Financially Dominated
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by ladylibra21 on Wednesday, March 15, 2017 and has 47 replies.
So a Cap guy on a dating site I am on wants to be financially dominated (meaning he wants someone to disrespect him take his money and be high maintenance) which seems to be the exact opposite of what Capricorn is about! Have any of you run into this?
Posted by CapzNo lol its not like that. Basically he gets off on being controlled financially.Posted by Koniuchaamaybe he got a lots of income and he's lazy af to check, need an accounting gf ?
First off all Caps are different, obviously. Second, he clearly has some sort of issue.click to expand
Posted by CapzLOL or murder. I wouldn't do this anyways because honestly it is hard for me to ask for help that would mean i would have to trust a man for him to help take care of me and that just doesn't happen easily. Besides something is clearly wrong if he is serious he could be playing out what turned him on about an ex lover.Posted by Neno2maybe it's a technique for find one night stand,Posted by ladylibra21Its a weird fetish but it makes sense in some weird way,he wants that his money and his respect are taken away so he can earn it back with hard work what Capricorn usually do
So a Cap guy on a dating site I am on wants to be financially dominated (meaning he wants someone to disrespect him take his money and be high maintenance) which seems to be the exact opposite of what Capricorn is about! Have any of you run into this?click to expand
So he likes gold diggers. Interesting.
His exact words " Because I love the feeling of having someone control me and get everything they want...a woman deserves to feel worshiped."
Yeah I can hear Agent Giddeon describing unsub's childhood and relationship with his mother right now in my head lol
Yeah I can hear Agent Giddeon describing unsub's childhood and relationship with his mother right now in my head lol
Posted by Capzhahaha you crazyPosted by halalbabeyo, if you have his credit card i'm sleeping on a jacket who cost a lot, dont let me like this
What dating site is he on and what's his username there?
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Posted by CapzI haven't asked him that yet the site just says he is a CapPosted by ladylibra21bump which day this capricorn is born
His exact words " Because I love the feeling of having someone control me and get everything they want...a woman deserves to feel worshiped."
Yeah I can hear Agent Giddeon describing unsub's childhood and relationship with his mother right now in my head lolclick to expand
Posted by CapzI don't plan on asking either i am about to block him LolPosted by ladylibra21bump which day this capricorn is born
His exact words " Because I love the feeling of having someone control me and get everything they want...a woman deserves to feel worshiped."
Yeah I can hear Agent Giddeon describing unsub's childhood and relationship with his mother right now in my head lolclick to expand
Posted by CapzLOl No his page just says he is a Cap we didnt talk astrologyPosted by ladylibra21and he's admitting volontary to a girl that he believe in astrology, TRIPLE LPosted by CapzI haven't asked him that yet the site just says he is a CapPosted by ladylibra21bump which day this capricorn is born
His exact words " Because I love the feeling of having someone control me and get everything they want...a woman deserves to feel worshiped."
Yeah I can hear Agent Giddeon describing unsub's childhood and relationship with his mother right now in my head lolclick to expand
Send him my way. I will be more than happy to control him financially.
Posted by LadyPootsAlotHe does sound like the type to have bodies in his basement next to his collection of vintage doll heads.
It's a trap! You're gonna end up hog-tied in the basement!
Posted by LadyPootsAlotAnd then he style s his dolls' hair so they look like all the women who did him wrong.Posted by Deedee86I can imagine him pacing his house, frothing at the mouth as he writes dating profiles geared toward getting back at all those gold-digging hoes he hates so much. *horror show*Posted by LadyPootsAlotHe does sound like the type to have bodies in his basement next to his collection of vintage doll heads.
It's a trap! You're gonna end up hog-tied in the basement!click to expand
Posted by Deedee86yep it sounds like he's gone sour ...Posted by LadyPootsAlotAnd then he style s his dolls' hair so they look like all the women who did him wrong.Posted by Deedee86I can imagine him pacing his house, frothing at the mouth as he writes dating profiles geared toward getting back at all those gold-digging hoes he hates so much. *horror show*Posted by LadyPootsAlotHe does sound like the type to have bodies in his basement next to his collection of vintage doll heads.
