Confused!
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by onlyinwriting on Saturday, March 20, 2010 and has 3 replies.
There's this Cap guy, my classmate, who I see twice every week (he's in all my classes, though, so it's all day).
I am SOOOO confused. Most of the time I feel like he's LOOKING at me. In the beginning, everyone (except me) thought that he liked me because he would act more 'giddy', or more excited around me every time I spoke with him. We got into a fight online, that stopped, we sort of stopped talking in class but we always seem to be making eye contact...he never breaks it, he keeps looking on, and he'd smile, act goofy, make me smile/laugh, or sometimes he's looking at me from across the room when he's in convo and it's sort of a... 'what?' -- or no thoughts at all.
Yet now, we rarely speak to each other--but, we talk online..if I initiate it. He'll never im me, except for this one time, this one night, where it seemed like he was interviewing me? He was telling me what he would do for his exes, sweet things, and then tell me the qualities he wanted for his next girl if he got one--smiling all the time, looking at him, not be a 'slut', etc., etc....Said he wanted a 'slave' for a woman as a joke. Haha, funny, next day he helps me and asks in return that I be his slave forever? But since then we've sort of been even more distant. And, a lot of times, we talk about sex? Or relationships? Or love? It's weird. Or school , or random things, but then he'll suddenly ignore me..
I'm CONFUSED. Am I just his friend that he pretty much trusts, I guess, or what?...
I am SOOOO confused. Most of the time I feel like he's LOOKING at me. In the beginning, everyone (except me) thought that he liked me because he would act more 'giddy', or more excited around me every time I spoke with him. We got into a fight online, that stopped, we sort of stopped talking in class but we always seem to be making eye contact...he never breaks it, he keeps looking on, and he'd smile, act goofy, make me smile/laugh, or sometimes he's looking at me from across the room when he's in convo and it's sort of a... 'what?' -- or no thoughts at all.
Yet now, we rarely speak to each other--but, we talk online..if I initiate it. He'll never im me, except for this one time, this one night, where it seemed like he was interviewing me? He was telling me what he would do for his exes, sweet things, and then tell me the qualities he wanted for his next girl if he got one--smiling all the time, looking at him, not be a 'slut', etc., etc....Said he wanted a 'slave' for a woman as a joke. Haha, funny, next day he helps me and asks in return that I be his slave forever? But since then we've sort of been even more distant. And, a lot of times, we talk about sex? Or relationships? Or love? It's weird. Or school , or random things, but then he'll suddenly ignore me..
I'm CONFUSED. Am I just his friend that he pretty much trusts, I guess, or what?...
Thanks Amethyst, I really needed to hear that! Yeah...he's totally hot and cold with me all the time. I don't think I have the time of day for that. He's always criticizing me one moment, and then trying to comfort me the next--and THEN saying flat out 'i don't care', yet telling me his feelings on things..
And to the other user, no kids! NO!! I'm too young to think about them right now.
And to the other user, no kids! NO!! I'm too young to think about them right now.
Thanks Amethyst, I really needed to hear that! Yeah...he's totally hot and cold with me all the time. I don't think I have the time of day for that. He's always criticizing me one moment, and then trying to comfort me the next--and THEN saying flat out 'i don't care', yet telling me his feelings on things..
And to the other user, no kids! NO!! I'm too young to think about them right now.
And to the other user, no kids! NO!! I'm too young to think about them right now.
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