yes, we just try not to be retarded about love at first sight. will answer more tomorrow. but most of those answers can be answered with, there is no definite answer.
Do you believe in unconditional love? Do you choose your partners based on whether they could love you unconditionally, but turns out they weren't as great as you first thought they were when you met?
i was right, there is no definite answer Aquasun. Love at first sight is possible for a Capricorn, but is unlikely that they will elope, or confess their feelings immediately.
LOL...BTW according to Hindu mythology, only Mars ( Mangal ) can ward off the ill-effects of Saturn ( Shani ). So beware when you finally mount the attack 😉
Foolishness! Capricorns do NOT fall in love at first sight. LOVE at first sight doesn't exist. Lust or Infatuation at 1st sight exists, and even like but not real love. Geez, doesn't anyone know what love really means?! How can you love a stranger you see and don't know?
We don't fall in love fast. It will take a couple months.
If anyone disagrees (meaning they do fall in love at first sight) I believe it is a different planet in their chart talking like Pisces or Fire.
Unconditional love is nearly impossible to obtain. Its a rare wonder indeed.
Feeling weak & electricity at first sight is not LOVE.
Maybe I don't understand what people mean when they say love at first sight, because LOVE upon 1st sight is impossible. Maybe they mean lust or something. I guess its a saying that doesn't actually mean love.
sometimes, things click instantly. i know my ex and i clicked immediately. even before i knew who she was, i felt something different, and hell we werent even face to face. though the love didn't last, that connection was instant, and oddly enough, i did give a shit about her at that moment. it's that feeling like, o my, this feels right. almost as if floating away with little control, and caps hate that normally.
there are times when something just feels 'right'. as if, i know, this is different, i can't say what, or why. i shouldn't go after them, my mind says no, but my heart says go. sadly, i haven't met anyone since my aries ex who has done that. *shivers*
yes, as a capricorn i still lecture myself. like o no what are you doing? i get plenty of i told you so's.
Why do you think that is? I hear that despite Caps cool, unemotional exterior, they usually have hot fires burning beneath.
lol, not too long ago, you said you heard they were sexual duds, and things insinuating, that capricorns are boring 😛. o, ja, i corrected you 😛.
Is that the reason you guys are so reluctant to give in to that kind of love? Is there some type of fear that the fire inside of you could take over that ever so practical and logical side of you, to the point of no control, or perhaps, no return??
partially. because that fire has a tendency to hurt people, especially ourselves. there are many who want to harness the power of capricorn. some out of love, but many out of malice. just as a campfire can keep a person worm, it can also be used to roast them. turning that kindness into pain is difficult, and not something i enjoy. if not careful, people steal the lives from us, and call it just. we are the fucking http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gelfling>gelflings</a> of the zodiac 😢.
Something like what we pisces crave pff, i've been dangling in the water for ages, and barely a nibble.
What do you mean there are many who want to harness the power of Capricorn?? many of us usually pay well, typically have a high tolerance for pain, loyal, and don't mind taking charge or responsibility. though we are suspicious, we tend to be very giving and yes, maybe even gullible, to the ones we love.
by pay well, i mean that some capricorns are very open with gifts. so many treat us like we are boobs, and try to milk us. some believe we can not tell we're being used like that. many of us are usually reserved people, and respectful, so i guess some of us give off that innocent look.
i am a generous, and usually sweet person to those i like, but people have tried, and do still try often to abuse that. what better person to abuse than someone who wants to please, is loyal, and can stand a beating? finding one that doesn't execute their ass for trying that. so in other words, people should try at their own risk, and stop crying if they lose a body part, or a family member if they do.
i see reality well so my brain tends to list all existing and possible obstacles/doubts/issues.
is why secrecy, and curiosity aren't exactly good practices with a capricorn. not all of us are pessimistic, but our minds are like simulators. we'll run that person, and every possible situation concerning that person, analyzing what results we find using the data we already have. so, missing data, gives errors, and makes us more suspicious.
ja, sagigoat, there is a big ass rant on the taurus board about that. mspisces was complaining about not getting any, and i told her that i'm not going to put out, because i'm just not feeling the connection. so she labeled me a prude, and even worse a tease. 😢. well i am a tease, but prude is just mean.