It's a trap! You're gonna end up hog-tied in the basement!click to expand
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXhahaPosted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXMake sure you're packing when you show up. Maybe have a knife hidden on your leg, femme fatale style .Posted by ladylibra21
So a Cap guy on a dating site I am on wants to be financially dominated (meaning he wants someone to disrespect him and take his money and be high maintenance) which seems to be the exact opposite of what Capricorn is about! Have any of you run into this?
I'd bring my best girl, Theresa.
If he wants to get frisky, we can have a threesome.click to expand
Sounds like an Alpha who wants a sugar baby to treat him like a Beta.
I'd bet he's a masochist also.
I'd bet he's a masochist also.
Posted by ladylibra21Sound like he's looking to enter that sugar daddy lyfe. If you have no intention of using him you should turn him loose so he can find someone who will.
So a Cap guy on a dating site I am on wants to be financially dominated (meaning he wants someone to disrespect him take his money and be high maintenance) which seems to be the exact opposite of what Capricorn is about! Have any of you run into this?
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXWhat need is there for a knife? Those nails look deadly on their own.Posted by LadyPootsAlotPosted by xXxQueenliciaXxXMake sure you're packing when you show up. Maybe have a knife hidden on your leg, femme fatale style .Posted by ladylibra21
So a Cap guy on a dating site I am on wants to be financially dominated (meaning he wants someone to disrespect him and take his money and be high maintenance) which seems to be the exact opposite of what Capricorn is about! Have any of you run into this?
I'd bring my best girl, Theresa.
If he wants to get frisky, we can have a threesome.click to expand
Posted by Capz?????????????Posted by ladylibra21just pass him that link,Posted by CapzI don't plan on asking either i am about to block him LolPosted by ladylibra21bump which day this capricorn is born
His exact words " Because I love the feeling of having someone control me and get everything they want...a woman deserves to feel worshiped."
Yeah I can hear Agent Giddeon describing unsub's childhood and relationship with his mother right now in my head lol
https://www.escort-ireland.com/escorts/dublin-escorts.htmlclick to expand
I'm outside laughing loud...
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX?????????...Posted by ladylibra21
So a Cap guy on a dating site I am on wants to be financially dominated (meaning he wants someone to disrespect him and take his money and be high maintenance) which seems to be the exact opposite of what Capricorn is about! Have any of you run into this?click to expand
ROTF
Posted by CapzYea, he's just looking for someone to slap him with a wad of bills while his hands are tied up.Posted by Virgoreaneven what he's saying, financially dominated, lol like he wasnt the dominant one in this situation, def a situation for catching one night standz
Sounds like an Alpha who wants a sugar baby to treat him like a Beta.
I'd bet he's a masochist also.click to expand
I believe he maybe desitured by woman these days that often times miss judge many men. Often women will look at a car and not know it is leased... a house that is maybe expensive but not sustainable... kids... an x wife... credit card debt... student loan dept and so on.
Men have been throwing money at women these days thinking they want sugar daddies... which with the demographics in America and its aging population... people are no longer having kids because they can't afford them... unless they want fed subsidies and that life style .
Woman don't seem to respect a man that work hard because he does not have enough time for them so they often go after what they consider more asablished men... older... however again they don't account for health bills that come for anyone after 55... if they want kids... and often they will be already paying child support.
I find weman these days say screw if and want looses with no future as a f boy. Will of course to abort thougha kids... know 2 girls in the last few months have done this... however get knocked up by a daddy figure and they think they are taken care off or set for life.
Piscesmoon
Men have been throwing money at women these days thinking they want sugar daddies... which with the demographics in America and its aging population... people are no longer having kids because they can't afford them... unless they want fed subsidies and that life style .
Woman don't seem to respect a man that work hard because he does not have enough time for them so they often go after what they consider more asablished men... older... however again they don't account for health bills that come for anyone after 55... if they want kids... and often they will be already paying child support.
I find weman these days say screw if and want looses with no future as a f boy. Will of course to abort thougha kids... know 2 girls in the last few months have done this... however get knocked up by a daddy figure and they think they are taken care off or set for life.
Piscesmoon
Let me at him! I will take him to the cleaners! 
