finally my Cap does dissapearing..

After becoming intimate for the first time in 6 months.
That is annoying ,but the good news i have a big exam on Monday..so that should take my mind off this..He never dissapeared before.

How long has he disappeard for?

2 days(today is the second day-)

Was raining cats and dogs,i said to him to stay over,but he wanted to tell my parents that he will stay at my house that night.We are both over 35-),but i live next to my parents house.

yes,sorry for my english!

2 days is a blink of the eye (in Cap time at least)

Actually he is in his young fourties and me in late thirties-).
He said he doesnt want to sneak out in the morning from my house,like a burglar and my parents posibly to see him from their window.He insisted a bit on this theme,so i did tell my parents about his staying..
Such a goodie good sleep over..😉

I won't sweat it if it's only two days. In the end it's the coming-back-act that counts.

Focus on your final exam. So when he does return, you can thank him for giving you space so you can nail the final exam. Thank him for his thoughtfulness. Then act like nothing had happened, don't even quiz his whereabouts.

That's what I would do. I'm a virgo. 😉

Posted by mika7
Actually he is in his young fourties and me in late thirties-).
He said he doesnt want to sneak out in the morning from my house,like a burglar and my parents posibly to see him from their window.He insisted a bit on this theme,so i did tell my parents about his staying..
Such a goodie good sleep over..😉

He seems like a very respectful and considerate person. Therefore, I don't think he's going to jerk you around.

He's probably busy at work or had a lot of things to do. I wouldn't worry unless he goes on for a week or two without contacting you.

What a gentlemen... 🙂

He'll bounce back 😉

Yay,my baby is back-)

Omg ...

Too funny APC

Well I've been seeing the question of the Cap Disappearing Act, and had it happen to me this week for 2 days, so I just asked my Cap about it.

He said that he disappears for the following reasons:

1. He's mulling something or someone over
2. He doesn't want to burden the other person with his issues
3. He's genuinely busy, tired, and burnt out
4. He doesn't want to take his day out on her
5. He is pissed off at her and punishing her
6. He doesn't want the other person to get sick of him, or take him for granted by being too available* (he didn't say this, but I think it could be one)

I asked him if he would tell me if he was ever seriously pissed off at me about something, he said yes. He said if it was something major, he would have a talk with the person.

I agree that if you don't think you did anything wrong then be confident and don't let the Disappearing Act throw you off. If he stops spending time with you then that's when it's time to move on imo.

Btw, I shouldn't say he disappeared. Just no texts for 2 days...I think "disappearing" should be used when they don't answer calls or messages with direct questions*

Posted by StillWater

Posted by lildol
2 days is a blink of the eye (in Cap time at least)

True, unless the tables are turned, no?

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The truth to this statement is crazy lol. Me disappearing on someone for 2 days is nothing...but if someone has the nerve to disappear on me for even 24 hours, oh man.

Posted by lildol
Too funny APC

😉