EX possible narcissus
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by WWRunner88 on Wednesday, July 2, 2014 and has 13 replies.
I was just wanting some advice in regards to my ex boyfriend who is a Capricorn we broke up about 6 months ago after being together for 2 years due to him living a totally double life and having another girlfriend about 2 years.
I posted a question last week in regards to me meeting a friend from back home that lives in a different state who's also a Capricorn. I was a little apprehensive about spending time with my friend due to me finding him very attractive and wanting to have sex etc.. since I had not had sex in months. However after spending the consecutive four days with my friend from back home I just realized how much I loved my ex boyfriend, missed him and really wanted him to be there with me instead of my friend.
I found it to be quite odd that the day before my friend was coming in town (my ex was not aware of this) my ex boyfriend dropped off a box of my belongings well belongings I had gave him and wrote a note telling me how much he loved me and how how regretful he was for lying/cheating and how he just self sabotages his life etc initially I didn't really care about any of this or the text he was sending etc.. but as the weekend progressed any hate and anger I had for my ex boyfriend faded away and I realize how much I'm in love with him and how I am secretly hoping that everything he's been telling me for the last few months and the last few days is true and that he truly does want to change. however I'm not sure if he's just a narcissist or capricorns are just narcissists in general or have narcissistic personalities or behavior etc. I feel like maybe he just wants me because I'm no longer there and its a challenge, but at the sane time this is the first time he actually seems genuine remorseful and aplogetic.I was hoping that other capricorns may be able to shed some light on this for me.
I've read that Capps are kinda going through a self realization period and are finally realizing what they want I was wondering if other capricorns were going through this self realization phase and if capricorns are truly narcissistic or have narcissism tendencies
I posted a question last week in regards to me meeting a friend from back home that lives in a different state who's also a Capricorn. I was a little apprehensive about spending time with my friend due to me finding him very attractive and wanting to have sex etc.. since I had not had sex in months. However after spending the consecutive four days with my friend from back home I just realized how much I loved my ex boyfriend, missed him and really wanted him to be there with me instead of my friend.
I found it to be quite odd that the day before my friend was coming in town (my ex was not aware of this) my ex boyfriend dropped off a box of my belongings well belongings I had gave him and wrote a note telling me how much he loved me and how how regretful he was for lying/cheating and how he just self sabotages his life etc initially I didn't really care about any of this or the text he was sending etc.. but as the weekend progressed any hate and anger I had for my ex boyfriend faded away and I realize how much I'm in love with him and how I am secretly hoping that everything he's been telling me for the last few months and the last few days is true and that he truly does want to change. however I'm not sure if he's just a narcissist or capricorns are just narcissists in general or have narcissistic personalities or behavior etc. I feel like maybe he just wants me because I'm no longer there and its a challenge, but at the sane time this is the first time he actually seems genuine remorseful and aplogetic.I was hoping that other capricorns may be able to shed some light on this for me.
I've read that Capps are kinda going through a self realization period and are finally realizing what they want I was wondering if other capricorns were going through this self realization phase and if capricorns are truly narcissistic or have narcissism tendencies
Yep, I've got lots of regrets, and a lot of bridges I'd like to build back.
With that being said, if you back to him -- you area fool.
No offense.
With that being said, if you back to him -- you area fool.
No offense.
* if you go back to him, you are a fool.
Desperate for an edit option......seriously
Desperate for an edit option......seriously
I'm sorry what do you mean by that. I mean I'm Sag and I really hope I don't offend you by saying this but I'm finding that capricorns are very manipulative and it's very difficult for me to wrap my head around why they are so manipulative or their motives etc because I honestly would never do anything like that so when you say it's just an edit edition are you meaning he's just trying to get the upper hand and make it to where I don't hate him in the end because to me if he really cared about me he would just try not to hurt me anymore. Plus I really believe people can change and we are all human and prone to error, but he knows that about me, which is why I'm questioning all of this.
Nope, I'm absolutely certain that I'm not missing him or wanting my ex back because he's not there. I saw myself spending my entire life with him. He was my best friend but he lied to me and cheated on me for 2 years and even after that I still tried to make it work. To me he's my other half.I just don't wanna have any regrets.
Posted by WWRunner88
Nope, I'm absolutely certain that I'm not missing him or wanting my ex back because he's not there. I saw myself spending my entire life with him. He was my best friend but he lied to me and cheated on me for 2 years and even after that I still tried to make it work. To me he's my other half.I just don't wanna have any regrets.
You don't miss him, yet you see him as a soul mate?
Cut your losses.