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
Posted by leopalSpoken like another true feminist they don't want to work but a guy that is stupid... lol ?
Let me at him! I will take him to the cleaners!
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2Hey! I have no problems working. I don't care how much money I'm floating on top of, I would still need to be doing something....work, school, volunteering.Posted by leopalSpoken like another true feminist they don't want to work but a guy that is stupid... lol ?
Let me at him! I will take him to the cleaners!
Piscesmoonclick to expand
But if some guy is volunteering his money up like that....I would dominate him and keep adding to my savings
Posted by leopalI get it you are ok with being treated like an object for the right price. You can be bought...Posted by piscesmoon2Hey! I have no problems working. I don't care how much money I'm floating on top of, I would still need to be doing something....work, school, volunteering.Posted by leopalSpoken like another true feminist they don't want to work but a guy that is stupid... lol ?
Let me at him! I will take him to the cleaners!
Piscesmoon
But if some guy is volunteering his money up like that....I would dominate him and keep adding to my savingsclick to expand
Is there a dollar amount or things that you expect?
You know it is the funimental stance of feminism that the objection is the problem or men treating woman like objects. So it is ok for rich men and encourages this behavior... women these days honestly wonder way they are not respected... simple they don't respect themselves.
Piscesmoon
He is trying to get sum and it probably works.
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?click to expand
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2I'm not viewing it the same way you are. I have had men try to pay my bills. I never let them. I don't like to relinquish control of myself. If someone is willing to relinquish control and and I don't mind being in control, why not? Plus, a situation could benefit me and it would be something agreed upon.Posted by leopalI get it you are ok with being treated like an object for the right price. You can be bought...Posted by piscesmoon2Hey! I have no problems working. I don't care how much money I'm floating on top of, I would still need to be doing something....work, school, volunteering.Posted by leopalSpoken like another true feminist they don't want to work but a guy that is stupid... lol ?
Let me at him! I will take him to the cleaners!
Piscesmoon
But if some guy is volunteering his money up like that....I would dominate him and keep adding to my savings
Is there a dollar amount or things that you expect?
You know it is the funimental stance of feminism that the objection is the problem or men treating woman like objects. So it is ok for rich men and encourages this behavior... women these days honestly wonder way they are not respected... simple they don't respect themselves.
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Spoil me, just don't pay my bills. I can do that for myself. Don't know if that makes sense...
Posted by LibrajeanWe found a smart one... wow maybe if a guy is trying so hard he is hiding something or a reason he is trying to over compensate. Hey maybe he can pay you for each date I hear woman that often stand on a corn do this all the time. They even charge by the hour... I believe they think it is ok if the dollar amount is right... lol ?
He is trying to get sum and it probably works.
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Posted by leopalPosted by piscesmoon2I'm not viewing it the same way you are. I have had men try to pay my bills. I never let them. I don't like to relinquish control of myself. If someone is willing to relinquish control and and I don't mind being in control, why not? Plus, a situation could benefit me and it would be something agreed upon.Posted by leopalI get it you are ok with being treated like an object for the right price. You can be bought...Posted by piscesmoon2Hey! I have no problems working. I don't care how much money I'm floating on top of, I would still need to be doing something....work, school, volunteering.Posted by leopalSpoken like another true feminist they don't want to work but a guy that is stupid... lol ?
Let me at him! I will take him to the cleaners!
Piscesmoon
But if some guy is volunteering his money up like that....I would dominate him and keep adding to my savings
Is there a dollar amount or things that you expect?
You know it is the funimental stance of feminism that the objection is the problem or men treating woman like objects. So it is ok for rich men and encourages this behavior... women these days honestly wonder way they are not respected... simple they don't respect themselves.
Piscesmoon
Spoil me, just don't pay my bills. I can do that for myself. Don't know if that makes sense...click to expand
You are still wanting to be treated like an object. You are the collateral... traid is jewelry, dinners, you said add to your saving so maybe just straight cash... or allowing him to pay for things that allow you to save money... mmmm. Same concept with a lot of self justification.
