless I'm with him.. or he's said stuff like 'don't go anywhere else smelling/looking that good" he always says these things with a smile on his face like he's joking but I know he means it! LOL Another time I was on the phone with him while I was at the grocery store, and I smiled and told the man to have a good night. Cap told me not to be smiling/talking to strangers.. then he laughed about it but I was like wow. LOL just stuff like that..
So it's like he lets a little bit of it leak out, but then he tries to hurry up and cover it with a joke/smile. I wonder if it's one of their traits that they're not proud of. Also, I know one of his friends complimented me on my looks (not to me, but to my cap and cap came back and told me) So for months he'd say stuff like "I gotta protect you from (friends name)" and again, he'd laugh about it. I don't mind it, I think it's kinda cute..
Sorry I'm rambling. I talk a lot when I'm sleepy :/


OMG! Can people really be this much alike? One time I told him I was going to a movie with a friend. He was like okay and rushed off the phone. It came across as odd but I let it go. Like a week later we were having a conversation about something, I can't even remember but he said like "well you are going out on movie dates with other guys" I was like WTF? LOL it was my best friend from high school, a female who I reconnected with. But it was like a WEEK or more later but he just stewed and assumed.
Then we were gonna go hang out with our battles (army friends, I wanted to change in my civilian clothes, he insisted I didnt change and come all manly and butch like, I laughed it off and went and got pretty. He kept on making obvious that "I was his" like he so affectionately likes to put it. SUPER GAG!
I havent spoken to him today, but it is like eh. Once you lost my trust I am like whatever...I am sure he wants me to chase him today bc of my tex
I havent spoken to him today, but it is like eh. Once you lost my trust I am like whatever...I am sure he wants me to chase him today bc of my text prolly having feeling all withdrawn from my text but I want him to be CLEAR...I don't have to talk to you. Play those games with a toy.
Posted by LovelyScorp
for real.....
lets dump the caps and go for the virgo.


I already got myself one smile
But, I hear there are plenty more for the pickin'!!!
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

why are u guys fighting against one other does it matter about who pretty or ugly the most pretty person can have the most ugly attitude in the world and a ugly person can have the most beautiful attiude in the world and sometimes it can be vice versa.
vanity is the worst things a person can have.
the heart and soul is whats counts anyway.



That is very sweet!! This is why we luv you LV!!
^^^on your arm???
(I know, feeding LV a little too much... LOL)
Posted by lildol
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

why are u guys fighting against one other does it matter about who pretty or ugly the most pretty person can have the most ugly attitude in the world and a ugly person can have the most beautiful attiude in the world and sometimes it can be vice versa.
vanity is the worst things a person can have.
the heart and soul is whats counts anyway.



That is very sweet!! This is why we luv you LV!!
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awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thanks lol its all good smile
Posted by pigeonpie
*starts gnawing*



dont be mad im loved in the Rl As Well Dxp owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww im sure people love u as well lmao.
Posted by lildol
^^^on your arm???
(I know, feeding LV a little too much... LOL)



lmfao they just mad lol.
Tongue
*hugs*
Posted by justSophs
Ok I am making this post because of a blog I saw about Lebron James - who is a Capricorn and his girlfriend who he's known from high school and have 2 kids with.
Denzel Washington and Samuel L Jackson are both Caps and have been with there wives before they were famous. So was Mel Gibson (but we all know about his meltdown).
The thing is there were comments on the blog about how Lebron James girlfriend is so plain and she doesn't look like a superstar model. But isn't that the reason he loves her?
These are smart guys, she was with him before all of that money and supreme stardom, why would he leave her for a model who wants him for his fame and money?
Plus, Denzel and Samuels wifeys aren't stunners either but they have been together way before the fame. they are good homely women.
I read somewhere that Capricorns actually prefer less attractive mates for themselves, thoughts?


Isn't beauty judged by the eye of the beholder?
A woman's attractiveness is ehanced greatly by her personality because that is the person behind the face.
am i attractive? and i like personality. i mean sure i like pretty gals but when it boils down to it id rather have someone i can depend on rather than someone who wants my money...haha.
They just like the girl-next-door look I think
(Natural beauty)

BTW I think Lebron's girlfriend is adorable.
More attractive than most of the girls I see on a daily basis...
Posted by eric11
Posted by justSophs
Ok I am making this post because of a blog I saw about Lebron James - who is a Capricorn and his girlfriend who he's known from high school and have 2 kids with.
Denzel Washington and Samuel L Jackson are both Caps and have been with there wives before they were famous. So was Mel Gibson (but we all know about his meltdown).
The thing is there were comments on the blog about how Lebron James girlfriend is so plain and she doesn't look like a superstar model. But isn't that the reason he loves her?
These are smart guys, she was with him before all of that money and supreme stardom, why would he leave her for a model who wants him for his fame and money?
Plus, Denzel and Samuels wifeys aren't stunners either but they have been together way before the fame. they are good homely women.
I read somewhere that Capricorns actually prefer less attractive mates for themselves, thoughts?


Isn't beauty judged by the eye of the beholder?
A woman's attractiveness is ehanced greatly by her personality because that is the person behind the face.

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Yes, I agree, same goes for a man. I don't know what it is but something about the tone in this thread is giving me a funny feeling and not in a good way.
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