Posted by WWRunner88
I'm sorry what do you mean by that. I mean I'm Sag and I really hope I don't offend you by saying this but I'm finding that capricorns are very manipulative and it's very difficult for me to wrap my head around why they are so manipulative or their motives etc because I honestly would never do anything like that so when you say it's just an edit edition are you meaning he's just trying to get the upper hand and make it to where I don't hate him in the end because to me if he really cared about me he would just try not to hurt me anymore. Plus I really believe people can change and we are all human and prone to error, but he knows that about me, which is why I'm questioning all of this.
Aww. I think he was referring to the dxp site, itself.
We have no EDIT button, so we cannot to back and correct any typos.
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by WWRunner88
I'm sorry what do you mean by that. I mean I'm Sag and I really hope I don't offend you by saying this but I'm finding that capricorns are very manipulative and it's very difficult for me to wrap my head around why they are so manipulative or their motives etc because I honestly would never do anything like that so when you say it's just an edit edition are you meaning he's just trying to get the upper hand and make it to where I don't hate him in the end because to me if he really cared about me he would just try not to hurt me anymore. Plus I really believe people can change and we are all human and prone to error, but he knows that about me, which is why I'm questioning all of this.
Aww. I think he was referring to the dxp site, itself.
We have no EDIT button, so we cannot to back and correct any typos.click to expand
*we cannot go back and correct any typos.
I apologize, I think I may have worded somethings wrong. Of course I miss him, but the fact that we are not together is not what makes me miss him.
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by MontgomeryPosted by WWRunner88
I'm sorry what do you mean by that. I mean I'm Sag and I really hope I don't offend you by saying this but I'm finding that capricorns are very manipulative and it's very difficult for me to wrap my head around why they are so manipulative or their motives etc because I honestly would never do anything like that so when you say it's just an edit edition are you meaning he's just trying to get the upper hand and make it to where I don't hate him in the end because to me if he really cared about me he would just try not to hurt me anymore. Plus I really believe people can change and we are all human and prone to error, but he knows that about me, which is why I'm questioning all of this.
Aww. I think he was referring to the dxp site, itself.
We have no EDIT button, so we cannot to back and correct any typos.
*we cannot go back and correct any typos.
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bwahahaha
@2 years due to him living a totally double life and having another girlfriend about 2 years.
If he can lie for 2 years then surely he's lying now. You cannot believe a word he's saying if he's lived a double life for 2 whole years without failing at living the lie for that long.
You didn't give much information about him so I can't say for sure if he fits the profile of a Narcissist but yes I've met a few Narcissistic Capricorn males so it's possible that he is but I can't say for sure.
You love the IDEA of who you believed he was but he was never that person you fell in love with it. He was pretending to be your dream guy all the while being a total cheating assclown.
You must shake it off, do not lapse back into la la land because that is what he's hoping for, you'll shirk off the anger and accept his cheating ass ways and be the other woman, frankly you were always the other woman you just didn't know it.
The bestfriend soulmate is the person he wanted you to see. Bestfriends and soulmates don't lie for 2 whole years, they simply are not that selfish but the person he really is if you're honest with yourself is just a cheating liar who selfishly strung you along for 2 years
Wake up
If he can lie for 2 years then surely he's lying now. You cannot believe a word he's saying if he's lived a double life for 2 whole years without failing at living the lie for that long.
You didn't give much information about him so I can't say for sure if he fits the profile of a Narcissist but yes I've met a few Narcissistic Capricorn males so it's possible that he is but I can't say for sure.
You love the IDEA of who you believed he was but he was never that person you fell in love with it. He was pretending to be your dream guy all the while being a total cheating assclown.
You must shake it off, do not lapse back into la la land because that is what he's hoping for, you'll shirk off the anger and accept his cheating ass ways and be the other woman, frankly you were always the other woman you just didn't know it.
The bestfriend soulmate is the person he wanted you to see. Bestfriends and soulmates don't lie for 2 whole years, they simply are not that selfish but the person he really is if you're honest with yourself is just a cheating liar who selfishly strung you along for 2 years
Wake up
narcissus is a flower. he wont change you either except him how he is and know you wont be the only woman or you walk simple as that.
he wont change you either except him how he is and know you wont be the only woman or you walk simple as that.Posted by tiki33
The bestfriend soulmate is the person he wanted you to see. Bestfriends and soulmates don't lie for 2 whole years, they simply are not that selfish but the person he really is if you're honest with yourself is just a cheating liar who selfishly strung you along for 2 years
Wake up
Spot on. If he really valued you then he'd never have treated you such.
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