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Sep 08, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 113 · Topics: 11
Hi, I posted this in the Virgo forum but got no responses there so was wondering if I could find enlightenment here...I'm not sure where this is coming from -- his Virgo sun or Cappy Moon. Thoughts?
MY POST:
Okay, I thought you guys were cool calm and collected and I'm just wondering why my Virgo throws hissyfits every now and then. We're already together so this is not one of those -- does he like me or not posts. I've learned how to duck and disappear whenever he has his dark, brooding i-vant-to-ve-alone moods so yes, he does a disappearing act every now and then.
I had a hard time decoding that at first but learned not to take it personally and well, I'm a Gem and self-entertaining. So when he does that, it's okay. I just have fun with other friends.
Anyway, he is getting to be much more of a drama king than I am. After his recent disappearing act, things were going well and sweet and, of course, he starts getting critical again, scolding me for things that I have no control over any more like my past, stuff that happened even BEFORE I met him, telling me that he can't figure me out, making snarky comments about events that I go to (like I accompanied a friend to her networking thing for business and he said I had been out "speed dating".
Like I said, I had been getting used to this and it's possible my Moon in Taurus is helping me keep my emotional level stable. I don't take things personally because I know he's built that way and that's just part of the package I chose to love. But this harping about my past is bothering me.
Backgrounder: To make a long story short, I did a "Bruce Wayne" the past three years. Had everything. Gave it up because I had life lessons to learn. Now, starting over. I met him when I was done with my healing/issues and ready to jump back into the rat race again.
So I tell him he has no faith in my future and again, a hissyfit!! I don't know what this guy wants from me anymore. I am loyal, devoted, loving and very patient when it comes to his eccentricities. But whenever we get closer or more bonded, he does throws a tantrum like this and I don't understand it.