EX CAPPY FINALLY CALLED

Hey Ladies just thought I let you know....

Last night around 7 or so my Ex Cappy called, I was not surprised hardly reconized his voice. I guess when he said Hello Ms........I caught the voice he is the only one that says that and he only says when he knows he has screwed up. I said hello and he said how are you doing? I said fine, he said are you at home? I said No. He said that wanted to come over and I said well I will be home in an hour and he said that will be to late and said that he will come over tommorrow? I said Ok and hung up and continued my conversation.

I don't know what prompted the phone call I don't know if he really will be over tonight and is it to get his stuff or finally talk or maybe that was a test question I first suspected that he called to see if I was upset or mad but whatever the case maybe I still must continue as if I have not heard from him.

Am I excited...NO...I did recognized one thing though when he call and I heard his voice normally I would be happy but this time I was not happy I did not get that feeling in my heart it was there but not powerful like it used to be...and that just lets me know that had he waited a little longer he would have been out my system.

Will Keep You Informed

Hi scorpianlady, i've been staying out of these the past couple of days with all the crazy fighting going on, weird, must be something in the air, but I relate a bit to what you just wrote I think, I remember my old cap guy, and it's been at least a year since i've even seen him, but i remember starting to feel after the millionth time of the back and forth, and "we should just be friends" etc etc and then not hearing and all that other good stuff we talk about, feeling when i did hear from him sort of a "ho-hum, kind've boring" feeling. I think you just get plain old tired from the repetetive nonsense that it starts to feel, like I said, boring. Now that's not to say he didn't pull me back in, or better yet, I allowed it, but i remember that feeling.
that's all...no advice or anything just relating to the feeling

HE WANTS YOU.. YOU KNOW IT.. BE KIND BUT ALOOF, HE WILL CALL AGAIN.

Ladies these men don't let go easily. I think we all have hope of them coming back to us. Or at least I hope we do!

iknowhesmine84

I know he loves me.....I just can't play this game with him and I think he will eventually know it if he don't already know it

GEG
No I an not to happy, at least not with him right know and until he start talking my attutude will remain the same..unemotional, and distance just like him, I made changes before withing our friendship...been there for him backwards and he knows it..if I start to let my feelings show right know I am subject to get hurt by him again and I can not let that happen..I will tell him I love him and he knows I do. I told him I love him before I walked away. This ones on him.