gemini confused by a capricorn
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Gemini1984 on Thursday, August 12, 2010 and has 19 replies.
Just wait. My gemini thought I wasn't interested b/c I never initiated a call or I always took 1 hour to call back. As a Cap I was trying to play it cool....I think Geminis are impatient in general.
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JUST TEXTING FOR A COUPLE MONTHS!!?
Point SC is trying to make is that he's just not that interested...
Have to agree with super cap...no response is indicative to he's just not that interested, least not enough to not blow you off plus a man that is interested will ask you out, he's just going to make the effort to make it happen, this guy isn't slow he's showing signs of disinterest...I would delete his number
Cap men blow hot hot hot when he's ready...hmm hmm hmm (:
Cap men blow hot hot hot when he's ready...hmm hmm hmm (:
let's make it clear for him...the next time he contacts you....tell him to piss off
Posted by Gemini1984
So there's this capricorn that I have been trying to meet up with again. we keep texting eachother and just have had bad timing. He'll text me and I'll be out of town or already have plans, or I'll text him and he'll be out of town or already have plans. It's been pretty equal as to who's contacting who. This has been going on for a couple months now since we first met. So I finally suggested we meet up during a week night since weekends aren't working for us. I suggested Thursday night, he said that sounds good. I texted him Thursday afternoon asking if he was still up for getting a drink. and NO RESPONSE. what the heck??!?!
Oh dear, rather than get angry at this capi, I suggest you write him an email or better yet call him. Because I don't know the person or the situation at hand, I will assume he feels/felt the same way about you.
Capricorns are capricious, which is why we are called capricorns. Lol. but ah the only thing I can advise is rebook the date, don't get angry (yet). He might have a good reason for it.
If your alias indicates the year you were born, that would make you a Gemini rat! That is my girlfriends sign.
We have been together for 15 months strong.
Anyways I am losing focus so yeah try again and if it doesn't work out. Ditch him and move on. It isn't in your nature to dwell on a person for too long. Let's hope this cap realizes that before it's too late!
All the best.
Yeah my Gemini friend is a complete roller coaster ride. People call her bi-polar ALL the time. We actually had a big fight over it once and didnt talk for awhile because i tried to defend her when this guy she was dating was going around saying she was on bi-polar meds. But she turned on me.
We are friends now and she is married with a kid but sometimes being around her is tiring, the constant up and down and the emotional fights btw her and her husband is draining. Honestly I dont know how he deals with it. Must be the green card he is trying to get. BUT I love her, shes fun when she is in a good mood.
Plus I was married to a Gemini guy....NEVER AGAIN!
But like Scorpio chic said.....they get bored easy and then become a glutton for punishment in very very unstable relationships.
We are friends now and she is married with a kid but sometimes being around her is tiring, the constant up and down and the emotional fights btw her and her husband is draining. Honestly I dont know how he deals with it. Must be the green card he is trying to get. BUT I love her, shes fun when she is in a good mood.
Plus I was married to a Gemini guy....NEVER AGAIN!
But like Scorpio chic said.....they get bored easy and then become a glutton for punishment in very very unstable relationships.
What CapGal, Tiki, Capris said.
He could not be that into you like Tiki said because they are slow and cautious to commit but if they want you, they will persue. They are slow but in ways thats not too much disagreeable with me cause I need my space too.
CapGal is soooo right Cap guys call....rarely do they text. Its a pattern that I have just kind of gotten with them, like a light bulb. There are plenty times I text Cap boss, guy I'm dating Cap, and my ex Cap....2 seconds later after i sent the text they call. I think in their head its a waste of time texting when they can just call you and get right to the point.
Capris is also right, I thought that the Cap I am dating wasn't into me because sometimes he didn't call or call back. Found out last nite that it was because if he calls late (which is always the case), I'm like half asleep and he doesn't want to bother me or apparently my phone keep sending him to voicemail and he's starting to hate that. But this Cap is growing on me bc he calls ALOT. But sometimes when I call him, he is like, lemme call you back. And take ages to call back. He could be playing it cool....crap I dunno.
Caps are weird, its a slow ride with them so get used to the hot frostyness honey.
He could not be that into you like Tiki said because they are slow and cautious to commit but if they want you, they will persue. They are slow but in ways thats not too much disagreeable with me cause I need my space too.
CapGal is soooo right Cap guys call....rarely do they text. Its a pattern that I have just kind of gotten with them, like a light bulb. There are plenty times I text Cap boss, guy I'm dating Cap, and my ex Cap....2 seconds later after i sent the text they call. I think in their head its a waste of time texting when they can just call you and get right to the point.
Capris is also right, I thought that the Cap I am dating wasn't into me because sometimes he didn't call or call back. Found out last nite that it was because if he calls late (which is always the case), I'm like half asleep and he doesn't want to bother me or apparently my phone keep sending him to voicemail and he's starting to hate that. But this Cap is growing on me bc he calls ALOT. But sometimes when I call him, he is like, lemme call you back. And take ages to call back. He could be playing it cool....crap I dunno.