It is so funny I am a guy... lol I am not bad looking far from poor and can't respect woman if they allow themselves to be objectified. I only can respect woman that understand what feminism actually is... a lot think it just means equal rights which is true but it is because and the cause of being treated like an object. Feelings such as love don't matter.
Piscesmoon
Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2Honestly, I have never dated anyone for money. I have to really like them. I'm not looking at this situation as dating. I will have to figure out where I watched that...I'm pretty sure the lady didn't even live in the same place as the man..... it's about the control, not the sex, if I understood and remember correctly.Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Do dominatrix have sex for money? I have talked with one before and she claims she didn't have sex with clients. She just whipped and treated the like shit. I don't know if there was more involved, but that is different than financial domination. I'm no expert lol.
Posted by piscesmoon2He has a small peen ?Posted by LibrajeanWe found a smart one... wow maybe if a guy is trying so hard he is hiding something or a reason he is trying to over compensate. Hey maybe he can pay you for each date I hear woman that often stand on a corn do this all the time. They even charge by the hour... I believe they think it is ok if the dollar amount is right... lol ?
He is trying to get sum and it probably works.
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Posted by leopalThere was money exchanged for a service. So seeking a relationship to be financially dominated... relationships on a dating site... oh yes of course no sex ever happens between people on dating sites. They never expect to actually have sexual interaction yet it is the easiest means for people to go about it these days. Hey... I mean honestly everyone one is completely honest about there motives. ?Posted by piscesmoon2Honestly, I have never dated anyone for money. I have to really like them. I'm not looking at this situation as dating. I will have to figure out where I watched that...I'm pretty sure the lady didn't even live in the same place as the man..... it's about the control, not the sex, if I understood and remember correctly.Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoon
Do dominatrix have sex for money? I have talked with one before and she claims she didn't have sex with clients. She just whipped and treated the like shit. I don't know if there was more involved, but that is different than financial domination. I'm no expert lol.click to expand
You are killing me it is ok that maybe you just don't want to be wrong. I get it and see woman all the time self justify situations all the time. I am not saying you did anything but you again need to read the topic the guy is on a dating site.
Man it is like this guy is the old creepy guy with candy at the corner and some kids just don't know better.
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2This isn't what I was talking about but here is an example:Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Goddess Nia is a 23-year old college graduate and a full-time financial dominatrix: Submissive men obey her by sending the money she demands and purchasing gifts. She expects to earn $ 60,000 this year, plus presents like Burberry trench coats and a new iPad. Her "pay pigs" include a celebrity chef and a powerful CEO. This is her story.
I had just returned from Copenhagen, where I went to explore my feelings for an ex-girlfriend, but realized that I really loved my boyfriend in New York and came home to him. I couldn't get a good job in my field, documentary film-making. I was like, "Man, I need to find something completely out of the box."
One night, surfing Tumblr, I came across a dominatrix’s blog. I found myself really attracted to what I was reading. I thought, What would it be like to walk into a party and answer that dreaded, anxiety-filled question, “What do you do?” with the response, “I’m a professional dominatrix."
I wasn’t ready for a dungeon, and wasn't sure about human interaction at all. But I saw that some fin-dommes don’t even meet their pay-pigs — or human ATMs — or slaves — whatever you want to call them. So I told my boyfriend, and he was very encouraging. He’s all about going against the grain.
http://nymag.com/thecut/2012/10/my-life-as-a-financial-dominatrix.html
And another:
Mistress Astrid needed a wardrobe. She was starting a new gig at a graphic design studio, and lacked professional attire. So she did what she always did when she wanted a fast buck: She emailed Ralph, one of the wealthy “pay pigs” who served her, gifting her clothes, shoes, gadgets, groceries, luxury vacations—whatever she demanded.
All she had to do was verbally abuse him. Not handcuff him or lead him by a leash attached to his balls. Not fuck him. Not even meet in person. Just remind him, yet again, by email, what a worthless piece of dirt he was.
“I had to make it clear that he wasn’t good enough to be in my presence,” says Astrid, a tattooed redhead in her early 30s, who lives and works on the Lower East Side. For that honor, he gave her access to a credit card, paid her utilities and rent, and handed her extra spending money when she wanted it. “I’ve gotten five grand, 10 grand, just for me saying ‘I need it, no questions asked, fuck you,’ ” she says proudly.
