Getting comfortable in a relationship vs losing interest?

How do you caps act in the above situation?

A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

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Girls too or just the fellas?

both 🙂

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

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From what I've noticed, Capricorn men enjoy "getting comfortable" in a relationship. I don't think they would allow themselves to get comfortable with someone if they weren't interested in that person for long term.

Comfortable like less text? or in different ways? like he would like to stay in to watch movie after taking you out for dinner? or flossing his teeth in front of you?

Mine was talking to me while flossing then got shy and said oops I shouldn't do that in front of a girl. I'm like hey we already seen each other naked and we are already on our first vacation together! he was like no not ready to floss infront of you haha

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

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I would say this is just Cap behaviour. I don't necessarily see a problem here or that he/she is losing interest.

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

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You're not still doubting him are you?

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

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No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

Mine is not lazy but has lower energy level I broke his back lol literally

Anyway you are spot on about protect our investment. We just went for a trip and he paid for all meals and transport.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

Mine is not lazy but has lower energy level I broke his back lol literally

Anyway you are spot on about protect our investment. We just went for a trip and he paid for all meals and transport.

Once we find someone that checks enough boxes, it's hard to get rid of us. We've invested time, money and our emotions. All things we value highly and don't expend on just anyone.

When we get comfortable, it's basically up to the other person to fuck it up. Like I said, comfortable is great. Just don't let us get so comfortable that we become complacent.

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I guess he is still a bit shy as he got emabarased to floss while talking, he didn't want to play truth or dare as he think it's too scary. he show emotions by mirroring my emotions. he is not the one that would say I like you a lot.

He show it by saying I think you are too sexy for me, everywhere we go people are staring at us thinking i'm punching above my weight. I just give him reassurance by saying I'm really into him.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

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They will protect their investment if they see you as the trophy wife. Sometimes is good sometimes is bad.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

They will protect their investment if they see you as the trophy wife. Sometimes is good sometimes is bad.

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I think he has mix feelings, he definitely values me, he has shown my photo only to his close friends. When we go out he actually gets jealous when people are checking my cleavage out.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

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From my perspective calling it "investment" is not wrong. We all invest in things we value such as relationship, work and such. it include both emotional investment and effort we put in.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

Mine is not lazy but has lower energy level I broke his back lol literally

Anyway you are spot on about protect our investment. We just went for a trip and he paid for all meals and transport.

Once we find someone that checks enough boxes, it's hard to get rid of us. We've invested time, money and our emotions. All things we value highly and don't expend on just anyone.

When we get comfortable, it's basically up to the other person to fuck it up. Like I said, comfortable is great. Just don't let us get so comfortable that we become complacent.

Thanks for this. I know I hurt my Cap, and he was acting distant/cold in person, and not affectionate anymore. But yet he was acting in so many ways like he wasn't going anywhere. Still reaching out daily, still inviting me over, still have discussions about important things such as why he's stressed, his kids, etc. Asking me to help him out with things. I did address it, and the distant/cold part went away. He's still not acting like his affectionate normal self so I think he's still upset, and still not talking about it, but he's still acting like he's not going anywhere, and concerned about me not being mad at him. We fit in ways that neither of us has ever had, emotions too. We've been together 5+ months as boyfriend/girlfriend which doesn't seem a lot of time, but this seems to explain why he didn't just disappear and stop reaching out. I'm thinking now discussing it all needs to happen, until he feels better and is my sweet, cuddly Cap again. Or I hope..

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I think showing your vulnerability and appreciation can help with removing his cap armor. i dunno your cap but that's how mine works, it;s not easy as it courage from your side as well.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

They will protect their investment if they see you as the trophy wife. Sometimes is good sometimes is bad.

I think he has mix feelings, he definitely values me, he has shown my photo only to his close friends. When we go out he actually gets jealous when people are checking my cleavage out.

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why do you think he has mixed feelings?

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

From my perspective calling it "investment" is not wrong. We all invest in things we value such as relationship, work and such. it include both emotional investment and effort we put in.

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People here are calling it an investment, not him. Don't let them put thoughts in your head that aren't there.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

From my perspective calling it "investment" is not wrong. We all invest in things we value such as relationship, work and such. it include both emotional investment and effort we put in.

People here are calling it an investment, not him. Don't let them put thoughts in your head that aren't there.

