female gem::male cap

Posted by Archer

meaning i gave endlessly to him.sometimes it was to the point of personal sacrifice. i was always there when he was in need. and now that i really really think about it, i gave so much that it's making me angry that he could do this to me now.i've read that caps test people.. but wasnt that the test?

it may very well be.. for you to demonstrate that YOU respect YOU more than him. and that is what he wanted to see.. or rather 'that' would have made him stay............. This 'admiration' and 'looking UP to you' is a big aphrodisiac for caps. They gotta be able to be ''in awe of you''... and this should be repeatedly confirmed..
hi archer.
the thing is that i actually did that, the very last time he called me in fact..i hadnt heard from him in a while and i got a call kind of late from a number i didnt recognize.. long story short is he asked me to do something for him and i told him no, and not because i didnt want to rush out of the house at 1am to go do whatever he needed me to do because i was almost desperate to see him, but because i was mad that he is aware of how i feel and completely disregards it time after time only to show back up when he needs something.what about what i need? my point tho was that i said no.he tried to get me to say yes, but i didnt. i wasnt mean about it.i just said no..and like i said, it was the last time he called me.
on the subject of emotional display.... hmmm.. I can tell you a couple of things picked from cap friend (male)
*- "Smothering expression without much input from me, makes me take it as 'fickle' and 'duping tactic' ..like a heavily madeup woman with layers of dramatic makeup, so to speak"
***i'm not sure i understand this one..how can cappies be so passionate and not understand how another has a need to express their own? if i dont then it becomes toxic and i cant function.
and
*- "one should always hold a part of him/herself from being given totally.. so that you CAN think.. OH I could really love him/her more a tiny notch up,, but you do not"
***the thing is that eventho i did tell him how i felt about him there was a lot i didnt tell him.i admit i was very distant about personal stuff.afraid to expose myself completely to him i suppose. he told me he loved me first, as i was walking out the door after a really long intense night, and i just looked at him and i

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Posted by Archer
if he ever tries to contact you.......... he will........... try to let your EVIL twin take control... and trust me.. he 'll be your slave...
kick his ass and dont give an inch
try it...
:-)