I have a cap friend and were fine but I want to be closer. How do I complete this task? Btw I mean close in friendly way not romantic at all. I don't understand what I have to do exactly. We talk often but its not really escalating to anything. We talk about the same thing over and over again which I think she enjoys and I don't know how I can add more depth to our friendship. Any advice? Is this what all caps are like, I really need to know cause I actually really like capricorn its my Venus or descending sign. Their so grounded and focused and devoted to their word. Also they seem like zombies and have dry demeanors and traditional attitude. I like to pretend to be Capricornish sometimes. I just won't speak a lot or give much thought about where my eyes roam or land and you know have that lifeless Cappy stare (Idk why but I admire that). Caps also seem lifeless when I'm speaking to them. Like knock knock and nobody's home( I admire that too) but truly I know Capricorns are more than just their physicals I want know what caps look like on the inside. Also what pleases Capricorn friendship wise. How is the friendship initiated and continued? But truly I'd be grateful if I can get answers. I'm sun Leo moon Gemini rising Gemini btw.
I agree with Capri-sun that persistence is what is needed .
I dont plan it. I dont plan that people who are persistent to be with me will be eventually allowed inside but that happens. I have seen that happening in my life . I eventually end up feeling close to those who stick around and who make sure that they stay in touch .
I am not saying we dont respond to instant connection (i am also not talking about romantic connections here...just friendship) but instant connection or not, we open up only when we feel free to trust . I personally feel very afraid of being made fun of and disrespected . What if i open up and the other person takes it in some other way ?