Confusing Capricorn

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by lovelylibra666 on Tuesday, January 29, 2019 and has 21 replies.
Firstly let me just say Im a Libra and he's on the Capricorn/Aquarius Cusp.

We started dating 3 weeks ago. First date...amazingly well. He text me on my way home asking to set up another for the day after. Second date...also amazingly well. He ended up staying over and took me for breakfast in the morning. Third date a few days later. He came to meet me and my friend and we hung out over the weekend. Fourth date, again great...alot of teasing, jokes we had dinner and went to the cinema. This was our last date as he was travelling for work for 4 weeks. I asked him what the deal was...if we were seeing other people, he said he only wanted to see me, I said I only wanted to see him...and we left it at that. During our two weeks of dating he was very full on with texts, calls, facetime etc. and made it clear from the start that he was looking for a relationship.

During his week away (so far) He has been very hot and cold. Some days I hear from him all day and some days I hear nothing. Some days he says he misses me and some days we just chat as if we are distant friends. Some days he's talking about sex and what he'll do to me when he gets home and others ... nothing. I know they can be distant so I haven't made a big deal when he doesn't talk and he comes back around eventually. Now we are ending our first week apart and he told me he's in a nearby town for a few hours and wants to meet for a coffee. When I said yes....he didn't respond immediately but came up with "its quite far away so I don't want to put you out..." So why ask me??? Is this a test?

So I think i'm meeting him tomorrow...his texts tonight have been very distant and he doesn't seem that bothered if I come or not. So I guess Im just trying to find out if Im being strung along or if he geniunely does like me? I can't read this guy at all... A capricorns advice would be much appreciated.
The cap guy I was intrigued by did the same shit. I thought he was simply too fast, to untrustworthy , all the caps that like me end up going fast and furious. If I smile and just chit chat, one cap thought it was a sign to kiss me! (I just met this guy at central park for no more than 3 hours) he dares then tell me that I asked for it..pretty much begging for it. The guy I work with is hot and cold. Somedays he acts like Im the scumb of the earth, and as soon as I smile at him he melts and acts like he isn't. Then he acts like Im the queen. While flirt with others, the have the nerve to tell me to just be normal.

Im not trying to make this about me, however, the patterns are undeniably obvious. Cap men when catching the feelings, are going to be confusing, hot and cold. Which all of as humans share just in a different order, time, reasons.

Cap men natives will say "its no big deal" as its so easy for them to put up a wall and front. Indirectly making others feel gaslighted, its just our problem. Once you start to react to them as if its a problem, they'll be so confused, because to them its hard to believe others can see right through them. That vulnerability is scary. So trust that he is crushing on you, if he didn't have a crush on you or like you in any way. If you didn't make him feel so much, he wouldn't be distant and all that. I think when they are in these stages, it's very important that his partner or potential partner is stronger. After all, don't they want someone just as strong as them? smart as them? balanced as them? etc etc. Cap men really think they are regal. But when they feel so much, they process alone, hide, do their thing. They think its weakness. They wouldn't want you to think they are weak. They would want a partner who knows when to be stronger and indirectly lead. Its smart women that he wants. Smart women really know how to get a man to feel in control while its our plan the whole time. Smart women just is what cap men need. Of course, all this is my opinion not an absolute fact.

What I think you need to stop on...is overall the big picture here, you are giving away your individual power but having this process of only thinking about what he is doing, what is thinking, feeling, making sense of him etc.. STOP. You already know. Here is the solution:

How about you? What do you want?

1. If you want to see him, then text him

"I dont mind at all! Its been such a long time, however, I do also respect that you are still working. Let me know what you think and I'd love to meet up for a simple lunch/ or breakfast/ coffee. "

a) It shows that you respect his job, his essence. When he goes home and thinks, he'll add this to the "kudos to libra box".

b) He is trying to be considerate and really asking for confirmation, so if you don't show him what you want, he could misread it as disinterest. Cap men ego/sensitivity is like walking on eggshells. One little thing in their mind, due to their brilliant analytical abilities, what seems to be so minor to us, is a huge thing for them. They'll project that into the future. With this text, it rationally is expressing your needs, respecting his, and keeping it simple no fuss as caps hate anything too extreme. He might just push you into the "this is a casual relationship, with no future, as she isn't strong, she isn't an individual, could she possibly be dependent on me when things settle? i mean god they do think in every angle. They also naturally hold the belief that no one can do it better than them, think better, feel better, resolve better, analyze better..Thereby making them very stern, making snap judgements, leaders etc. This being said, What you DONT DO with him will give him his answers.

