Posted by fullmoongirl"It quickly went to i havent heard from you I thought you were playing games."
So I had some what of the talk with my cappy. My cancer self tried to manipulate the conversation without asking the exact questions. Yes am afriaf to ask but i try to communicate. From everything all i heard is he trust me and cares more than I think he does but he has the wall of china up. He said he doesnt do emotions like everyone else. Sooo im guessing hes still not ready for a relationship. Im done being FWB zoned. I dropped in our conversation that if I started dating other ppl would he care because I was upset at a similiar comment he made about his ex. He told me a story that went in circles so that he can say no he didnt care but it was like he was covering his ass. Two days later he asked me to come over and when i got there he was a bit drunk. That was fun. He dropped an emotional bag somewhere because he was on me. Told me he liked spending time with me (thats a first) asked to go through my phone (supposetly as a joke) asked if i had a new boyfriend, asked where i was going out that night and that he just might show up, askes if i thought more about our “conversation”... move past my next vist hes back to being stone cold. Ive been stressed in my own life so I havent texted him and neither has he but today I got an odd text from him at an unsual time to see what i was up to. It quickly went to i havent heard from you I thought you were playing games. Like wtf!!! Can someone please clarify whats going on.
Posted by Pandora101He texted me that last night.Posted by fullmoongirl"It quickly went to i havent heard from you I thought you were playing games."
So I had some what of the talk with my cappy. My cancer self tried to manipulate the conversation without asking the exact questions. Yes am afriaf to ask but i try to communicate. From everything all i heard is he trust me and cares more than I think he does but he has the wall of china up. He said he doesnt do emotions like everyone else. Sooo im guessing hes still not ready for a relationship. Im done being FWB zoned. I dropped in our conversation that if I started dating other ppl would he care because I was upset at a similiar comment he made about his ex. He told me a story that went in circles so that he can say no he didnt care but it was like he was covering his ass. Two days later he asked me to come over and when i got there he was a bit drunk. That was fun. He dropped an emotional bag somewhere because he was on me. Told me he liked spending time with me (thats a first) asked to go through my phone (supposetly as a joke) asked if i had a new boyfriend, asked where i was going out that night and that he just might show up, askes if i thought more about our “conversation”... move past my next vist hes back to being stone cold. Ive been stressed in my own life so I havent texted him and neither has he but today I got an odd text from him at an unsual time to see what i was up to. It quickly went to i havent heard from you I thought you were playing games. Like wtf!!! Can someone please clarify whats going on.
who said this, you or him? anyway, manipulating
but... I think there is some connection between cap and cancer... some opposite thing or? can someone confirm?click to expand
Posted by _kitten_I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description
Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.
Posted by xoxfluteI think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that fucking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.
This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.
Posted by _kitten_🤗 lol... I just noticed your a cap with pisces moon, same as my cap. Why are you caps so difficult. I feel like am paying for the damage someones else caused him.Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by _kitten_I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description
Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.
Lol I like you 😂😂click to expand
Posted by _kitten_Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by _kitten_🤗 lol... I just noticed your a cap with pisces moon, same as my cap. Why are you caps so difficult. I feel like am paying for the damage someones else caused him.Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by _kitten_I have a Gemini moon and lots of gem in my chart so i fit the description
Only Gemini women is allowed to manipulate us.
Lol I like you 😂😂
Save him if you could
" Capricorn Sun Pisces Moon (for guys)
"His Illumination: Soft-hearted and generous.
His dark side: Own worst enemy.
This man is a wonderful friend and coworker. He is sympathetic and kind, and full of wisdom. He also knows, and keeps secret, where just about everyone's skeletons are hidden. Every person he knows calls on him for advice and friendship. This soft-hearted, generous man has a sharp mind and a gentle soul. He carries a lot of emotional baggage. He himself keeps his problems hidden from others. He has, in fact, some deep, dark secrets that he carries literally to the grave. He usually has a secret marriage or relationship that he mentions to no one, even his current wife and children. He may also have an illegitimate child hidden away somewhere. Add to this at least one woman who broke his heart and made him turn to chemical escapes. Chronic ill health follows, and guess what? No one knows because he doesn't talk about what hurts him. If he could talk about it, he might not drink or use drugs. And as if all this weren't bad enough, he usually has a glandular problem that causes him to gain weight. By 40 he is usually quite heavy. This adds to his pain because he is a very attractive man. He is also usually found in some sort of limelight, often political or religious. He is very image conscious and yes, vain. He will be the first to poke fun at himself, but not in connection with the word fat. Laughing and cheerful, he can pull up everyone by their bootstraps, except himself. He is oftentimes his own worst enemy. Rescue him if you can, because he could be a wonderful, exciting husband and father. This job calls for a drug free Pisces, a homemaking Cancer, or a Scorpio who has exorcised her own demons."
(Taken from The Book of Lovers by Carolyn Reynolds.)click to expand
Posted by fullmoongirlAfter 1 year he knows whether he wants to pursue a relationship with you. Threatening to date other guys and then scrambling to convince yourself his reaction = he wants more, is just setting yourself up for more disappointment.Posted by xoxfluteI think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that fucking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.
This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.click to expand
Posted by xoxfluteWe are exclusive when it comes to our physical relationship. Its something he asked me to promise him from the beginning. I am not sure why he asked. He sometimes plays it off and says that its not jelousy or possive based. But he made me promise him anyways. He constanly reminds me that he is not seeing anyone else or will casually say i havent been with anyone since me. That fact that i have big feelings for him is what stops me from seeing anyone else. Im very about being with one guy only.Posted by fullmoongirlIt kinda sounds like he got comfortable with the status quo. Outta curiosity, what's stopping you from seeing other people as you and the Cap are not exclusive?Posted by xoxfluteI think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that fucking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.
This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by fullmoongirlAfter 1 year he knows whether he wants to pursue a relationship with you. Threatening to date other guys and then scrambling to convince yourself his reaction = he wants more, is just setting yourself up for more disappointment.Posted by xoxfluteI think his insecurites got the best of him when I brought up the whole I should start dating other ppl comment. Just some backstory weve been at this for over a year and my patience is wearing out. He was making progress recently and I thought he was finally letting himself start thinking of moving forward but when we had our conversation from my point i felt like no progress was made yet I hear caps like to hide everything behind that fucking wall but I just dont know. And now hes acting weirder.
This sounds like a Cap that's starting to catch feelings, still processing them, but worries that you might also be seeing someone else.
You want him to step up? Say so.click to expand