🙂

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that's the thigns about forum.. it's hard to follow unless you read from the first post

I meant mix feelings about to show me off or get jealous and wanting me to cover up

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

From my perspective calling it "investment" is not wrong. We all invest in things we value such as relationship, work and such. it include both emotional investment and effort we put in.

People here are calling it an investment, not him. Don't let them put thoughts in your head that aren't there.

🙂

that's the thigns about forum.. it's hard to follow unless you read from the first post

I meant mix feelings about to show me off or get jealous and wanting me to cover up

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As far as I know in my experience with Caps, they like classy women, show some cleavage but decent, they don't like when their woman dresses slutty but they like it classy/sexy. I guess it also depends on Caps age.

They also don't like to "show off " their girl on social media that much. They'd post nice pictures but nothing too flashy. ?

Caps generally like women who are liked/wanted by many men, they enjoy getting jealous but at the end knowing they have her and not them is like a reward for them. 🙂 one Cap told me this.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

From my perspective calling it "investment" is not wrong. We all invest in things we value such as relationship, work and such. it include both emotional investment and effort we put in.

People here are calling it an investment, not him. Don't let them put thoughts in your head that aren't there.

🙂

that's the thigns about forum.. it's hard to follow unless you read from the first post

I meant mix feelings about to show me off or get jealous and wanting me to cover up

As far as I know in my experience with Caps, they like classy women, show some cleavage but decent, they don't like when their woman dresses slutty but they like it classy/sexy. I guess it also depends on Caps age.

They also don't like to "show off " their girl on social media that much. They'd post nice pictures but nothing too flashy. ?

Caps generally like women who are liked/wanted by many men, they enjoy getting jealous but at the end knowing they have her and not them is like a reward for them. 🙂 one Cap told me this.

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My dress was classy / sexy, I';m not skinny Just natural D cup on slim / atheletic just turned many heads.you are spot on about not wanting to show off their girl on social media. He onlyi sent my photos via text to his friends or when they see each other in person.

I only started to show cleavage on this trip (after sleeping with him) before that everything was covered up cos I wanted to make sure he likes me for me. I admiited that to him in this trip and He said he could see the volume. he is funny

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

From my perspective calling it "investment" is not wrong. We all invest in things we value such as relationship, work and such. it include both emotional investment and effort we put in.

People here are calling it an investment, not him. Don't let them put thoughts in your head that aren't there.

🙂

that's the thigns about forum.. it's hard to follow unless you read from the first post

I meant mix feelings about to show me off or get jealous and wanting me to cover up

As far as I know in my experience with Caps, they like classy women, show some cleavage but decent, they don't like when their woman dresses slutty but they like it classy/sexy. I guess it also depends on Caps age.

They also don't like to "show off " their girl on social media that much. They'd post nice pictures but nothing too flashy. ?

Caps generally like women who are liked/wanted by many men, they enjoy getting jealous but at the end knowing they have her and not them is like a reward for them. 🙂 one Cap told me this.

My dress was classy / sexy, I';m not skinny Just natural D cup on slim / atheletic just turned many heads.you are spot on about not wanting to show off their girl on social media. He onlyi sent my photos via text to his friends or when they see each other in person.

I only started to show cleavage on this trip (after sleeping with him) before that everything was covered up cos I wanted to make sure he likes me for me. I admiited that to him in this trip and He said he could see the volume. he is funny

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I'm sure you look good, otherwise he wouldn't be with you ? not to say that they are superficial bc they aren't really, but they like to impose a good image in all ways.

what's your sign?

and yes!! they are funny!!!

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

From my perspective calling it "investment" is not wrong. We all invest in things we value such as relationship, work and such. it include both emotional investment and effort we put in.

People here are calling it an investment, not him. Don't let them put thoughts in your head that aren't there.

🙂

that's the thigns about forum.. it's hard to follow unless you read from the first post

I meant mix feelings about to show me off or get jealous and wanting me to cover up

As far as I know in my experience with Caps, they like classy women, show some cleavage but decent, they don't like when their woman dresses slutty but they like it classy/sexy. I guess it also depends on Caps age.

They also don't like to "show off " their girl on social media that much. They'd post nice pictures but nothing too flashy. ?

Caps generally like women who are liked/wanted by many men, they enjoy getting jealous but at the end knowing they have her and not them is like a reward for them. 🙂 one Cap told me this.

