Confused by a Capricorn

Hi there. Can anyone help me?
I've been with this cap for 6 months (2 years ago) and it was great but I knew he wasn't suposed to stay long and would go back to his country. We kept in touch and all of a sudden, while discussing my vacation, he invited me over. I went there, on a very long and expensive trip, with all these expectations in my head, thinking I'd have the time of my life.
Before buying my ticket I sent him an email, asking if he really meant the invitation and if he really wanted me to go, I said he could be honest and I'd understand if it was just a spur of the moment thing but he said everything would be like before and that he was happy that I was going there.
But when I arrived he was distant, spent little time with me and simply disappeared sometimes, leaving me all by myself in a strange city. I even felt he didn't want to be with me in front of his friends (who, by the way, were more concerned with me than him).
Then, on my last day there he called saying he wanted to say good bye and all. We met and went to drink something and he was all talkative and friendly, trying to touch me all the time but I was so hurt that, this time, I was the one who ignored and treated him only as a friend, pretending I didn't care about anything. As we were walking out to say the final "good bye", he was trying to hug and be close but I didn't even let him kissing me, we exchange a very quickly hug and I was very fast to leave.
Now that I'm back, I regret it badly. I should have forgiven and kissed him madly but I was so angry...It happened a week ago and now he doesn't answer my emails and is totally ignoring me. I sent a message thanking for the time we could spend together, explaining that I react that way because it was too difficult to let him go (what is half true, I also hope he knows he was a jerk, something I didn't bother to point it out) and wishing all the best.
I decided not to discuss what really happened and give him space but this silence is make me crazy. Is that what I should do? Is he ever talking to me again? Why didn't I took the chance of having a proper good bye?I feel so lost and confused. It's like I know I'm right and he has no right to treat me that way but I also try to justify his behaviour and feel like I overeacted and lost him for good...

Hang in there, he will come around. They are notorius for running away when they feel someone has gotten to "close"

Don't you DARE feel bad!!!! He was a jerk and rude and didn't deserve your sweetness.

I would be pissed too and wouldn't give him the time of day from now on! I would be rude right back. And I probably would have given him a piece of my mind before getting back on the plane. Eh, but that's me. I have very little tolerance for out right rudeness. Bluntness and painful honesty, okay, but rudeness NO WAY!!

Besides, how dare he treat you that way then expect you to be all kissy kissy! Men! Grrrrrrrr!!!

Why do you even care that he's not answering e-mails? Do you really still want to be with him? I don't understand.

Thank you guys for all the advice, I guess you are all right but I like him so much and I'm trying so hard to just let go.
I know he acted like a jerk but he is not like that (can't be!) and I think he didn't even realize that what he did was very rude...
I don't know, I just want to forget it all very fast and pretend I wasn't that stupid and naive but I have to remind that every single time someone asks me about the trip, the meeting, and how was things with him
=..|

I would tell them it the trip was great, he was great and everything was great! It's none of their business. Later on you can just say "well, I lost interest".

If you really think he doesn't know he was rude, you should tell him how it made you feel. He will respect the fact you stood up for yourself.