Nice work if you can get it.
http://observer.com/2015/02/hard-core-money-managers/
Posted by LibrajeanI have actually seen this a guy that was small... and then he dated this girl who got pregnant after 5 months... he was way older her not done with college. He took her out on his boat had parties and so on... lol He has 4 kids and x's wife's... lol let's just say that will be a quality marriage right. Lol. She found out he was worth much less the he came off trying to impress her... imagine marring a guy with about 3 inches or less... I am being nice.Posted by piscesmoon2He has a small peen ?Posted by LibrajeanWe found a smart one... wow maybe if a guy is trying so hard he is hiding something or a reason he is trying to over compensate. Hey maybe he can pay you for each date I hear woman that often stand on a corn do this all the time. They even charge by the hour... I believe they think it is ok if the dollar amount is right... lol ?
He is trying to get sum and it probably works.
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2I don't care about being wrong/right. This is a discussionPosted by leopalThere was money exchanged for a service. So seeking a relationship to be financially dominated... relationships on a dating site... oh yes of course no sex ever happens between people on dating sites. They never expect to actually have sexual interaction yet it is the easiest means for people to go about it these days. Hey... I mean honestly everyone one is completely honest about there motives. ?Posted by piscesmoon2Honestly, I have never dated anyone for money. I have to really like them. I'm not looking at this situation as dating. I will have to figure out where I watched that...I'm pretty sure the lady didn't even live in the same place as the man..... it's about the control, not the sex, if I understood and remember correctly.Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
I don't care about the money
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoon
Do dominatrix have sex for money? I have talked with one before and she claims she didn't have sex with clients. She just whipped and treated the like shit. I don't know if there was more involved, but that is different than financial domination. I'm no expert lol.
You are killing me it is ok that maybe you just don't want to be wrong. I get it and see woman all the time self justify situations all the time. I am not saying you did anything but you again need to read the topic the guy is on a dating site.
Man it is like this guy is the old creepy guy with candy at the corner and some kids just don't know better.
Piscesmoonclick to expand
. Yeah, maybe I need to read about the whole scenario. Posted by piscesmoon2Posted by LibrajeanI have actually seen this a guy that was small... and then he dated this girl who got pregnant after 5 months... he was way older her not done with college. He took her out on his boat had parties and so on... lol He has 4 kids and x's wife's... lol let's just say that will be a quality marriage right. Lol. She found out he was worth much less the he came off trying to impress her... imagine marring a guy with about 3 inches or less... I am being nice.Posted by piscesmoon2He has a small peen ?Posted by LibrajeanWe found a smart one... wow maybe if a guy is trying so hard he is hiding something or a reason he is trying to over compensate. Hey maybe he can pay you for each date I hear woman that often stand on a corn do this all the time. They even charge by the hour... I believe they think it is ok if the dollar amount is right... lol ?
He is trying to get sum and it probably works.
Piscesmoon
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( I feel bad for him now.... I have noticed Capricorn men will say anything..make promises...and think it's to make up where they are lacking ...
Posted by leopalIt sounds so healthy mentally right... lolPosted by piscesmoon2This isn't what I was talking about but here is an example:Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoon
Goddess Nia is a 23-year old college graduate and a full-time financial dominatrix: Submissive men obey her by sending the money she demands and purchasing gifts. She expects to earn $ 60,000 this year, plus presents like Burberry trench coats and a new iPad. Her "pay pigs" include a celebrity chef and a powerful CEO. This is her story.
I had just returned from Copenhagen, where I went to explore my feelings for an ex-girlfriend, but realized that I really loved my boyfriend in New York and came home to him. I couldn't get a good job in my field, documentary film-making. I was like, "Man, I need to find something completely out of the box."
One night, surfing Tumblr, I came across a dominatrix’s blog. I found myself really attracted to what I was reading. I thought, What would it be like to walk into a party and answer that dreaded, anxiety-filled question, “What do you do?” with the response, “I’m a professional dominatrix."
