A girl I went to high school with and haven't talked to in about 4 months texted me about a week ago telling me to come to a party she was at (well it wasn't really a party, I think there were 7 people in total). Later on, after some tequila she pulled me over to her and we made out for a while and then fell asleep together. We've kept in touch after that night and I made a date with her for later this week. From the things I've read trying to get a little insight, these things don't seem to fit the typical Capricorn woman. Or do they?
Does she fit the typical capricorn?

Yeppers!
Not sure which part of the behavior you're asking about.
- The contact. We can go a long time without talking to people, but we still consider them close friends. Once you're our friend, you're always our friend (even 20 years down the road, even if we haven't spoken for 10). So she thought of you and called you. Awesome!
- Uhhh... alcohol helps us open up and take the risks that we are afraid to take. She may have been wanting to call you for a while now.
- Keeping in touch since. Yep. She's into you.
Not sure which part of the behavior you're asking about.
- The contact. We can go a long time without talking to people, but we still consider them close friends. Once you're our friend, you're always our friend (even 20 years down the road, even if we haven't spoken for 10). So she thought of you and called you. Awesome!
- Uhhh... alcohol helps us open up and take the risks that we are afraid to take. She may have been wanting to call you for a while now.
- Keeping in touch since. Yep. She's into you.
Alright, thanks.
I took her out on Sunday and she texted me after saying that she had a great time. However, I've had a hard time getting a hold of her since then, she seems very aloof. Needless to say it confuses the hell out of me. She seemed pretty interested in me and now she does this.
Thoughts?
I took her out on Sunday and she texted me after saying that she had a great time. However, I've had a hard time getting a hold of her since then, she seems very aloof. Needless to say it confuses the hell out of me. She seemed pretty interested in me and now she does this.
Thoughts?
Ok, so is she just testing the waters, so to speak? And if she is, what would my best course of action be?

Don't contact her too much, it appears too eager. Once a day is plenty if she is responding, but maybe every three days if she isn't responding much - let her wonder what you're up to. Play it by ear. We are aloof without meaning to be. Maybe you should be a little aloof too. Aloof people tend to draw me in.

Don't make it like a game though - she'll see right through that.
Ok, thanks for the advice. I can try to be more aloof but I am who I am and I probably won't ever change much for her or anybody (I'm a pretty textbook taurus) ,and I would never make it a game, I respect her too much for that. That being said, I haven't talked to her in a couple days although I did want to try and make plans with her for this weekend.

Yeah, you're better off just being yourself. Just a suggestion.
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