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This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by ebony10 on Tuesday, September 23, 2014 and has 5 replies.
Hello, sagitaruis lady here feeling very upset after having quite an abrupt blow out with my boyfriend of almost two months.. My Capricorn partner has brought alot of happieness into my life, however the only big problem, has been the lack of quality time that he is able to give me!.. My last post explained how busy he is with work commitments and the gym, and that we only have two nights a A week together, but one of those, is only quality time, as the other evening, he doesn't turn up until his shift is over, roughly between 2-3 am in the morning, he would then go almost after he'd awake the following day. To cut a long story short, Friday, we had an argument concerning the time issues. And out of frustration, I stupidly finished things between us, due to the fact that we couldn't seem to reach a compromise.. I know how hastily I acted, but I don't know what else to do!.. The following day, I realised how foolish I'd been, and tried very hard to open the lines of communication, how ever he is now virtually ignoring me.. The only commutation I had was last night, when he said, that he couldnt be with me, as he can't give me the time I needed. I am absolutely deverstated, and can't understand how he can just give up on a so easily.. Can somebody please tell me. Is all hope lost!, or will he come back to me?.. I know Capricorns can be very stubbon.. But is this really the end between us??..Please help!! 
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If you're not willing to accept and work around his work schedule, and he isn't willing to give you the time you need, then it's not going to work.
Seems to me you are both stubborn and demanding of each other. You demand more time, he demands you accept what you can give.
I don't see how you could work it out. Capricorns are ALWAYS going to put job first. It's the means of survival. People either accept it or they don't. If they can't, then we're better off with someone who can.
By the same token you want to be a priority in a man's life. If one can't provide it for you, then you're better off with someone who can.
People don't change and it's not fair to ask someone to change. Just like it's not fair for you to be expected to change. We need what we need, so we keep searching until we find someone that provides us with what we need, just as they are searching to find someone who provides them what they need.
Don't see the break up as a negative, hurtful thing. It's not personal. It's just how it is. It's just situational and obviously, you two aren't compatible.
But, in all honesty, I think you were demanding too much at a two month period.
Had it been a year into the relationship, then yes, you have every right. But, at two months, you're still getting to know each other and deciding whether you each want to continue the relationship.
Seems to me you are both stubborn and demanding of each other. You demand more time, he demands you accept what you can give.
I don't see how you could work it out. Capricorns are ALWAYS going to put job first. It's the means of survival. People either accept it or they don't. If they can't, then we're better off with someone who can.
By the same token you want to be a priority in a man's life. If one can't provide it for you, then you're better off with someone who can.
People don't change and it's not fair to ask someone to change. Just like it's not fair for you to be expected to change. We need what we need, so we keep searching until we find someone that provides us with what we need, just as they are searching to find someone who provides them what they need.
Don't see the break up as a negative, hurtful thing. It's not personal. It's just how it is. It's just situational and obviously, you two aren't compatible.
But, in all honesty, I think you were demanding too much at a two month period.
Had it been a year into the relationship, then yes, you have every right. But, at two months, you're still getting to know each other and deciding whether you each want to continue the relationship.
Ooops, second paragraph should read "he demands you accept what HE can give" (not what you can give).
Posted by caliber
aannndd that's what happens when you don't listen to what people have to say when you ask for opinions/advice. you've gotta be kidding if you saw this panning out any differently.
I do feel as if I just repeated myself.
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Posted by ebony10
Hello, sagitaruis lady here feeling very upset after having quite an abrupt blow out with my boyfriend of almost two months.. My Capricorn partner has brought alot of happieness into my life, however the only big problem, has been the lack of quality time that he is able to give me!.. My last post explained how busy he is with work commitments and the gym, and that we only have two nights a A week together, but one of those, is only quality time, as the other evening, he doesn't turn up until his shift is over, roughly between 2-3 am in the morning, he would then go almost after he'd awake the following day. To cut a long story short, Friday, we had an argument concerning the time issues. And out of frustration, I stupidly finished things between us, due to the fact that we couldn't seem to reach a compromise.. I know how hastily I acted, but I don't know what else to do!.. The following day, I realised how foolish I'd been, and tried very hard to open the lines of communication, how ever he is now virtually ignoring me.. The only commutation I had was last night, when he said, that he couldnt be with me, as he can't give me the time I needed. I am absolutely deverstated, and can't understand how he can just give up on a so easily.. Can somebody please tell me. Is all hope lost!, or will he come back to me?.. I know Capricorns can be very stubbon.. But is this really the end between us??..Please help!!
Hi there,
Sorry to hear that it ended so abruptly. Saggies can be too impulsive when we fight with our partner. My Cap tells me to "stop dumping" him. I feel terrible and realize...to him...just a comment about us remaining friends in the future no matter what, sounds like I'm "setting up" for a break up. He becomes more cautious, and I get frustrated because I'm just expressing my thoughts. Caps need a lot of stability and consistency, NOT smothering. He also asked me to not talk about anything until I'm ready to talk about it. IE. the example above because he tends to let comments spiral negatively.With Caps we need to curb out tendency to just blurt things out because they DO think it means something... whereas we're just thinking aloud...
I suggest...leaving him alone for a few days and try contacting him. Just tell him the truth about how you feel calmly and maturely.
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