Everything was ok?
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by pomba on Saturday, October 16, 2010 and has 2 replies.
I posted about this cap a little while ago, and it was going great...and then...
I've been "talking" to him (at least I thought I was). He calls me/ texts me everyday; even if it??s for 5 minutes (he works a lot). I must admit that the conversations are never initiated by me, nor do I give him my full attention, and he'll point out that I'm taking long to answer, that I'm always busy. On his days off and days where he gets off early he'll invite me to do something with him alone or his buddies, I always show up a little. Just the other night he tells me he looked forward to talking to me the next day.
Yesterday was no different; except I didn't go and instead switched it up and told him to come to my friend??s house if he wished (I don't like the thought of running on HIS schedule). He chooses to ignore the invite, and told me he was bored. I said I had given him an option, and he tells me he felt he should be responsible and stay home, I told him he should do what he feels he needs to. He says ???you think so??? when I tell him gut feelings are usually correct. He tells me he'll stay home and hang out with his "heartbroken friend," I didn't respond right away, he texts again and tells me, "I don't understand why people our age get into such serious relationships." I didn't bother texting back, I don't understand what all the calling, texting, and seeing each other was for him, but apparently I read all his signals completely wrong, which honestly, my gut tells me I didn't.
I don't know if maybe he wanted me to refute his point, to tell him to come anyway... He's been texting me normal as usual.
So, I want to ask...what's up?
I've been "talking" to him (at least I thought I was). He calls me/ texts me everyday; even if it??s for 5 minutes (he works a lot). I must admit that the conversations are never initiated by me, nor do I give him my full attention, and he'll point out that I'm taking long to answer, that I'm always busy. On his days off and days where he gets off early he'll invite me to do something with him alone or his buddies, I always show up a little. Just the other night he tells me he looked forward to talking to me the next day.
Yesterday was no different; except I didn't go and instead switched it up and told him to come to my friend??s house if he wished (I don't like the thought of running on HIS schedule). He chooses to ignore the invite, and told me he was bored. I said I had given him an option, and he tells me he felt he should be responsible and stay home, I told him he should do what he feels he needs to. He says ???you think so??? when I tell him gut feelings are usually correct. He tells me he'll stay home and hang out with his "heartbroken friend," I didn't respond right away, he texts again and tells me, "I don't understand why people our age get into such serious relationships." I didn't bother texting back, I don't understand what all the calling, texting, and seeing each other was for him, but apparently I read all his signals completely wrong, which honestly, my gut tells me I didn't.
I don't know if maybe he wanted me to refute his point, to tell him to come anyway... He's been texting me normal as usual.
So, I want to ask...what's up?
Amethyst, you have quite the point. I say this all the time, just my walls are coming down with this one :/
Ellesque, 21 & 22.
Ellesque, 21 & 22.
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