I wasn’t ready for a dungeon, and wasn't sure about human interaction at all. But I saw that some fin-dommes don’t even meet their pay-pigs — or human ATMs — or slaves — whatever you want to call them. So I told my boyfriend, and he was very encouraging. He’s all about going against the grain.
http://nymag.com/thecut/2012/10/my-life-as-a-financial-dominatrix.html
And another:
Mistress Astrid needed a wardrobe. She was starting a new gig at a graphic design studio, and lacked professional attire. So she did what she always did when she wanted a fast buck: She emailed Ralph, one of the wealthy “pay pigs” who served her, gifting her clothes, shoes, gadgets, groceries, luxury vacations—whatever she demanded.
All she had to do was verbally abuse him. Not handcuff him or lead him by a leash attached to his balls. Not fuck him. Not even meet in person. Just remind him, yet again, by email, what a worthless piece of dirt he was.
“I had to make it clear that he wasn’t good enough to be in my presence,” says Astrid, a tattooed redhead in her early 30s, who lives and works on the Lower East Side. For that honor, he gave her access to a credit card, paid her utilities and rent, and handed her extra spending money when she wanted it. “I’ve gotten five grand, 10 grand, just for me saying ‘I need it, no questions asked, fuck you,’ ” she says proudly.
Nice work if you can get it.
http://observer.com/2015/02/hard-core-money-managers/click to expand
Honestly I doubt they don't have sex or something of that nature... again most people go with the no one knows... lol. Which of course is a very self serving attitude. Again guy on dating site... lol honestly maybe you should explore this. Sounds like your thing... I would advise you to be careful after all these kinda people would never try to put you in a bad situation right.
I am not saying you cannot do it it but people are honestly off if they seek these things out. People that do these things are never the same... it also still is about control and objectification. If there was no money involved in the relationship the oh ok it is just fun right...
Also referring to people as slave is healthy... or men as pigs. Do we have a woman virsion of trump here...
So it is ok for woman to treat men like this or encourage it... so I take it you still don't get it.
Piscesmoon
Posted by LibrajeanHe was a Virgo but a lot of earth signs believe in projecting what a lot of women seek but will not say. Not all but of course in general. It is a personal vibration thing.Posted by piscesmoon2Posted by LibrajeanI have actually seen this a guy that was small... and then he dated this girl who got pregnant after 5 months... he was way older her not done with college. He took her out on his boat had parties and so on... lol He has 4 kids and x's wife's... lol let's just say that will be a quality marriage right. Lol. She found out he was worth much less the he came off trying to impress her... imagine marring a guy with about 3 inches or less... I am being nice.Posted by piscesmoon2He has a small peen ?Posted by LibrajeanWe found a smart one... wow maybe if a guy is trying so hard he is hiding something or a reason he is trying to over compensate. Hey maybe he can pay you for each date I hear woman that often stand on a corn do this all the time. They even charge by the hour... I believe they think it is ok if the dollar amount is right... lol ?
He is trying to get sum and it probably works.
Piscesmoon
Piscesmoon
I have noticed Capricorn men will say anything..make promises...and think it's to make up where they are lacking ...click to expand
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2I never said it was healthy.... There is an unequal distribution of power there. Only thing is it is chosen. To each their own.Posted by leopalIt sounds so healthy mentally right... lolPosted by piscesmoon2This isn't what I was talking about but here is an example:Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoon
Goddess Nia is a 23-year old college graduate and a full-time financial dominatrix: Submissive men obey her by sending the money she demands and purchasing gifts. She expects to earn $ 60,000 this year, plus presents like Burberry trench coats and a new iPad. Her "pay pigs" include a celebrity chef and a powerful CEO. This is her story.
I had just returned from Copenhagen, where I went to explore my feelings for an ex-girlfriend, but realized that I really loved my boyfriend in New York and came home to him. I couldn't get a good job in my field, documentary film-making. I was like, "Man, I need to find something completely out of the box."
One night, surfing Tumblr, I came across a dominatrix’s blog. I found myself really attracted to what I was reading. I thought, What would it be like to walk into a party and answer that dreaded, anxiety-filled question, “What do you do?” with the response, “I’m a professional dominatrix."