If you do want to see him but are feeling like you want to tell him how you feel-confused, or wanting clarity, or wanting to bond by sharing intimate details. Just dont. As in his head its not even a big deal right now, so if you just react (granted rightfully so) he doesn't see it that way, he'll just put you in the other box.

Best of luck!

Let me add one more thing, with this whole smart women indireclty lead...You have to remember that he is the one in control, so you cannot act in anyway that is above him.
Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.
Don't analyze, do what you want
Posted by lovelylibra666

Firstly let me just say Im a Libra and he's on the Capricorn/Aquarius Cusp.

We started dating 3 weeks ago. First date...amazingly well. He text me on my way home asking to set up another for the day after. Second date...also amazingly well. He ended up staying over and took me for breakfast in the morning. Third date a few days later. He came to meet me and my friend and we hung out over the weekend. Fourth date, again great...alot of teasing, jokes we had dinner and went to the cinema. This was our last date as he was travelling for work for 4 weeks. I asked him what the deal was...if we were seeing other people, he said he only wanted to see me, I said I only wanted to see him...and we left it at that. During our two weeks of dating he was very full on with texts, calls, facetime etc. and made it clear from the start that he was looking for a relationship.

During his week away (so far) He has been very hot and cold. Some days I hear from him all day and some days I hear nothing. Some days he says he misses me and some days we just chat as if we are distant friends. Some days he's talking about sex and what he'll do to me when he gets home and others ... nothing. I know they can be distant so I haven't made a big deal when he doesn't talk and he comes back around eventually. Now we are ending our first week apart and he told me he's in a nearby town for a few hours and wants to meet for a coffee. When I said yes....he didn't respond immediately but came up with "its quite far away so I don't want to put you out..." So why ask me??? Is this a test?

So I think i'm meeting him tomorrow...his texts tonight have been very distant and he doesn't seem that bothered if I come or not. So I guess Im just trying to find out if Im being strung along or if he geniunely does like me? I can't read this guy at all... A capricorns advice would be much appreciated.
Don't think you are reciprocating enough. We like men to lead but, they need some encouragement. By your description he was doing alot. You expect him to continue that level of engagement how long? He gets no slack? Analyze what you've contributed the way you analyze him. Let's see.
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@candi3bb

I agree with a lot of what you said, but not really on this:

"If you do want to see him but are feeling like you want to tell him how you feel-confused, or wanting clarity, or wanting to bond by sharing intimate details. Just dont. As in his head its not even a big deal right now, so if you just react (granted rightfully so) he doesn't see it that way, he'll just put you in the other box."

Yes, Caps don't like it when others blow things out of proportion or make big deal out of things that shouldn't. But the other party should tell the Cap how they feel, meaning with regards to something the Cap did, how did that something made them feel, especially if those feelings are negative feelings. I think if anything, they prefer it over someone blowing up in their face, when it comes to negative feelings because they might be able to help prevent a problem from getting out of hand.

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How do you know when a Cap respects you or just using you?

How should we go about speaking up our needs to A cap? thinking one should first determine where we stand with them before speaking. If the cap is indeed the one that is using you, speaking up doesn't do much right?
very insightful!
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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.



“beg”

?

Lol, NO. I think you have us confused with a different sign.
OP I think you’re just overclocking your brain.

Relax.
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Posted by starlord

Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.
Largely depends on how much they respect you, imo. If they don't respect you, it's likely that they'll use you if they are still in your life.

Though users aren't limited to Cap Sun, I think I told you about a Taurus who were only contacting me when he needed help.
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Well it's not exactly using. It's more that everything he does has some goal to it. Even with a very very good friend of his, who's also a good friend of mine. Long time ago she said to me, that he was also this way with her. And I know, he respects her and in his own way cares for her a lot, very much.
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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.



“beg”

?