Gosh, that gives me a headache even trying to fathom such a thought process.
testing a product is better than using it and waiting for it to fail. i particularly like to know who will not be around when i'm in need, so i can take extra precautions to never provide them more service than they deserve.
What about all the ppl who dream of finding someone like this to cherish, instead of use? I think this attitude sets you up to be blind to those with genuine interests, because you're too busy focusing on the threats.
sounds as if you don't understand the method. i try to give no more than what i've given. till i know a person, and i do mean know, a person really well, i give nothing that matters enough to me that it is gone. but, that should be a common practice in my opinion. later, if i find i have been investing into the wrong person(s), i usually extract a severe refund.
lol, have you? ja, but then again, i keep a low profile. i'm not flashy. i should have brought sparklers. maybe use liver scented body wash.
Sometimes you meet people and like them for what you read about then from their face and eyes. sometimes the feeling of them just feels right. it isn't logical, but that happens.
Genome, there is no need to feel the pressure to prove yourself. eh, i usually don't worry about proving myself, unless i'm in trouble. but ja, i understand what you mean. don't let the capricorn bashing get you down either.
People search their whole lives to find true love. Some find it, and some don't. Some have it without knowing it and let it go. To spend the rest of their lives to try and get it back. Some find it a know what it is right away and charish it forever. Some ppl think they have found love but it's really not. I don't think there is such thing as love at first sight. It should be called Lust at first site or connection or maybe even infactuation. Love, lust and infactuation are very hard to tell the difference untill you get to know someone..
Not sure how one can focus on negative, while hoping and expecting the best. i don't expect the best. i just test. i might want the best. but that's different. think of it as doing a security check on an airplane looking for faults, before seeing how fun it is 🙂.
i'd rather check it first, then get in the air have a blast, then a wing falls off.
Exactly. That's why we are resilient. Nothing can break us regardless how devoted and sweet we seem to others. some of us are resilient because we actually go through product testing.
Caps are usually ones to really get to know someone they're infactuated woth before actually falling for them. I'm personally very careful and cautious with whom I open myself up to emotionally - but the more reassured I am that I'm not going to regret falling for that person the more secure I feel about the relationship. Im not really one to fall for people though - but when were sure of something I fall pretty hard. I mean I can't speak for all caps but I know from my own experiances that the people I have fallen for I've had a long term relationship w all of them - cause I've always played for keeps - even when I was younger I knew what I wanted in a relationship. But my experiances have also changed not so much what I want but whether its even possible - or worth it for that matter to fall for anyone anymore. I've actually become more enveloped in getting my life the way I want it rather than finding whom I want to live it with though. I guess that's all part of that cap struggle most of us go through - where even love can seem to become an obstacle.
Caps are usually ones to really get to know someone they're infactuated woth before actually falling for them. I'm personally very careful and cautious with whom I open myself up to emotionally - but the more reassured I am that I'm not going to regret falling for that person the more secure I feel about the relationship. Im not really one to fall for people though - but when were sure of something I fall pretty hard. I mean I can't speak for all caps but I know from my own experiances that the people I have fallen for I've had a long term relationship w all of them - cause I've always played for keeps - even when I was younger I knew what I wanted in a relationship. But my experiances have also changed not so much what I want but whether its even possible - or worth it for that matter to fall for anyone anymore. I've actually become more enveloped in getting my life the way I want it rather than finding whom I want to live it with though. I guess that's all part of that cap struggle most of us go through - where even love can seem to become an obstacle.
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How long after they meet someone that they are interested in do they feel like they are in love with them, only not to make the person believe so?
How fast do they make their mind up about someone?