My dress was classy / sexy, I';m not skinny Just natural D cup on slim / atheletic just turned many heads.you are spot on about not wanting to show off their girl on social media. He onlyi sent my photos via text to his friends or when they see each other in person.

I only started to show cleavage on this trip (after sleeping with him) before that everything was covered up cos I wanted to make sure he likes me for me. I admiited that to him in this trip and He said he could see the volume. he is funny

I'm sure you look good, otherwise he wouldn't be with you ? not to say that they are superficial bc they aren't really, but they like to impose a good image in all ways.

what's your sign?

and yes!! they are funny!!!

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I'm libra virgo cusp - Virgo.

Yea I thought he was superficial too, in this trip the topic of kids came up. Then the topic of how men are superficial and cheat on their wives after they have children. He goes if you think I'm that superficial you are wrong. But I think he is in some midlife crisis.. when he was 40 he dated a 24 years old girl for a year... and now he is 46 he said jennifer Lopez is too old.. she is 47 but looks like she is in his 20s

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

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That's good to hear. That's not a bad thing infact it's a positive that you feel so comfortable in each other's company and sharing your thoughts.

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

That's good to hear. That's not a bad thing infact it's a positive that you feel so comfortable in each other's company and sharing your thoughts.

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yea we are very comfortable, surely is intense but it's good for sure. We are now comfortable enough to shower together and brush our teeth together, floss together and no make up, well for him is no shaving. hahaha

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

That's good to hear. That's not a bad thing infact it's a positive that you feel so comfortable in each other's company and sharing your thoughts.

yea we are very comfortable, surely is intense but it's good for sure. We are now comfortable enough to shower together and brush our teeth together, floss together and no make up, well for him is no shaving. hahaha

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Looks like you've answered your own question. You go Virgal 🙂

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

That's good to hear. That's not a bad thing infact it's a positive that you feel so comfortable in each other's company and sharing your thoughts.

yea we are very comfortable, surely is intense but it's good for sure. We are now comfortable enough to shower together and brush our teeth together, floss together and no make up, well for him is no shaving. hahaha

Looks like you've answered your own question. You go Virgal 🙂

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Well yes 🙂 I'm still curious about other's experience though

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

That's good to hear. That's not a bad thing infact it's a positive that you feel so comfortable in each other's company and sharing your thoughts.

yea we are very comfortable, surely is intense but it's good for sure. We are now comfortable enough to shower together and brush our teeth together, floss together and no make up, well for him is no shaving. hahaha

Looks like you've answered your own question. You go Virgal 🙂

Well yes 🙂 I'm still curious about other's experience though

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Well I can't really speak on comfort because my relationship is pretty new and exciting. I wouldn't like for it to reach that comfort level early on. When they include you in their daily routines, no matter how mundane, it's a sign of comfort. As long as he is including you in activities it shows a sign of interest.

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

That's good to hear. That's not a bad thing infact it's a positive that you feel so comfortable in each other's company and sharing your thoughts.

yea we are very comfortable, surely is intense but it's good for sure. We are now comfortable enough to shower together and brush our teeth together, floss together and no make up, well for him is no shaving. hahaha

Looks like you've answered your own question. You go Virgal 🙂

Well yes 🙂 I'm still curious about other's experience though

Well I can't really speak on comfort because my relationship is pretty new and exciting. I wouldn't like for it to reach that comfort level early on. When they include you in their daily routines, no matter how mundane, it's a sign of comfort. As long as he is including you in activities it shows a sign of interest.

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That's fair. In this trip we did lots of things that fast forward things. I like to slow it down a bit when he is back and lets his action speaks

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

That's good to hear. That's not a bad thing infact it's a positive that you feel so comfortable in each other's company and sharing your thoughts.

yea we are very comfortable, surely is intense but it's good for sure. We are now comfortable enough to shower together and brush our teeth together, floss together and no make up, well for him is no shaving. hahaha

Looks like you've answered your own question. You go Virgal 🙂

Well yes 🙂 I'm still curious about other's experience though

Well I can't really speak on comfort because my relationship is pretty new and exciting. I wouldn't like for it to reach that comfort level early on. When they include you in their daily routines, no matter how mundane, it's a sign of comfort. As long as he is including you in activities it shows a sign of interest.