Lol, NO. I think you have us confused with a different sign.
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So "please please please come on, pleeeeeease" is not begging? 😂 Yes he does this. But he doesn't give a fuck. If it means he gets what he wants, he doesn't care. He will do whatever it takes to get what he wants. No shame😂
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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.



“beg”

?

Lol, NO. I think you have us confused with a different sign.
So "please please please come on, pleeeeeease" is not begging? 😂 Yes he does this. But he doesn't give a fuck. If it means he gets what he wants, he doesn't care. He will do whatever it takes to get what he wants. No shame😂
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Ok, I could see in a joking around way, or playfully for a sexual request.

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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.
Largely depends on how much they respect you, imo. If they don't respect you, it's likely that they'll use you if they are still in your life.

Though users aren't limited to Cap Sun, I think I told you about a Taurus who were only contacting me when he needed help.
Well it's not exactly using. It's more that everything he does has some goal to it. Even with a very very good friend of his, who's also a good friend of mine. Long time ago she said to me, that he was also this way with her. And I know, he respects her and in his own way cares for her a lot, very much.


I don't think it's an unusual sentiment. I mean, to put it directly...why would anyone spend their limited time and energy for another person without some kind of incentive? It's just those incentives can be as simple as they like spending time with the other person.

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Ofcours. The world is built on some kind of reciprocity, I truly believe that. And the philosophical theory that everything we do is somehow egotistical is also true. We are good, because it makes us self feel good.

This guy is on another level though. Without a doubt.

People here in the beginning reminded me of how caps are opportunistic. And I think that's true. Or at least I think it's a valid thing to concider: this person is not doing things based on his feelings towards and for me, but more based on how I make him feel about himself. Especially a guy with his behaviour as described by the op. Like he is not trying to make her happy, he is trying to make himself happy. Which is honestly probably wise. I could use more of that.
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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.



“beg”

?

Lol, NO. I think you have us confused with a different sign.
So "please please please come on, pleeeeeease" is not begging? 😂 Yes he does this. But he doesn't give a fuck. If it means he gets what he wants, he doesn't care. He will do whatever it takes to get what he wants. No shame😂
Ok, I could see in a joking around way, or playfully for a sexual request.

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It was on different occasions. To me it doesn't matter in which situation : he begged.

But hey thanks for reminding me. I had forgotten about this 😂
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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.



“beg”

?

Lol, NO. I think you have us confused with a different sign.
So "please please please come on, pleeeeeease" is not begging? 😂 Yes he does this. But he doesn't give a fuck. If it means he gets what he wants, he doesn't care. He will do whatever it takes to get what he wants. No shame😂
Ok, I could see in a joking around way, or playfully for a sexual request.

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It was on different occasions. To me it doesn't matter in which situation : he begged.

But hey thanks for reminding me. I had forgotten about this 😂
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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.
Largely depends on how much they respect you, imo. If they don't respect you, it's likely that they'll use you if they are still in your life.

Though users aren't limited to Cap Sun, I think I told you about a Taurus who were only contacting me when he needed help.
Well it's not exactly using. It's more that everything he does has some goal to it. Even with a very very good friend of his, who's also a good friend of mine. Long time ago she said to me, that he was also this way with her. And I know, he respects her and in his own way cares for her a lot, very much.


I don't think it's an unusual sentiment. I mean, to put it directly...why would anyone spend their limited time and energy for another person without some kind of incentive? It's just those incentives can be as simple as they like spending time with the other person.

Ofcours. The world is built on some kind of reciprocity, I truly believe that. And the philosophical theory that everything we do is somehow egotistical is also true. We are good, because it makes us self feel good.

This guy is on another level though. Without a doubt.

People here in the beginning reminded me of how caps are opportunistic. And I think that's true. Or at least I think it's a valid thing to concider: this person is not doing things based on his feelings towards and for me, but more based on how I make him feel about himself. Especially a guy with his behaviour as described by the op. Like he is not trying to make her happy, he is trying to make himself happy. Which is honestly probably wise. I could use more of that.