Caps are weird, its a slow ride with them so get used to the hot frostyness honey.
Gem females are fun, never met a Gem girl/guy I didn't like...My Gemini father was a hot mess but I love the guy...As for this Cap well it's his loss if he's not moving in your direction, I sure wouldn't call him after he clearly avoided your text message in regards to the date...Don't chase a man, he will run....
I still feel this guy is not interested ENOUGH to follow through with you...If you must explore the situation you can corner him the next time he makes contact, tell him he was rude and he's going to have to make up for what he did...DON'T BE EASY, cap men lose respect and interest in easy women (I'm not talking easy as in sexually but mentally easy/emotionally easy), be a challenge let him make up for his mistake.
I still feel this guy is not interested ENOUGH to follow through with you...If you must explore the situation you can corner him the next time he makes contact, tell him he was rude and he's going to have to make up for what he did...DON'T BE EASY, cap men lose respect and interest in easy women (I'm not talking easy as in sexually but mentally easy/emotionally easy), be a challenge let him make up for his mistake.
@SC, thats how I feel about my Gemini friend bc she is just a flip flopper and she uses her friend against each other. But I feel like I have an understanding of her and I just know where to take it and not to. I dont even take her duality personal. Thats just how she is, so to other people shes emotional and bipolar, to me she is just a Gemini.
But we have fun when we hang and when she is in a good mood. We hung out last Wednesday and we had a blast and Saturday. So its just knowing what you dealing with.
@Tiki you are soooo right. If you let him walk all over you and ignore you he will. Most Caps who are relevant in my life, i called them on their crap. I mean you dont want to be an annoying confrontational bitch but let them know you disapprove. I have had only one Cap cross the line as in intolerable and I just let it go. But the ones that are relevant, I have called them out on that ignoring thing and things change.....if they care for you, your opinion matters. I don't think any male cap I ever come across likes you to have a bad opinion of them. They mite not admit it, some will outright apologize, but its the actions.
My ex Cap and I got into it on Facebook bc he basically followed me there, bc we were friends on myspace, but he had pictures of his current girl and blah blah blah. it was just painful for me to see, I told him that, he didnt have a facebook. so I stopped Myspace. 1 day went on FB, its him requesting friendship. Then when I accepted, he tagged me in photos of him and I and was talking about reconciliation. Then after I was like whatever, youre probably drunk (which he was). He started putting up pics of him and his chick. Dude, I left myspace bc of that, u followed me to FB to again try to make me jealous with ur bombardment of big headed german girl pics (lol, Im hating I know, but her head was HUGE lol), told him to delete me. he did. this was months ago. last week I get a call from him out of nowhwere and he was using our "word" that we would say. We would always say lata, not bye, bc bye sounded too fianl when he was in iraq.
The whole point of my long winded story is, he knew I was right but it took him months to come around bc they can be so darn stubborn and self-rightous sometimes. he is extra stubborn.
But we have fun when we hang and when she is in a good mood. We hung out last Wednesday and we had a blast and Saturday. So its just knowing what you dealing with.
@Tiki you are soooo right. If you let him walk all over you and ignore you he will. Most Caps who are relevant in my life, i called them on their crap. I mean you dont want to be an annoying confrontational bitch but let them know you disapprove. I have had only one Cap cross the line as in intolerable and I just let it go. But the ones that are relevant, I have called them out on that ignoring thing and things change.....if they care for you, your opinion matters. I don't think any male cap I ever come across likes you to have a bad opinion of them. They mite not admit it, some will outright apologize, but its the actions.
My ex Cap and I got into it on Facebook bc he basically followed me there, bc we were friends on myspace, but he had pictures of his current girl and blah blah blah. it was just painful for me to see, I told him that, he didnt have a facebook. so I stopped Myspace. 1 day went on FB, its him requesting friendship. Then when I accepted, he tagged me in photos of him and I and was talking about reconciliation. Then after I was like whatever, youre probably drunk (which he was). He started putting up pics of him and his chick. Dude, I left myspace bc of that, u followed me to FB to again try to make me jealous with ur bombardment of big headed german girl pics (lol, Im hating I know, but her head was HUGE lol), told him to delete me. he did. this was months ago. last week I get a call from him out of nowhwere and he was using our "word" that we would say. We would always say lata, not bye, bc bye sounded too fianl when he was in iraq.
The whole point of my long winded story is, he knew I was right but it took him months to come around bc they can be so darn stubborn and self-rightous sometimes. he is extra stubborn.
Yes Sc the addictions OMG, I feel you on that one, Gem dad couldn't let his addictions go...fatal
@JustSophs...omg big head german girl...too funny lol
@JustSophs...omg big head german girl...too funny lol
I'm a cap and I dislike cap men (from experience)! So i know what you guys mean, but I ditched him ASAP.