I wasn’t ready for a dungeon, and wasn't sure about human interaction at all. But I saw that some fin-dommes don’t even meet their pay-pigs — or human ATMs — or slaves — whatever you want to call them. So I told my boyfriend, and he was very encouraging. He’s all about going against the grain.
http://nymag.com/thecut/2012/10/my-life-as-a-financial-dominatrix.html
And another:
Mistress Astrid needed a wardrobe. She was starting a new gig at a graphic design studio, and lacked professional attire. So she did what she always did when she wanted a fast buck: She emailed Ralph, one of the wealthy “pay pigs” who served her, gifting her clothes, shoes, gadgets, groceries, luxury vacations—whatever she demanded.
All she had to do was verbally abuse him. Not handcuff him or lead him by a leash attached to his balls. Not fuck him. Not even meet in person. Just remind him, yet again, by email, what a worthless piece of dirt he was.
“I had to make it clear that he wasn’t good enough to be in my presence,” says Astrid, a tattooed redhead in her early 30s, who lives and works on the Lower East Side. For that honor, he gave her access to a credit card, paid her utilities and rent, and handed her extra spending money when she wanted it. “I’ve gotten five grand, 10 grand, just for me saying ‘I need it, no questions asked, fuck you,’ ” she says proudly.
Nice work if you can get it.
http://observer.com/2015/02/hard-core-money-managers/
Honestly I doubt they don't have sex or something of that nature... again most people go with the no one knows... lol. Which of course is a very self serving attitude. Again guy on dating site... lol honestly maybe you should explore this. Sounds like your thing... I would advise you to be careful after all these kinda people would never try to put you in a bad situation right.
I am not saying you cannot do it it but people are honestly off if they seek these things out. People that do these things are never the same... it also still is about control and objectification. If there was no money involved in the relationship the oh ok it is just fun right...
Also referring to people as slave is healthy... or men as pigs. Do we have a woman virsion of trump here...
So it is ok for woman to treat men like this or encourage it... so I take it you still don't get it.
Piscesmoonclick to expand
Lmao. The idea sounds wonderful, but the only person I like to have control of is myself.
How about we try it together...you might change your mind
Posted by leopalPosted by piscesmoon2I never said it was healthy.... There is an unequal distribution of power there. Only thing is it is chosen. To each their own.Posted by leopalIt sounds so healthy mentally right... lolPosted by piscesmoon2This isn't what I was talking about but here is an example:Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoon
Goddess Nia is a 23-year old college graduate and a full-time financial dominatrix: Submissive men obey her by sending the money she demands and purchasing gifts. She expects to earn $ 60,000 this year, plus presents like Burberry trench coats and a new iPad. Her "pay pigs" include a celebrity chef and a powerful CEO. This is her story.
I had just returned from Copenhagen, where I went to explore my feelings for an ex-girlfriend, but realized that I really loved my boyfriend in New York and came home to him. I couldn't get a good job in my field, documentary film-making. I was like, "Man, I need to find something completely out of the box."
One night, surfing Tumblr, I came across a dominatrix’s blog. I found myself really attracted to what I was reading. I thought, What would it be like to walk into a party and answer that dreaded, anxiety-filled question, “What do you do?” with the response, “I’m a professional dominatrix."
I wasn’t ready for a dungeon, and wasn't sure about human interaction at all. But I saw that some fin-dommes don’t even meet their pay-pigs — or human ATMs — or slaves — whatever you want to call them. So I told my boyfriend, and he was very encouraging. He’s all about going against the grain.
http://nymag.com/thecut/2012/10/my-life-as-a-financial-dominatrix.html
And another:
Mistress Astrid needed a wardrobe. She was starting a new gig at a graphic design studio, and lacked professional attire. So she did what she always did when she wanted a fast buck: She emailed Ralph, one of the wealthy “pay pigs” who served her, gifting her clothes, shoes, gadgets, groceries, luxury vacations—whatever she demanded.
All she had to do was verbally abuse him. Not handcuff him or lead him by a leash attached to his balls. Not fuck him. Not even meet in person. Just remind him, yet again, by email, what a worthless piece of dirt he was.