That's fair. In this trip we did lots of things that fast forward things. I like to slow it down a bit when he is back and lets his action speaks

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Then let him know. He will understand. They are very good with keeping pace as long as you make them aware. It can't be assumed that they are mind readers. They are very patient and understanding in that regard.

I dont lose interest in a relationship just because i am bored or too comfortable . I lose interest only when there is an issue with the person himself .

I like comfort , i dont like to feel insecure .

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From what I've noticed, Capricorn men enjoy "getting comfortable" in a relationship. I don't think they would allow themselves to get comfortable with someone if they weren't interested in that person for long term.

Comfortable like less text? or in different ways? like he would like to stay in to watch movie after taking you out for dinner? or flossing his teeth in front of you?

Mine was talking to me while flossing then got shy and said oops I shouldn't do that in front of a girl. I'm like hey we already seen each other naked and we are already on our first vacation together! he was like no not ready to floss infront of you haha

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Mine flosses in front of me...it's been two months. I'm like WTH

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From what I've noticed, Capricorn men enjoy "getting comfortable" in a relationship. I don't think they would allow themselves to get comfortable with someone if they weren't interested in that person for long term.

Comfortable like less text? or in different ways? like he would like to stay in to watch movie after taking you out for dinner? or flossing his teeth in front of you?

Mine was talking to me while flossing then got shy and said oops I shouldn't do that in front of a girl. I'm like hey we already seen each other naked and we are already on our first vacation together! he was like no not ready to floss infront of you haha

Mine flosses in front of me...it's been two months. I'm like WTH

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I didn't mind, we were at hotel. we were both flossing to different mirror. the next day we were talking and he was in the middle of flossing turned around and talking to me then he was like oopps that's not a very sexy look to a girl! I was like ok so you are ready to invite me to a trip but not ready to floss in front of me? he goes yes. I just like to tease him sometime

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A Cap losing interest would keep you around but sniff about elsewhere until you get their attention back somehow, the key is not to lose it in the first place.

ok what if they are just not as talkative in person yet they still putting effort in make plans to see you and reassure you that you are exclusive?

You're not still doubting him are you?

No girl our trip is great. Might be too intense for some as we had lots of opening up.

That's good to hear. That's not a bad thing infact it's a positive that you feel so comfortable in each other's company and sharing your thoughts.

yea we are very comfortable, surely is intense but it's good for sure. We are now comfortable enough to shower together and brush our teeth together, floss together and no make up, well for him is no shaving. hahaha

I'm a nurse so my cap has asked me to look at his hemorrhoids and pop his pimples, all kinds of shit. I'm just like, I'm glad that you're this comfortable with me after all these years, but.... — lol

But he's not the only one. My sister sent me a picture of her vag ? I think it's the whole nurse thing that make people feel SUPER comfortable with sharing intimate things.

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Aren'[t you lucky haha you must be good at your job that's why tehy are asking lol Be glad you are not one of those nurses that patient like to avoid 😉

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

They will protect their investment if they see you as the trophy wife. Sometimes is good sometimes is bad.

I'm far from being a trophy wife, not that I'm unattractive but I'm more of a pony tail and sneakers type of girl. Lol I don't think it's that black and white. I have no doubt that he loves me and wants to spend his life with me for genuine reasons, I just don't see how men justify cheating on someone they love.

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From a Cap: Being a trophy wife isn't just having a woman to show off. It means to have someone who is "perfect" in all ways. A wife, mother, partner, lover, best Friend.

It's a prize, the trophy that other guys want.

There's no justifying in cheating. Personally, I don't think I could ever forgive cheating. I've never been cheated on, as far as I know. But is not bc I'll be hurt, but because in my mind if that person wants to be with someone else who isn't me, then I have nothing else to do there. I'm with someone in a relationship because he's the one I WANT. if I wanted to be with other guys then I wouldn't be with a person in the first place and if I feel like I want to cheat on a guy then that means I don't feel enough love for him, which again tells me I have nothing to do in the relationship.

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

Mine is not lazy but has lower energy level I broke his back lol literally

Anyway you are spot on about protect our investment. We just went for a trip and he paid for all meals and transport.

Once we find someone that checks enough boxes, it's hard to get rid of us. We've invested time, money and our emotions. All things we value highly and don't expend on just anyone.

