End of relationship
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by confusedcancer on Sunday, February 3, 2008 and has 16 replies.
Do caps give closure at the end of a relationship and tell you that it is over or do they just move on and say nothing?
Yes...someone please answer this question, cuz I am in the same situation. I emailed my CAP and told him how I feel and he hasn't responded back.
hmm, good one... 3 years ago i was in a really great relationship with a cap, we lasted 6 month. and we just kinda faded away from eachother, it was like a unwritten unspoken break-up (i guess.. altho we were both very very young) there was no "closure" at all. So, I too am interested in hear this answer..
I'm a capricorn too and I always need closure, but I think male capricorns are different
I am so confused!
I need this answered as well...
Whow!!! I would really like to know the answer to this question.
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Hmm...if I had to guess, I would just assume that there would be no closure but more of a 'let it fade away' type thing.
"I have to admit I probably had very few closures with anyone I know. I have moved around a lot. Most of my relationships have faded. The ones I tried the closure thing, I later talked to them again."
I'm like that too....I never want to "end" it with anyone unless they have crossed my limit...and when I do try to "end" it, I end up talking/initiating contact with them once again....
May be it's b/c I fear loss/failure in general....Caps are known for perseverance and endurance in all aspects of their lives (of course the moon signs affect that)...so, they wouldn't want to "give up" so easily....whether it's relationship or other things in life....I have heard a lot of ppl on here say Cancerians have a hard time saying "no" or "letting go"...trust me, I have no cancer in my birth chart and I'm like that...then again, astrology doesn't define your life!
I'm like that too....I never want to "end" it with anyone unless they have crossed my limit...and when I do try to "end" it, I end up talking/initiating contact with them once again....
May be it's b/c I fear loss/failure in general....Caps are known for perseverance and endurance in all aspects of their lives (of course the moon signs affect that)...so, they wouldn't want to "give up" so easily....whether it's relationship or other things in life....I have heard a lot of ppl on here say Cancerians have a hard time saying "no" or "letting go"...trust me, I have no cancer in my birth chart and I'm like that...then again, astrology doesn't define your life!
Memories, satyrsmind.. Memories....
*starts to sing* "Thanks for the memories"
*starts to sing* "Thanks for the memories"
My Cap wouldn't give me closure when I asked for it. I blatantly asked for closure and told him exactly what he could say to send me on my merry way. I let him know that I wouldn't be able to move on unless he explicitly told me that he didn't want to pursue anything with me. His reply to that email was a long laugh, then a message that said the distance made it hard for us to communicate and how we had made such great progress the last time we had seen each other.
No closure whatsoever.
Then he went back to being silent on me. Then he came back around a week later and we were good for about a month, we saw each other again and made even more progress. Then he pulled away again. So I think the fading thing is pretty popular among the goats when they're not 100% sure if they're done with you. When you get closure, it's really over lol. If I know one thing, it's that if he cuts you out of his life, you're out of it -- point blank, period. Non-negotiable.
No closure whatsoever.
Then he went back to being silent on me. Then he came back around a week later and we were good for about a month, we saw each other again and made even more progress. Then he pulled away again. So I think the fading thing is pretty popular among the goats when they're not 100% sure if they're done with you. When you get closure, it's really over lol. If I know one thing, it's that if he cuts you out of his life, you're out of it -- point blank, period. Non-negotiable.
so caps usually come back after awhile? I just recently stopped talking to my CAP, but I've only known him for a short period of time. I stopped talkin to him a few days ago :/
I don't think this is a capricorn thing, I think it's a childish man thing. My ex boyfriend is a Virgo and he did the same, but he is a coward so... Our relationship was very intense and suddenly he was a big asshole to me, he asked for a time and I came back to my country. I sent an email in early January saying time's over, he didn't reply lol. (but did stupid and childish things to "call attention")
Be strong and move on with your life, you deserve to be happy.
Be strong and move on with your life, you deserve to be happy.
*he was a big ***hole
Patt is right. When these guys start acting like this, there's little hope that it's ever going to end up being a normal solid committed relationship. So forget about whether he's coming back. It may give you a temporary boost/thrill if he contacts you, but will only prolong you moving on and getting over this guy. Been there/done it for years with a Cap- what a huge time-waster! Also had a Virgo try to keep circling back around and I cut him off alot quicker, because I had learned my lesson well from the Cap CRAP and had no more tolerance or patience for it. They are immature messes and it's not likely to change anytime soon.
"They are immature messes and it's not likely to change anytime soon."
You said it CapGirl.
You said it CapGirl
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