Well, you had said yourself...we do things because it makes us feel good. Outside of tangible benefits, the only other type of incentive for a human being to do something for another is something can bring some form of good feelings to that human being (ie. enjoyment, laughter, love, etc.). I don't think there is a single human being out there who is doing anything that neither brings them tangible benefits, nor bring them good feelings.
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Yeah that's what I'm saying. But this guy is on another level, is also what I am saying, and then people say, caps are opportunistic, which fitts with my experience, so maybe there is something to it, so the op should maybe take that into concideration.
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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.



“beg”

?

Lol, NO. I think you have us confused with a different sign.
So "please please please come on, pleeeeeease" is not begging? 😂 Yes he does this. But he doesn't give a fuck. If it means he gets what he wants, he doesn't care. He will do whatever it takes to get what he wants. No shame😂
Ok, I could see in a joking around way, or playfully for a sexual request.

It was on different occasions. To me it doesn't matter in which situation : he begged.

But hey thanks for reminding me. I had forgotten about this 😂
Here’s the thing about that-

In reality- Caps don’t beg. We care about our reputation, and don’t like to look weak or vulnerable.

Although, at the other end of the spectrum, if we don’t care what the other person thinks, because they’re not that important to us, and we don’t respect them, then maybe. The people that we look at as being on surface level (have not been let in), it doesn’t matter.

I’m answering as a Capricorn, but I’ve also never known any that beg. My mom is a Capricorn as well, she’d rather cut off her own hand, than beg (or even ask) for anything. Quite a few of my friends are Caps, and I’ve never known them to beg for anything either. That’s embarrassing. Some might disagree with me, but I doubt it.

So again, if he was begging you for anything, it was probably because he was joking around with you, or because you hadn’t been let in by him yet.

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He does it with other people too.

And no he's not joking around. He just doesn't care. If he gets what he wants, then it's a win for him, no matter how he gets it. You can't debate this stuff 😂 he does it with his friend he calls his sister, one he really cares for. Nothing to discuss, this is how this particular cap does.
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Sees typicle for someone who is very invested in him-/herself and doing what he/she can to fulfill his/her needs. So slme days he wants attention, so he contacts you all day. Other day he doesn't, or at least not from you, so he doesn't contact you.

Not tl be rude tl the cap sign, but I have never ever ever met any other person so much focused on own needs and wants and goals as a cap and doing everything to get them fulfilled. Very opportunistic. Will sometimes beg, like literally beg with out any shame, if he wants something. And the next day he hardly notices you, because it's not about you, it's about him.

I have never met any other person, or at least not noticed it, like a cap guy that will only do things, when there is somehow something in it for him. Sometimes even if it is coming off as a good guy. He will use thay later to hit on the other girls around in that particular situation. He never does anything out of just being friendly. There are always plan and something to gain for him in whatever he does.



“beg”

?

Lol, NO. I think you have us confused with a different sign.
So "please please please come on, pleeeeeease" is not begging? 😂 Yes he does this. But he doesn't give a fuck. If it means he gets what he wants, he doesn't care. He will do whatever it takes to get what he wants. No shame😂
Ok, I could see in a joking around way, or playfully for a sexual request.

It was on different occasions. To me it doesn't matter in which situation : he begged.

But hey thanks for reminding me. I had forgotten about this 😂
Here’s the thing about that-

In reality- Caps don’t beg. We care about our reputation, and don’t like to look weak or vulnerable.

Although, at the other end of the spectrum, if we don’t care what the other person thinks, because they’re not that important to us, and we don’t respect them, then maybe. The people that we look at as being on surface level (have not been let in), it doesn’t matter.

I’m answering as a Capricorn, but I’ve also never known any that beg. My mom is a Capricorn as well, she’d rather cut off her own hand, than beg (or even ask) for anything. Quite a few of my friends are Caps, and I’ve never known them to beg for anything either. That’s embarrassing. Some might disagree with me, but I doubt it.

So again, if he was begging you for anything, it was probably because he was joking around with you, or because you hadn’t been let in by him yet.

He does it with other people too.

And no he's not joking around. He just doesn't care. If he gets what he wants, then it's a win for him, no matter how he gets it. You can't debate this stuff 😂 he does it with his friend he calls his sister, one he really cares for. Nothing to discuss, this is how this particular cap does.
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Right on.
I think you slept with him too soon.
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I think you slept with him too soon.
Holy Crap!

Welcome Back! ❤
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