Confused with a cap =/

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by lilgal on Monday, May 26, 2008 and has 4 replies.
hey
well theres this capricorn guy that i really like...we had a " thing" going on but we never went out because he thought i was a big flirt and he assumed like i was like any other girl..he really liked me but stoped talking to me because of me talking to many guys..but it wasnt fair because he also flirted with girls but got mad when i did it. a few weeks went by and we started talking again ( as friends) and still tell now...were really good friends now and we flirt sometimes too!! one day ( a while back) when we were talking on aim he told me that he realized i wasnt like any other girl after he stoped talking to me..and that made me happy..because he has this theory that all girls are the same because he had bad expierences with his past relationships...i want to tell him that i like him but i dont want to scare him away because we are really good friends and i like the flirting and how it is right now between us... i dont know what to do..or how to find out if he likes me or not and wheather or not i should tell him that i still have feelings for him.
hes a capricorn and im a libra
i heard this is a bad match but i really do like him =/ and he once did like..and he mite still because i heard caps are really quiet with thier emotions.
can anyone help?
thanks=]
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Hi Lilgal, my experience with the Cap Male in my life is that when it comes to matters of the heart they are very reserved. Their decision to open up doesn't happen quickly, more like at a glacial speed. And here's the frustrating part (hence the "Frustrated Aries") after what seems like a eurpohic sense of connection with this man it was like he shut down, created a lot of physical and emotional space. From what I have read on all these threads about Cap males, this is not only common...it seems to be the norm! Good luck.
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yeah i can deff tell that hes not open with his feelings... but how am i suppose to tell if he likes me or not...do u think i should tell him that i still have feelings for him since we are good friends? i just dont wana drive him away =/
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Well Lilgal, I don't think I am the best person to be dispensing advice about Caps, but my first instinct would be "Don't go there!" I think that SuperCap would be a good person to run this situation by. SuperCap helped me realize that it was time for me to let go of the Cap Man in my life...The fact that I am still on the Cap board says that I still haven't completely let go, but I am working on it!
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