I just read the original post, before I answer, are you a cancer moon or mars ? I'm just curious.
I have to agree that dating a Cap is like a roller-coaster...One minute they're hot next they're cold. The last two Caps I've dated were just like that. One minute they're blowing up my phone to go out the next they're busy for days at a time. It's annoying! Idk, I'm starting to get turned-off from Caps...They move so slowly (except when it comes to sex of course). Lol. I don't have the patience...That's probably the Scorpion in me. I want what I want and I want it now. Lol. Caps and Scorps have great chemistry, but I'm not sure if Caps can handle a Scorpio's firey personality in a long term relationship.
Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by rejuvenatedgoddess
Caps and Scorps have great chemistry, but I'm not sure if Caps can handle a Scorpio's firey personality in a long term relationship.
They definitely can, (the mature ones) they calm us down. The immature ones provoke us and go back & forth with us. It's funny.. I've dated two caps.. the first one when I was younger was immature as hell, and we'd argue all the time. We were both very opinionated & stubborn.
The second cap is calm, laid back and somehow he just calms me down instead of making me want to argue more. Plus I've done some growing up too, so I've changed my ways as well. I'm still feisty but I'm not as loud or as obnoxious as I used to be. I've toned it down quite a bit.click to expand
Wow Scorpiochic, it's seems as if I've been in your shoes except I haven't found my "mature Cap" yet. The two Caps I've dated (Jan. 12- 33 yrs old and Jan. 13- 35 yrs old: the younger one I'm still seeing and the other has done the famous 'Cap disappearing act' for the past two months after we've been seeing each other for 5 months) both did calm down my fiery-ness, but each was still out there playing the field saying that they wanted to get married in the next few years but they were focused on their careers at the moment.
Caps move so slowly. I don't know if they think the grass is greener on the other side or what. I hated when they'd say, "You're funny, smart, hot..You'd make the perfect wife, mother, lover. I'm surprised your single. Blah, blah." In my mind I'm like, "Spare me! If you think I'm this great, then you would snatch me up." (Sorry had to vent a little. Lol.)
Just when I think I'm over the antics of the one I'm seeing now, he comes back into my life after a week or two wanting to spend time with me. I've decided I'm going to have to cut him off because his behavior is not conducive to the type of steady relationship that I'm looking for at this time. Glad you've met a mature Cap, hopefully some of your good luck will rub off on me! :o)
I don't know what to think because I have dated 3 Caps, 1st one for 4 yrs. He never disappeared, was faithful, and he really loved me. The 2nd 1 for 3 months, it wasn't serious but we did hang out a lot, he told me he wasn't into a relationship from the beginnig which was cool, but we were headed there till he saw some pics with my ex-husband who came to visit. That killed it.
The 3rd one now, I dunno, he always says he wants someone to come home to. We hung out last nite at his house, he showed me around, insisted on showing me pics from his deployment. Told him about a surgery I had that left scars, which I am embarrased about, he was really cool about it. He told me he really likes me but he wants to take his time, his analogy was like eating a favorite meal, he wants to savor it, eat it slowly, referrring to me (not eating me, but our "realtionship").
But he is by FAR FAR FAR, the freakiest Cap I ever been with. We had fun last nite. I left and he called me, to say nothing, then fell asleep while I was driving home, slept the whole time on the phone....lol crazy. Then called me this mrnig to talk about last nite.
I am just taking it day by day, but I know how it is, men cheat and I don't want to get another broken heart but thats life I guess. But sometimes this Cap forum acres me bc i never really want to experience these things, like disappearing.
The 3rd one now, I dunno, he always says he wants someone to come home to. We hung out last nite at his house, he showed me around, insisted on showing me pics from his deployment. Told him about a surgery I had that left scars, which I am embarrased about, he was really cool about it. He told me he really likes me but he wants to take his time, his analogy was like eating a favorite meal, he wants to savor it, eat it slowly, referrring to me (not eating me, but our "realtionship").
But he is by FAR FAR FAR, the freakiest Cap I ever been with. We had fun last nite. I left and he called me, to say nothing, then fell asleep while I was driving home, slept the whole time on the phone....lol crazy. Then called me this mrnig to talk about last nite.
I am just taking it day by day, but I know how it is, men cheat and I don't want to get another broken heart but thats life I guess. But sometimes this Cap forum acres me bc i never really want to experience these things, like disappearing.
Okay, so you are a double gemini ... hmmmm. Well this con only mean that you care really deeply. Which can be troubling if (since) this guy doesn't seem to feel the seem way.
Caring kind of makes you at their whim. Meaning, puts them in control and you are bound to be hurt by their hot frostyness.
Its sucks like Amethyst said.
Its sucks like Amethyst said.
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