When we get comfortable, it's basically up to the other person to fuck it up. Like I said, comfortable is great. Just don't let us get so comfortable that we become complacent.

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This is exactly what had happened with mine! complacent!!!

Comfortable to the point of complacent!!!

Darn!

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Early stages? I start to mentally withdraw, if losing interest. If someone or some thing manages to captivate me, I'll withdraw physically as well. Once established? It's hard to get rid of me. 😄

Comfort is a good thing. Something to strive for. Unless you have a lazy goat, you'll still feel how enamored we are. This is one of those times our stereotypical materialism will seriously work in your favor. We wanna protect our investment.

This rings true for my sons father (cap) we are pushing 9 years although I moved out 5 months ago.. I do get the vibe he would never leave and he's been fighting to get me back home ever since I moved out. But it baffles me that they will "protect" their investment by never leaving but somehow in their minds can justify cheating.

It's not just my sons dad either. I've seen this a lot with cap men. I just don't get it. And I don't want him to try to win me back only because he sees me as an "investment". That's not exactly flattering. Lol sorry to derail the convo.

They will protect their investment if they see you as the trophy wife. Sometimes is good sometimes is bad.

I'm far from being a trophy wife, not that I'm unattractive but I'm more of a pony tail and sneakers type of girl. Lol I don't think it's that black and white. I have no doubt that he loves me and wants to spend his life with me for genuine reasons, I just don't see how men justify cheating on someone they love.

From a Cap: Being a trophy wife isn't just having a woman to show off. It means to have someone who is "perfect" in all ways. A wife, mother, partner, lover, best Friend.

It's a prize, the trophy that other guys want.

There's no justifying in cheating. Personally, I don't think I could ever forgive cheating. I've never been cheated on, as far as I know. But is not bc I'll be hurt, but because in my mind if that person wants to be with someone else who isn't me, then I have nothing else to do there. I'm with someone in a relationship because he's the one I WANT. if I wanted to be with other guys then I wouldn't be with a person in the first place and if I feel like I want to cheat on a guy then that means I don't feel enough love for him, which again tells me I have nothing to do in the relationship.

Agreed, I do feel the same way for the most part. I won't pretend to be perfect though, I never actually *physically* cheated on my cap although a few years ago I developed feelings for an Aries friend. I felt neglected in our relationship and the Aries was trying to offer everything that I wasn't getting from my cap. (This was before our son was born) however I guess that's the difference between men and women. Women actually stop and THINK about the consequences of our actions. I liked the Aries a LOT, I thought about him often even while I was with my cap. And that's why I knew I needed to end my friendship with the Aries. It never became physical because I ended it before it reached that point, but im just as guilty as he is for allowing another man into my mind.

This is why I am on the fence about the whole situation. I'm 36 years old and past the stage of believing in perfect people, considering I've made mistakes of my own. I don't necessarily believe that just because you cheat on someone that it means you don't love them. I know my sons dad loves me but for whatever reason, he clearly felt neglected at some point. I know he plans on proposing soon so I really need to make up my mind on how we can move forward from here. Obviously I want to keep our family together but the whole situation has obviously made me feel very insecure and lost any trust I had. I want to believe it's a mistake that won't happen again (like he swears) but as a Scorpio I'm also very suspicious of people anyway. So my mind and my heart are at odds right now.

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I'm not saying literally perfect, but perfect for that one person. if you know what I mean. we all have flaws, some bigger than others but after all if I find the one perfect for me I wouldn't care about his flaws.

Yes, sometimes connection with someone else is something you just Cannot avoid. It's a force stronger than you, feeling the chemistry and all that makes us have feelings for that person I believe isn't just in the mind.

Some people do get attached to others when they offer help, they are always there for you, etc and you feel cared for, but that isn't enough for me to fall for someone as I see love being a connection that you can't describe but feel.

Not necessarily men from women in general, I've met men who are very loyal to their partners and I've met women who cheat left and right. It's more about how much you respect the person you are with. this is in my opinion.

I've had loves where the guy cares a lot about me, looks up for me and would do anything like your Aries friend but if I don't have that spark, it isn't enough for me, because the spark/connection is what makes the difference when it comes to be intimate with the person.

But again, love is just crazy.

Imagine loving only one person out of billions of people, forever and ever. ❤