flip the script or pursue?
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by taur04girl on Monday, July 31, 2006 and has 14 replies.
Im a bit confused about what to do when cap backs off and cools his attention - if uve read the previous msges ive put on here, ul see where i am in my relationship with him. Now not sure whether to wait for him to contact me, as his no. says not in use, as cant do anything else, and then play it cool and stop being so forgiving and understanding, or keep giving him encouragement and support altho may make me seem like a walk over? know he is having a really hard time at the mo and want tobe there, but dont want him to thnk he canjust pick me up and drop me whnever he wants with no repurcussions?/ he just disappears even when i say could you just let me know you are okso idont worry he still doesnt reply, even just to et me know he is ok! Almost like he wants me to worry. Im so confused.
yeah thanks, really apprecaite that. so hard to forget and get on with it though, what you are saying is to be a bitmore selfish and think about me? will try and do that...he knows everytime he goes awol i get really worried and try to contact him...will try and let him go and see if he comes back! This thing with his number not being in use and theres no way i can contact him drives me mad though, i feel so helpless and out of control! guess the balls in his court now then...
sb thanks as well..yes he is a spoiled brat! Do have my own life and things but when he does this it consumes my thoughts so much, hard to think about anything else! oh dear lol, i think i need help!
Why do we "taurus" women feel so drawn to these Capricorn men. I can totally relate to your title! We read so much into their "non-actions" and start catagorizing their non-actions. Ahh! There should be repricussions (sp?) to their non-actions. I want to say: "Look buddy, I'm am not gonna take you leaving for a week or two and acting like nothing happend" Can we compromise? Can you just let me know you are going to disappear for a week or two. I'll start worrying after the 3rd. Its your nature to disappear, and my nature to worry....lets make it work"
Easy? Not for a cappy man. Why do capricorn men intrigue me?
Easy? Not for a cappy man. Why do capricorn men intrigue me?
I don't think its just Taurus women, its majority of women.
I don't see the need to waste years of ones life pining after someone who gives you nothing back emotionally and denies all knowledge of having feelings. I am not talking outright emotions here, they just need to be true to their inner feelings and have faith in themselves a little more. We are patient up to the point where our own self-respect is in question. Very low tolerance levels though. But as for that connection you described, its very similar to Scorpios..but thing is we can predict their actions, almost on a pyschic level. That intuition is very strong. Its weird to explain. I guess everyone has their own little story.
So are you still waiting for yours to return BT?
So are you still waiting for yours to return BT?
MM~ Mine apparently peeked his head around a corner and then ran back into the closet!! LOL 
Nothing since that email... And I've made a few more silly attempts to draw him out. It's just laughable at this point. I could see if he hadn't told me to call him but he did. He's either really scared or this is just one huge game to him- It's one or the other, don't think there can be any in-between here, since I had told him NOT to contact me.
Nothing since that email... And I've made a few more silly attempts to draw him out. It's just laughable at this point. I could see if he hadn't told me to call him but he did. He's either really scared or this is just one huge game to him- It's one or the other, don't think there can be any in-between here, since I had told him NOT to contact me.Hey CG..long time...
Oh dear..is he still up to his old tricks? Well you know what, plenty more goats in the sea..If its a seagoat you want, then I am sure there is a better one just around the corner.
My cap "friend" is still around. He still talks to me most days simply because he refuses to delete my details..lol..We still argue like cat & dog. Its a love/hate thing really..But I am not emotionally attached to him any longer..he just irritates me now.
Oh dear..is he still up to his old tricks? Well you know what, plenty more goats in the sea..If its a seagoat you want, then I am sure there is a better one just around the corner.
My cap "friend" is still around. He still talks to me most days simply because he refuses to delete my details..lol..We still argue like cat & dog. Its a love/hate thing really..But I am not emotionally attached to him any longer..he just irritates me now.
well i sure am glad i found this forum of support! yeah miss morals you are right, does come down to the point where self respect is in question! I had brief convo with my capp last night but not long enough to discuss things or us...so texted him saying i would ring him tonight for chat, guess what - his phones off! Arghhh he drives me up the wall...then he will say he wants to be with me and does care and to stick with him - but its so hard and frustrating! Im wondering if hes still mad for me embarrassing him in that club a few weeks ago and is just keeping me at a loooonggg arms distance...
st thanks for advice "be happy" so hard when you are worrying about them though - almost like they want you to worry! i am forcing myself to not ring him now...wondering whether i should send a last msge saying this is not on sort it out, or just ignore him a bit...dont want to play games but also dont want him thinking he can keep treating me like this! Really affecting my self esteem now
LOL @ SB..
Awww..thats is so cute though isn't it..You can dislike someone immensely, yet still want to spend time with them..lol..its a bit weird..
Today he put up a journal about his thoughts on men/women being equal in a certain religion but the fact that its not practised..so of course I went and added my two cents worth. It was quite a fiery speech and one he didn't have a comeback..so he decided to send me a chat request on MSN and wrote "lol, I see someone rattled your cage this morning"...so I replied "no, just stating my opinion"...and then he replied "LMAO - sure mamma"
Idiot..
Awww..thats is so cute though isn't it..You can dislike someone immensely, yet still want to spend time with them..lol..its a bit weird..
Today he put up a journal about his thoughts on men/women being equal in a certain religion but the fact that its not practised..so of course I went and added my two cents worth. It was quite a fiery speech and one he didn't have a comeback..so he decided to send me a chat request on MSN and wrote "lol, I see someone rattled your cage this morning"...so I replied "no, just stating my opinion"...and then he replied "LMAO - sure mamma"
Idiot..
thats good though that u r prepared to disagree with him, shows u r ur own person and he prob respects u alot more than someone without their own opinions! well done
Yes I get that a lot from him. Respect. He tells me I am someone he has a lot of respect for. Sometimes I just give him the raised eyebrow look..I have disagreed with his views on certain things from day one. Sometimes he suffers from tunnel vision and I try telling him to see the bigger picture. Our first conversation was an argument. Lol..and so it continues. I would never agree with someone to score points...to hell with that!
Well this is the first day i havent tried to make contact...getting pissed off with his magicians disappearing act now and the stubborness is beginning to take hold of me as i vow to NEVER contact him not until he contacts me first! So be it, i am not going to be a doormat and let him treat me like this or chase him! And, if he does contact me, i will firmly explain to him this is not on - he's had two chances now...no third no way! :S
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