does my cappy want to be with me ??

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virgo1881
@virgo1881
19 Years

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hello to all,
This is my first post, well I have been talking to a cappy for more than a month and even though its not that long I am already confused.
We met through the internet, he is a couple of months younger than me but acts and looks older, when we started talking all he did was asking questions about me like an interrogation which I didnt mind. I also noticed that he didnt called as often as i thought but I figured that was the way he was,plus i knew he wanted to take things slow, getting to know eachother. A week later he went to florida and he called me a couple of times to tell me that he was thinking of me and really wanted to see me. We decided to meet new years day and it seem like a great date he complemented me about my style , my attitude, he liked that I was an accountant ( he is actually going to school for that) and even went as far as saying that he was happy that we started the year together.
I thought this was going to get better with time but something happen and instead of getting closed he was pulling away, not calling as much even standing me up one of the days we were going to meet.
I confronted him and asked him to please never to do that again, he understood and that was the end of that, when we finally saw eachother again it was even better than the last time, he bought me flowers and even almost kiss me but he didnt which i was sad because i wanted to, he also invited me to his new condo telling me that he was going to cook for me when he finished moving to his place, I was so happy becasuse i thought he was getting closer.
after that he kept calling and texting and was great but now he went back to school this week and he has not called, has not text me, hasnt even tried to see me, so i have texted him and he is like Im doing homework blah blah,

Im confused I thought he liked me , now he acts like he in not interested. is this a sign that a cappy is done with you, I dont know if I should call him, before he started school he told me I should call him when ever I wanted to, is this a test,,, I dont know should i just give it up, or is this normal behavior for a cappy.. PLEASE HELP
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MyCap
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20 Years

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First of all, calm down, take a deep breath. No this does not mean its over. If u have read previous posts on here we have mentioned how cappies can only focus on one thing at one time. Especially when it comes to their jobs. They work extra hard, and only focus on it usually. Well ur cappy seems to be focusing on school right now, and it will be important to him that u respect that. I used to text my cap when he was working and he'd reply, I'm trying to work right now. I just let it go, and then he contacted me on his own time. I know it doesnt seem fair, but it's the way they are. Ill write more later, have to run now. Do'nt worry about it tho.