“I had to make it clear that he wasn’t good enough to be in my presence,” says Astrid, a tattooed redhead in her early 30s, who lives and works on the Lower East Side. For that honor, he gave her access to a credit card, paid her utilities and rent, and handed her extra spending money when she wanted it. “I’ve gotten five grand, 10 grand, just for me saying ‘I need it, no questions asked, fuck you,’ ” she says proudly.
Nice work if you can get it.
http://observer.com/2015/02/hard-core-money-managers/
Honestly I doubt they don't have sex or something of that nature... again most people go with the no one knows... lol. Which of course is a very self serving attitude. Again guy on dating site... lol honestly maybe you should explore this. Sounds like your thing... I would advise you to be careful after all these kinda people would never try to put you in a bad situation right.
I am not saying you cannot do it it but people are honestly off if they seek these things out. People that do these things are never the same... it also still is about control and objectification. If there was no money involved in the relationship the oh ok it is just fun right...
Also referring to people as slave is healthy... or men as pigs. Do we have a woman virsion of trump here...
So it is ok for woman to treat men like this or encourage it... so I take it you still don't get it.
Piscesmoon
Lmao. The idea sounds wonderful, but the only person I like to have control of is myself.
How about we try it together...you might change your mindclick to expand
Only if that is what you want... I am a Pluto in the 8th house... of Scorpio... mars in 9th of Scorpio. I have to feel someone give themselves willingly but I am a pleaser... piscesmoon conj. Venus... lol. empathic lol...
Anyways about to do my yoga class gtg... oh and I do armbalances and stuff as an Aries we take our athletes personal lol.
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2Posted by leopalThere was money exchanged for a service. So seeking a relationship to be financially dominated... relationships on a dating site... oh yes of course no sex ever happens between people on dating sites. They never expect to actually have sexual interaction yet it is the easiest means for people to go about it these days. Hey... I mean honestly everyone one is completely honest about there motives. ?Posted by piscesmoon2Honestly, I have never dated anyone for money. I have to really like them. I'm not looking at this situation as dating. I will have to figure out where I watched that...I'm pretty sure the lady didn't even live in the same place as the man..... it's about the control, not the sex, if I understood and remember correctly.Posted by leopalOk yea no sex ? Keep lying to yourself that a guy would not want that. Even still I doubt it is a healthy situation and again it centers all around him having money and in some way will be paying you for your time.Posted by piscesmoon2So, I haven't actually read what the OP wrote about the situation. I just saw some guy wants to be financially dominated. If that's the case sex isn't involved. Think of it as a dominatrix for your wallet. I saw something about this awhile back and the ladies got money and didn't even spend time with the man. The man enjoyed being controlled and allowing himself to be submissive in the few places he could and trust his Dom.Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by piscesmoon2I don't care about the moneyPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
Piscesmoon
He's on a dating site
He's available
The question is:
Is he hot?
So you are objectifying him... money and good looking. What if he had a drug problem or a drug dealer. What if he had an std... did not advertise it. Never mind any of that he is rich and good looking what more could a girl want... like an actual connection lol
Piscesmoon
Other wise would you still be interested lol... ?
Piscesmoon
Do dominatrix have sex for money? I have talked with one before and she claims she didn't have sex with clients. She just whipped and treated the like shit. I don't know if there was more involved, but that is different than financial domination. I'm no expert lol.
You are killing me it is ok that maybe you just don't want to be wrong. I get it and see woman all the time self justify situations all the time. I am not saying you did anything but you again need to read the topic the guy is on a dating site.
Man it is like this guy is the old creepy guy with candy at the corner and some kids just don't know better.
Piscesmoonclick to expand
No I got that vibe or desperation too, I'm not into him he was someone I talked with less than an hour and I tried to ask him why he wanted that from someone and he said he wanted to be controlled. I don't have that in me and I think it is wrong to take advantage of someone who feels the need to give money for love or attention besides I have a 16 in my karmatic debt lol
DO EEEEEEEEET!
Posted by piscesmoon2Are you tight because you can't be financially taken advantage of because you're broke? ?Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt is amazing woman don't want to be treated like object but so quickly are willing to allow themselves to be bought. lol feminism at it's finest... it is quite shocking...
Is he hot?
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